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38 Yrs Old. Mommy Make over - Halifax, NS

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1 year post

A year and a half post op

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$16,500
It's hard to believe how fast time flies. It's been a year and a half since surgery. I am still very happy with my results. Although I do look better I realized that I had to also heal emotionally. I can still pick myself a apart and that's not a healthy way to live. I have made progress and continue to grow each day. I hope that when you consider surgery that you are aware that it can only change physical issues and the rest is emotional healing that takes effort. I was thinking that surgery alone would solve my self image issues. I was rudely awaken to the fact that I had more internal than external problems that needed to be addressed. All the best to you in your journey :)

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Richard Bendor-Samuel, MD

Richard Bendor-Samuel, MD

Certified Plastic Surgeon

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January 13, 2017
You look great! I'm glad to see someone make that point. Sorry you had internal issues but I think it's great you've overcome them. Best of luck with everything you do!
January 13, 2017
Thank you for posting! Im having surgery with Dr.Bendor Samuel in March and havnt seen many reviews/pics on here from him. You look great!
UPDATED FROM Novascotiagirlie
2 months post

Almost 3 months post op

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It's been awhile but things are going well! I hit a snag at 2 weeks with my belly button that lasted until about week 7. Never got infected but constantly drained fluid until a stitch worked it's way out. The deep hole inside finally closed and healed.
My belly still puffs up pretty good. People don't see it but man I can feel it without looking... It gets like a pins and needles kind of feeling. I'm still really numb down the middle. Dr said my lipo results are good but won't be final results until around 6 months. I'm happy with how it all looks.
My boobies are nice and natural looking. Soft and settled. They were actually the least important to me out of the three procedures but ended up making the most difference in how I look and feel. Clothes look way better with boobs. I literally was flat. They balance out my body. Love having them :) although it truly took me a couple months to "bond" with them. I felt uncomfortable with them at first. Sounds silly but I felt like they made me look trashy out in public. I wasn't expecting to have emotional issues with them but I've gotten past it and we're all good!
My tummy tuck was worth it...I also went thru some mixed emotions with it. I look waaaay better but I think I was disappointed for a bit. Not sure what I was expecting. Results still aren't final but I can say that my loose roll is gone and I do not miss it!
Honestly, this has been life changing. An unexpected emotional rollercoaster. It made me realize that all of these years I thought changing these few things would make me happy with my body and the obsession would go away. Changing these things made it clear that I wasted a lot of years thinking way to much about how I looked. Yes I look better. Yes I am happy. But I was not worth less before and I was the only one who made me feel bad about it. I truly wish that others could get what I feel right now. Save them years of self abuse.
I will post some pics shortly.
Hope everyone is healing physically and emotionally :)

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August 28, 2015
wow! great confession and something I think we all struggle with.."if only I were thinner, made more money..had this..didn't have that.." negative self talk is a big part of us feeling bad and then wanting to change our physical appearance can often mean nothing unless the mental changes, too..sounds like you have it figured out! good for you! I can't wait to see pictures..

I'm hoping my result is just more self confidence for me and that I can actually accidentally put a shirt in the dryer and still be able to wear it w/o having to stretch and pull to get it to hide my belly :)
August 29, 2015
Thank you!
I think not fretting about my shirt coming up a bit is the biggest relief. I have about 30 long tank tops I wear under shirts so I can tuck it in to ensure no skin was ever seen lol.
Best of luck with your journey!
September 8, 2015
I too obsess about my body image. I have gone for a consult.Thinking seriously about it. Thanks for sharing your experience...Kelly
September 10, 2015
This helped me get closure on some issues. Not because it made me get the body I wanted... Cause honestly I didn't. I look much better but it made me realize that I worked hard to get this far, and it's all I can do. The rest is what it is and I am now proud of that. We are our own worst harsh critic. I still have stretch marks and cellulite and dimples :) it's ok. I will eat take out once in awhile because I like it. I want to learn balance. It's coming. I hope you can find some peace. You deserve it! Best of luck. Please let me know what you decide :)
November 20, 2015
How are you doing? All healed up and feeling wonderful I hope.
November 23, 2015
Hi! I am doing great. I still get swelling and have some discomfort in my abdomen but for the most part I'm feeling really good. I should get a few 6 months post op pics up. Thanks for thinking of me :)
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April 14, 2016
Thank you for this. I've been struggling a several of these issues. Especially the breast augmentation. That's where I'm at right now. But so happy to hear how 3 months makes a difference . Thank you again!!!
UPDATED FROM Novascotiagirlie
1 month post

A few more pics

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Here's just a few more pictures that show a bit more honestly how I look. Yup, still got stretch marks. I would need a whole new outfit of skin to be rid of them..
My incision shows on the hips when I have a bikini or undies on.. I could manage to cover them but I don't like to hike the sides up. In all honesty, Im not too worried about the scar. When the swelling is gone it will be quite discreet. When I'm puffed up it seems to jump out at you but this is just temporary.

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July 6, 2015
Looking awesome! I received some good advice from a veteran TT-er who said the swelling plays tricks on your eyes and as the swelling goes down your incision might seem to get even lower. That actually happened with me too. But like you I don't like to hike up my undies or bikini so for me I would rather wear the bikini that I like best and then maybe use makeup to cover the scar if it shows. But we worked hard for these flat tummies and I don't think I will care about the scars. That being said, I'm using embrace scar therapy and am liking the results. :)
July 6, 2015
Thanks for that info! I am 2 weeks post op and upset that my incision line seems high. 3 inches from incision line to bottom of belly button.
if you don't mind me asking what is your measurement? i'm also using embrace. how long have you been using it for?
July 6, 2015
Thank you! It's always good to hear from someone that's further along. It eases my mind to know these things! I have been using dermatix ultra gel for almost 2 weeks and I see a big difference. It's what my surgeon suggested. I have read many people use embrace. The price is pretty high so it's good to know that it works. I will keep it mind.
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July 7, 2015
You are looking great. How many cc did you get again? I think the size is perfect. I'm an active runner and I would like my boobs to not be too big and get in the way. I also won't mind showing a little bit stretch marks. You can get away with people not even thinking that you had cosmetic surgery that way. I don't want people to know and talk about it so much.
July 7, 2015
Thank you! I got 305cc. I also didn't want my boobs to be in the way or stick out the sides! I went from nothing so I didn't want them to feel too out there! That's true about the stretch marks! Of course I'd prefer to not have them but they kinda keep me real. So do the dimples on my bum cheeks and thighs lol.
July 17, 2015
You look amazing, hope you love it
July 17, 2015
Thank you so much, I am very pleased with my results!
July 23, 2015
Wow! Looks great already!!
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February 23, 2016
You look great! Any updates?
April 15, 2016
Went for a check up mid March. Everything is good. I was concerned that maybe I might want more skin removed from my stomach area but the doctor said I need to be able to stand lol. So all in all I am good and need to stop obsessing. Thanks for asking :)
April 16, 2016
Have you taken any updated pics of your progress. Just curious how your tummy look after all this time. I know what you mean about obsessing over perfection.