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65 YO Rediscovering Life ... Living It and Loving It Too! - Jacksonville, FL

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January 12, 2014 - Grief and Sadness to:...

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Jeanie G
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January 12, 2014 - Grief and Sadness to:
Rediscovering Life ... Living it and Loving It Too!
Well I suppose I had better get started posting my pre and postoperative experience. I am so very excited about all of this: the upcoming procedure, having access to the RealSelf.com forum and network, my wonderful PS Dr. Timothy Fee and his congenial, professional and eager to help staff. But what I'm most grateful for is the wonderful life I had with my husband of 45 years until 2012. It's because of thus love and the life we shared together that I was finally able to move forward without him at my side. Two years earlier I had found myself sitting in the same spot on our sofa, watching the same tv show on Netflix 24 hours a day, 7 days a week 24 months after the funeral.

I remember walking back to my perch and stopping in my tracks looking up and saying: "God I don't like this at all ... this widow thing. I loved being married. I love being a mom and I'd love to fall in love and be in love again ... please, help me." Then I looked in the mirror and I didn't like what I saw. I had lost 30 lbs, I was gaunt, drawn and very sad and tired in looks. I knew that I needed to change me ... for me and not for a guy. I suppose I was so busy being a 'caregiver' (he had been very ill those last 2 years) I just forgot to take care of me. Well it was time to take care of me for me and those wonderful children, grandchildren and some day great grandchild. Game on!

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Timothy Fee, MD

Timothy Fee, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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November 12, 2014
Best of luck! At 62, I am questioning it is too late in life to be spending down my nest egg for this?
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December 16, 2014
Jeanne50425 apologies for the delayed response and thank you for commenting. I do understand your concern and to insure that pure unadulterated excitement and pleased with myself for doing this for me would be the only emotion I would experience about my upcoming procedure; I added the BA to my 2015 Bucket List and put the procedure on "layaway". Yes that's right layaway! I didn't want to "Rob Paul to pay Peter". It wasn't an emergency procedure but I did want to do this. The dates scheduled, preop and postop plans are made, the reveal date and new wardrobe are in place. My wonderful girls (my daughters 45, 44, 37, 35) and best friend of 36 years are so ready to care for me and my new girls. Jeanne50425 I am soooooo excited. Hope my response helps you in determining what path to take. Keep us all posted. Seasons Greetings and wishing you well in making the right decision for you.
November 12, 2014
Best of luck! Its never too late to care for yourself. When you feel good about your self your so much happier. Your going to be even more beautiful after it all!
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December 16, 2014
Rhondabare apologies for just responding and thank you for your kind words of encouragement. Still so very excited to be doing this for myself. My children 46, 44, 37, 35, are in awe just at my going to the gym 5 x's a week; the scheduled procedure literally made their jaw drop, but they are my strongest supporters. They were with me during my initial PS appointment and will be there the day of and throughout the recovery as well as my good friend of 36 years. More updates forthcoming. Seasons Greetings and Best Wishes to you and yours. Jeanie
December 17, 2014
I'm so happy for you! Nothing wrong with making yourself feel better. It was the best decision I've made for myself in a long time. I'm starting to workout and perk everything back up lol. I'm excited about it! I wish you luck and happiness with your results! Enjoy the holidays! ...also I think its amazing that you have so much support from your family!
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December 17, 2014
Rhondabare Thank you very much and Happy Holidays to you and yours. Jeanie
UPDATED FROM Jeanie G
4 months pre

Grief and Sadness to: Rediscovering Life ... Living it and Loving It Too!

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Jeanie G
An Excerpt From My Discovering Me Daily Journal:
January 13 through March 2014 - Game On: Taking Care of Me
I'm 5' 11.5" and 124.5 lbs I looked like an upper case 'L' with two tea bags on my chest. No endurance or muscle tone. It's true of the old adage: "what you don't use you loose". I needed to regain: healthy weight, muscle tone and mass, build endurance, skincare, and oh my ... when did the girls move to another continent. This assessment occurred on January 12, 2014 ... it was on now. I'm all over the internet, but there's more about loosing weight than gaining it. If patience is virtue, I'm going to be the most principled individual ever to live. It took hours of reading Mayo Clinic and WebMD articles and YouFit versus Team Beachbody versus FitnessBlender.com articles and recommendations to get the right jumpstart to a healthier me. But by George I did it. I'm at a 155 lbs and I can walk a 1.5 miles, do sit-ups, crunches, donkey kicks, squats, lunges; working those obliques, triceps, biceps, glutes, quads and calves. But I can work my 'pecs' until the year 2025 ... there is no making the little girls sit-up in class ever again. So now what?

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April 3, 2015
I am loving your story. I have one two, very different but you might find it interesting.
UPDATED FROM Jeanie G
4 months pre

Grief and Sadness to: Rediscovering Life ... Living it and Loving It Too: So Now What

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Excerpt From My Daily Re-Discovering Me Journal
March 2014 - So Now What?
I've regained my healthy weight of 155 lbs, pressing on to about 170 or 175lbs for the muscle mass using my self-styled workout program. Really love fitnessblender.com very easy to use and understand videos. The teambeachbody.com adds the accountability, tracking, a coach and team-member type support. At this point I was already very motivated the addd support is great insurance as well as assurance. I'm eating to gain and maintain, promote healthy skin, hair and muscle growth. I started exercising in a sitting mode now I'm all over the place. Now what about the 'girls' how do I get them back onto this continent. Could plastic surgery be a solution and the right one for me?

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