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Bringing Sexy Back at 60!

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When I first came to work at RealSelf in December...

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DebraGravelle
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When I first came to work at RealSelf in December 2012 I didn't know many people that had gone through plastic surgery. I had a couple of friends that had done a breast augmentation but it was years ago and I didn't know them at that time. I was really excited to come to a company that had such a great management team and the role that was offered to me fit my personality and style perfectly. I do have to admit that I never saw myself as someone who would go through any kind of PS to improve things that I was not super happy with. I wasn't judgmental about anything anyone wanted to do but I just didn't think it was for me.

But something changed in me as I read through the stories and got to know the doctors on the site. I started to recognize that these surgeons are full of passion for what they do and besides being brilliant people were full of compassion for their patients and always wanted the best results possible. I was moved as I read the stories and saw pictures and videos of great results and heartfelt stories. I especially loved a video that I saw from a lady named Phyllis. She was so darn cute with a great southern accent and she had a breast augmentation. She said "You are never too old to do something for yourself if it makes you feel good." I started to think Phyllis is right! In December this year 2015 I turn 60 and I am going for it! A Mommy Makeover (AKA Grandma Makeover) and bringing sexy at 60 back to my life. I laugh when I would think that it might be too late for me because there were so many things that I needed to do to turn the clock back. But came to the conclusion that I need to major on the bigger issues and the smaller things will be less bothersome.

I was really hesitating about this because of the role I play with my daughters (both over 30) and granddaughter (nearly 2) and what might this say to them. I wouldn't want to make them feel like happiness comes from how you look. What kind of role model would I be and how this would effect the way they feel about me or more importantly themselves? I came to a conclusion that being more open about this and sharing with them the reasons why I am starting this journey was the best course of action. So I starting to discussing what I was thinking with my family and much to my surprise they were super encouraging (after it sunk in) and wanted to be part of the process. They only thing they asked of me was to "Please find a local surgeon Mom." I originally was considering an out of area doctor but felt like their request was reasonable and there are many fantastic doctors in my state that I could use.

I have a consult schedule with a surgeon in Seattle on July 20th 2015 to start the process and will update this soon. I AM GIDDY WITH EXCITEMENT!

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June 5, 2015

I'm so excited to follow your story! Phyllis is absolutely right. Age is just a number when it comes to doing something that makes you feel good about yourself!

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June 9, 2015

Phyllis' video was my favorite!

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June 5, 2015

And for anyone who hasn't seen Phyllis's video, here it is! http://www.realself.com/video/you-re-never-too-old..: <rs-video-player video='{"id":"7080","external_id":"4107664758001","uri":"video\/you-re-never-too-old-to-do-something-for-yourself-why-this-woman-got-a-breast-augmentation"}'></rs-video-player>

June 5, 2015

You go, girl!  You can't turn the clock back but you can always wind it up again!  Why not, right?  Everyone deserves to look as good on the outside as they feel on the inside.

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June 5, 2015

Thanks Maureen!!

June 5, 2015

Good luck with your consult and glad to see your daughters are on board! :-)

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June 6, 2015
I'm going to 2nd what Maureen said because that's exactly what I thought as I read your story.... " you go girl!!! " . Long time ago I used to think implants , plastic Surg was this whole self esteem thing . But I've come to see that it's just being the best possible person you can be. ... Inside and out. I love reading everyone's journeys . Thank you for sharing and I look forward to following your journey
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June 7, 2015

Thanks Butterfylt- Glad you found my story and I so appreciate you commenting! 

UPDATED FROM DebraGravelle
6 months pre

Heading to the Gym Friday!

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DebraGravelle

Now that I have lost 21 lbs I think about 10-15 more before the surgery would be good idea. Everything I read says to be a weight that you can maintain but a little more would be best. 

I have hired a trainer and will be working on more weight loss and some toning. I should be posting some before photos soon but it will bikini photos. Just can't bring myself to do nude ones. I might show those to personal friends but not to co-workers at RealSelf. Just can't bring myself to do that. 

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June 12, 2015

You don't have to show the full monty! You can post in clothes too! It's just for you to be able to document your progress. I'd suggest a dress, bathing suit, tank tops & shorts. Anything that you can also wear to show the results after...

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June 12, 2015

Got it Alicia! Great ideas and I hope to have them up very soon.

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June 26, 2015
Love when I had a trainer. (Love hate thing) ha- I would go in and let him torture me for almost an hour . I love that they think of what I need to do and push you through the hour and your outta there :) , how's it going?
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June 26, 2015

It's going good!  I would like to drop a bit more weight but I seem to be stuck at between 168-170 after losing 21 lbs. It sure gets harder to drop. I would be happy with 10 more lbs. since I think I can maintain that. But maybe more important is to tone my core. 

Thanks for asking. 

UPDATED FROM DebraGravelle
6 months pre

Posting a few pics that I could get myself

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DebraGravelle

I won't be posting the Full Monty but this gives you an idea why I want to do this. 

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July 7, 2015
you goo gurl for posting pic! It is very hard to post pic, but we need them to look at them afterwards. When we are feeling depressed after surgery! :-) I haven't bought any bathing suits yet. I guess I should buy one I like and see how I feel before and after surgery!
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July 7, 2015

Kflo3- Yes it was hard to post photos for sure. I work at RealSelf so it is extra hard since I can't remain anonymous with co-workers. :) But I thought this was the next best thing.I don't even own a bikini and borrowed this one from my daughter to take pics.

Thanks for posting and best of luck. Debra