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Toby Mayer Rhinoplasty - Beverly Hills, CA
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Hello everyone! I have been wanting to get my nose...
hi101April 4, 2015
$9,700
Hello everyone! I have been wanting to get my nose done since I was 12 years old; I am now 18. I have my second appointment with Dr. Toby Mayer in Beverly Hills. I was just wondering if someone could share his/her experiences with this doctor, or any recommendations for a good plastic surgeon in the LA area. I have noted that Grigoryants is a good plastic surgeon, but his work seems too cookie cutter for my taste. I also kinda liked Ghavami's work, but then I have been noticing a flood of bad reviews lately. He appears to be lowering the bridge too much. Thanks for your thoughts on this matter.
As an aside, I plan on getting my nose done the first week of July.
As an aside, I plan on getting my nose done the first week of July.
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UPDATED FROM hi101
My rhinoplasty is on Wednesday.
hi101July 7, 2015
I am pretty scared but excited. I picked the plastic surgeon that I felt does the best work. But what if I am that one that goes wrong? How do I cam my nerves
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July 7, 2015
Wait, did you end up canceling your surgery?
July 8, 2015
I did! And to be frank, I am glad that I did. So, what if my nose is a little overprojected?! From the front view, it fits my face very well. My whole face is asymmetrical and this fits that. If you put something super straight on something with crooked features, it won't look right. In addition, i was too scared that I would have these weird warps that almost all nose jobs have, asymmetrical nostrils (i can't stand that), and an overly defined nose. My face isn't very defined; i don't think it would be a good idea for me. Plus, u need to look at the reality of plastic surgery. It won't come out perfect. If you can handle spending 10 grand on something that has issues, then so be it. I realized I just can't handle that, since I feel my nose has minimal problems with it. I lost 2, 300 by canceling, but I think that was the right decision for me. I am a half jewish/half middle eastern; my nose is my heritage. I chose not to conform to an Anglo look, because i never really thought I was bad looking...just different.
July 8, 2015
Good for you!! I've read too many stories where the writer had a gut feeling that they shouldn't go through with the surgery, but did it anyway because of cost, etc. Way to embrace your uniqueness :)
July 8, 2015
Thank you. I was sick to my stomach last night about getting it down. I have never felt like that ever,not even when choosing which college to matriculate to- UCLA or UC Berkeley (second hardest decision I have ever made).
UPDATED FROM hi101
I cancelled my rhinoplasty procedure.
hi101July 8, 2015
This is my nose, MY NOSE! Sure, it isn't perfect, but it fits my face. It fits my personality ( i am a quirky, goofy, clumsy, nerdy teen), and its fits my identity. I have always identified with my jewish ancestry, and my nose is a part of that. It is a defining jewish characteristic. Do I think my nose had more propensity to be better than the average joe, yes, but my nose is better than some. It crookedness is harmonious with my asymmetrical chin.
My motives for getting the surgery weren't right. Like most, I was teased over my nose in middle school. I was told I have a "toucan" nose; that I looked like a "man." I never saw that, but it degenerated my self-confidence. I wasn't getting this surgery completely for myself. I urge those who want to 'fix' something about themselves to really asses your motives. Once you change it, there is no going back.
I am Natasha, and I have a bigger, unique nose. Deal with it.(;
My motives for getting the surgery weren't right. Like most, I was teased over my nose in middle school. I was told I have a "toucan" nose; that I looked like a "man." I never saw that, but it degenerated my self-confidence. I wasn't getting this surgery completely for myself. I urge those who want to 'fix' something about themselves to really asses your motives. Once you change it, there is no going back.
I am Natasha, and I have a bigger, unique nose. Deal with it.(;
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July 8, 2015
good for you young lady I applaud you and your attitude. god bless you and your beautiful god given nose!
July 8, 2015
Thank you so much. Opting out of the surgery cost my parents $2,500 (deposit, cancellation fee since it was the day before surgery, blood work, and meds); it was worth every penny. It is always appreciated to have others confirm big decisions, especially considering that I am so young (and indecisive).
July 8, 2015
Love this. You did the right thing.
July 9, 2015
Thanks. I did. I just couldn't go through with it; I had never felt that sick to my stomach about something. My intuition told me not go through with, and I think that was some sort of sign. It cost me $2,300 to keep my nose; I wouldn't change that hump for the world now.
August 20, 2015
I'm so happy that you decided to keep your nose! I had mine done and regret it. I'm not botched but I really, really miss my nose and the bump on it.
Do you have surgery scheduled with Dr. Mayer yet? I ask because getting in for early July might be tricky depending on your surgeon. Definitely ask how far out they are scheduling, but don't rush things if you aren't sure. Here's a list of pre- and post-op tips for you. Good luck and please keep us posted!
Wow, so exciting! I know it's scary. What is your biggest fear?
Oh, so it's a no-go. It's great that you've found peace with what you have. :)