Soon to Be Divorced Mother of Two. I Just Want to Enjoy my Body Again. For Me!

Blue you are so right. It's like ughhhhh. I am soooo leaning towards Ghurani. I love the way they do the bbls in DR. It is a big price difference but when it comes to safety, F it. Now I'm hearing that spectrum damn near kick you out right after. Like wth

Dang i see it's making you a bit jittery. I chose Dr Yily de los Santos will be in RH w my fiancé and even though people have their own experience/opinions it's ok if it feels right to me then she is my choice. I haven't wavered so what I'm getting at is if you have doubts see what else you can find out to help you choose.

I completely feel you. And I'm gonna do the same thing. I thank you so much. You are/ we are gonna be JUST FINE.

Yes we are and I can't wait until we are posting post ops too :)

Me tooooo. This is nerve wrecking but so exciting. But why am I considering just doing a bbl and Lipo now. I want to be able to sleep.

Funny I thought about just lipo but on the consultations that I had with several surgeons I was told tt is the better option for me. So as I continued my search and finding tt is good but I didn't want to look disproportionate. All I can say is thank goodness for Mommy Makeovers. I'll be doing lipo of the abdomen, armpit areas (bra fat areas), full back, flanks and waist, bbl via fat transfer, tt with muscle repair, breast lift. I'll probably feel like I got hit by a bus but I'm all in and so ready to be comfortable in my own body

Gurl yoooooo I swear you are reading my mind. I'm so ready for dr Ghurani to tell me what he thinks. I want to be comfortable as well. I just know that I want to sleep. What in the hell are we gonna do

And I'm trying to go in February if he ever gets back to me.

You will sleep don't worry. Soon with the Dr that's right for you will help you choose a "body" plan and you will love it you'll see.

Have you tried reaching out again?

Will he perform all that in one time?thats alot .. Can you handle that? U must sleeps on your tummy after BBL . Wouldnt that be too much pain from the breastlft? Keep us posted

Yeah I finally got in touch with Emily Ron. She said call and no answer

Renewal I hear some Drs say they want to to come back Six months later for the tummy tuck. But as Blue said some Drs will tell you to do it all. I'm waiting to hear from him and I will send let you know.

I know I will be in pain and I'll need to make sure I'm padded well but will def keep u guys posted

Please do

And renewal I spoke to Emily who is a sweetheart. And she said that I should do the Lipo and bbl first. Then come back for the tummy tuck. If the pain is unbearable I will never get a tummy tuck

I think having a TT is bearable because its flat .. Youre not pushing anything against it but a breastlift?? I had it done and wish my Doc would telll me itvwas too much to combined.. Pain wise ur be alright its not that bad ..keep up with pain meds on time .. Make sure you do take stool softener3 days before the surgery.. It takes a few days for its to kick in... Pain meds will defnitely cause constipated..dont stressed out too much .. Think of the outcomes...Thnk of at the end of the day your transformation will be unbelievable ...

Ps.. Thinking of round 2 lol

That's what I keep thinking of. That's why I wanted to do it one shot deal girl. I'm gonna just go with the flow.

How did you get sleep? I was reading on one of the dr blogs that he recommends patients sleep in a recliner...

Exactly Blue. I'm looking on you tube and ish. I'm like maybe I should get and antigravity chair and cut the butt out. I saw someone use a round lifesaver. Lol. Renewal better spread the love.

Lol. We are short of sleeping suspended in the air lol. I just spoke w a friend of mine who had "the works" done she said she slept on recliner at first but it was bothering her back so she slept on her side with lots of pillows and taking her pain meds helped

Damn Gurl. I really need the works but shiiiiiid lol. She said suspended in the air lmaooooo. I guess you will make a way huh. The stress *screaming emoji* lol

Yes for freakn real cause I don't want to go back for all the other areas and be in pain for each of them taking time from kids/work etc I know it sounds crazy...

I'm so on board wish my appt was tomorrow at this point the fact that I got more than six months to go is driving my anxiety done days I'm good n then others I'm stressed cause I wish I had this done already. It's an emotional time

Can I ask you what made you choose your dr? She was fed one of my choices. How many other Drs did you consider and who?

Ok I consulted with 5 in NY, 1 in PA and 2 in NJ. Altogether I felt rushed or like I was being taken. All wanted me to get a loan for my surgery unless I could pay in full on my own plus wanted me to come back to get additional work done. I just felt them as very impersonal maybe cause I was anxious about the whole thing. I wouldn't name only because I didn't have anything done with them and don't want to discourage anyone else from their services. I chose Dr Yily because although they are in another country any questions I had they answered in good timing and I didn't feel like they were brushing me off. Their quote was straight to the point and had specific instructions easy to understand and no hidden bull. I also seen her work and it seems consistent if you folllow instructions.

I completely understand and respect that. At first spectrum did not get Back to me. When they did they have been consistent, pleasant and knowledgable. I was so comfortable with their work. Yily does do some great work man. Her and dr Duran. I love her tummy tucks yoo. And I love Durans BBL. it's like ughhhhh. So much talent and who to go with us the damn kicker. I haven't even looked at nobody in NY lol.

NY prices are astronomical also there were one or two of the "sales" people kind of pushy and called me a few times but once I told them I didn't want to be riddled with a bill they left me alone

I'm going a a few days sooner just to see are it all in lol

I was thinking about going a few days earlier as well boo. I'm like might as well. Then I can purchase some of the stuff I need and check out the place.

Yea I ordered some compression garments already and I wasn't aware that some garments like the socks come in so many designs thought it was cool. I bought off of Amazon and Walmart

You mean the faja things? I was looking at those as well but don't know how to order. I see people saying stage one and stage 2. I'm like maybe j will do it when I get out there

No the garments you have to wear like on your legs they look like socks. I also got arm compression garments. As far as the fajas/cinches/binders/waist trainers try to get one that has adjustable straps/clips etc. if you can't then check out the size charts on the web then as time goes you may need to get another size to accommodate

I have the hourglass waist trainer it has velcro
and it was good when I was losing weight awhile back but I'm still fat so it would roll up after awhile lol

Oh ok I know what you talking about. You getting your arms Lipo too? I've been searching but I'm gonna keep looking Bc I want the crotch less one lol.

I can't deal with your ass lol.

Lol girl it's true it would roll up from the bottom then from the right giving me a tight band and I looked like I had a tummy on the bottom and another on top! Nitemare lol

I'll be getting lipo of the abdomen, armpit areas (bra fat areas), full back, flanks and waist, bbl via fat transfer, tt with muscle repair, breast lift.

I am in tears. You are a damn fool lmaoooooo. I know what you mean tho. I've been there. And babyyyyy you gonna be laid. Yaaassss. Aren't you so excited.

Yes most definitely it's one day closer to be being able to see my who-ha without a mirror lol I am so excited words can't describe right now

Lmaooooo. Gurl I can't wait to look down and be like hey girl lmaooooooo.

Yea! Lololol!!!! For real hey girl remember me? lol seriously a journey well worth taking

I completely agree Blue lmaooooo

You see and that's the thing. I had a section and I had my right ovary and tube removed. I do have sagging skin. Maybe Bc I have asthma (controlled). I don't know. But every dr that I have consulted with thus far is saying separately. Except for out the country

Here in realself its alot of girls that have tummy tuck with lipo at the same time , but is your desicion , good Luck . Keep us update

Thank you so much. And you know I will Darlin

Oh my I also had right ovary/tube removed back in the late 90s. I can't even feel that skin there when I pinch or fiancé holding on for grips lol. Also asthmatic but haven't had any symptoms or attacks in over 15 years

Blue we have a lot in common huh lol. I have feeling there but it's a weird feeling. I only get attacks when I get a cold and I be good with the pump thank the lord

I was definitely checking dolls out first. Then spectrum said to check out a new life recovery house and they look good as well. I'm deck tell gonna book early. In less than 2 months you gonna be snatched hunni. It's so exciting.

I know! I can't wait. Just really curious what I will look like! I was going to go with the one Spectrum offered but I didn't get the "wow" feeling like I did with Doll. They are expensive, but it is worth it to me.

You m iw what they didn't hit me back like I expected. Loveshows recovery home hit me back quick and I like their posts. I'm keeping them in mind as well. I will check in to tell me what you think about Dolls tho.

And Gurl [RS bleep] the money ain't the thang. The service is right lol. I want to be catered to and tended to. Medical staff is always a plus. I'm bringing someone anyway so I don't need just a nice woman. I need a trained experience person.