POSTED UNDER Labiaplasty Reviews
23 Yrs Old, Labiaplasty
UPDATED FROM skylie123
2 months post
Labia update
skylie123January 11, 2016
$3,300
I am around the two month mark. At this time I am finally able to walk normal. I don't believe I have any swelling left. I still do not have ANY Labia present. It's safe to say I received a hack job. The constant sting has went away however touching the area is still brutal. I become very uncomfortable when driving, walking for long periods. I can not sit Indian style without pulling. It also still hurts to wipe after going to the bathroom. As I had mentioned, I'm not sure what the issue is with my clitoris but it still appears on its side and some tissue near it that was left behind is rock hard. I have since attempted to be intimate with my other half. This was absolutely devastating!! My decision to have this procedure has destroyed me physically and mentally. It's the worst decision that I've ever made. Ladies! Even if your surgeon has told you he/she performs hundreds of these, ask to see the proof!! When going for your consultation, bring photos of your expectations, along with written questions. Anything to make sure all parties are on the same page. Jumping into something like this has proven to be a complete sacrifice as I was much happier before the surgery. At this point, I am still suffering the repercussions and I don't believe it will ever get better.. I am going to start researching how and who to report my case to as I would never want to see this happen to another. Does anyone have experience contacting a lawyer or even state board?
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UPDATED FROM skylie123
1 month post
6 weeks
skylie123December 22, 2015
I had another check up yesterday. I am still in horrible discomfort.. I have read horror stories about how the pain/stinging never goes away. I am horrible scared for what is to come. Initially my vagina was separated very roughly to where I was almost in tears, and this isn't the first time. Questions answered to where my labia went. Apparently there was a miscommunication as to what my expectations were. I must mention I was told anything I had a problem with would be taken care of. I should be grateful for that but of course no one should have to go through it. All of the labia that was removed makes my clitoris look enlarged and "swelling" is making it look deformed. This has been an ongoing issue? As it wasn't like that up until recently. I did not have work done to this area. I won't be posting picture, as I can't even stand to look anymore. My surgeon is aware of my concerns. Which has gotten me nowhere, it obviously doesn't fix anything. This procedure is NOT something I would recommend before doing plenty of research about Labiaplasty and surgeon. Never go with someone that does not take the time to explain every single detail, before and after. Complications.. Anything. My experience has been horrid up until this point. From the beginning, when I felt like during the surgery my labia was being cut/ripped apart at the same time. I was in PAIN from the beginning and wonder why I'm still in pain now. I assume this was done with a laser.. I don't even know that much. Ladies, don't go through it unless you feel there is no other option. In my case, it has made me feel completely worse. It is obvious there are a ton of nerves in the area. This procedure isn't all about appearance. For some the labia play a great role in sexual experience as well. To speak for myself. I can say I would rather more labia than none at all. That was the expectation for my surgery! I didn't want anything hanging, I just wanted enough removed to not protrude passed my majora.
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December 24, 2015
I feel so bad that you're still in so much pain. This does not sound normal to me this far out. My doctor and I apparently had a "miscommunication" too, which was complete BS. He was specifically told which labia I wanted made smaller--not both. You are still healing, so please try to be patient and give it more time. I don't think you've been totally amputated from what I can see. I will say this again: Dr. Alter is a miracle worker. If you remain unhappy after the healing process, you can send him pictures, and he will advise as to a revision. I wouldn't advise against a labiaplasty; I would just stress the importance of finding an expert surgeon (my BIG mistake originally). Dr. Alter is one of (if not, the) best, he's honest, and he has a kind personality. What does your doctor say about the pain you're still experiencing?
December 24, 2015
Your correct about finding the perfect surgeon. I do think that any unexpected complications can be very crucial. I still have discomfort when using the bathroom. And separating my legs a little to far makes me throb sometimes. My surgeon is very optimistic, which is great. But How I feel is pretty alarming to me. I can't even put into words. I have read great things of Dr. Alter. Although I couldn't fathom. I hoped for the best and I don't think any further procedures are an option. At this point I'm still wondering if I will get regular sensation back. And any sexual desire.. I'm 23, imagine that.
December 24, 2015
Im 22 now had this happen to me at 15. Gonna regret it forever but gotta get on somehow. If you need a friend who understands and you need to vent... Hi [RS bleep] wishing you the best x
December 29, 2015
Thank you for commenting! Ike very interested in your experience! I feel like this is something I'm never going to overcome. Does the pain/tenderness ever go away? That is a huge concern. And I'm also curious to know if my sex life will ever be the same. At this point it seems like a long shot
December 29, 2015
I am so, so, so sorry for how you are feeling. Wish so much that I could help. You deserved so much better and I do believe that things will improve greatly for you. I do believe the pain will go away and you will feel better again despite it all. I know it sounds silly, but karma... something wonderful will happen to you to make up for this bad experience, and hopefully your surgeon gets what he deserves for how he treated you. You will be okay. Sending my support and my thoughts are with you!
UPDATED FROM skylie123
24 days post
24 days
skylie123December 5, 2015
I'm am feeling a lot of tightness after being on my feet, climbing stairs, driving ECT.. My majors still appear "stitched" to my major and looking chopped. I am still fairly sensitive. Actually slept on my belly for the first time but it didn't last long. I still feel most comfortable with a pillow between my legs. I take this as an indication I still have swelling to go down. I'm also still wearing leggings and sweatpants while waddling around. At this point I'm not pleased with the appearance what so ever but enjoying daily tasks without the discomfort of excess skin. As I am coming up on my one month anniversary I'm not thinking I will feel to normal at 6 weeks to begin excersicing or straneous activity
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November 22, 2016
Did you have the wedge or the trim? I feel like this about mine as well - no separation anymore
November 22, 2016
I had the trim method. I will say that things looked worse before they got better. All of the bumpy edges and "splits" came together. For a short time offer my surgery j couldn't tell what was what. For proper cleaning I used a squirt bottle and even that felt terrible. But this part is totally normal, things can look alarming and in most cases results are wonderful!
November 22, 2016
I had the wedge method - which has totally come apart. And my clitoris has been pulled down which I am so furious about, I never knew this would happen and I never wanted this to happen :-( oh well. What's done is done as they say.
November 22, 2016
I did read some of the horror stories and I was so hopeful it wouldn't happen to me. This is a huge leap for any woman and should be hamdled with the utmost care and respect. I was slam dunked and after my bill was paid, that's all I was. I'm just now a year out and I haven't been to a check up since my last review. It was a waste bc I was not going to even consider letting him touch me again altho info have tiny "dog ears" from the stitches. He thinks he did a fine job. I read his information and observed his accomplishments. I thought I made a good decision but people like this should not be allowed to get away with what they do. And the money I was charged disgusts me now
November 22, 2016
My doctor seems good and has been nice to me - he said at this stage my results look 'ok' so he isn't on a massive ego / power trip. He did me make a point of saying though 'you look better than you did before' which at this stage I would disagree with dramatically. I don't know if I will be able to afford the procedure with Gary Alter anyway and I do still trust my doctor to be honest I am just pissed off so pissed off and full of regret that I didn't understand how things would be moved around - thought I had read enough but obviously not. Feel so stupid!
November 22, 2016
It's great that you feel this comfortable with your doctor and I think an opinion such as that should be left to the individual that has to live with it. I missed much more classes than expected, and I had to work my butt off to get my grades back. Had I not worked so hard earlier in the semester I don't honk my instructors would've given me a chance to pass. I also walked around that campus like a duck for the remainder of the semester. What I went through is u describable and I never could've fathomed it would be so bad. I wasn't left with a centimeter of labia! May I ask how long ago you had your wedge method?
November 22, 2016
I had mine 6 weeks ago - but I can tell the tears won't heal because they are worse everyday. And my stitches are making me in actual agony - duck walk right back at ya! What a disaster x
November 22, 2016
P.s. I posted photos of mine as a question which shows I am pretty extra 'neat' as well... not sure what to make of it at this point
November 22, 2016
Have you asked you doctor about salt baths? I'm not sure if this does or does not slowly dissolve the stitches. I've also read about polysporien and different things that you could possible brainstorm with your doctor. I never got any insight into these things and i remember how tortured I was at six weeks. Im aware they can use glue and different things to help situations like this but I was also told and revisions shouldn't be made for atleast a year. My clitoris is def positioned differently from before the surgery which is an area he said he never touched (I believe him) I just associated it with the amputation of my labia
November 22, 2016
Sometimes it gets pulled down / repositioned with the tension to close the labia. I'm too scared to use epsom salts baths or anything incase it makes things fall apart even more although I pretty much know I will need a revision so might just forget that and focus on making myself more comfortable. I have been using hot compresses which seems to help with the sutures but every time I finally get rid of some a new layer appears slicing through like glass. Uuuurggh.
November 22, 2016
I viewed your pictures and I do see your area of concern which I associated with the method. Although I did think there were was to care for this, I honestly think you look great for six weeks. If you look at my pics I had a few scary areas as well. The repositioning will most likely remain as mine has but you will still continue to change I believe.
November 22, 2016
That makes sense why things would move. It wasn't explained to me although I asked specifically why I looked different. I rode it out with the stitches as well and I'm familiar with how tight they can feel. Also, it took me a little longer to realize I just needed to come to terms with it. I feel like a division is completely out of the question for me as there is nothing to work with but I don't feel your healing is the same case. All of these thoughts pretty much consumed me in the beginning. can you relate to any loss of feeling in the area?
November 22, 2016
At the moment things feel ok but I have not had sex or anything like that at all obviously - although things feel pretty much ok probably too much information but I can tell things are still 'responsive' considering I need to get around there to put aquaphor about 5 times a day! Although I did see one girl on here who said even though she had sensation she was not able to orgasm the same way as before as her clitoral glands had moved so I think maybe that will be the case for me not sure. I can't believe some people manage to have sex at 6 weeks - i still have sutures poking out - not attractive! Thanks for saying it looks good for now :-) will keep posted on here but at moment I am not confident. I know Gary Alter can reconstruct using tissue from around the area - if you ever felt you wanted to do it in future I think he would be the one. But I totally get you that one time and a bad time is more than enough for anyone
November 22, 2016
I have noticed his name mentioned several times and I would def look into him. I feel I'm lucky with what I have left. I couldn't imagine things being any worse! With the slight loss of feeling I already experience, I feel not being able to climax would be the next sacrifice. I'd say it took me around 3 months to feel/sit normal without a lot of pain. Also, to help with the feeling/lumps I messaged the area. I wasn't able to do that until around 2-3 months to pain to the touch.
November 22, 2016
I can't massage anything now because I am too scared it will all come apart even more! The only pain I have so far is the sutures which is driving me insane. And a strange sensation on the right side where wound has split which is making me tense up every few minutes like I am subconsciously trying to make it close - so annoying! Waiting game for now I guess
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