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58 Years Old, Facelift, Necklift and Upper and Lower Eyelid Surgery - Sacramento, CA

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My surgery is 1 week from today and I am really...

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Bettykc
$8,900
My surgery is 1 week from today and I am really scared about how much pain I will be in and how I will end up looking. I'm also afraid of how bad the scars will look. I have a high hairline so I know the scars will be easily visible. I don't want to look different, you know like someone else, just rejuvenated. I just had cataract surgery and no longer need to where glasses. I'm hoping people will just think I look different because they haven't seen me without glasses for 15 years.

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Granger B. Wong, MD

Granger B. Wong, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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August 6, 2014
Good luck Betty!
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August 7, 2014
Thank you so much! It makes me feel a little less anxious knowing that someone else the my age had the same procedures and found the pain to be minimal. Why is your neck range limited? Is that normal?
August 7, 2014
Due to having the neck lift, you will feel tightness from ear to ear and from what I've read, is normal. For me it feels like a band tied around my head like a bow tie. I still have some swelling under the chin. The tightness seems to be going down. Correction on my age - I'm 56. I typed 58 by mistake. Depending on yor emotional level, you may have doubts about having gone through the surgery, which I did feel, but don't let I get you down. Stay positive. I did not experience any bruising. I will be going back to work next Tuesday. Please keep me posted on your journey. I have no regrets.
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August 7, 2014
Thanks I will. I'm happy to hear you have no regrets. Do you have photos posted? I felt kind of funny having this done at my age. My husband thinks I'm too young. But I see many people have it done , like you even younger than me. I am beginning to feel more excited than nervous after talking to you. Thanks again.
August 7, 2014
I have been taking pictures on a daily basis to document the entire process. Even took pictures right after surgery. I do not have any pictures posted since I do not have a home computer. I only have my galaxy tablet. I have already met with some of my friends and they definitely see the difference. If you have any questions at all, let me know. I am more than happy to share my experiences with you.
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August 8, 2014
Thank you!!
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August 8, 2014
Thank you shouston. Did you tell everyone you had work done? Only my husband and one daughter knows about my upcoming surgery. I"m hesitant to tell my friends and the rest of my family.
August 8, 2014
Oh my goodness, yes, I told my friends. I had no reservations about telling them. I had been saying I wanted a facelift for the past 2 years since I was so tired of seeing a very "older"looking woman in the mirror every morning. And after having dealt with breast cancer, I made up my mind to go through with the surgery.
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August 9, 2014
thank you! 3 days to the big day!
August 6, 2014
Hi Betty. I had a facelift, upper and lower eyelid surgery and neck lift on July 25, 2014. Pain was minimal. I did not need any pain medication. So far no major complications. A mild case of swelling in my sclera on left eye but is slowly getting better. Range of neck rotation is limited but is improving every day. 58 yr old female from Houston, TX.
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August 8, 2014
TYVM shouston--- mine is sched for 8/21 so not long after you. Really appreciate all the info I can get!
UPDATED FROM Bettykc
5 days pre

Photos 6 days before surgery

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August 7, 2014
Good Luck, I live in Sacramento too!!!
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August 7, 2014
I actually live in Napa, but it is so expensive here. In fact almost double the cost. My surgeon studied at Harvard and has a private practice and also practices at UC Davis Med center. Since he is salary there it's less expensive. Where did you go for you procedure?
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August 7, 2014
Richard P Clark- he's amazing-
August 7, 2014
I had my surgery done by Dr Franklin Rose. He is associated with a team of doctors that have their own facility. My total cost which included the surgerical fees and hospital cost was $13,000.
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August 7, 2014
Best wishes to you with your procedure next week! I'm scheduled for lipo next week and hope for face and neck lift down the road. Please keep us updated with your progress
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August 7, 2014
I will and thank you! And best wishes to you, too. :)
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August 13, 2014
I hope that everything went well today, my thoughts are with you. Follow doctors orders and rest :)
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August 7, 2014
Being apprehensive is quite normal. Those of us who have gone before you understand. For most folks (of course each person is different) pain is not long lasting, nor intolerable. I had twilight sleep, came home same day, slept most of the day, no pain pills, and went back next day to have the bandages removed. Worst part for me, was the feeling or sense of a band around my neck. More annoying for the most part. Do what your doc says, and ice as he instructs. That helps. You will be happy with the result.
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August 8, 2014
Thanks, knowing that the pain will not be intolerable is comforting. I too, am going to have a twilight rather than a general. Did you wake up during your procedure?
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August 8, 2014
TYVM for posting. Every bit of info is so helpful!
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August 8, 2014
I did "sort of awaken" as they were taking the fat injections from my hip. I remember saying, "ouch" and then I went right back out... Not a terrible experience at all.
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August 7, 2014
I see a lot of ladies right around your age here looking into facelifts!

Here's what Dr. Nassif says about Facelift recovery. Good luck and please keep us posted!

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August 8, 2014
Thanks, very helpful info!
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August 9, 2014
thank you!
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August 8, 2014
Best of luck for you surgery! I think you're going to do great!! :D
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August 8, 2014
Thank you...I hope so!
UPDATED FROM Bettykc
4 days post

Post of pics and update.

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Bettykc
Thank you so much everyone for your concerns! Until today I just wasn't up to getting on the internet and posting pics, etc. I do have so much to share, though First, my husband was absolutely fabulous and has been taking such wonderful care of me. Also, my surgeon and the nurses at uc davis med center were the best, too. So far the worst part was the first day when my eyes had swollen so badly that I could feel the stitches scratching my eyes every time I blinked or moved them..extremely painful. By the next morning it was much better. The second worst thing was the horrible side effects I had from the norco, itching, pounding headache and feeling like I was going to come out of my skin. When I went back to see my surgeon on thursday to remove the drain he prescribed me valium and tylenol with codeine and also said I could start taking ibroprofen. I started feeling better immediately. I was finally able to sleep, too. I go back next thursday to have my eye stitches and the stitches along my face removed. I week later he will remove the stitches behind my ears. As you can see by the pictures I was pretty bruised to begin with but that is quickly going away. I have been taking arnica montana so I don't know if its from that. My face is still pretty swollen and last night I did have a fever of almost 101. The ps on call said to take ibroprofen since it was probably due to having my drain removed and the swelling/inflammation caused a fever. It seemed to work because by morning my temp was back to normal. I can't thank everyone on here enough for your support and kind words. You gave me the courage to follow through and knowing that I would improve quickly. Thanks again everyone!!!

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August 17, 2014
Betty, glad to see you made it through.
August 17, 2014
Betty - you really do look wonderful! So glad your hubby came around. You are on the downhill side. Just relax and take it easy. Every day will get a little better!
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August 18, 2014
thank you! So happy to be on the other side now. :)
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August 18, 2014
Thank you! Yes, I think the problem with my husband was more about me not being confidant with my decision and not being totally honest with him. Once I finally let him in, he was my strength. He has been an absolute sweetheart.
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August 17, 2014
So good to hear from you! The worst is over, it will just get better and better :) Thanks for the update and the pics, living my FL vicariously through you all till I get up enough courage to do mine ;)
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August 18, 2014
I don't know if I mentioned that I booked the surgery 2 years ago and even put down a nonrefundable deposit. Everyday I looked in the mirror and regretted that decision, I finally realized the longer I waited the more my health could fail and prevent me from doing it at all. I felt totally alone until I found all of you wonderful people on this site. The day before the surgery my husband and I had a heart to heart talk and he became my advocate and the best nurse one could ask for. I realized my fears weren't really about others, but my own doubts. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you. thanks again!
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August 18, 2014
I can so relate. Approx 7 years ago I decided to get my eyes and under chin done (same thing I want done now, go figure) and went on a $200 consult. The doctor wanted to do things I wasn't ready for (I guess) and I never followed through. Interesting fact though, is the doctor I saw wanted to work in tandem with an oculoplastic surgeon doing my eyes (I know who she is ;) So I think my first consult will be with this doctor who is an eye specialist. That's the main reason I'm considering staging my procedures, because though she specializes in eyes, I'm not sure about her other face work, and I want the best possible. This is major stuff, I mean it's YOUR FACE! lol So ruminating is a good thing imo. Everything happens for a reason. Also I look at it this way, when I heal it will be a fresh face, not one that was worked on 7 years ago hehe. So good that your hubby came around, a positive atmosphere is very important.
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August 17, 2014
Forgot to see, you look very good already, healing fast, yay!
August 17, 2014
On the winning end now. Healing hugs for you :)
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August 18, 2014
Yes! Your healing hugs are the best!
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August 17, 2014
So glad you are feeling better! Surgery is never an easy thing, but you have the worst behind you now, and you did it!! Yay!! You're looking great!! :D
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August 18, 2014
Thank you! At times it wasn't easy, but in the long run well worth it. I am so happy its behind me and on the road to recovery.