28 Y/O Mother of 3 in Need of a Total Mommy Makeover - Dominican Republic

We have been together for about 13 years so he knows how badly I want these procedures done. He is in full support that I get what I want done but he does not want me to go to dominican republic at all.. I understand where he is coming from because I know he is very concerned especially because we know of 3 women that died in D.R for their surgeries. But I told him those three girls saw the same man (cabral) I wont even call him a doctor because the fact is he is not licensed. I reassured him that I believe I will be alright in Dra. Yily De Los Santos' hands because I have yet to hear any bad news about her. So we got into an argument about this whole thing. I would like to save a lot of money and at the same time I know the risks.. The risks are the same wherever anyone decides to get their surgeries. I have put myself aside long enough. He told me years ago when I cried about the two boys arguing about what gender I might be, that I can definitely get my boobs done after we buy a house. It has been 5 years since we bought our house. And in those five years I have decided to upgrade our home. And now that I want to get the surgery I want done(not boobies instead booties), he is making me feel bad about it.. That I should just wait til next year and save some more so I can get it done here in the U.S. As much as I needed done because I am a washed up mother who is all about her kids, work, and also the boyfriend, you can imagine how much it would cost to get the works here. I need Breast implants, full tummy tuck, and a Brazilian butt lift!! And that doesn't even include my spider veins (more like snakes) on my thighs and legs!!! Which is why ladies I am ashamed to put pics right now :( I will post pics when I can compare the before and after or closer to the surgery date.. I am hoping Feb or March. The reason why I am so stressed is because I can not find a doctor here I can afford. I have saved 12000 for what I thought BBL with a tummy tuck might cost here in sacramento ca.. But so far Ive seen a couple of surgeons here who quoted me over and I do not want to take a loan!! So to please my boyfriend and my pockets an option would be to get BBL first which is about 7000-8000 local.. But back to saving for the tummy tuck which will be about the same price 7000-8000 local.. Totaling 14000 to 16000.. But I will forever ask myself, why in the hell did you pay so much?

Its been so long since my last update but there was nothing to write about.. Same old work and kids.. Also, I am always on realself to check out a few reviews. My boufriend does not want me to travel abroad for this serious procedure.. Ive decided to just do a brasilian butt lift with a tummy tuck for now. But so far, all I've read about is good things about Dra. Yily. At the same time I've had a couple of consultations here in sacramento and the price for BBL and tummy tuck is ranging from 15000 to 18000!!! That is too expensive for me. I want to pay all cash but didnt plan on paying that much.

Hey everyone, thanks for all your support and motivation!! One thing I forgot to mention is how I really look now after having 3 kids.. I had flat EVERYTHING!! Chest, gut, and ass!!! Now I have flat chest and ass with a big gut!! More like the shape of a beer bellied man!! Lol.. My tummy and side legs have a lot of stretch marks... I will post pics soon.. Thank u guys for the support because everyone I know is telling me not to do it. If they only know why I need to do this. I need it for my own happiness and to feel confident again!! But with everyone here I dont feel so alone ;-)