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36 2 Kids Super Freaking Nervous!

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I have my tummy tuck scheduled for nov 28th 2016! ...

jessmattson98October 12, 2016

$8,800

I have my tummy tuck scheduled for nov 28th 2016! I have two daughters who are 11 and 9. I currently weigh 150 and I am sitting at around 19% body fat. I lift weights 6 days a week and do cardio sometimes LOL. I am active duty Air Force and no the military will not pay for any of my surgery nor will I get any free time off, I have to use my person leave for my recovery time. I am extremely nervous about the recovery because I will be doing it mostly by myself. I will post some before pictures in a few days.

jessmattson98's provider

Jonathan D. Kramer, MD

Jonathan D. Kramer, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

4.8 | 86 Reviews

Replies (35)

October 13, 2016

Congratulations , excited for you. I'm going for my consultation Oct 20...let me know how you do.

October 29, 2016

I hear ya, sister! I'm scheduled for Nov 16th and I also have 2 kids. It's nerve-wrecking becasue we dont know how we'll recover, heal + care for our kids. Your body-type is similar to mine so I'll try to keep updating my progress. My pre-op is next week, crazy that I've wanted this for so long and I'm now so anxious and unsure.

November 1, 2016

My pre-op is Thursday, I guess my main thing is how do I get myself as healthy as I can so my recovery will be good. I almost canceled my appointment last week thinking I was being too vein and how I could spend this money on a nice vacation for me and my kids.... it's a struggle

November 14, 2016

You are going to be so happy. He must be doing surgery in meridian because it dosnt look like you need lipo? Can't wait to see your after. You really will need someone to help you for the first week. My hubby and my mom both helped. I still am sleeping in a recliner just because it is more comfortable.

November 14, 2016

By the way, week prior I was lifting at the gym and getting so much stronger I thought maybe I didn't need the tuck. So very happy I did it. I wish I would have done it at your age.

November 14, 2016

My boyfriend will be with me full time for the first 5 days thankfully. I need to go recliner shopping!

November 14, 2016

And yes I'm doing it in meridian! He said I don't need lipo and hopefuly I won't need muscle repair either! I lift quite a bit so I'm hoping that my strength will help me.

November 15, 2016

You being in good shape will help a lot. If you are not doing mr, you may have a much quicker recovery. If you can do a cleanse of sorts prior, I think it's a good idea too !

November 15, 2016

When is your surgery? I am going to sell my electric recliner I bought just for this surgery. It's only 3 weeks old but I will need it another couple weeks.

November 15, 2016

my surgery is in 2 weeks.... but did you like the electric recliner or do you think ill be ok with just my couch?

November 15, 2016

Very honestly, I don't know what I would've done without my recliner. I have still been sleeping in it. It makes me feel more comfortable that I can get straight out instead of having to make a turn.

November 16, 2016

I just bought a recliner yesterday! I actually bought one that fits my boyfriend and I in it so we can both get use out of it when I am feeling better and up for snuggling :)

November 16, 2016

That's great! You will be glad you did. Are you going back to work after? Take as long off as you can. I am day 16 and was out and about 4 hours today and yesterday and really tired me out.

November 17, 2016

Yeah i don't have much leave so I am taking 2 weeks off, but I have a desk job so it shouldn't be too bad

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November 19, 2016

Jess, you appear to be working with a good foundation. We seem to be following the same regimen lifting weights with little cardio, lol.... I believe and I'll pray that God keeps a hedge of protection around you as well as blessing the surgeon his hands and his staff. I'm still in the consultation phase and can't wait to actually schedule my procedure. As long as you have tons of support and confidents in your surgeon you will be fantastic. Be Blessed, take it as easy as possible and enjoy the new you.

November 21, 2016

Thank you for your kind message! I can't wait to read about your journey!

November 19, 2016

Hello all! I just recently had a full TT, umbilical hernia repair, and muscle repair and breast augmentation on 11/9. It has been 10 days since my surgery, and I feel good! I definetly don't feel like my usually self ( busy body, mother of 4 boys... ages 6,4,3,and 2), but I don't feel as bad as I thought I would. Before my surgery, I was so freaked out about the recovery, pain, and reading some of the reviews didn't help... it just made me more nervous. I'm 5'3 109lbs, very active. I will say, the first week will be the hardest, your body will be in shock! By day 6, I was almost walking upright and moving around. Day 7, was a great turning point for me, I was able to move around all day ( just walking, getting up and laying down by myself)! I was driving by day 8, and was able to make it to my children's thanksgiving program on day 9! I was extremely cautious and moved slowly at my own pace, I just listened to my body! There's hope! You are strong and your body will bounce back, just remember to stay positive!!! Good luck!

November 19, 2016

@momsta4 thats awesome! im doing all the same as you and im freaking out! except i have had 5 breast surgeries in my life so i know what to expect there but this tummy tuck repairing me in the inside is freaking me out! hope we all heal well :) happy heaaling

November 19, 2016

Mrsb83, they use "exparel" with tummy tucks, and it has made recovery soooooo easy! You'll be surprise, you literally won't be in any pain. You feel tired and uncomfortable but it's all tolerable and manageable!!! It's really the second week when it wears off, but by then it's nothing more than just some soreness! You got this!!!

November 21, 2016

Thank you for your message! My boyfriend has his Christmas party 12 days after my surgery so I wasn't sure if I was going to make that or not! I hope I don't get cabin fever from being in the house for so long! How are you feeling now?

November 22, 2016

I'm exactly 2 weeks post op! I feel great! pretty much back to normal! Some days I literally have to remind myself to slow down! I'm a bit swollen still, but have switched over to spanx instead of the uncomfortable, bulky wrap I left the hospital with. But I could truly say, I feel 80% back to norm. I try to watch my diet and avoid salt, and move around carefully. Other than that, no complaints! I wish I could post pictures in the comments! Good luck to you, happy healing!

November 22, 2016

Where did you get your spanks. I have actually never owned a pair (I know right?) and I don't even know what I am looking for! It seems like everyone likes spanks better. Wow I am so excited for you that you are feeling that good! I hope I feel like you during this!!

November 23, 2016

I just ordered it online from amazon. I got the "high power panties style." It seems to be a little more comfortable than some of the other options that sucks the life out of your thighs, lol. How are you feeling? The big day is right around the corner!! So excited for you.

November 23, 2016

I'm feeling oddly calm. I'm losing my desire to workout which is strange for me, I don't know if it's because thanksgiving is near or I just feel like it's pointless since I won't be able to workout for awhile after surgery in 6 days

November 23, 2016

You'll do great!!!

November 23, 2016

That is exactly what happened to me!! I ended up just doing a 3 mile walk twice in the days leading up to surgery. For me, the closer it got the calmer I got. I really think you are going to do so well. Be prepared for the first few days to feel like forever!! But I promise it will get better and each day will have a new positive that makes you feel more like you. And also be prepared for your emotions to possibly be all over the place. I think on day 3 I felt depression, elation, annoyance and joy! :)

November 23, 2016

Very true! The first 3 days are going to take you on an emotional roller coaster, but just stay positive!!!

UPDATED FROM jessmattson98

29 days pre

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jessmattson98October 29, 2016

Ok here are my before pics. I am 1 month away now! I'm so scared!

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October 30, 2016

Hi mine is now scheduled for November 29 a day after you...I'm nervous also but for some reason I'm not to bad..so hang in there.

November 1, 2016

Oh awesome we can go through this together!! I am so nervous! What is motivating you to get this done? Me, I want to eventually do a fitness/figure show and I know with my current skin I wouldn't want to be in a bikini.

November 2, 2016

It's been a long road for me many years of thinking and dreaming about it. Three years ago after 37 years of marriage and three children we separated and went our ways. A year later met the love of my life and remarried last October, so for me it was always on my mind and now I'm making it happen, for myself and my new life. My husband is certainly ok with how I am but he supports me fully and will be there throughout this journey. I've had 2 c-sections and just want my body back. It's my turn lol we are both going to be in a place where we will be so happy with our bodies and move forward, your dream of being in a fitness/figure show will happen, you are on that road to your dream, and I wish you well. I'm very excited about this and will not let fear take that away from me. I read all the positive stories on hear and realize the risk is so small especially if your healthy.

November 2, 2016

I really enjoyed reading this post @Susieqtt, I am also super nervous (2 wks away) but your inspiring words made me say "YEAH!" Out loud!! I need to be where you are, I need to get excited about this surgery that I've wanted for so very long. Thank you!!!

November 2, 2016

I am excited LwasTT, my 25 year old daughter whom has 4 small children by the way lol, said to me today, "mom you seem so different now, your life has changed, you are so happy, you made this happen for yourself , and I'm proud that you just didn't give up, now your gonna make your outside match your inside and I'm proud of you!" What more could I ask for if my own children see the strength in me that I myself wasn't aware of. How dare fate take this all away from me. When I seen my Ps and had my consult, he looked me over as a matter of fact, and said ya you'll be amazed at the out come, he convinced me there and then. He's board certified with thousands of these surgeries, and not one death, one complication on a patient whom recovered. So now that was out of my system, I knew I was a healthy 62 year old, and nothing is gonna stop this.. This dream WILL be my reality in 27 days and I can't wait....

UPDATED FROM jessmattson98

13 days pre

two weeks out

jessmattson98November 14, 2016

Well I just got back from a scuba diving trip to Roatan Honduras. Now I have two week before my surgery and reading peoples reviews makes me think I am not going to make it! I mean most of us have went through child birth so I know that we can handle pain, so hearing people say that they are in so much pain they can't handle it makes me so nervous! I already paid for my surgery so there is no backing out now, but holy crap I am scared!

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November 14, 2016

Being scared is a normal reaction but not get too worked up over it, you'll be fine, the pain is manageable. As long as you follow the med schedule that your PS gives you then it won't be too bad. The first couple of weeks are the hardest and then you'll soon be back to a new better you! Good luck

November 14, 2016

Thank you for some reassurance, I have just been reading peoples experience and some people are saying how much horrible pain they are in! I feel like sometimes reading other experiences gives me anxiety!

November 14, 2016

I was super scared too as I had a hysterectomy at the same time as my TT and had no idea if I could cope with the dual recovery but I did great and I'm 48. Good luck!

November 14, 2016

Hi there, I just came across your review and I can relate to the feelings of being so scared! I am getting full TT with umbilical hernia repair and muscle repair in just 3 days and I am weirdly calm now that it is almost here. I was borderline having panic attacks a few weeks ago. I hope that your nerves are replaced with excitement so you won't have to feel so much stress going into this. I too got freaked out reading reviews mentioning unbearable pain. I am very curious what the pain will feel like and how I will tolerate it - I plan on updating my review as best I can with how it all feels. In the meantime, lots of deep breathing and distracting my mind!! :)

November 14, 2016

Oh I am going to so follow you so I can see how you are tolerating it! I had both my kids natural (no pain meds) so I haven't experienced a C section or anything with my tummy.... I have had a few shoulder surgeries but nothing to this extent! Good luck on yours!

November 14, 2016

I only went all natural with one of my 4 kids and he was 9lbs 9oz. I seriously can't imagine pain worse than labor (except maybe when I had a gallbladder attack). For my other 3 kiddos I tolerated labor as long as I could and then got an epidural. I haven't had a c-section either and I see many reviews on here where they had c-sections and can compare the pain as being way worse. Ahhh! I think it says a lot though that you have gone through natural childbirth and I would bet you will handle this pain very well. I will update soon with firsthand knowledge! :)

November 14, 2016

9lb 9oz! holy crap! My biggest daughter was only 7lb 6oz! I know that being in good physical shape should help with the healing process too, so im taking that into consideration with some of the reviews I read.

November 17, 2016

i went to roatan a few years ago for a day on cruise. found a diamond in the rough for snokle. it was a bed and breakfast place. had a wonderful day there. glad you got to do a trip before your surgery! you go in a day before me so i ll be thinking of you!

November 17, 2016

People have different thresholds of pain. Being in. The military I'm sure you have been through your fair share of pain and mental anguish so you are probably more prepared than you think. I do fine with pain so it may seem a little easier for me but everyone is different. I think you will do great and be super pleased when its all over.

November 18, 2016

Thank you for your reply!! Well I've had it easy in the military lol but I think I do ok with pain as well.

November 18, 2016

Hi there! I think you are going to do great! It's more of a soreness pain like you did 1000 crunches. I do have some burning at the incision site when getting in and out of recliner. I'm scared to rip my stitches open but my ps today said to not worry I won't mess it up. :)

November 18, 2016

I'm so glad that you're doing well!! Thank you for explaining what I might be up for! That makes me feel a lot better! You're awesome thank you!

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