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33 Yrs Old, 2 Kids

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Very excited (and scared) to have surgery in two...

Tlq84
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Very excited (and scared) to have surgery in two weeks to remove this wrinkly belly. I am 5'3" and 115lbs (but barely any boobs so that's no adding any weight lol). I weighed about 165 in both pregnancies so my stomach has seen better days. I tend to hold weight in my belly too so I'm sure it's a combo of skin and fat there.
I am just pretty much trying to keep calm until the big day!!

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Kenneth A. Smith, MD, FRCSC

Kenneth A. Smith, MD, FRCSC

Certified Plastic Surgeon

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November 15, 2016
Make sure you have full time help for a week or two. Start arnica, bromelain and Vit C. A few days prior and keep do I g those things until the swelling is gone. Dr Andrew Weil has a great protocol if you Google his name & surgery. I got the guided imagery and that helped my nerves a lot visualizing the doctors talking about how easy the surgery was and how proud they were of the job they did
November 17, 2016
Thanks so much for you tips! I love Dr. Weil and I am a firm believer in positive visualization so I will definitely follow this advice!
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November 17, 2016
Good luck! Just don't try to do too much too soon and you'll do great!
November 16, 2016
Pls keep sharing you progress. I have about three weeks to go and am trying not to think about it too much!!
November 17, 2016
It's so hard wanting to think about it so I can get prepared...but also not think about it at all so I don't freak out! I'll definitely keep updating!
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November 16, 2016
im doing mine nov 29th if all goes well til then lol. you can be my healing partner since we are a day apart of surgery! ;)
November 17, 2016
yes for sure!! We can message healing tips on here while we lie doped up on our recliners :P
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November 17, 2016
hahaha sounds good!!
November 17, 2016
I am doing mine on the 28th as well!! We can all go through it together!
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November 17, 2016
woo hoo! crossing fingers and toes for all of us!
November 16, 2016
I felt like I was reading my own post when I read yours. My surgery is 12/8, and I completely understand your mixed feelings. I am super excited but at the same time kind of scared. I think this is a common theme but I figured I would chime in and let you know that you're not alone. I'll be checking in on you to see how your surgery went! I bet it'll turn out great, and you will be super happy you did it. Keep focusing on the reasons you are having it done :)
November 17, 2016
I just read your story! Yes, totally similar! I run, lift weights, but nothing is getting ready of this belly (or as my three year old calls it: his "old house" lol). I'll keep you posted on how it goes!
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November 17, 2016
I'm 16 days post-op and I was excited and EXTREMELY scared as well. The surgery was awesome. The most I felt was the IV. I don't even remember laying down after my epidural. Next thing I know, I was back in the recovery room. First week was the worst from having to sleep in a recliner and being sore. I'm still not completely standing vertical, but I feel and look great. Today I got my drainage tube removed. It is definitely worth it. Be prepared to be uncomfortable from having to sleep flexed. The first few days you'll definitely need help getting around. Walking is very important to prevent clots. You will be fine. Best wishes! No regrets!!!!
November 17, 2016
Thanks so much for that encouraging post!! I just love hearing stories like this!
UPDATED FROM Tlq84
1 day pre

Tomorrow is the big day

Tlq84
I'm checked in at the hotel now (attached to the surgical facility).
I'm so scared right now. The good bye with my kids was awful. They both were sobbing to leave me. Oh man, I feel so selfish doing this. My husband is supportive in that he's taking time off work etc, but he's not really a huge fan of me doing this :/ when I told him how scared I was today, he said, I could "always back out and not do it." Sigh.
My sister comes tomorrow morning and is staying with me for two nights. I hope I can sleep tonight.

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November 28, 2016
If anyone understands this post, it's me. I completely appreciate your fear. My husband wasn't big on it either with my surgery, but this is something you are doing for yourself and your hubbs will have fun being super dad for a week or two ;) Enjoy your time at the hotel tonight. I hope you brought your nursing pillow and your ginger and you'll be just fine. I can't wait to hear from you tomorrow when you're on the flat side. Take a gravol tonight if you need. You're going to do great!!! Congrats!!
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November 28, 2016
i ll be thinking of you! im less than 36 hours away also. i watched a youtube video on how they do this surgery..its pretty amazing but wow! its alot of work and not to be taken lightly so rest up and try to be calm. i know how you feel about the kiddos. i have a special needs 6 old daughter and a 4 yr old so its killing me to be so selfish in my mind. hugs and try to get some sleep tonight!
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November 28, 2016
Goodness exciting for you too!! Yay can't wait to see pictures!! We cannot think of ourselves as selfish. We are mothers. Every day of our lives, we think and do for others. It's okay to want good things for ourselves too. We are allowed to be happy! Xo
November 28, 2016
You watched a video on the surgery? ewww! I am so squeamish I couldn't do it! I looked up a drawing of one tho so I knew what they were going to do to me. i am excited to see what my belly looks like tomorrow when I see the surgeon. my incision looks fantastic i saw a little of it when I was looking at the drain tubes. i am home and resting! You are going to do great!
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November 29, 2016
thanks girls! cant wait til see your pics :) i go in at 930 am tomorrow
November 29, 2016
you are going to do great! I am just glad it's over so I don't have to think about it anymore!
November 29, 2016
you'll be great. I was truly imagining the worst. I was scared of being put to sleep, I was scared of waking up, but both were fantastic. I didn't even count down, I was talking about my husband's job and then remember nothing. I woke up gently in recovery and was in no pain. Maybe a slight bit of pressure in my abdomen (like sit ups), after a bit, I experienced some burning feeling (not terrible, not comfortable though), but they gave me something (haha no idea what) and it soften. Getting up out of bed into the wheel chair wasn't bad. You'll get used to hunching over and shuffling. I would say I'm more uncomfortable than I am in pain if that makes any sense.
November 29, 2016
I was so mad when I they woke me up in recovery! they didn't let me wake up on my own I don't think I was only in there for like 30 min! I was so hard asleep that I wanted punch the nurse that woke me up because all I wanted to do was sleep! haha! and then the Dr. told my boyfriend to get me up every hour and walk, so now i can only sleep for an hour at a time. I told him if he wakes me in the middle of the night every hour I will kill him.
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November 29, 2016
oh man walking every hr?! i dont know about that lol. dont blame you if you kill him jk. i wake up from surgies all different each time it seems. so we shall see how it goes this time lol. its midnight where im at and i have to wake up in 5 hours.... ugh took a xanax tonight to help me sleep... its starting to work. nighty night!
November 29, 2016
You'll be great today!!! Thinking of you!!!!!
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November 30, 2016
well i made it! hurting but i made it! the muscle repair is no joke! and i paid extra for medicince to help the pain internally.
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November 28, 2016
You're out of surgery now!! Probably feeling pretty groggy. Can't wait to hear from you! I'll bet you did so great!!!
November 28, 2016
How are you? I just got home. Not in pain but I'm sore! Ansn suuuuper high at the moment! Haha
November 29, 2016
I had the same thoughts before my surgery I felt so selfish about it, but I really do think it will help my self esteem! I am jealous you guys got hotel rooms! I love hotels!
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November 29, 2016
And how you feel is important and completely valid, good for you mama!! :) yes there is a beautiful hotel connected to the surgeons clinic so we literally get wheeled from recovery room, through a door and into the hotel room. He like all of his tummy tuck patients to be super close for the first 24 hours. It's comforting for us too! How are you feeling so far?
November 29, 2016
I'm feeling really good actually. I need help getting out of my char and stuff but I don't have much pain just sitting here, and when I walk around the pain isn't terrible! I lifted up my binder and saw my incision lol it's not as scary as i thought it was going to be. I see peoples on here and they look so bad! I got to the point where I had to stop looking at peoples pictures because it make my tummy upset looking at the wound.
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Day of treatment

I made it!

Tlq84
Hey everyone! Thanks so much for your comments!! I meant a lot to me!

I'm here in bed now in the hotel. I've been back and forth dozing. I've done two short walks around now (I don't mind the walk but getting comfortable again/the binder adjusted is quite a pain). My sister is being a huge help. I've had toast and a banana, tylenol early and an opioid of some kind with gravol, so i'm feeling ok, just a burning/pulling sensation, with a little lower back pain because of the incision.
I think everything went well, i haven't snapped a pic (an honestly, i'm to queasy to look)

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November 28, 2016
Amazing!! I've been looking for your update every hour I swear haha!! Welcome to the flat side my friend! How many grams did he remove? Get lots of rest now!
November 29, 2016
haha that's what I thought with you! I was like: I must know how she is!!!!

I'm trying to remember what Pam said about what he took off (it was the only time that I felt faint/nauseous when got back to the bedroom and that's when she said it). The number that comes to my is 270, but what I do remember is that is what enough for a sour cream tub lol
Just out of curiosity, when were you able to get up and back down comfortably by yourself? I know my husband will help me, but I feel so guilty that he'll also be wrangling the babes. Once Im up I can shuffle myself to pee but the initial sitting up feels like I need someone
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November 29, 2016
Yes I had 636 grams, 2 sour cream tubs lol! I'm so happy for you, honestly I can't wait til tomorrow when you see your belly for the first time. What hotel room are you in 103? That was mine. The corner suite. Such a beautiful room!! I was able to get out up and down by myself when I got home. At the hotel I had help the day of surgery and the day after. I think there was once that I got out of bed myself though. It wasn't necessarily comfortable but it happened. You have a recliner at home right? You'll be fine with that. I suggest sleeping in the recliner until the worst of the muscle repair pain is over. For me it was 3 nights in the recliner. Then. I moved to my bed with a plethora of pillows around me propping me up every which way. Congratulations on coming this far! Now you get to relax and recover :)
November 29, 2016
welcome to the flat side! i don't have any pain and my binder isn't that tight so no I am scared that he didn't pull the skin tight enough.... i ate some yogurt a piece of toast and a protein shake
November 29, 2016
I'm sure you're just tough and have good pain management and that's why you don't feel it ;) we did it!
November 29, 2016
my binder isn't really that tight and I put my had down and felt my belly button... it seems higher than it was, and my tummy feels squishy still. I guess I was thinking it would feel like a trampoline LOL
November 29, 2016
oh my gad, you're brave, I haven't felt a thing lol
November 29, 2016
Well I wanted to see what my tummy felt like. Lol
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November 29, 2016
Lol too funny. I was way to scared to look or see anything. Even when the nurse changed my bandage the next day, I could barely look down. I was so nervous to see the changes. You're brace to go fishin around in there blind haha! Congrats to you both, yahoo!!
November 29, 2016
That's awesome! I'm so thankful to you for posting right away. It helps all of us Mommas who are awaiting our surgery dates. Thank you and I hope you recover nicely :)
November 29, 2016
Ok that's good to know. I have a recliner, but I just realized now we should have splurged for an electric lol. Oh well, hubby will have to pop me up and down for the time being. I'm in 101 :) It's really lovely. i was just telling my sister I want to do a girls weekend here soon! Did you feel a 'burning' pain at all at the incision area? And were your drains filling up lots? I only have one, but it's not filling fast at all. And good lord, my lower back from lying like this is actually what's bothering me the most.
November 29, 2016
I just emptied my drains, 30 out of the right and 26 out of the left after 12 hours. I don't have any back pain which I am so thankful for! It seems like everyone has some! I might later on when my back gets tired of being bent over.
November 29, 2016
hmm i'm really wondering about my drainage scenario, it's barely filling and I only have one...
November 29, 2016
I think that it's ok to not drain! Some people even do drainless ones!
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November 29, 2016
Interesting, only 1? I wonder why he only decided to do 1. My lower back was the worst part. Absolutely the worst. It was actually the part that was making me most nauseated. The back pain was overwhelming for me. It didn't even allow me to complain about the dang surgery itself lol. Piggy back Tylenol and Advil for the back pain. I attempted a heating pad, and it made the pain worse. So weird. I don't recall feeling any burning per say. The incision hasn't bothered me at all to date, for me it's been the abdominal muscles. Like the most extreme after workout pains in the world. That last 2 weeks hah! Every day gets easier. :)
November 29, 2016
I'm going to ask about why only one, but I'm assuming it's because he only took out "one sour cream container" ?! lol