3 Weeks Post-Op... Happy SALAMA BOOTAY to Me!

I am 44yo, 5'4", 155lbs mother of three, half black - half Chinese. I have waited so long for this - perhaps too long. I started looking into BBLs maybe some 10 years ago, and am finally taking the leap. I am doing this for ME. I want to feel confident and sexy(er) as I walk around - especially as a Black person whose culture values a nice round bootay.

Please give me a link if you are having yours done around that time.

I do feel a little apprehensive when I read about the BBL journeys posted here but...Deposit has been made, flights have been booked - so there is no turning back. My husband is coming with me, at least for the first 5 days, then we'll see how my remaining days in FL play out. He claims he is okay with my unshapely derriere but I can tell that he is excited about the potential outcome of my BBL. What black man does not like a nice full bootay!

One of my concerns is transitioning from a flat a$$ to a new sexy shape at the office. I have a desk-bound job. I will be off for 2 weeks for the procedure, but what do I do to make my sensitivity to sitting and my new shape subtle upon my return? Any tips? I have begun wearing a padded panty to create a hint of this fullness, but... Will I need to bring this boppy pillow to work? I hope not.

I am having full back and abdomen lipo (also doing arms)... my arms are thick and my legs skinny. With skinny legs, I cant afford to put too much in the caboose...lol...I want to look natural.