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44 Yrs Old

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On August 3rd, I will be getting something done...

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uwilldk
WORTH IT$32,000
On August 3rd, I will be getting something done that I have been debating since my early twenties. The bane of my existence has always been my under-eye hollows (aka tear trough deformities or what I like to call them...my Crop Circles)

So, as I aged, they of course became worse and all the fillers in the world wouldn't rid me of them permanently. Fast forward to today. My cheeks are too low on my face, my eyes are hooded, complimented by a saggy bag of wrinkled skin beneath and a sunken area that gives me a corpse like appearance. I know Zombies are popular these days, but I don't want to look like one.

Forget turkey neck. Mine has taken on Pelican proportions. I do Zumba 4 nights a week, only weigh 137 pounds and I am 5 5" so it's not at all from weight. It's just how my face is built.

I am getting a mini-face lift, upper and lower blepharoplasty, and some fat transfers. This will cost somewhere around 32,000.00. The hospital and anesthesia alone costs 6 grand.

I will begin to post photos soon so stay tuned for the transformation!

uwilldk's provider

Ramtin Kassir, MD, FACS

Ramtin Kassir, MD, FACS

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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June 17, 2013
Wishing you good luck and looking forward to your story.
June 18, 2013
I had almost same as you 7 weeks ago, I am now wishing I had the full face lift, as appears with the mini face lift the scars are worse and not always 100 % do what they are supposed to do, I look fresher after mine, I am still healing behind ears and have a scab that is on front of my ear that appeared a week later where no cut was made, I put photos on this site and the answers say that mini lift causes more strain on where small scar is, I have also read that in 5 -7 yrs will have to be done again, so wish I had read this site 1st and gone for full facelift was only about £1500 more expensive in uk, as say still healing and black and blue now, My surgeon was a good one as seen his work on some friends, Just try to look into it a bit more before committing. My forehead although does not need doing at this moment it will in future, I feel maybe the tops of my eyes would of benefited from full face lift and the fact that the full face lift lasts longer makes me wish I had seen this site before going ahead and having my surgery done,,,, that also seems very expensive My surgery was a lot less than that and I guess just under half was for the hospital and anethatists fees the hospital seemed to get the most money out of all of them. as you are having the surgery all in one go I do hope your PS has discounted you for this I got a big discount for having all done same day as mine would of been a lot more if i had procedures done on seperate days! How long is your hospital stay ?? And I wish you the best of luck and a very speedy recovery :) in what ever surgery you have done, also have you asked to see before after photos from this surgeon or known anyone have work done by him ???? worth checking everything out as to late once you go ahead and did you see more than one surgeon
June 18, 2013
$32,000 seems very high? Good luck hoping you are thrilled with results!
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June 18, 2013
Thanks Kanobe. It better be worth it. That's a lot of money to dish out=)
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June 18, 2013

I'm so glad you started your story on RealSelf! I love your term crop circles. So accurate! As far as price goes, I imagine prices are higher in NY than some other parts of the country.

Here's a list of supplies for recovery that you might find helpful.

I'm looking forward to following along on your transformation. It's so great reading stories that start pre-op and go all the way through.

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July 13, 2013
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!
UPDATED FROM uwilldk
2 months pre

The Check is in the Mail...

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uwilldk
Too late to chicken out now. The check was delivered to hold my surgery date. Best part is this. As I was driving home, I am on the phone with my husband (hands free!) and I say, "Well, babe...the check is in the mail. Too late to turn back now." And just then a giant 4 X 4 truck passed and on the back lift gate, in giant white lettering it read, "What was I thinking?" Oh, that makes me feel better about getting elective surgery. LOL. Here's a lower face shot to see what I'm working with....

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June 21, 2013
Hi uwildk... glad you started a thread on this. I don't care how old, how fit... our genetics play a big role in our faces aging process. I knew that if I didn't fix my upper lids I'd probably have a hard time seeing out of them in another 10 years! :) So, I'm happy for you to have made this decision. How does your PS do your mini lift? I'm always curious ; if only because it means different things to different people. You've got some time so keep posting and asking questions!
June 21, 2013
Good luck & thank you very much for journaling your story.  I am 47 and beginning to consider all that you are doing.  I will find your story & information very helpful.  Please keep us posted over a years time frame.
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July 13, 2013
I'll let you know how it goes=)
UPDATED FROM uwilldk
26 days pre

The date draws near...

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Rule #1- stay away from the Internet. My GOD I keep reading horror stories of things going wrong. And of course, they can. I mean, we are getting our faces cut apart. But there are so many wonderful stories and photos as well. Everyone say a little prayer my surgery will go swimmingly!

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July 7, 2013
uwildk, I remember even post surgery in my own recovery my husband telling me, "stop going on the internet!"  You are paying a lot of money to your PS...you trust him...so just listen to him and address your concerns with him pre op.  You are absolutely correct there are plenty of GOOD stories of facelifts out here as well.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you come closer to your surgery.  If you have any recovery questions, feel free to ask or post privately if you'd prefer!
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July 13, 2013
OMG I saw one lady who developed a damn hematoma and looked like something from a zombie movie. =) Thank you for your support! It means a lot to me.
August 3, 2013
Just to say I hope all is well when you come round, and to let you know I had long recovery but all has finally recovered, just few bits of numbness and swelling around the ears, but nothing anyone else would notice and is bearable,so if you do take while to heal , I am here to say I made it and now know it has all been worth while. Good luck [RS bleep]
July 8, 2013
Uwildk, I am going under the knife this coming Tuesday the 9th. Yep I am a little anxious to put it mildly. I have had such a good experience using this site and learned ALOT of what recovery is really like and am happy for all the posts ( even the scary ones) not sure why I read them, or watch all the utube videos of actual surgery. I hope to have good news to post after Wednesday . Your kittes will get you through it, pet Spencer for me will let you know how I weather this .
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July 13, 2013
Okay so????????? How did it go? I pet Spencer twice for good luck for you. he says you'll be fine=) How are you feeling?
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July 8, 2013
I am scheduled for next year. I would love to see your pics before and after. Good luck!
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July 8, 2013

All you ladies take it from someone who has been there one it, doctors dont prepare us for the after surgery pain and time down. get yourself the cold gel mask that i got to help with my swelling, it was so comfortable, i didnt have to hold anything to my face, i could rest as i needed to. it was from ice2recover.com. I wonder why doctors dont at least give this to us after all the money we spend with them

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July 13, 2013
Thanks Kathy. I think I may post the before pics AFTER I get the after pics for a side by side comparison.
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July 14, 2013
i did post a picture of me, been able to rest with the product helping my post swelling, now bear in mind it looks scary but hey after surgery we not exactly camera ready.
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July 8, 2013

I had a friend who did that and i bought her the cold gel mask to help herr recover faster cause you will swell up, it was the ice2recover gel mask its a must for post surgery swelling cause all your doctor is going to tell you is to put bags of frozen peas which you have to hold and you will be in pain

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July 13, 2013
Thanks for the tip!
July 8, 2013
Since I know uwildk that you are getting ready and prepped for your own procedure, I wanted to let you know after some of the comments here that not all people have pain post facelift.  To be honest, it totally surprised me that my doctor was absolutely right about me not having any pain.  I experienced none whatsoever after my FL.  Also, I know that cold gel packs are being recommended.  I'm thinking if you are considering something like this you may want to talk about this first between you and your PS. He/She may say go for it or then again maybe not.  Mine wanted me to be particularly careful about heat and cold on areas of my face that were numb.  Most PS will tell you that it's easy to damage skin that has no sensitivity with heat or cold.  Good luck with your preparations! :)
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July 13, 2013
Thanks! I have a lot of vitamins and supplements to start taking. As far as the pain- as I have never given birth (which I imagine is the worst) or have had any prior surgery, I am not familiar with the scope of pain I should anticipate, which is good because I wont know it till I feel it. I've had a root canal without novocaine on an imfected tooth- and that was just about the worst pain I ever felt. What concerns me more is the swelling- my ability to think everything will be okay after a few weeks of healing and of course, going under anesthesia. I really appreciate all the help!
July 24, 2013
Uwildk, Between the root canal and ps pain, I'd say that your FL will be not even come close to the. Tooth pain! Actually the pain isn't so bad , if you do have ALOT, the medication available will knock it out right away, don't worry.