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Ready for my Body to Match my Mind - HAPPY N HEALTHY - San Antonio, TX

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Well all my Real Self pals, I'm FINALLY gonna post...

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HappySuzy
WORTH IT$27,600
Well all my Real Self pals, I'm FINALLY gonna post my profile! Been kinda chicken, but here goes. I am 51 years YOUNG, 5'5", 223 lbs. I have 3 grown children (32, 29 and 27) and one beautiful, energetic grand daughter Delilah (18months). My hubby is a WONDERFUL, supportive and amazing man. He is TOTALLY in my corner at ALL times. Even though he is nervous about me "going under the knife" (doesn't want anything to happen to me, or to lose me), he definitely wants me to get this done. He says, if he were me, he'd do it too. He has watched me struggle with weight and trying to keep in shape for all 21 years we have been together. I had kept the weight down pretty well until the dreaded MENOPAUSE hit at 45! Though I was overweight when it hit, the weight just PILED on since then. Add to that, some rough times (cancer and deaths in the family), and I simply let myself go. At my highest, 245, I just about wanted to give in. But I didn't. First thing was to change how and what I ate. 18 months ago I QUIT ALL artificial sweeteners, most dairy, and all grains except brown rice (though sweets crept in off and on). We also started eating virtually ALL organic (meat, veggies, fruits). I'm feeling pretty good, but am still a rather sedentary (not active). Find it hard to want to move much lugging around these oversized TATA's and my leftover mommy flap (C-section on second child). Started talking about the whole "mommy makeover" with the hubby about 2 years ago. Both of us agreed it would be most helpful to change the eating habits and drop some weight before surgery, as we KNOW how much that can help. I should also mention, I also take vitamins/supplements and have no other health problems.
I have dropped 22 lbs, and continue to work on it.

So now the makeover begins...
I will be having the first of two procedures, this coming Monday, 14 Oct, the Breast Reduction! I think this will help me getting moving more, get the next chunk of weight off, and get my legs and back stronger. Have read from all my RS pals that THIS is important, so LISTEN I have!

I will spend the time I need to heal completely and then I plan to continue the journey with a "trip to the flat side"!

I must take the time to thank Mrs Determined and LiveLoveBelieve, for all your "shares" and helpful words. You both have helped me in my mental journey, and eased my nerves. Much love and healing to you both.

I have posted (nervously) my before pics (TATA's and mommy flap)...warning, it's not pretty, LOL, but it is ME....and I LOVE me!

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Robert N. Young, MD, FACS (retired)

Robert N. Young, MD, FACS (retired)

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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October 12, 2013
Good luck!
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October 12, 2013
Thanks solesister ;-)
October 12, 2013
Good luck we are all here if you need to chat. You will be in our prayers on monday. Happy healing....take it easy..don't stress...just relax and take all the help you can..it's always nice to have support....always and of course from the one you love as well. I will be thinking of you on Monday.:)
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October 12, 2013
You are so sweet, thanks, I can use all the good wishes.
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October 12, 2013
Posting these first pictures is Not an easy thing to do... You'll be so glad you have them to do a comparison. You have spunk girl! I understand the anxiety you husband is feeling. My Wizard Was the same way, He just wanted it to be over with. Try to get rest be Positive throughout the weekend... October 14 "Is the first day of the rest of your life" Its all Good :-) Keep me posted let me know how you're doing... Don't hesitate to ask anything I'm in your corner!!! (((Hugs))) and smaller (((Jugs))) LOL LiveLoveBelieve. Xxoxx
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October 12, 2013
Love ya LLB! Actually, posting the pics is kind of "freeing" in a way. Is that weird ? Anyway, feeling rather calm today...will probably get nervous tomorrow. My mom and sister (both nurses, mom retired) keep telling me I'm gonna do great. They have watched me change my eating and know my health history, so I trust them. Hubby is staying calm...for NOW, lol. Trying to stay busy, but not TOO busy this weekend. Thanks for the thoughts and positive vibes. (((Hugs))) back at ya :-)
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October 12, 2013
Congratulations on your new healthy lifestyle, and decision to have these amazing, surgeries! You are going to be thrilled with the new improved you! All the best to you on your journey...
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October 12, 2013
Thank you. I can't get over the outpouring of support here on Real Self. You guys are amazing :-)
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October 12, 2013
I'm so happy for you and the journey you have started to the flat side. My TT was 7 years ago so if you have any questions about what it's like down the road let me know. I cook Paleo for two doctors and their three children. It's my retirement job. Paleo is grain free, sugar free and gluten free. I try to eat that way myself about 80% of the time but do add small amounts of dairy and healthy grains to my diet. I lost 30 pounds since January. I exercised regularly into my 50's and then stopped completely shortly after my tummy tuck. I became very depressed after my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. I became her full time care taker while trying to work from home and completely stopped taking care of myself. I was newly married and my husband and I made the difficult decision to live apart in different states ( because of jobs) so I could care for my Mom. That was 7 years ago. Mom passed away last December 23rd. I was diagnosed with depression and fibromyalgia in January. With the help of a doctor and a personal trainer I took my life back and for the first time in years I'm feeling great again. Wow... Did not mean to tell my whole story on this post but I'm so very happy for you and the life changing challenges you are taking on. I look forward to following your story in the months to come.
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October 12, 2013
Your story is amazing, thank you for sharing. Though I know I have a challenge ahead, stories like yours give me encouragement and hope. After all, we aren't dead yet, right girl?! Let's keep living the good life and making the MOST of the life we have been given. Thanks again :-)
UPDATED FROM HappySuzy
1 day pre

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October 13, 2013
You are going to be so very happy. Good for you! I am 52 and 4 and half weeks post op . Keep us posted. And yes, good to have the photos, i was feeling not so confident about the results until i had a look at my before and afters of just 2 weeks. Remember though, do not try to be tough, take the pain meds.
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October 13, 2013

Congrats on losing that 22 pounds! You're on your way. I'm looking forward to following your updates here.

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October 13, 2013
Good luck tomorrow. Sending you positive thoughts.
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October 13, 2013
Happy surgery! So happy you are starting your journey.
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Night before jitters...

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Well ladies,
I've been busy all day doing my fall decorating (I host Thanksgiving for about 24 people each year). So I figured it'd be good to stay busy, keep my mind off tomorrow and have the decorating done so I can rest up all the way til Turkey Day.
I'll post some pics of my fall decs, just for fun.

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October 14, 2013
Beautiful decorations! Good luck tomorrow!!
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October 14, 2013
Really great decorations. Rest well and i will pray for you now. How exiting! Gonna be fine.
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October 14, 2013
Okay first let me thank you for your openness and honesty. Second, you really look good! I'm 39 with 2 children and you and I look really similar. I am planning on same surgeries only difference is I lost 85# so my boobs are deflated where yours are plump. Surgeon told me I would need implants and lift. But our tummies look the same. I wish you blessings, courage and a speedy recovery.
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October 14, 2013
Positive nervous energy...it's all good. Everything looks so nice, you'll enjoy looking at all your Holiday Decorations as you are recovering....Have a good night sleep.. I'll thinking of you tomorrow ((((hugs))) (((good vibes))) LiveLoveBelieve