#NewBooty #2015 #YilyDoll - Dominican Republic
Hi guys so I like everyone else has stalked this...
SN: I still find myself looking in the mirror like do I really need a tummy tuck??!!?? LOL Damn you Dr. Duran!! :-)
I'm just getting real tired
I get so upset sometimes, I haven't gone shopping for myself in forever. I don't have the urge to, I feel like this isn't the body I want so why dress it up? My husband makes sure to tell me everyday how much he loves my butt...Negro please. ..lol...Your not going to change my mind...lol..but nice try. This booty obsession is real. I have found so many nice shapes on instagram that I can't stay off there. I'm going to upload some more wish pics. That's it for girls
I was thinking about what I should tell my kids when I get back. They are so attentive to me. If I'm wearing a new necklace they notice. If I got some new shoes they know, so they will definitely know my body is different. Especially my son, he's only 5 but he's such a creep..lol..I can hear him now. "Mom how did your butt get bigger?" touching it and stuff..lol My 4 year old daughter too, they have no respect for my privacy..literally!! I'll just tell them I was in the gym working out real hard while I was gone to lose my tummy and it made my butt bigger???? shit I don't know..lol..I'll think of something..TTYL!!
I'm exactly 55 days away from surgery and I'm starting to have second thoughts. I don't know I think I'm scared of the "what if's". Walking around in a body I could only dream of having is almost my reality and all sorts of complications can arise from that. Only thing I can do is pray and tell myself the Lord would not have allowed me to get this far in my process on this journey if he did want me to do it.
I know that for a fact because when I have my heart set on something and I'm doing everything possible to make sure I get it, for some reason no matter how hard I try it always gets shut down, I just laugh and say I know that was you God...lol...you got it!! so the fact that everything is going so smoothly let's me know he's okay with this.
I used the plastic surgery app..that thing was hard to use so I did my best with the alterations. You can get the gist of what I want.
I only had to pay $14.99 for shipping and handling. :-)
So I'm just 23 days away from surgery and I have finally found a RH. I've chosen Healing Haven. I spoke with the owner Julez over the phone for like an hour. I expressed to her that finding a RH was the hardest thing I had to do in through this whole journey. You hear all the horror stories and it just makes choosing one extremely difficult. She said she herself had one of those horrible experiences when she came to DR for surgery....The RH was not up to par so she prides herself on providing excellent service and I believe her. Oh and you wouldnt beleive who her doc was?????? Yily!!!...that's when I knew it was meant to be. The all inclusive package deal she gave me wasn't bad either. So there it is I have my Sx confirmed, flight booked, and my recovery stay in place now on to supplies.
I purchased a 2 piece carry on luggage for $30 on amazon. I also purchased the lipo foam boards that you have to purchase individually and it's like $8 a board + shipping but if you purchase 5 or more shipping is free. So I spent roughly $45 on them damn things. Best believe I will be using every square inch of those things.
Now I just need to purchase my dresses and some granny panties. Oh and the adult cleansing wipes. I'm traveling as light as possible. Just the necessities. I will pack a few snacks though just for comfort. I can't believe my time is almost here....it's so exciting!!
Question. I saw a quote that Yily gave to another doll that says Lipo and Bbl patients are only recommended to stay in DR for 5 days? Has anyone else received that information? When I received my quote last April it was 10, I really wanna know because I would damn sure change my flight to come home earlier.
I used to have good communication with Yily but seeing as how it is peak season I never get a response. I had a serious question about something else and Julez from the RH got the answer for me. If anyone else has received the same quote please let me know. Thanks! Ttyl!!
T minus 2 days till take off
I packed my bags over the weekend. I packed all five of my lipo foam boards but I think i'm only going to pack two of them. I just packed the essentials
3 maxi dresses
2 long skirts
8 tank tops
8 girl briefs
3 flip flops
2 compression socks
I think that's it. Everything fits in my carry on, I put some stuff in the small bag that comes with it so I can put stuff in there for my overnight stay at CIPLA. This just feels so surreal...lol..I can't believe this is happening. I got a email from Yily Saturday to confirm surgery and I was just staring at it for a good minute like "Yo i'm really having surgery in a few days." Overall i get excited when I think about this body i'm bout to have, but then i get worried when i think about my husband and kids. God knows they are my everything and i trust in him to bring me back safe. Yall pray for me...talk to you soon
SN: I will definitely keep yall posted and show pics. I hate when these bishes leave for surgery be 10/11 days post op and don't show ANY pictures...smh...we know yo ass took some. The same way yo ass logged on here to say i love my results is the same way you could hit that upload pics button. We've been following your asses getting all excited for you so the least you can do is show us some damn pictures...smh...sorry that's just the most frustrating thing ever especially when they are going to your chosen surgeon.
Today is the day
5 days post op
I'm so thankful for Yily. She's a sweet heart. I was under the impression from the reviews I read that she doesn't speak English. Her assistant Yira who is no longer with her did all the translation for her. Well that's a lie. Yily speaks English. She came in the room to mark me up and said hello beautiful. She said what you want lipo? Of course...lol...and just starts marking me up with out me having to tell her where. She didn't ask to see a "wish pic" I guess she just looked at my body and saw what I needed. I told her don't forget my hips. She said of course not and marked them with an X and circle.
Yily is nice. Point blank she walks in the room and says hello to everyone. My experience with her is a 10. The only thing I didn't like is that she had like 11 girls scheduled that day but hey it didn't affect my results so funk it.
My hands are getting shaky. I'll update you guys later with a full review of Cipla and this "Recovery House" in staying at...smh
I'm so not happy with my results right now. My butt has gotten smaller. My hips are damn near none existent. I don't know what's going on. I would be so pissed if I went through all this shit for nothing. My husband says I'm tripping I look good but it's not what I wanted. I think Yily having so many surgery that day is why she wasn't able to take her time with me and give me what I want. I don't think she did my surgery by her self. I she did one side and somebody did the other because my right side is definitely more defined than my left. It's not really evident but you know how we be. I can tell and when I point it out to people they see it too...smh
I know I'm suppose to give it some time but I'm a very impatient person I see a lot of girls who came out of surgery with nothing. Butt was still small and 3 months later that joint is popping, so I'm thinking since I came out of surgery with a booty that 3 months from now it won't be as popping?!? Idk...This recovery is nerve wrecking and has been a struggle.
I'm still wearing my stage 1 faja because I ordered my stage 2 and they sent me the wrong one...smh..so I have to wait for the exchange. I had the stage 1 taken in 2 inches so it's okay for now but I need more compression for this tummy. It's so swollen.
Something told me to go to Cabral..I wanted a one and done. I'm not about that round 2 life but something kept pulling me back to Yily. When I found out she had a bunch of girls schedule the same day as me that should of been a sign to walk across the hall to Cabral and see if he has space. I believe he only had 5 girls schedule but 5 is better than 11...smh...anywhoo girls I'll keep you posted with my results. Help me pray that they get better. I REALLY don't wanna go through this again but I will :-(
Finally got my stage 2 garment
I tried to take some pics in my bathroom mirror but it just wasn't working...lol..I didn't have the right lighting, I didn't know what to do with my hands you can just tell I'm not a flick it up type of chick...smh...but ill post what I have. Dolls keep praying to the fluffing Gods for me...:-)
How can I be mad at Yily??? She removed every inch of fat from my upper body. Stomach is not extremely fat because of swelling but it's getting there. No back rolls no fat by my bra straps....NOTHING. Even with the swelling I'm in a small...I just can't get over that. I'm still a large down bottom. I never knew my thighs were so damn big...I mean I like them but damn. This boy shorts faja be cutting off my circulation. I measured my butt the other day and it's a 45... I don't think it's that big but I mean the measuring tape don't lie. That was with the faja off...I'm still hoping I fluff so my hips come out more. I still have those dents. That she marked with an X and circled..!!
I'm in better spirits, I appreciate what Yily did for me. I'm still upset with the situation because I know she could of done better but it is what it is. Smooches
I should of went to Cabral. I remember seeing reviews from Yily dolls that say their hips were gone after surgery but I ignored all that shit. Put it off like they did something wrong. Yily is really a hit or miss. She's not as consistent as Cabral. I don't know what he does but I have never heard one review that said their butt or hips went away. They come off the OR like bam. My stomach was still big after surgery...6 weeks post op it's still not flat. I try pinching it to see if it's fat but it's just swollen. Everything was just to perfect in my journey. Something had to go wrong right...lol...I am contemplating R2 it will definitely be with the King. I'm not even going to give Yily a chance to rectify the situation and possibly have the same outcome. I'll pass. I had a change of heart like a week before I left but I ignored it because I already gave her my $300 so I didn't want to forfeit that money. We ain't balling over here, I can't be wasting money. I just reminded myself that she was the one from the beginning don't change now. I'm really wishing I did. My friend says I'm being dramatic but this process is no joke. I feel like I left my family for nothing. It looks like I did some squats and they paid off. Anywhoo!
To all my lovely dolls that are going to her I wish you the best. I wouldn't want any of you to feel the way I feel EVERY DAY! It's not fun at all.
I'm not alone
Oh I wanted to tell my Pre-op dolls that WHEELCHAIR SERVICE IS A MUST. I can't stress that enough I called myself try a walk through Jfk and wanted to fall out on the floor. God was looking out cause I met an attendant in the elevator and I asked him for directions to my connecting flight...that shit was like miles away. I told him I'm suppose to have wheelchair service he looked at my boarding pass and was like. I was waiting for you..why would you do that....lol...After that long as ride I was tired of sitting but I definitely wouldn't have made it to my flight if I didn't get the wheelchair. So please get wheelchair service
Tipping: I didn't tip much the only time I tipped anyone was at the airport. The guys that wheeled me around they were great. I didn't tip the driver because it was the owner of the RH I didn't tip the nurses because they didn't do anything extra for me I was basically taking care of myself. The reviews I read before I left said make sure you tip but I'm not gonna tip someone just because. I tipped the massage lady but come to think of it I shouldn't have. She charged $35 per massage and them shits hurt...lol..I didn't feel better at all after those things. Just my opinion though. I'm not cheap I just didn't see the need to throw away my hard earned money. TTYL dolls!!
Still praying to the fluffing Gods!!
3 months post op
I have reached the 3 month mark. Not much has changed though. I still have the sharp pains and numb feeling in my back, my sides hurt to touch. I'm on and off with my faja because it really puts to much pressure on my sides even with the foam also i sit all day at work and it just gets really uncomfortable. So i mostly wear it to bed. My husband said i get up like i'm pregnant..lol..that's cause if i lay on my back i can't just hop right up i have to do it with ease, i feel like i'm going to tear my skin or something, it really gets stiff and it hurts.
My booty, my husband says it has gotten bigger, It hasn't gotten bigger as far as projection but it has gotten wider to me. My waist is still stuck at a 30, i don't think it's going to get any smaller. My butt was a 46 now it's a 44, I still feel soreness at the top of my butt, i think that's the only place she put the fat because the bottom doesn't hurt at all. Like if i try to run it really hurts up there and if I sit down too fast it hurts. This process is something else, i am just taking one day at a time. I was really looking forward to waking up 3 months post op like WOW! but that didn't happen..lol..I think it's not happening because i'm obsessing over it, like literally waking up everyday checking and hoping it comes. It's like when you're trying to get pregnant and it just won't happen, then when you finally say F it, you're knocked up. I'm trying to trick my mind to say F it but it's not working..lol I am kind of content with my results. I mean I look good, i do it's just not what i wanted or should i say expected.
My tummy is flatter than it was but i still have this pouch above and under my belly button. it's nothing drastic i just don't understand why it's there. i'm hoping it's swelling. I convinced one of our RS sisters to do this 7 day diet thing so i'm hoping that helps take away the fat in my stomach if that's what it is. I really think it's just swelling though, because i'm the same weight i was pre-op, 198. i wanna drop some pounds anyway, my neck and arms looks fat and i don't like it. I haven't really been eating to crazy i try to eat small portions but i be so hungry. I ate a pack of oatmeal and some strawberries at 8 am and by 9 am my stomach was growling...smh..I guess my body needs more the nutrients and proteins cause it's heeling so i guess i'll eat a little more than what i'm doing now. I just can't get carried away.
ALL IN ALL EVERYTHING IS GOOD, FOR NOW UNTIL I GO ON IG AND SEE A CABRAL BARBIE AND GET DEPRESSED AGAIN :-(
3 1/2 months post op booty or lack there of ????
5 months post op....feeling okay!
I think im good on a R2,my body is starting to come together a little and if I start going to the gym it can get better. This recovery is an emotional roller-coaster. There is really no way to prepare for this stuff. I still wish my tummy was flatter, my waist is still at 30 and my butt is a 45...but im FINALLY okay with that (for now).
Yily is a very sweet person, she was nice and treated me like she's known me forever. However her skills have dropped tremendously. I don't have a big butt, my waist is at a 30 and my tummy isn't flat. I know more than a few girls that have the same issues as myself. Wondering when the "fluff" will come. I rated her not worth it because she did not fulfill her job at a satisfactory level and now I may have to go through this journey all over again.