Almost 46. Decided to Do Something for Me and Do a Freshen Up. Eyelift Surgery, Cellulaze, Axillary Lipo and Lil on Thighs. - MD

I understand thst, but when your one eye is clearly smaller than the other, you have extra skin that can't just disappear on the outter left eye and deep hollow eyes that are getting more beady and hollow with each passing week..I feel the writing is on the wall. Can't imagine the round eye will mysteriously turn almond one morning. I also hear Ppl say they are happy in a few weeks. I hate my face now and feel like since my eyes don't match it my nose looks stupid now too. I have watched countless vids on this procedure and seen right after pics and months later and usually ppl look brighter and good and eye shape the same I feel ugly now

And why would anybody do this if they cried every day about it for 6-7 months. I def would not have..I am losing money and stress and crying probably don't helook again either. :(

no,believe me,i totally understand. i went through the same thing as you. my eyes were my best feature ....and i mean totally unique beautiful eyes also and i had lower lid surgery with an occuplastic surgeon too. he also ruined my beautiful eyes and my features look too large on my face because this guy did the same thing. i get it.i understand and i feel for you.i know what it is like to feel despondent and helpless in the aftermath of bad plastic surgery. i was just hoping to give you some temporary solace untill you could figure out how to remedy the situation is all.

Thank you in appreciate that. How are you doing with yours? Any luck I'm fixing them. I just can't figure it out ...I look in the mirror and I think what did he do to change my eye so much. I look at pics and take pics and wish I knew. I feel like somebody sucked the air of me and pulled my eyes into my eye sockets and in the process made them lil. I feel like I'm all cheek bones now and brow bones.m, but really cheeks. Wouldn't you think if this was your job you'd get it and know that no female wants to pay to have her eyes ruined or aged 10 years. Wtf would we do that for, so why not just say you don't know how to do it without doing that..or say u can't do it right and move on to the next victim. Clearly is I model I wasn't looking to look older.. insane

o f course i do not think these people meant to mess us up entirely on purpose,perhaps they are inexperienced ,i do not know. i too wonder why my doctor did not tell me he may not be able to give me the results i wanted,which was really nothing more than having uneven fat distribution evened out,nothing more.but he ,did something more...a canthoplasty,and left me with no fat under my eyes ...so there goes my unique beauty.it is what it is though isnt it? i have been to a few doctors,one,a great guy who was referred by my friend brunno ristow who said to me that he had repositioned the inner canthus and it would be difficult if not impossible to repair.i am very sad.i too avoid people i know because they can see how different i look especially my husbands family.im just plain embarrassed.the only person that i feel has a lot of experience in repairing medial canthal issues is a friend of the original doctor and am afraid he would say he wont help me after the 11 hour drive it would take to see him.i would be happy enough at this point to just give me the round curve i used to have under my eyes that showed some sclera and lower lid and gave me the large doe eyes i took for granted ,even by a few milimeters i would be happy.i did and still do on a daily basis all of the things you do and i feel you,i really do.does he tell you the exact procedure he did to you?you will need to know that for revisional surgery.my doctor just absolutely refused to tell me,i recorded every session i had with him and he never would say...i think that was the part that hurt and frustrated me the most.maybe he was embarrased,i dont blame him,but if he would have been honest i would have forgiven him and been able to work towards what i needed to do.geez,i was so beautiful....

I didn't say I wanted anything extreme either. Fat grafting is an option, but I hear it moves. Fillers of course, Im not a huge fan. Natural is always better. I did ask in am email for a record of all that's been done. If your dr is on the USA I believe it's the law the have to give you that info., not to say they won't lie though.... Well you need to try that guy to see. Never hurts to ask. I kinda felt like that too...the whole. WHAT ARE YOU QUESTIONING ME?? Not fun. Well tomorrow is a new day and I think we e will find what we need to help....dammit!!!

Thank you. I hope so. I could sure use it. This has affected my relationship with my kids even. Not fun when my is unhappy and stressed. Made apt with Dr. Massry for January. They look so weird right now. I hope I can deal till then. Wish i could crazy glue my left eye to fall back down where it belongs. I was told ill neec my attorney to get my records. I asked plenty of times. Never got them yet. People that have nothing to hide, hide nothing. The fax copy from discover ....it was almost funny. It was so rewritten. Lol. It was so basic. He was so covering his ass. Oh well... i believe in justice and fairness. So it will happen.

Sad isnt it, that its like that, but it is. Im glad I found a patient surgeon who will work on fixing his screw up of the lower half. I have questions and concerns. There are suregeons that do fat grafting with eye lid surgery. Thet dont remove tissue they place it where needed. I wanted to throw up when i had a surgeons nurse tell me that. Made me sick he dug mine out and put filler in that lasted 2 months and want even right. Had he done a better consult...he should have examined my eyes, showed me what theyd look like. Im told they are to ask if u have dry as too. Ummmm nope.... never did. Last night i woke up and couldnt lift my lids cuz it was like sand paper over my eye balls. I.do and did have dry eyes. I couldnt wear contacts because of it. Soooo many flaws in this entite situation. I emailed plenty prior asking the questions i knew to ask, im however not an eye lid surgeon, to know each and every little detail. Trust....yea thats very very hard know. I spend so much time examining whats wrong now...so i can ask every question i know to ask.

Very sad :( What are you gonna do?

Are you gonna see another doctor?if yes, I advise you to consult dr. Chase lay,he is the best at eye lid surgeries! Best wishes :)

Thank you. Ill look him up. Seeing Dr. Massry in a few weeks for options and Dr. Hughes who does a lot of fat graphing. Lost another 2 grand this wkd again because of all this. Need my ducks in a row

I need an eye revision specialist. He has to be trained in fixing messed eye lifts. Same with the lipo destroyed area. This surgeons case in fighting me on my discover was that they say revision and them touching up is common. Ummm heck no would i trust him with my eyes again. Once you mess up those delicate muscles ..the patient is probably screwed already. He didnt know what he was doing first time def not trusting him again. Omg that would he horrid. Plus he acted like a smart ass to me, as did his nurse .. who gave me a $5 Starbucks card because i said how rude she was. Yea one more insult

Thank you. I appreciate it. I feel like a freak. My eyes are so unnatural. Guess youd have to know me before. Yes, plz dont do it, got to a specialist for consult at least. Its not worth it. I see the muscle damage, the skull looking sockets and the messed up puckered skin... how my eye liner moves my lids and how it goes back deeper than my eye bone on one eye. Its sick for 60 they might be ok. I looked 38 max before.

Yep, I was wondering, too! Hope you are doing better, Gem!

Where was your Dr. And what do you think of the incision placement so far? Hopefully you will be fine. I had a weird buldge from hour one when I woke up and saw the incisions were far from similar.

the incision is ok. although they are not aligned equally on each side. I am not going to fuss too much until the stiches come out on Monday. I have to say, your eyes still look a tad swollen. My friend who is 46 had hers done and she was swollen for about 6 weeks, and now she looks AMAZING. It is night and day and the procedure opened up her face and took 10 years off her. My little bump is on the right of my eye, I called PS they said it is common and to massage area out after stiches are out. My PS also does FREE revision suregery if anything goes wrong because he said he is a perfectionist. Best of luck to you, you still have time to heal.

I'm 4.5 now. My eyes look best when I wake up and are swollen. I sure do. So hopefully I'll Wake up and find my one eye grew bigger again. Lmao The one in previous pics that looked smaller cuz of extra skin above is now the one that looks bigger. Hmm He closed my eye somehow and made it smaller on the left. Have to compare pupil and white to get why it looks different. I also spent 100I in fillers to fix my under eye dug in look after he charged 650 to do it while under.. 1750 in fillers in a month. Hmm not a great outcome if ya ask me... n can't do it again, cuz eye infections can happen. Gotta read up on that. So he doesn't get credit for them looking any better my wallet does

Maybe if I keep pulling down on my left eye it will droop n show more white to match the other n maybe if i take a knife n cut the rest if the skin off the left eye area it will help lol. Maybe I'll wake up and that skin will have magically disappeared or maybe in 6 mths I'll have more skin as incision droppes more. Lol.

Almost 47, not so young. Lol Def not to be a single female that was working hard to make some kind if retirement for herself because she had NONE. Now he took all my savings and my income this year. Now more next year. I will never accept what i look like now. Its not my face. For 5000 this jerk cost me 150,000 thats sick. 11,000 total he needed i guess. Wont know till consult. As you know...no guarantees with any of it. Need fat transfer, but muscles need repaired first or eyes shut..so one depends on other. Oh well see how it all goes.

You mean if you keep doinv fillers? Yes i was told about that. Isnt it funny we get more info than they will give or know

Most doctors are out there to make money, and some don't even know about the infection cases, how funny. We are the ones have to watch out for ourselves. During my intent to improve my look to regain young looks, a few doctors are truly honest and highly ethical, who told me they would not operate on me now, wait till your eyelids really fall down, lol, I genuinely appreciate their kindness and professionalism. I have devoted a lot of time, energy in seeking many consultations, and come to final decision, I will age gracefully. Again, I thank those doctors who in a sense refused the operation.

I agree with you. Id much rather have honest. Have a lot more respect for those and they in the long run will have more patience because they are trusted. Life is all about money, but lets have some friggin integrity. Wait till they drop more. Ugh. Yea thats prob so you have more aged stretched skin. Not enough skin is def an issue. Im sure i have too little in bad eye. Gunna be interesting. My Attorney mentioned Dr in Miami. Funny he knows all this stuff. Hes good

Thank you. Isn't it funny how much you hear you need time to heal, which I totally understand our eyes are very complex. Lots To Heal after This , but you can kinda tell right away what's up. I knew with the incisions I saw it wasn't going to end well. I looked at enough YouTube vids and before and after pics to know mine were not quite right. I'm already on it with Dr. Stensapir. Im seeing he knows what hes talking about, isnt half ased and doesbt accept half assed. I have had Drs. Comment that my surgery was acceptable lol. Are you kidding me, dear God where did they go to school? That's why they won't touch my body and why Dr Stensapir will continue to be very busy. I have been looking and looking for closer, but I won't settle for less expertise., I already did that once. Ugh. Was one of the dumbest things I ever did. I assumed if somebody is a face specialist they did good eye lid work. I'm seeing that over time it's looking worse as swelling goes down. I posted a few things last night that will show tomorrow I guess. My left eye is actually getting smaller. I took off my make up last night n sat down at my vanity for my night time skin care ritual and looked in the mirror and gasped. It's like the lower lid is shortening or something. So weird. You'll see pics of how big smiles look awful because it closes my eye and makes them squint shut now. I feel for you if you aren't happy either. It's ruined the last few weeks of my life. Im not functioning well at all. I try and it's so hard. Haven't worked in 5 weeks and I'm a gym rat that went 2 times last week and took all i had to do my workout. So he's taking away my income, my savungs, my fitness, my face, my happy, my focus and just normal things I need to get done. I don't usually sob cry...I'm a pretty tough chick. My Last bf said I was an alpha male lol. So when I'm calling and leaving messages for Dr's or taking to my mom and start to cry and not be able to finish speaking that's just wrong. This wasn't what I paid thousands for. I'm debating how I'm handling my next steps... I don't think we should have to pay to have our eyes eyes messed up then pay to have them fixed double and hotel, flight, and what about somebody to help us. We can't go search for healthy non sodium food 4 hrs post op. We can't take our luggage n carry it if we can't lift. Can't fly either for at least a week. That's one expensive mess up. Makes me so sick. I'm suppose to be working hard to save for future after divorce ..married 18 yrs. No retirement, single mom, with the most amazing two kids. Worth staying home, working part time..but now I'm to be working hard for me..and here I am. Watching all the work the last few years go down the drain..and all the gym work the last 30 yrs to take care of myself n hold up well.be taken away because I can't even smile without looking like a plastic freak. My face is in front of 1000s a week sometimes a day.... for my job. Well who knows, maybe we'll end up in LA together. I'm 5 weeks out. I know we have to wait least 6. I'm going to try n get out there for a consult just to have some hope and be able to settle and know I can be me again. I Obv can't keep doing what I'm doing and not functioning. I'll lose my house. My daughter was going to get married next June mow she is looking into this August to save them renting 2 dif places, so guess I'll be getting botox which I wanted to stay away from so I don't smile big at her wedding :( It's not pretty. Looks freaky. Crying on the way home aftwe seeing your son in his tux for prom is sucky...the pics with him I looked like a demon with crazy eyes. Good luck. Keep in touch. I'm not giving up, I cant..life is too short to spend the rest of it sad. It's scary cause it can be made woree, but I can't have two diff eyes I feel like my nose doesn't look right now either cause of my eyes. Well be ok...I'm praying that!