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34, 4 Kids and a Much Needed Tummy Tuck - New York, NY

UPDATED FROM Mrskim
1 month post

Dealing with haters!

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Mrskim
WORTH IT$12,000
I have a question for all you dolls. I have a very good friend whom I consider more like family that since surgery has been acting more like a hater than a friend. Recently I went to her daughters party and after zeeing some girls I havent spoken to in a while the first words out her mouth were "so how was recovery?" I felt very offended because I never mentioned to her I had surgery. I just told the truth because I felt put on thr spot. Also my "friend" has made comments like "you can tell you had surgery because you look fake" and "of course she has had surgery, do u think she got her body from the gym?"
All of these comments make me believe she is jealous. Am I overreacting or am I correct in feeling a certain way? And how do I deal with it? Thanks ladies.

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Douglas Taranow, DO, FACOS

Douglas Taranow, DO, FACOS

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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August 21, 2016
OMG I have a friend like this too and I still have my drains in! I think some people just can't be genuinely happy for other people :/ sorry you got put on the spot in front of other people. I already told my friend I don't want her doing that to me so I can only hope she won't :/ but hey, there's NOTHING to be ashamed about! You go on being your beautiful self! I've been following you and you've made my journey so much more calm and peaceful!
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August 21, 2016
Aww thank you. I am glad I have helped ease someone else's stress. We are all here to help and motivate each other. And im sorry your friend did that to you.
August 21, 2016
Hi mrskim, your results are beautiful! I had rhinoplasty and bbl. I went to a party with my "friend" and in front of everyone she announced my surgeries. "She only have a big butt because she had surgery. Are u kidding me!!!!! Some people will be genuinely happy for you and others will be jealous. It sucks because you want to share your journey with the people who are closest to you. Funny thing is my boyfriend was very distant for a while after my bbl, but after we talked he was worried i would leave him. Im soooo excited for you and your body looks good.
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August 21, 2016
Omg are you serious? I tell you the moment you get surgery to feel better about yourself is when you truly see who your true friends are. Im so sorry that happened to you, it sucks. We are supposed to uplift one another. And thank you for the kind words. Slowly but surely I will start keeping my distance from those who try to embarrass me or or try to make me feel bad for having surgery. I dont regret any of it. Haters will hate!
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August 22, 2016
First of all, you do not look fake!!! You look very natural!! Second, now you know she is not a true friend. But yes, it does happen more often than you think. I personally never had any issues hiding my surgery, so I didn't care if ppl found out, but that's very personal and for her to be putting it out like that is horrible!! I think that most ppl that hate the way others look because of plastic surgery, is because they want to have it done, but for whatever reason can't!!
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September 18, 2016
You look great! Haters are gonna hate. If you didn't look so good then she wouldn't be talking so much trash.
September 19, 2016
Cut her off!!!
UPDATED FROM Mrskim
1 month post

Wishing this swelling would stay down!

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Mrskim
So I really havent been posting that often because honestly besides swellinh I feel feline. I really have no complaints. I am still going for my massages regularly but even with that, I still suffer from swelling which my dr said is normal for up to 6 months! Ugh. Cant wait for that to happen. I just got back from Puerto Rico and I didnt know how to act with a bikini lol. I'm happy with my results for sure.

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August 20, 2016
Are you using anything to help with your scar? You look great, by the way!
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August 20, 2016
hi...
i heard mederma works very good, but you have to wait at least 2 to 3 months post surgery in order to use it... the incision has to be completely healed before you start using any type of treatment for the scar, otherwise, you run the risk of dehiscence of the incision.
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August 21, 2016
Hi yes I am using a gel called New gel+E I got from Amazon. It has helped lighten up my scar. @juanis84
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August 20, 2016
hi!! you look amazing!! what I like the most is that you look very natural and not the stereotypical crazy small waist and huge behind... great work he did on you... the swelling is going to come and go for a very long time... i did my sx almost 7 years ago, and when i do not wear my faja, i swell up...
you have to remember that when a tt is done, the lifting of the skin on the abdomen to tighten it and suture the muscles together disrupts a lot of nerve endings and blood vessels, unfortunately, a lot of those do not regenerate... thats why you have that swelling...
and on the contrary to what the surgeons here say, keep on wearing your faja, specially when you wear loose clothing or you are going to be walking for a long period of time... it will help with the swelling and it will help you keep that gorgeous figure for years to come..
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August 21, 2016
Thank you so much, I also love that I look very natural which is what I wanted. I am learning to live with the swelling lol. I wear my faja as much as I can except to sleep because I move alot and its very constricting.
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August 22, 2016
I was never able to wear it to sleep, is very uncomfortable!!! When I started working nights I gained about 20 pounds, which I'm working on loosing now. Going to go see Dr Yager for the Exilis Elite treatment that he offers. It is supposed to help. Will see!! But you look awesome!!
UPDATED FROM Mrskim
29 days post

Almost one month post op

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Mrskim
Almost one month post op and I am feeling more fabulous everyday. I still suffer from swelling here and there but that is normal.

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August 6, 2016
You look amazing! Looking into TT next but about to get my bbl on Monday!
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August 17, 2016
Thanks, good luck. I want a bbl next lol
August 7, 2016
Wow!! You look gorgeous!! I'm having my TT on 10/4 with lipo to my thighs too. I am much older & my skin has lost a lot it's elasticity. I will be excited to see the results. Keep posting updates!!
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August 17, 2016
Thank u, good luck with everything. It's definitely painful but so worth every pain. Are you doing it with Dr. taranow or another surgeon? Either way good luck.
August 18, 2016
I live in New Orleans & I'm using Dr. Khoobehi. He did my neck & lower face lift. I can't wait to get it over. How long did it take for the swelling to go down before you really notice a difference?
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August 19, 2016
Honestly it comes and goes. In the morning im flat as a board but when i walk and do chores and things like that is when I swell up the most. The dr said that can last up until 6 months.