(Breastfeed A LOT) - Asymmetrical and Deflated

Awe Lynn... I ❤️ You. Such positivity. I think I am just being too hard on myself... It's just I am so critical of my body/self and have always been since childhood - parents can really mess up your self esteem without knowing it. I just read what you wrote to my husband and he said "LISTEN to her, she's right!" Lol you have brightened my day and thank you for that!! TTYL lovie, xoxo

Aww, thank you so much. Your husband sounds like a good, decent man. Consider yourself very lucky, because there are some husbands who pick out their wives smallest imperfections. You have no boobie flaws, so you don't have to worry there, but I know some husbands who think their wives boobs are either too small or big and they constantly point it out. This can cause a lot of self-esteem damage, and it's so sad, especially when the husbands themselves are far from perfect. I have small boobs now and if the man I date doesn't like small boobs, well then, he is free to go find a woman with large boobs. I couldn't care less as I am happy with my new size and that is all that matters. As for growing up with critical parents, I can totally relate. My mother, God rest her soul, was the best mom ever, but she wanted me to look a certain way -- her way. My hair was too long, or my make-up was applied incorrectly, ect. One day my eyes opened. She was a good seamstress and I asked her to shorten a dress I wanted to wear out on a date. I was in my early 20's by this time. Well, she absolutely refused to shorten my dress. In my early 20s to late teens I started wearing tighter tops and shorter skirts. In my youth I had large boobies and shorter skirts made me all legs, which she thought was a combo for unwanted attention. I discovered the truth after her refusal to shorten my dress. As sad as it sounds, she thought I was a target for [RS bleep]. She cried and I cried too. That is when I understood why she was critical of my appearance during my youth. Don't be hard on yourself. Your parents had their reasons, good or not, but you must let it go and learn to love who you are NOW, because you seem like a lovely woman and you have awesome boobs! ;-) Life is too short to worry about being perfect and plastic surgery isn't the answer to perfection. Sure we can change some things, but others things we cannot change -- the things we cannot change are the things we must learn to accept. Life really is too short and even shorter worrying about being perfect. Just be the best you can be, and you'll be fine and always beautiful...xoxoxoxo

TY!!! After looking at more of my PS patients after photos, we all have the same 'look'... Very natural. He did tell me he won't do them if I wanted something other than that, lol.

That may be because many women go back to their surgeons complaining they don't like their fake looking boobs after all. So many doctors do prefer to keep it as natural as possible. Most patients do prefer natural vs. fake.

Makes perfect sense!

Lol... No worries. I hate having to go through it all looking too. I posted a pic of my implant card if you want to check that out... But I got Smooth, round (although he said would be teardrop shape), mod+ silicone memory gel by Mentor. I truly appriciate the complement and am happy with them overall. Are you at all close enough to come to California? If so, I'd really suggest going to see Dr. hause. His price is super competitive and is exactually what you are looking for.

Oh... Sorry. I'm 5'4... 140-145 lbs givin the time of day.. Literally, lol

I think I will - I just don't like underwire! I think I need to find some nice ones without that still gives support.

Maybe try Marshalls or TJ Maxx, I've always seen nice (designer) bras in there.... But of course it's hit or miss..... Good luck

Im definitly going to hit Nordstroms (in about 4-5 weeks)

Yeah - I am gonna keep looking :)

I just feel like they have dropped too much... I'm getting a little depressed about them. My husband says that they are perfect because they look so natural and real - is it weird that I wish they were perkier and bigger?

Tell me about it... I stupidly Only got 360cc!!!! Trying to come to terms that I should've done more research! Mine are very small (considering they are fake) im happy but conflicted..... Yours do look fantastic.... I'm gonna be stuck wearing padded bras after all this $$$$

No, I don't think wanting perkier bigger breasts is weird. I just wish you weren't getting depressed over them, because you do look great. Maybe you should listen to your husband? Other people always see things in us that we don't see, and those things other people see are usually our best features. We always see the imperfections, but you know what, nature isn't perfect, nor is plastic surgery. Sure, you can go bigger and size won't change, but perkiness will. I've had four lifts already, and my skin and breast tissue probably cannot take another, but I'll keep trying, because I know sooner or later, I'll droop again. The majority of women do not have naturally perky breasts and those who do will sag sooner rather than later. Perky breasts aren't meant to last forever, not by nature or surgery. Hope you feel less depressed soon. Try to see how beautiful you are and always remember how much better you look now than you did before (pre op). Hugs and kisses to you!

YES...... DEFINITLY listen to LynnCC. She's 100% right :-)

I've been thinking about all of you too... I've been meaning to get on and update but then get busy, or feel fat... then I got the stomach flu this past week and just today can eat! I'm not depressed, just still dealing with these ongoing PMS fluctuations, lol. Still dealing with this stupid weight gain... didn't even loose a pound being sick :( haha. I will post an update soon and thanks for checking in with me!!!! xoxoxo

So sorry you were sick and still dealing with extra weight, but so happy to hear you are not depressed! Will be looking forward to your sonn to come updates! meanwhile, take good care fo yourself, and try not to get to down on the lack of weight loss. It'll happen....xoxoxoxo

I JUST started on them this past week and stopped into day 2 because I got the stomach flu! My husband had one and said that he wasn't sure if it was placebo effect or what but he felt really good and energized. The two days I took it I felt really good to... I can let you know after I am on it for a longer period of time. It's really pricy so unless I fell/see real results I am not buying again. I got 2 trial packs of strawberry and vanilla each and then went and bought the huge bag of the greenberry. I'd suggest the strawberry, lol! The greenberry is very vitamin tasting, but I don't mind.

Sorry you've been sick... :( The stomach flu is NOT a fun way to lose some pounds. Lol. Glad you're feeling better and I just checked out your latest post and you look amazing! Super natural looking. Congrats on your progress!