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Surgery cancelled
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Got some bad news today. They found something on...
WhoDatMomFebruary 27, 2013
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Got some bad news today. They found something on my mammogram. My gyn has already seen the films and is very concerned based on where the mass is. He has scheduled a sonogram and an MRI to get a better look at it and figure out next steps. I have a lot of mixed emotions at this point, mostly scared about what the outcome of all this could be. My TT surgery has obviously been postponed for the time being. I've decided that this is going to be my last post here- my priorities and focus have changed so I want to say thank you, good luck and happy healing to all of you wonderful ladies.
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Went for my pre-op testing and pre-admission...
WhoDatMomFebruary 25, 2013
Went for my pre-op testing and pre-admission paperwork today. No big deal, basically vital signs and two tubes of blood, then answering medical history questions with one of the nurses. Who, by the way, was a year out from her OWN TT with hernia and muscle repair, and was excited to share her story. I wasn't expecting her to be so supportive and reassuring and open about her own experience- and she was so excited for me on top of all that! I had been having kind of a crummy morning and felt rushed and stressed by the time I got to the hospital, and sitting and chatting with her really made a huge difference. It's funny how God puts people like that in your life just when you need them.
Have a few more things to pick up before surgery including Hibiclens to clean my belly with starting this Wednesday.
Any recommendations for a good brand of dry shampoo?? My surgeon uses drains and I can't shower until they are pulled, eeeeeyew, lol.
Have a few more things to pick up before surgery including Hibiclens to clean my belly with starting this Wednesday.
Any recommendations for a good brand of dry shampoo?? My surgeon uses drains and I can't shower until they are pulled, eeeeeyew, lol.
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February 26, 2013
I wonder if you can wash your hair in the sink since you will be hunched over a bit anyway?
February 26, 2013
If it was shorter I probably could...but it's about 8 inches past my shoulders. My BFF is coming to help out the day after I get home from the hospital so if all else fails I bet she could wash it in the sink for me- somehow I don't see my poor hubby playing hairdresser, lol.
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Busy day today! Ran errands, hit the gym, had a...
WhoDatMomFebruary 20, 2013
Busy day today! Ran errands, hit the gym, had a playdate with my youngest little guy and realized that two weeks from today I won't be doing any of that stuff. It's happening! I am nervous and excited all at once...and counting the days! No cold feet but it's finally starting to feel real. Then I got a call from my PS's nurse just to check in with me since I am TWO WEEKS OUT today (squeeeeel!) from surgery. Reminded me of the no-no's- no aspirin, ibuprofen, fish oil, herbal supplements, or vitamin E from here on out- and also to check and make sure I had called to schedule my pre-op testing at the hospital. Other than that... I've bought my supplies, rented a power lift/recliner chair, and my BFF will be coming to stay with us the first week to help with the kids and generally taking over while I am out of commission. So blessed to have her- we have no family here and none who are able to fly or drive in to help out otherwise. I am hoping that her being here will get me through the first/roughest stage of recovery. I had my gallbladder out almost two years ago and I remember that the first few days really sucked...hurt so much to cough, move around suddenly, etc. so I am hopeful that the TT with MR and hernia repair won't be too much worse than that was. Why do I have this crazy feeling like I'm forgetting something important??!? Also, the nesting has gotten a little cray-cray. Cleaned out my closet last night and made a drawer for post-surgery comfy clothes- all my favorite soft yoga pants, tank tops, jammie pants and granny-style undies- where I won't have to bend or squat to get them. I randomly started to put together shelves last night (by myself, because my husband didn't understand why it needed to be done right THEN, lol) to organize supplies in the basement. See, I told you the nesting around here's gotten a bit out of hand!
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February 21, 2013
I have to agree with Linda here. I understand everyone is different and deals with/prepares for things differently, but I must say this prep list is a bit overkill. I haven't had my surgery yet, and I'm sure a lot of people that haven't done it yet would agree that this can be a little intimidating. I find it interesting that the "community manager" had to intervene when I actually appreciated reading Linda's post- it helped calm my nerves after reading WhoDat's post (I am scheduled in a week and don't have half that stuff). I also wouldn't call it "throwing stones" when Linda is simply telling people that a lot of this to do list/prep stuff is NOT necessary.
February 21, 2013
I forgot to mention- as an RN myself, your advice about staying overnight after surgery can be a little intimidating for those not in the medical field. Scaring people into thinking it is somehow unsafe to go home after surgery because they may get "into trouble" is not exactly the best advice. Research actually shows that patients recover faster when they are up and moving in the comfort of their own home.
February 21, 2013
Apparently I must sound like one of those horrible people who tell every pregnant woman their most awful story about giving birth. I promise that my intention was truly the opposite. I was nervous and a little overwhelmed about this surgery back when I wrote that post-
wondering if I was really ready and could handle the downtime and recovery. It was really helpful to me at the time to try and put to paper what I was thinking and come up with a plan of action. It's not meant to be intimidating or scary and I truly apologize as that seems to be how it came across to you. Best of luck to you with your upcoming surgery.
February 22, 2013
I do want to clarify two things here...first, my particular PS requires his patients to stay overnight in the hospital, so in my case that part is not really my call to make. Second, my comment in a prior entry about "getting into trouble" was in reference to non-hospital surgical settings that perform major procedures, and had nothing to do with recovery at home vs. in a hospital after the surgery is completed. In retrospect I could have been clearer in my meaning, but I never stated or insinuated that going home the same day of surgery is unwise or unsafe. There are quite a few documented cases of patients having major elective procedures (i.e. plastic surgery) in environments OUTSIDE of a hospital who experience significant complications during surgery that cannot be adequately addressed in a private surgery center. This is a topic of discussion at every surgical conference I've ever attended because it primarily is a question of patient safety. Hemorrhage and anesthesia complications are probably the most common complications and either typically results in emergency transport to the nearest hospital. I've worked in a surgical ICU setting for almost 15 years and have seen these cases time and again- and so no, I don't think it's ideal to have a major procedure, such as abdominoplasty with herniorrhaphy (my particular case) in an environment other than a hospital, where every type of backup is available.
February 23, 2013
Hey there! Almost time for you! Woo-hoo! Just want you to know I appreciate reading your thoughts. One thing I noticed about this site is there is so many different variations of preparation and recovery. (Some people have no drains or no compression.... others have them for weeks and even months!) Each doc recommends their own things. Better to plan for as much as possible! I will use your list (as well as other's) as a helpful guide. It's all about your own comfort! Can't wait to see how your journey goes! =)
February 23, 2013
Thank you FitChick. There are lots of great lists out there and most of the stuff on mine is culled from others who've been through this already. I think it's great that someone came up with the idea to have all of this info in a community setting and I've really enjoyed reading everyone's experiences and feedback. Looking forward to seeing how yours goes as well- you're not too far off after me! :)
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I am sorry to hear this news:( Â Stay positive and we will all hope and pray for the best outcome. Â We are here for your support if you need it so please reach out to us.