27 Year Old BBL...tummy tuck and lipo

Before my kids i always had a curvy body...nice perky breast little to no stomach and a nice butt that was considered to be big. After my first child it wasn't too bad i kinda bounced back. However with my second child i totally let myself go. I didn't feel like anything but a mom....no longer did i feel sexy. I was very depressed and did not have the drive to make a change in myself. This begun in 2011 and i have been considering this surgery since 2011. My goal is to get my shape back plus a little more and my ultimate goal is to get my confidence back.

Lately i have just been trying to make sure im making the right decision as far as my choice of doctor and the surgery that i want. I have been driving myself crazy because every other day im unsure about something or nervous about horror stories i have read about. Also i just want to look so damn good i have been thinking about getting a tummy tuck as well . Only because i wonna be so snatched. My tummy might have a little extra skin at the bottom and honestly im not one who like to repeat myself when it comes to speaking or anything else for the matter. I want to be very pleased and if it's two things that needs to be done then i would like to do it at once if possible. However Dr. O do not do the combination of tummy tuck and bbl so i have a lot of thinking to do. I already have been searching and i will list my prospects later. I am looking to have my surgery in February or March at this point. Later Dolls...ttl!????

Hey guys.....
Im feeling a little kinda defeated today because the only person I told about the surgery (my children father ) is not being supportive about this surgery at all! It really bothers me because he's the only person i trusted enough to tell and he's 100% against it. He feels as though he can help me work out and achieve my goals within a frew months but i dnt want to do that. I know that if i work out hard enough i can lose a nice amount of weight however i dnt believe i will be able to have that drastic transformation like i want by the summer. I want to be sculpted and have a little bit more butt. Im really sad about this and really feel by myself. All i wanted from him is support and i got the complete opposite. Its been so long since i really felt sexy and i just want to get back to that! He made my journey about himself saying how i dnt have faith in him but i have faith in a doctor. Smh i guess i gotta put on my grown woman pants and push through this on my own....ttyl8r realself fam!