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Biltmore Lift....... Just Trying to Stay Ahead of the "Aging" Game :) - Asheville , NC

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Well here I go...... after watching and reading...

babygirlD
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Well here I go...... after watching and reading all the reviews and stories on mini lifts, lower face lifts, and neck lifts (because I really wasn't sure which, if any, was right for me), it is now my turn to give back. I truly feel that's what it is, because I am NOT a public person , not a Facebook person, and quite honestly, not really sure I even want to post any photos....... HOWEVER, ...... I would probably not even have scheduled my procedure at this point, if I hadn't read so many stories and seen so many awesome results here on RS.
I have been struggling with this decision for over a year. I've also struggled with choosing a Doc.
Let me just say...... I have chosen Dr Harley ....... who is NOT close to where I live and this will NOT be convenient for me. I'll need to be away from my family and business for 9 days........ which is a real struggle for me. After reviewing Dr H as well as I could on RS, the New Beauty article, and his website, I finally made an appt with Juanita (a complete doll as everyone on RS has mentioned) to have a phone consult with the Doc. I felt completely at ease with him on the phone, and after a few weeks, I booked a surgery date.
I just happened to be in NC recently (nothing related to the procedure)........ So I drove up to Asheville to meet with Dr H. I felt so comfortable with him. He just oozes confidence without talking too much about specifics. I'm sure he would have gone into specifics if I asked more questions...... And I am usually HUGE on making notes ahead of time and asking questions........ I just didn't feel the need with him. He told me I was a good candidate and my results would be great and I believe he said they would be fairly long lasting. I do believe I'm doing this at a great time....... just as I am starting to see softness in my lower face...... and before I see too much sagging in my face and neck.
I plan to do a "play by play" review once I get to Asheville ........ It helped me so much to read the stories of so many women on here , so again...... This is my "pay it forward" XO

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David H. Harley, MD

David H. Harley, MD

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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April 1, 2016
Good for you Babygirl, you will be so happy you chose Dr.Harley, that is how I found him from this website, and believe me I interviewed enough PS none of them compared to Dr.H. We are a walking poster board for him and his work on this site, I am so glad you do not have to wait 6 weeks for your surgery those are the hardnest and longest weeks you will ever have to wait, I am on 2 weeks and one day today post op and everything is going fine, swelling has come down a lot and not much bruising at all. Have fun you deserve it and by the way after surgery stay away from the salt if you do not want to look like a blowfish LOL
April 2, 2016
Hi pink, thanks for all your posts!...... You are one of the gals I've been following closely. You look so much younger now! It's really amazing that the doc can truly turn back the clock for us girls. And I hear what you and the others say about salt...... That's going to be a tough one for me! So we'll see how I do . Take care XO
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April 2, 2016
I know how you feel! I love Dr. Harley work...problem for me there is no way I can stay up there for an extended amount of time. Uggh Even though I live in NC (OBX area) it's either a 9 hour drive or a 3 hour flight. I am happy that you decided to make time for yourself and excited that you picked Dr. Harley! You can always blank out your eyes for privacy if you wished to post photos..but either way, we are grateful to be going on this journey with you! Cheers!
April 2, 2016
Hi kat, so are you drinking back home after procedure, then back for removal of stitches? I am NOT going to do well with sitting in a hotel room for over a week! I pretty much have to close down my business and be away from my little girl..... she'll be staying with her dad..... Which means she'll be stinky, dirty, and malnourished when I return. :( And yes..... I will post photos. Maybe just a couple "before" shots...... But then will give daily updates with photos after the procedure. XO
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April 2, 2016
Hi! Well you know like yourself it takes alot to just get away for a few days let alone over a week. I would fly up & back shouldn't be bad it's like 45 minutes to Atlanta, then 1.5 to Asheville. I have a small farm, have been trying to let others "ahem" handle the ins & outs for a few nights...but it's not working out well. When I wake up to feathers all over the yard, someone didn't do their job! Just a small vent. I'm not worried about getting the stitches out should I return home early, they are really rather easy. I guess what I need to do is send a message to Dr. Harley asking the shortest time I would need to stay. Cross your fingers! Hey, that happens with kids, it's an ughh for sure..and I do know exactly what you mean though! It also means she will miss her Mum & give you great big hugs & kisses!! So exited for you really!! We deserve this!! HUGS!
July 25, 2016
Could you please let us know what you hear about how long he says you need to stay in NC? Thank you.
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April 2, 2016
Congratulations baby girl...I was so convinced that Dr. Harley was the best choice for me that I traveled from Oregon and still think it was the best decision ever. I'm not a big fan of hotels either so on day four I switched to an Airbnb place which worked out really well for me. I had a small kitchen so I could cook and I chose a place that felt like home. I wish you the best on your journey!
April 3, 2016
Thanks red, it's good to hear from you, as you are one of the gals I've been following. Thanks so much for your posts and photos. Your transformation is amazing. I think you look crazy good! XO
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April 3, 2016
Hey, I like crazy good - thank you!
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April 3, 2016
Well babygirl...you did it! I knew you'd do just fine posting. As far as pics...there have been others that didn't post their pics either but posted such detailed descriptions of their journey...they "paid it forward" just the same. You deserve to go on this journey! You deserve some "you" time! I know I don't know you other than our little chats on here, but I do know what it is to be a single mom that works to provide all the needs and wants for her children. So, you see, a few days away with rest, relaxation and a younger you is well deserved. You will be in our thoughts, hearts and prayers! (-;
April 6, 2016
Thanks so much mama! You are the best!...... So positive and thoughtful'. I'm glad I ran into you on this site. Like I told you before...... you were the one I was watching the most on RS....... And my first post was to you...... so I'm hoping you'll stay with me through this journey :) I am going to start posting pics...... I'll post a few "before" pics of course...... then I'll post every day after procedure. I just found it SO helpful and fascinating to see all the "progress photos" from all you brave gals. NOT TO MENTION....... I'll be so bored out of my mind in a hotel room for over a week. I think I'll really want and need interaction with gals on RS Thanks again for everything !! XO
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April 6, 2016
Thank you! It's my pleasure babygirl! If you get bored, go downtown Ashville for a few hours. It's pretty neat there. I spent almost two hours at the Salt Cave while down town. Little pricey but something different. I will be following you very close with prayers and encouragement during your journey.
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April 6, 2016
Thanks so much mama...... I'm finding that I'm getting a little "wimpy" and "vulnerable" as my surgery date gets closer. I haven't told many people....... so it means so much to me that you're here to communicate with as I go through this. I was going to have a girlfriend go with me for the first few days........ I've now decided to just hire TLC to stay with me the first night (I have not contacted them yet). So I'm hoping to communicate on RS often to keep my sanity since I'll be solo. So thankful you'll "be there". XO
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April 6, 2016
If you do hire TLC, ask to have Molena if Susie isn't going to be with you. I had Natalie and I didn't care for her...little on lazy side. Molena came the next morning and was more attentive. Be adamant how many hours you want TLC...which I found that's hard to make Susie understand. You'll be absolutely fine by yourself after that. I'll send a private message with my phone number so you feel free to call or text me whenever you want. Being nervous is very normal. Just try to focus on other things as much as possible...that helps. You are still in my prayers!
April 8, 2016
i actually run an airbnb in asheville here. it is available currently 4/24-28. if you are interested, i can PM you my personal info.
April 10, 2016
Hi nasuse22.... that's cool that you have an Airbnb. I actually need something from 4-25 to 5-4. I'm looking at hotels recommended by Dr Harley's office. I'm hoping to find one with a refrigerator. Any suggestions?
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April 26, 2016
This is good to know. I have noted...
March 10, 2017
I'm getting surgery 4/18. Have the FF INN AND TLC. booked. I'll be alone. What do u offer? Room and care? Jane. janieluci@gmail.com
April 3, 2016
Thank you so much for what your doing.I too am struggling with and scared of getting this procedure done and I dont do facebook either... I have been following Dr. H patients and his work is beautiful!!! I will be following you through your journey
April 6, 2016
Thanks ashmer....... I followed Dr H gals for quite a while as well. I'll keep everyone posted :) XO
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Well........ It's my turn tomorrow morning.

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It seems like I've been waiting forever!........... As I've read so many posts and viewed so many photos…… I couldn't wait for it to be my turn. ......... Again…… "Thank you" so very much, to all of you gals who posted reviews and photos.......... I wouldn't be here without you! I'll be posting photos every day starting tomorrow…….fingers crossed and prayers please . XO

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April 26, 2016
Good Luck Babygirl your in the best hands possible I am sure you will not post the day of surgery but the 2nd day you will feel more like it if you don't stay on the pain pills, I only took them the first day because of the bandage I wanted to be alert the next day when the bandages came off. Then I took Tylenol XS for the next couple of days you will do great looking forward to following your journey
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April 26, 2016
Good luck to you! I will be following your posts and wishing you luck from Boston.
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April 26, 2016
Good luck tomorrow!.You are in excellent and caring hands! We will be here in the background supporting you.
April 26, 2016
Will be thinking of you and following your progress!
April 26, 2016
Thanks so much pink and red (sounds funny). ..... As you know........, you two, along with mama and southern are the gals I've followed the most and gave me the most inspiration!........... I've been in contact with mama tonight as I sit in my hotel room....... She's great......... I feel like we're all in a "sisterhood" of sorts. ....... Thanks so much for the well wishes........ I'll be in touch "from the other side" soon :)
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The day after

babygirlD
Well… I made it through… And very easily I might add.
I did sleep the majority of the first day ( Yesterday).
I had the gals from TLC with me all day and night until I had the head wrap taken off this morning. They are really great… And those of you who are hesitating, or possibly bringing a friend… I would highly recommend TLC. They are equipped with just about anything you need. The most amazing thing is they get such a deep discount at the Fairfield Marriott that it actually pays for their services. I got a nightly rate of $72…… I looked online up until the day I left , and the published rate was still $149. So it's a great savings….And I will tell you, they just got all new beds and they are awesome. I was so worried because I have a bad back….And I was afraid I would not be able to get comfortable sleeping in an upright position. The beds are actually so comfortable that they feel better than my expensive bed at home :)
My experience on the morning of the surgery was pretty much as I had expected after reading all of the reviews here on RS. The doc meets you in his reception room and goes over everything with you again. Then he gives you a small cup of pills to take before he takes you back to the procedure room.
It's a very relaxed atmosphere in there… Dr. H and Kelly pretty much talked to me the whole time while he was drawing on my face. Then came the shots....... and yes… I was awake for the shots. I'm not going to lie and say they were pleasant….But they were just shots….How bad can they be. The doctor talk to you through every shot … And Kelly is next to you rubbing your arm and they both make you feel very calm. When Melina from TLC came to pick me up….I had a very easy time walking to her car and getting into the hotel bed. I slept most of the night….She would just wake me up for my medication and she would change the cold compress around my eyes… Which feel great every time. As most gals have reported on here….There really isn't any pain….I would say it's just more discomfort from the tight bandages on your job. So I guess you could call that pain. Ha ha ....... But more like a very bad ache….That went away soon after you take your pain meds again. The whole experience is everything I was hoping it would be and more. I don't have much bruising at all… But I sure do have alien face right now due to the swelling....... but that is to be expected. Even with alien face….I'm able to look in the mirror and see my tight neck and profile from years ago. I am so so glad I did this! If you are thinking about coming to Dr. H for this procedure….I would call soon, as he is booking out pretty far in advance these days. I think a very high percentage of his patients come from out of town… Which speaks volumes to his ability and outcomes. I traveled all the way from the West Coast….So believe me, it was not an easy trip. But I wanted to have this done correctly… And I wanted to look natural… And after two years of research….I knew Dr. H was the guy!

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April 27, 2016
Wow! You look great, congrats!
April 29, 2016
Thank you so much!
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April 28, 2016
Looking good! I spoke to Juanita today for the first time and she assured me that I am on the waiting list and would schedule my phone consult when I'm next on the list. So happy I can follow your journey while I wait. Thanks for the hotel/TLC info. Hope you have a restful night, sleep well!
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April 28, 2016
Hi Babygirl
I can already see the results you look fantastic but were you awake during the procedure so the pills did not knock you out right away, I was knocked out right away did not even feel him drawing on my face I don't remember seeing the lines from the drawing afterwards.
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April 28, 2016
You look awesome already! I will be in exactly your position in one week.
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April 28, 2016
glad you are on the other side can't wait to see your results