BBL 3 years post NEW PICS

This is to give you a REAL idea of the short and long term effects of getting this type of procedure. it's been 3 years since I've had my bbl so I feel that I can give an honest and realistic review at this point.
Also... This is to address what some have called inconsistencies in the previous review of my cosmetic procedure.
1) Receiving cosmetic surgery is a very emotional process. it takes some of us six months to a year to save up enough money to afford a procedure that we feel will improve our body. My previous review reflects what was a very emotional process for me
--- first I was excited because I had made this investment in myself
--- then I went through a phase of buyers remorse feeling guilty that I had spent so much money on something that most would consider frivolous.
--- I felt anxious because after spending so much money I wanted to see the results immediately... I wanted to look in the mirror and see what I had envisioned from the girls in magazines and on TV.
--- I felt annoyed and disappointed because I didn't believe that I looked as good as I had anticipated. I didn't feel that I looked like my "wish pics"
--- then I looked at my before pictures and after pictures and really analyzed the difference between the two. I came to the conclusion that although I did not look like the girls in my "wish pics" my body had still changed tremendously, and there was a significant improvement on my silhouette and my surgeon did deliver exactly what he promised.
------ this is where I tell everyone to be realistic! the chances of you looking like a person in your wish pic is slim to none. first of all we are in the age of technology there is a very good chance the pictures could have been altered which means that the image is not realistic it is not feasible through surgery or anything other than Photoshop. On the flip side if your wish pic person was not photoshopped, you must still consider that her body and your body is not the same. even if she has had cosmetic surgery her body responded in a way that yielded those results your body may not respond to surgery in the same way which means your results will not match hers because your body is different from hers. Ultimately I'm saying be realistic or you will be disappointed.
2) consider the aftermath of your surgery decision. The average woman has a difference of 10 inches between her waist and hips now after my surgery I have a 16.5 difference between my waist and hips (hips 45.5 - waist 29= 16.5). And if you gain weight your measurements will increase your waist will always be smaller than your hips however your butt will get bigger and bigger and frankly that [RS bleep] just isn't cute, so you must watch your weight very carefully or else your body will get out of hand and that is what I'm going through at the moment in terms of my weight gain. ( please note my weight gain has nothing to do with my surgery I have simply gained weight not on purpose it's just that life happens and now I'm dealing with trying to lose weight).
---- I made this point because you must understand that after surgery your body will be nothing like the average woman, it will be above average and that may sound cool in theory until you are walking down the street with your children/your mother/your friends/your boyfriend and people are stopping and pointing at you making rude or sexual comments about your body in front of your family and friends.
---- your new appearance may also make your spouse very insecure. Your new appearance will bring much more attention than you or your spouse are accustom to, and heaven only knows how you will react to having all of this extra attention. However you react your spouse will not like the fact that so many men will be coming on to you your spouse may not like that every time you all go somewhere people stop and stare or when you get up to walk to the bathroom people take pictures of you behind your back I promise I am NOT making any of these things up everything that I'm saying to you has happened to me.
3) think about your long term goals right now having a banging body with extraordinary measurements may seem fun but what happens when you walk into a job interview? It's very difficult to cover a 46 inch hip/butt. You can dress as conservative as you would like but your measurements are visible no matter what you do and when people see a certain body type first off it makes a lot of women feel intimidated and uncomfortable second it makes men think of something sexual which makes it very difficult for men or women to take you seriously because they all cannot see past your ass.
4) on another note many of you ladies have asked how does my body feel... it feels 100% natural. My body is soft and jiggles and does everything that it did before surgery nothing feels different there are absolutely no lumps or hard spots on my body. The downside is that my body is so soft that I have much more cellulite on my butt than I did before surgery. Also occasionally I have a sharp pain in my left butt cheek ????. I do not get this pain often and when it does happen it does not last long usually just a few seconds I'll feel a sharp pain and it happens randomly for no reason at all.
5) with all things said and done Dr Salama did give me what I paid for. I wanted to have a big butt and a small waist and he gave me exactly that. I will say that I do not regret having the procedure itself however I do regret requesting to have so much fat transferred. I would have liked more natural curves instead of the Niki minaj/k. Michelle body because let's be real they are celebrities they don't have to deal with the day-to-day things that us regular people have to deal with when looking this way.

Original measurement (36-31-40)
3yrs post op measurement (34-28-43.5 )

If you have questions. Ask and I will do my best to answer.