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24, Irish.. Flying to Belgium for Septorhinoplasty. - Belgium, BE

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So after an age of trying to position myself at...

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Lolaface54
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So after an age of trying to position myself at more flattering angles in front of other people.. And the constant task of trying to disguise my side profile by adding ridiculous amounts of volume to my hair or disguising it with makeup.. I have booked a flight to Belgium to have Septo-Rhinoplasty with Dr. Oelbrandt on July 1st. I’ve been researching Oelbrandt for nearly a year. And even when I wasn’t actually looking for him, his name kept cropping up.. With a lot of positive feedback! So I felt determined to go with him.

I have kept this a secret from a lot of the people I know the past few years.. But, lately I figured I should tell my closest friends because this imaginary “car” that I’ve been saving for isn’t going to turn up anytime soon.. And it might be a bit strange that I’m leaving for a random trip to Belgium, despite turning down holidays they’ve invited me on recently. The closer the procedure gets, the more anxious I’m becoming to talk about it anyway. So I’ve been starting to tell a few close friends. Not that it’s anything to be ashamed of anyway. I would just prefer to not have all that attention on me.

I’ve had some negative reactions, some supportive. It’s confusing because I’m finding that the mixed responses are distorting my own feelings about this. I’m trying to ignore the fact that that I’ve been told that when I’m in my 30’s, I could have sincere regret about doing this. That I’ll regret letting a physical insecurity push me this far. Well.. I have had braces in the past.. I had a terrible set of teeth.. And after 4-5 years of having braces, I couldn’t be more confident about my smile now.. I know for a fact that I would be a totally different person, confidence-wise if I had never had braces. I mean, that physical change really has enhanced my life. So.. Basically, I’m trying to ignore some of the negative/concerning opinions that I’ve been getting. I think it’s very easy for people who don’t have such a physical insecurity to tell you not to go through with something like this.
Anyway, 3 weeks left until the surgery.. Little bit anxious! Funny enough, the main concerning thing for me is the actually the journey from Belgium to Ireland home with the splint still on my face. Ha.. Has anyone reading this flown on a plane home with the splint still on?

Feedback would be appreciated! Thanks :)

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June 8, 2015
I honestly don't understand how your nose could get much better than it is. It is pretty much completely straight and turns up slightly at the tip (definitely not a droopy tip). HOWEVER I completely understand that it's such a personal thing and all that matters is how you see it. I wish you the best of luck. I can understand you must be scared about the flight but it will be over before you know it. Can I ask what you are hoping to have changed specifically?
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June 8, 2015
If there is one thing I can say to you it is IGNORE EVERYONE ELSE! People will always find ways to hurt you and make you doubt yourself (often not intentionally, but this is why we are all here - we don't feel self conscious about our noses from nowhere). You sound like you have really prepared for this and you are coming at it from a place where it is fully YOUR decision. It should stay that way. I'm quite an open person so I've been very excited and told basically everyone! Family, friends, colleagues - although some people have tried to be nice and say 'oh you don't need it', or 'there is nothing wrong with your nose', everyone has supported me 100% and thinks it is great. Ignore the negatives, people will always try to bring you down (again they may not even realise) and just think about YOU and what this will do for YOU. I can assure you of one thing, with a surgeon that you have researched and know has great reviews and good results, you will not be regretting this in life you will be wishing you'd been able to do it sooner! You have hit the nail on the head that it is very easy for people who don't have that insecurity to be judgemental. Nothing quite compares to a nose - right in the middle of your face, protruding for all to see! Focus on you and you will be fine :) PS. Not sure about flying home with the splint still on, how much time are you leaving as I don't think you should fly too soon?
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June 11, 2015
Hey bhamrhino.. Thanks for the reply. I don't think people mean it in a negative way.. They just think it's the easiest way out.. You know what I mean? Like.. I can ultimately become a stronger person for overcoming this mentally. I don't know. It's very debateable. It's quite a lonely feeling actually. I don't think others understand how you're feeling. It's hard not to feel embarrassed talking about it.
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June 11, 2015
I think it's just a mentality - we live in a world where we have the technology and the medical ability to be able to do these things, why shouldn't we make the most of it? People may not mean it in a negative way but that doesn't stop it feeling negative nonetheless. If you're ever feeling lonely all you need to do is come on here and you're surrounded by people on your side who do understand how you're feeling :)
June 8, 2015
Hi! I'm four weeks post op tomorrow and I also had my surgery with Dr Oelbrandt, he's an amazing surgeon and I had quite a bit of work done (hump reduction skin defatting, tip graft and sutures) and it looks totally natural and is healing super well and fast! He's an artist, you're in great hands. I'm so much more confident now and nobody noticed that I had any work done! Just some compliments saying I look bright and fresh haha If you have any questions please feel free to ask! I know it can be a nerve wracking time
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June 11, 2015
Aw, thanks for the feedback! It's really refreshing to talk to someone who has had work done with Oelbrandt. I'm getting quite anxious already. I've been reading some reviews about people explaining how they weren't happy with their nose and the shouldn't of gone through with it. I'm a little bit terrified of regretting it. But I've wanted this for so long now. Was yours an open or closed op? And did it look very different the first week you had your cast removed?
June 13, 2015
To be honest everyone was supportive of my nose job although they promised that I didn't need it! My nose hump was very subtle from the side and front view but enough for me to avoid pictures and hide it when I smile! I thought I might make it look worse than it was to begin with but I realised why stay with a nose I was unhappy with? I'd had enough, and he's a very good surgeon, you won't regret being happy I can assure you! Mine was an open rhino, and yeah when I removed it the first time it was swollen but defined and I could see the difference immediately! Over the last few weeks I've been taking pictures and I've noticed the tip swelling has gone down a lot and the front view looks more defined. He says it will continue to improve even more over the next few months, so super excited!
June 8, 2015
I know you're asking about the plane, but I took the train to NYC to get my split off. I wouldn't take the subway (tube) because it's too crowded, (take taxi instead) but the train is fine. I wore a medical mask, and when you do that it just looks like you have a virus or are a germphobe. The a small part of the top of your splint will show over the medical mask, but people will tend to avert their eyes when you have the mask on, so it's not so disconcerting. I didn't get many stares. I supposed TSA, or whatever it's called in your country may ask you to take off the mask when checking your ID/passport. I did fly a few days later when I just had my splint off, but tape on. Again, I wore a medical mask and played it off like I was someone who wanted to avoid getting coughed on. Docs will say that if you fly soon after rhino, take saline to spray in your nose frequently, to deal with the dryness.
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June 11, 2015
That's actually really great advice. About the medical mask. I never heard of that before. I'm a little bit paranoid about people knowing what I had done so I think that will make me feel better travelling home. Thanks!
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June 9, 2015
My darling You have to feel comfortable in your body therefore you are the ONLY one to choose what is better for you. If you nose does not please you, change it:). I wait it so long too...and in the end I told to myself...what did I expect it so loooong for fealing so great. It is important to take your time when come about the doctor's choice, this is a very important decision for your life. As about the others...why do they have to know everything? Why theirs opinion is so important for you. I'm sure you have 2 or 3 very good friends, those type you can talk to and receive precious advice...the ones who really love and understand you. Good luck my darling !
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June 9, 2015
Edited :)) My darling You have to feel comfortable in your body therefore you are the ONLY one to choose what is better for you. If your nose does not please you, change it:))). I waited it so long too...and in the end I told to myself...what did I expect it so loooong for fealing so great. It is important to take your time when comes about the doctor's choice, this is a very important decision for your life. As about the others...why do they have to know everything? Why their opinion is so important to you. I'm sure you have 2 or 3 very good friends, those type you can talk to and receive precious advice...the ones who really love and understand you. Good luck my darling !
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June 11, 2015
Thank you so much lovely. It really makes me feel better to see some positive responses. Mostly, in person.. People have been making me feel like it's a bad decision. It eases my anxiety about it reading comments like this. Thank you!
UPDATED FROM Lolaface54
19 days pre

Music Festival after Rhinoplasty?

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I’ve been wondering about something.. Okay so basically, when my surgery is 23 days post op. There is a music festival on which a friend got me a ticket for, a few months back. Would it be a very bad idea to go to it, 23 days post op? The whole camping this is included. I will ask my surgeon this myself and obviously will 100% follow his instructions. I’m just a little curious to find out now so I thought I would post up on this and see what people think.

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June 11, 2015
Hi! You sound very like me in your reasons for deciding on surgery. Everyone has their own experience and I inderstand completely the anxiety of being judged by close friends. Just remember they may mean well but ultimately if this something that bothers you and can be improved, why not? I kept telling myself mine was just an extreme version of braces. I'm now 3 weeks post op and delighted with my new nose. Hardly anyone noticed but just thought I looked younger and well rested! probably because there was less shadow behind the honker I had. You can definitely go to a festival, I went to one and flew day 8 post op. Just bring saline spray to avoid your nose drying out and be careful of sunburn. Avoid the mosh pit obviously but there's no reason why you can't enjoy some dancing. Pm me if you want to ask any qiestions. Good luck and wishing you luck on your journey. You are very brave traveling but I promise it's worth it
June 11, 2015
Hey I'm also Irish and have had a rhinoplasty with Dr Oelbrandt I wish you the best of luck feel free to pm me if you have any questions
June 13, 2015
Hey I'm also Irish and have had a rhinoplasty with Dr Oelbrandt I wish you the best of luck feel free to pm me if you have any questions
June 14, 2015
I'm going on holiday three weeks post-op and am not worried. :) Also, I'm from England and going to Singelberg clinic too! But not with Dr. O, with Dr Van Der Dussen!
July 4, 2015
Hello. I had my Rhino yesterday. I hope all is well with your recovery. I was considering going out soonish after my surgery also. I'm fairly cautious when it comes to these types of things though. Think of it this way, your bones take about 2 months to heal after they're broken (which is what the doc did presumably, unless he worked solely on the tip). The swelling will still be up and down 23 days from now as the soft tissue is still healing. If you plan on drinking or anything, you run the risk of major swelling and breaking blood vessels; most concerning though is, you'll be around a lot of other people that are going to be getting rowdy and you run the risk of maybe somebody hitting you in the face at some point or just hitting your nose with something (I accidentally smacked myself in the nose while sleeping last night and it was awful). Even if that risk is minimal, it's something that you'll be cautious and and really aware of throughout the evening. I don't want to be a downer. Trust me, I'm in the same boat as you, but I just think that even running the risk of hurting yourself or offsetting your recovery in a way that alters the doctors original work just isn't worth it. If the festival was 2-3 months down the line I wouldn't be saying this, but I think 3 weeks is just way too soon.
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July 4, 2015
Heya.. Thanks for your reply! I have come to terms that I just shouldn't go. It's hard because I live all year round for this festival! Ha.. But life could be worse. How are ya feeling? I had my op 3 days ago. Are you anxious about what the results will be like?
July 4, 2015
Yeow! NP :-) Good decision. Alcohol and all that stuff messes with the whole healing process big time. Next year will come by fast. Actually, as I type everyone is out having cheeky bevys pool/beachside celebrating the 4th of July while i sit in bed. I'm feeling good generally. In and out of being uncomfortable sleeping a lot, looking like a muppet. How are you feeling? I'm curious about the results, I look like a pig at the moment, a lot of nostril action going on, what about you?
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July 4, 2015
Me too! Were in exactly the same boat. Haha.. I too was invited for Saturday drinks in the sun but instead I'm sitting alone indoors, watching crap tv and eating terrible food with purple eyes. Ha. My nose is looking rather piggish aswell. That goes away, right? :P you must be in pain if your op was only yesterday? Its really so nice to talk to someone in the same scenario. It can feel quite lonely being like this :/ where are you from?
July 5, 2015
I'm right there with you. Keeping up with the kardashians (don't judge) and Mac and cheese is my life right now. I'm just a gross human all together for the time being.. Duck face + dirty hair =win. I text a picture of myself to my mum and she's convinced I had lip injections. Pain is minimal, so is the swelling. Seems to be getting worse by the day though. I also accidentally almost pulled out one of my stitches yesterday which was stupid (be careful when cleaning your nose; who knows what they've done to the inside.).. I'm from the states - California. Are you flying back home soon at least? Being alone through this process is rough, but also kind of nice since you have time to reflect without anyone's input. Also, the pig nose will go away. We're swollen and we have splints, once those are gone, it'll be significantly different (from what I've read at least).
UPDATED FROM Lolaface54
2 days pre

Feeling Anxious

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Lolaface54
So my op is 3 days away. I'm getting so scared that I wont like my new nose. I'm a little bit of a perfectionist with most things in life and generally quite hard on myself. I just hope the surgery and the change works out for me. I've been reading some reviews here of people hating their new nose and they'd do anything to get their old one back. Most people's reviews are quite positive though. I'm just a bit afraid of being part of the regret crowd :/ hopefully not though!

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June 28, 2015
I had my surgery at Singelberg and I don't regret it one bit! I'm only 12 or so days post-op but I love it already! Dr Oeldbrant is so skilled, you have nothing to be worried about :) (my surgery wasn't with him, but he had many patients there whilst I was there)
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June 29, 2015
Aw, thanks so much for your feedback. I'm getting quite nervous now! Heading out tomorrow. So you stayed in your hotel until the splint was off? I'm flying home with it still on :/ haha.. Sucks to be me!
June 29, 2015
Yeah I did, I was just too embarrassed to go outside. Haha don't worry, I got so so so bored in a hotel room for a week, if I could pluck up the courage to go home I probably would if I ever did it again! Good luck, you'll be fine :)