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Summer 2016 - From Apple Shape to Hourglass (Plus Size) - Dominican Republic

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Hello lovely ladies of RealSelf So I am finally...

HourglassHoney
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Hello lovely ladies of RealSelf

So I am finally here and ready to pull the trigger on this long, long, LONNNNNG wait for the Brazilian Butt Lift surgery. I have been thinking about this for over two years and I just can't wait for a tomorrow I cannot see anymore.

I am a plus sized 29 year old woman. No kids. About 5'3, 5'4 250 lbs. How depressing.
And that is after some weight loss (more on this later if anyone is interested).
I am top heavy. All my weight is in my breast, arms, and wide waist.
I have been unhappy about my body for as long as I could remember. I can't tell you how long I believed the shape of my body no matter if I'm bigger or slimmer has been the source of my discontent. I have it in my head that a smaller waist would be the answer to all my problems. I hear thats not true but in my case I'm pretty sure its a great headstart. You ladies do not know how much of my life I've stunted being emotionally tormented by what I look at in the mirror.

I've come here to vent honesties I could never say out loud to anyone in person.

While I believe diet and exercise is the end all be all, the shape of my figure would make the world of difference. For this, I am planning to have my surgery done late June 2015 and I will not be looking back.

I am not telling a soul, not even my mother. I have moved in with my family temporarily and am using the funds I saved to do this. After much deliberation, I have chosen Dr. Yily for her spectacular work on waists. I will need a tummy tuck but I will not be doing that in DR. I will continue losing weight and working out and do it safely in the states.

This is going to be my first round of maybe too. My priorities are SNATCHED WAIST first, butt second. I am not looking for a BIG butt (although many girls look so amazing with that). I don't want that kind of attention outside of a realm I can control. I want her to add to my butt but its more about shape. Save me from my flat back self. Give me a full, sweetly shaped upside down heart butt and eliminate as much of my wide waist as possible safely.

I want to buy my plane ticket tonight and I am sending my deposit in the morning.. but the only reason I haven't is because I want to make sure my cursed BMI is not going to be a problem. I am waiting for hte go ahead from Dr. Yily. Don't get me wrong. I am going to eat a pristine clean diet and exercise until my surgery to get down as much as I can for better results. But if the BMI is a problem, I will have to cancel until much later. As a student I don't have much free time to travel.

Never mind the fact that I am hiding this from everyone who sees me every day. They just know I faithfully workout and diet.

I will document every step of this journey on here and hopefully help someone out there who is lurking amongst the many reviews the way that I have been doing on and off for the past couple of years.
Feel free to ask me anything. I am happy to help and am just grateful RealSelf exists. Keeping this as my secret is unnerving as it is. I feel lucky you all are here for support.

With love,
The (soon to be, god help me) Hourglass Honey

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May 7, 2015
Hi Hun, excited to see your enthusiasm in the surgery. I would recommend putting trust into at least one person who is close to you about this journey. It will make it a lot easier, and you will have someone to go to if you need help. I recently got my quote from Yily, and I am "plus size" as well 5'8" 205. She said that no one will operate in Cipla on a patient with a BMI of over 35. I have recently lost 30 lbs, and she said the closer to my ideal weight the better the results will be. I understand the want to get it done sooner then later. But to be on the safe side I would try and lower your BMI. Good luck, I am excited to see your journey :-)
May 7, 2015
Thank you doll! As it stands I don't have anyone in the position to go with me and my whole life right now is school. I don't know who I would tell right now People in my life love me but this is so intensely personal for me.. Hmm. I can't ignore your good advice though . I will keep thinking on it but for now mums the word Yes I absolutely have to lower my bmi or I can't get it done So its about to get real. I want to see how far I can get myself with this carrot dangling and perhaps even if I don't qualify yet, I should be a lower bmi then than I am today. Guess it comes down to how bad I really want this Thank you for following my journey with me.
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May 7, 2015
Hi hourglasshoney. I truly hope your dreams get realized. Are you getting a tummy tuck? I read that you do not have any children as yer. Wouldn't liposuction alone work?
May 7, 2015
That's right I don't have any kids but the way I carry my weight, so much in my tummy, it eventually started to create a pooch. When the volume of fat is removed, there will be loose(r) skin remaining. That needs to be surgically removed. However a procedure like that I want done in the states where the standards cannot be messed with it else, where I can find a surgeon who will take special care based on experience because my skin can scar badly. I need an artist for that. Finally I plan to continue to lose weight and get fit. I don't want to cut until I'm near that goal. I just know my shape will always be tragic without intervention and Lily can create the gorgeous waist of my dreams. Hopefully my skin won't be too bad in the interim.
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May 8, 2015
you certainly have everything planned out! :-) I will be following your journey. cheers!!
May 7, 2015
Hey doll when I started my journey I was 240 back in September now I am 200. I'm leaving in two weeks to have lipo and a breast lift with yily. It's hard,but I'm sure you can do it. Wish you best of luck :)
May 7, 2015
You are exactly where I hope to be soon. Are you sharing your journey on here? In would love to hear every little bit about it! I hope it is everything you are hoping for any more
May 8, 2015
yes I will I'm leaving in two weeks
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May 7, 2015
Good luck on your journey!
May 7, 2015
Thank you! ❤
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May 7, 2015
Much blessings and you can do it
UPDATED FROM HourglassHoney

First Roadblock. Me Against My BMI

HourglassHoney
So unsurprisingly I called Yily's office and after details of where to send my deposit and things they explained that my BMI has to be 35. Its about 40 right now.

Its more than me wanting to do the surgery sooner. I'm in a rigorous school program and we only have 2 breaks, each one week long. If I don't keep my late June date, I won't have another opportunity until close to the end of the year I believe. After that I don't know when I would get off time again or if I'd even have the funds by then.
I also feel so let down my self with goals that are too far for me to really see. I need something tangible to hope for.

Now I can drop quite a bit of weight with focus because Im a special kind of fiend but 5 BMI points? I don't know. Is it crazy to try?

But they did say if I couldn't come on the scheduled date that I could reschedule

Part of me wants to just pay that deposit so that its real. I have a way of making things happen at crunch time. Although emotionally I feel I just need this change


I won't be doing a tummy tuck even though I probably need one because I prefer to do that within the US and after I have reached my fitness goals. I plan to train and go all of the way to Bad Bish Kingdom lol

I consider this bbl a much needed shaping not to be misconstrued with weight loss

These plane tickets are not cheap though. I can reschedule a surgery date but I wouldn't be happy losing out on $500+ for a plane I never took. And I'm worried the longer I wait to buy plane tickets, the higher the cost.

Anyway tonight I'm looking into getting a new passport and start making a list of what I will need/begin ordering them.

Hand to sky, I will be transforming into the girl I see in my head.

5 BMI points? No problem.. ????????????????????

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May 8, 2015
Aghh I did hear yily was strict on bmi these days. How many pounds does 5 points translates to?
May 8, 2015
For my height according to the Mayo Clinic calculator it would be 50 lbs. :( did you hear my heart break over the internet? Now 30 lbs I know I can pull off. 50 is a lot in such a short period of time. Let's see what happens!
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May 8, 2015
Omg that's hard. What diet plan will you use? A friend of mine tried the military diet and lost six pounds first week. It's not crash dieting either
May 8, 2015
I am going to make a dedicated post on this later today. Yes it's going to be rough. It's been half a day. So far so good. Lol!
May 13, 2015
How did u make the money tdeposit?
May 14, 2015
Directly from my bank- wired
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May 14, 2015
So you bmi can be at 35???
May 14, 2015
Yes. No more than 35
UPDATED FROM HourglassHoney

Gastric Sleeve, Weight loss Plan & More

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First of all I'm highly skeptical of my ability to lose just enough weight in two months. I really thought about it and did some math. I will find out when my other week long break is because that is something I'd more likely pull off.

My other concern is I'm obsessed with the idea of a fabulous tiny waist in proportion to the rest of my body. I am more concerned with this than a big booty. I am all about that silhouette honey. I don't want to put my all into this with mediocre results so I want to get a lot of this fine myself for better results

I am all about the follow through right now so I'm getting the ball rolling. I had to call Yilys office and ask for deposit information like three separate times (days). The English speaking girl finally emailed me the complete info.
If the bank is open tomorrow I am going to send my deposit in for my tentative current date.

Now the weight loss in itself. I secretly had the weight loss surgery a few years ago. I got the gastric sleeve. It was a fail. Well I did lose nearly forty pounds that never came back but that's somewhat negligible. My real issue is with depression. I don't sit and eat large meals before or after. But I do graze on the impulse of emotion which maintains my caloric intake. I don't even necessarily bother with junk or fast food but intake is intake.
Also the sleeve is a tool. Carb rich foods don't keep me as full for long which is conducive to grazing. Protein rich foods fill me up fast which I find a problem when I'm feeling sad and the act of chewing is undermined by being too full. Depression is something I have to actively manage. When I'm healthy, on meds or managing well I'm a force to be reckoned with. When I'm low, well.

My plan is to utilize my tool, the sleeve, as intended but train like I used to in my better days and monitor a restrictive diet I got from fitness folks and lifters.

I will be on a low calorie diet rich in protein and fat and very low in carbs. Each meal essentially will be meats and plenty of dark leafy greens. Fat and protein will fill up my sleeve fast in relatively small portions and it keeps me full way longer.
In addition I will use intermittent fasting which is essentially eating within a certain window of time daily. Its like a six to eight hour window so or example if I start getting my calories in at 10 AM, my last meal has to be eaten before 4 and 6 PM for the day. Its just a nice way to regulate your feeding and hormones etc. I've done it in the past. I have a nice clarity when I work out, get through my day. My current schedule will work well with this. For simplicity's sake I will keep my meals basic and just repeat them most days.
I will be drinking plenty of water although the next few days will suck so hard. When I drop all carbs and sugar, I end up needing to pee so often it's ridiculous. Then the more water you drink the more you get thirsty and so forth. That's the diuretic effect of the low carb thing at play. For this reason I won't be so hype about the initial drop in weight because it's artificial water weight. But it's still nice to see!

I'll be tracking my progress on an app I love called LoseIt on android. Logging all the food and the weigh ins will keep me on task although I think confiding in you guys will be even more effective.

With a very clean nutrition plan (I will be starting my vitamin supplements from now too) I know I can drop some nice weight. I won't feel that great until maybe a week from now as I adapt.

My bigger concern is the gym time. Now is not the time to go nice and easy but I also have to pay attention because eating lower carefully rationed calories means lower energy at first. I will be doing loads of cardio and some weight training. The time commitment alone makes me sad lol. But I'm at my wits end with this terrible relationship I have with my body. I want to be comfortable in the skin I'm in. I'm a smart person and I can get things done if I really want to so why not do this for myself

Reading these reviews and seeing everyone personal journey is so inspiring. I hope to contribute in a meaningful way in this community. I will try to keep showing up and hopefully I will have something beautiful to show ask of you lovely women out there sometime soon

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May 9, 2015
Hello Hourglasshoney I've been a lurker her as well for the past year and this will be my first post ever!!! I had struggled with my weight for years as well. Not because of my food intake but because I am not able to maintain those daily workouts. Some days I am not able to do anything else but WALK as a workout other days I am able to do a 30 min cardio! Just all depends on whether or not my body will cooperate with me. I also had the sleeve done 2 1/2 years ago and lost a total of about 80 lbs. I have managed to keep most of it off. My average weight now goes up and down on a daily basis (160-164) just depends on the day there is no rhyme or reason. And although I have been able to maintain this weight loss I still FEEL like I did at 245lbs! I see myself in the mirror and I am not happy with the way I look. That 245lbs girl I used to be is still looking back at me. I have a lot of excess skin that needs to be gone! I went from being a size 20-22 down to a size 8-10, although people say I look really good, what they don't see is all the skin I have to shove down into my pants and all the bulges hanging everywhere... it still gets very depressing! All that hard work and I CAN’T get rid of skin on my own! Can’t afford to have it done here… well no I take that back… It is VERY expensive to have it done here in the US and I would NEVER EVER spend that much on myself, even if I had a million dollars… I would just have to live with it. I don’t know why I set limits… (It’s not just for surgery) I set limits on my clothes, shoes, purses, products (I even set a lower limit on our house!) I know some people are going to say something about how can I set a limit on my life! ? I have had MANY surgeries over my life time and a few that were very close calls. One in particular was due to a Doctor that was more worried about his weekend in Tahoe then taking care of me! Thank God I was able to change doctors in time to a doctor that WAS more concerned about my health than his weekend plans! Things can and will go wrong whether it be here in the US or in the DR… be honest about YOUR medical conditions, medications and answer their question TRUETHFULLY! You have to trust the doctor YOU chose and the rest is in GOD’s hands. Most of my problem is around the waist and my flank areas! I am top heavy although I have seemed to have lost most of the volume in my breast (a lift or implants might help BUT) my concern seems to focus on my hourglass – less shape! I will be having a TT, Lipo on the flanks/waist and a small BBL (just to fill in some of my FLAT butt, but not too big!) LOL I too was looking into Dr Yilly but the communication between emails and the amounts of surgery she does a day, etc… was just stressing me out! I’m sure she is a FINE DOCTOR and really GREAT at what she does. Her results have been amazing! But ultimately I chose to go with Dr Almonte who has also had amazing result! I also looked into Dr Robles, Dr Baez and Dr Duran… (I never got any responses from Duran or Baez!) My surgery is sch for Aug and I’m looking into airline tickets now before prices go up! I hope things work out for you on your schedule. Keep your motivation with your workouts and your intake (I know how this can seem overwhelming) but it is what has helped me keep my weight off! I have told my 20 (something) year old son and have the support of my husband. I thank God for that. I look forward to reading your progress and hope you find someone that you can confide in... I will be praying for you!
May 10, 2015
I am so touched that you shared this with me. I relate to so much of what you said it hurts. Congratulations on the weight loss you really did great with it. I know ask about being top heavy. I lost volume in my breast too and it really effects your self esteem. I will need a beast lift and tummy tuck when my journey is over. In the meantime I am working on treating myself better, allowing nicer gifts to myself because we ARE worth it. Who are we helping by demoting the self? There is no prize at the end of life for being small in presence, in thought, in spirit. Logically I know these things but when you spend so long feeling viewed as less than, you can buy into it. I refuse, sis, and I hope this journey you're on inspires you to do the same I will be having surgery maybe two months after you. I'd love to keep up with your updates if you have a blog on here. Thank you for all the kind words
June 3, 2015
I feel u sis.I'm depressed and i now weigh 240.I want to lose weight but i want my waist snatched.
June 3, 2015
I live by that now also work hard and treat yourself to nice things
August 17, 2015
I too am sleeved. So I can understand on so many levels. Thanks for sharing sis- and you can do it! Sending you positive energy!