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I went for my post op checkup at my plastic surgeon's office yesterday. I expressed my concern over my right breast still being firmer and higher. He said it's impossible to tell when each person will fully heal. Since my scars are still pink he said my body is still adjusting and it's important to frequently and aggressively massage them especially at this point. So I'm compressing the upper pole on them and doing other massages. It's better than it was at 5 weeks, but I am not known for my patience and I want them to drop now! I'm in a wedding in a month and a little nervous how my dress is going to show them off to everyone on Facebook. Yikes!! I don't know why I still worry about what other people will think. I just don't want to even have it addressed, but certain people are insistent on "calling me out" and I just dread the experience. My cousin tried to do it to me the other day right in front of my brother, but thankfully someone walked in. What have your experiences been with dealing with other's judgements? And with how long it took you to drop and fluff if you were starting with nothing? Mine are 350cc mentor sub muscular silicone round.