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UPDATED FROM BoogieKnights47
1 month post
¸¸.•´°¤SO,.. I am over a month Post-Op...
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I am over a month Post-Op and I feel really good! Over the past couple of weeks I've had nothing serious happen. The most that I can complain of it my incision opened up a little bit in two areas....
This happened maybe two and a half weeks in..? (opening of the incision). I don't smoke or anything so it didn't happen because of that. To my understanding this is completely normal. Before I could reach my doctor about my concerns, I searched the internet for images to compare,but honestly as a women of color,we don't have much examples to play around with.
For example, dead skin or tissue turns pink in color for us and has to return back to natural color with time. I Didn't know that. LOL I heard something about that in regards to breast surgery pertaining to our nipples.. O_o
Anyway,when my incision got a tad bit infected it began lose color,turn bright pink and inflamed with holes about 1 inch. wide.
To care for these holes I used Neosporin and gauze. That is until I discover Band-Aids with Antibiotic ointment already on the padding inside. They are waterproof and made it easy to care for the small holes. I just cleaned my openings with Dial "Yellow Soap" let them dry and stuck the band aids on them and changed them as needed.
I recommend this if yours are not off the chain... you will have to go a different route if you have major separation.
Obviously my drain has BEEN gone,but I thought I'd share something. My tubing on my drain had a hole in it so I couldn't milk it anymore. Don't freak out If this happens to you! Go grab a product called Tagaderm. You can find it at a Walgreen in the Pharmacy section.
This is film that you can patch the hole with. I went nuts when I found my hole because I was SOOOOO not ready to be done with my drain. Luckily, my whole was near the bulb and I was "okayed" to cut it with disinfected scissors and pop it back on top of the bulb.
Moral of the story, there's options so don't be a nervous wreck like I was! LOL
Other than that I don't have much else to share.I didn't have Muscle Repair so my recovery time was relatively shorter than that of a Full Tummy Tuck.I'm happy about that! (^_^)
NOW,....
How about how my clothes fit? Uh, YEAH!! I look amazing with clothes on. The ability to just wake up and put something on with no hassle is priceless..! There have been countless times that I have declined invites for many things just because I didnt want to fight with myself about what to [RS bleep]' wear! You know what I mean? Ugh,...! Not to mention how many pictures of precious moments I didnt want to be a part of because I didnt want to look at my pictures and say,
" Damn,you are big a a house!" LOL
That's so terrible but it is so honest.
A lot of people couldn't even really tell I got the surgery done! til Tuesday!
I had a classmate say..
" OMG, your boobies are SO out there nowadays!! What the hell is going on??"
HAHA
I wanted to say...
" Well [RS bleep], that's because I had 8pds. of stomach as big as my dang [RS bleep] before Christmas break..."
I'm so rude. ;)
Well she aint that close to me for me to be tellin' her my business..so I just smiled.
I normally wear scrubs to class and my instructor let us wear our regular clothes that day. Now that my stomach is flat and my body has some kind of shape,my girls are over the top huge so everything I wear looks like I am a [RS bleep] star. LOL I LOVE IT!
I am over a month Post-Op and I feel really good! Over the past couple of weeks I've had nothing serious happen. The most that I can complain of it my incision opened up a little bit in two areas....
This happened maybe two and a half weeks in..? (opening of the incision). I don't smoke or anything so it didn't happen because of that. To my understanding this is completely normal. Before I could reach my doctor about my concerns, I searched the internet for images to compare,but honestly as a women of color,we don't have much examples to play around with.
For example, dead skin or tissue turns pink in color for us and has to return back to natural color with time. I Didn't know that. LOL I heard something about that in regards to breast surgery pertaining to our nipples.. O_o
Anyway,when my incision got a tad bit infected it began lose color,turn bright pink and inflamed with holes about 1 inch. wide.
To care for these holes I used Neosporin and gauze. That is until I discover Band-Aids with Antibiotic ointment already on the padding inside. They are waterproof and made it easy to care for the small holes. I just cleaned my openings with Dial "Yellow Soap" let them dry and stuck the band aids on them and changed them as needed.
I recommend this if yours are not off the chain... you will have to go a different route if you have major separation.
Obviously my drain has BEEN gone,but I thought I'd share something. My tubing on my drain had a hole in it so I couldn't milk it anymore. Don't freak out If this happens to you! Go grab a product called Tagaderm. You can find it at a Walgreen in the Pharmacy section.
This is film that you can patch the hole with. I went nuts when I found my hole because I was SOOOOO not ready to be done with my drain. Luckily, my whole was near the bulb and I was "okayed" to cut it with disinfected scissors and pop it back on top of the bulb.
Moral of the story, there's options so don't be a nervous wreck like I was! LOL
Other than that I don't have much else to share.I didn't have Muscle Repair so my recovery time was relatively shorter than that of a Full Tummy Tuck.I'm happy about that! (^_^)
NOW,....
How about how my clothes fit? Uh, YEAH!! I look amazing with clothes on. The ability to just wake up and put something on with no hassle is priceless..! There have been countless times that I have declined invites for many things just because I didnt want to fight with myself about what to [RS bleep]' wear! You know what I mean? Ugh,...! Not to mention how many pictures of precious moments I didnt want to be a part of because I didnt want to look at my pictures and say,
" Damn,you are big a a house!" LOL
That's so terrible but it is so honest.
A lot of people couldn't even really tell I got the surgery done! til Tuesday!
I had a classmate say..
" OMG, your boobies are SO out there nowadays!! What the hell is going on??"
HAHA
I wanted to say...
" Well [RS bleep], that's because I had 8pds. of stomach as big as my dang [RS bleep] before Christmas break..."
I'm so rude. ;)
Well she aint that close to me for me to be tellin' her my business..so I just smiled.
I normally wear scrubs to class and my instructor let us wear our regular clothes that day. Now that my stomach is flat and my body has some kind of shape,my girls are over the top huge so everything I wear looks like I am a [RS bleep] star. LOL I LOVE IT!
Replies (5)

L
January 21, 2012
Lmao! Now u made me spit out my drink kathe!
K

B
January 21, 2012

S
January 21, 2012
I agree with Kathe. Your posts have a lot of great info and are straight up no chaser. Luvs it! Don't you love watching your shape come through? And more people will start to notice. They keep saying...there's something different abt you...Wait til this weather breaks. Get it girl. But keep that head in those books. BTW, the night bloating is getting much better for me at 2 mos out. I don't sleep in binders or wear shapewear during the day

B
January 21, 2012
Haha,..my SassyAssy!
My bloating is off and on,really it just depends..! I definitely love my shape coming through.. I've noticed since the surgery my appetite isn't an huge as it was before.. I love that,girl. I wear my shapewear pretty much when I kno I'm gonna be doing a lot of things or if I get some exercise.. I don't wear it to bed though. You are lookin good girl.. I aint gone lie to ya! ;)
My bloating is off and on,really it just depends..! I definitely love my shape coming through.. I've noticed since the surgery my appetite isn't an huge as it was before.. I love that,girl. I wear my shapewear pretty much when I kno I'm gonna be doing a lot of things or if I get some exercise.. I don't wear it to bed though. You are lookin good girl.. I aint gone lie to ya! ;)
K
January 21, 2012
Boogie, I know you didn't have MR, and I'm hoping for the same thing, since I've had no kids. How soon after the surgery were you back to studies and the rest of your regular routine?

B
January 21, 2012
I would say I was feeling really good at two weeks! I did get a little tired after walking too long,that's was an indicator to take it easy,obviously.I didn't have to return to school 'til January 9th..but to answer your question I felt three weeks was perfect!
I got so sick of sleeping in the recliner and wanted to get in my bed,so I took my eight pillows and made me a comfy barricade behind and on side of me. I couldn't get good sleep afterwhile in that damn chair because I am a side sleeper!
I got some lipo on my sides and bra line so it was kinda difficult to get comfy in my bed because the swelling feels as if you are laying on something "wrong"..? Like a knot... or..? It's hard to explain, but you will soon know what I mean. However, to remedy this, I just put a pillow under me where ever I felt the uncomfortable knots from the lipo. Also, I put a pillow in between my legs to keep from feeling the tugs from the incision..
This may not make sense right now but everything I'm saying will all come together after you have the surgery. :o)
Anyway, I got of subject. LOL
So,...YEAH!
I got so sick of sleeping in the recliner and wanted to get in my bed,so I took my eight pillows and made me a comfy barricade behind and on side of me. I couldn't get good sleep afterwhile in that damn chair because I am a side sleeper!
I got some lipo on my sides and bra line so it was kinda difficult to get comfy in my bed because the swelling feels as if you are laying on something "wrong"..? Like a knot... or..? It's hard to explain, but you will soon know what I mean. However, to remedy this, I just put a pillow under me where ever I felt the uncomfortable knots from the lipo. Also, I put a pillow in between my legs to keep from feeling the tugs from the incision..
This may not make sense right now but everything I'm saying will all come together after you have the surgery. :o)
Anyway, I got of subject. LOL
So,...YEAH!
K

B
UPDATED FROM BoogieKnights47
13 days post
¸¸.•´°¤ SO,..the swelling is annoying!! I...
¸¸.•´°¤ SO,..the swelling is annoying!! I wake up in the morning and everything seems to be somewhat fine.. then comes the evening time and my stomach and back boobs are enormous. smh
NOTE: Yo'! Don't drink coffee! Or Tea! Avoid caffeine... trust me on this one.
I have actually noticed that other parts of my body is reacting to the trauma of the surgery as well. I got the panniculectomy and the lipo in the bra line,however, I am swollen in my inner thighs,boobs,arms,face,..you name it! I've noticed it coming on since 10 days post-op to be exact. I look like I've eaten 3500 calories everyday since surgery..LOL! I like to get some kind of exercise and the fact that I cannot get any right now has my mind acting a complete ass!!
I've been so tired of looking all crappy in house clothes so I tried to make an effort to look somewhat presentable for the sake of self-esteem but S**T!!! I can't fit anything I own! I'm like the Michelin Man! Plastic Surgery is not designed for pussys!!
I have yet to find anyone mention the depression you experience after surgery. Yes,..yes..you will have a bit of depression. I think it is a combination of coming off all the drugs (or on the drugs) and being helpless & homebound.
...you feel like you are on house arrest. LOL
You have to practice patience right away...even pre-op. The results are a process just as if you are trying to shed pounds with a diet. I think of the swelling as "the last sha-bang" of being fat before you blossom into the swan you are seeking to be.
So,...I will wait....patiently. I am aware that my surgery is still fresh and new so I will behave myself.
-Boogz ¸¸.•´°¤
NOTE: Yo'! Don't drink coffee! Or Tea! Avoid caffeine... trust me on this one.
I have actually noticed that other parts of my body is reacting to the trauma of the surgery as well. I got the panniculectomy and the lipo in the bra line,however, I am swollen in my inner thighs,boobs,arms,face,..you name it! I've noticed it coming on since 10 days post-op to be exact. I look like I've eaten 3500 calories everyday since surgery..LOL! I like to get some kind of exercise and the fact that I cannot get any right now has my mind acting a complete ass!!
I've been so tired of looking all crappy in house clothes so I tried to make an effort to look somewhat presentable for the sake of self-esteem but S**T!!! I can't fit anything I own! I'm like the Michelin Man! Plastic Surgery is not designed for pussys!!
I have yet to find anyone mention the depression you experience after surgery. Yes,..yes..you will have a bit of depression. I think it is a combination of coming off all the drugs (or on the drugs) and being helpless & homebound.
...you feel like you are on house arrest. LOL
You have to practice patience right away...even pre-op. The results are a process just as if you are trying to shed pounds with a diet. I think of the swelling as "the last sha-bang" of being fat before you blossom into the swan you are seeking to be.
So,...I will wait....patiently. I am aware that my surgery is still fresh and new so I will behave myself.
-Boogz ¸¸.•´°¤
Replies (5)

J
December 27, 2011
BoogieKnights47, you look great, congrats!

B
H
December 28, 2011
Woooooooooooooowwwww you look great so far and it only gets better!!!!!

B
December 28, 2011
Thank you Honey! I will be ecstatic when I can go to the gym. This swelling is no bueno!!!
H
December 28, 2011
You never lied.. I'm 3 months in and the swelling is still pretty bad just watch salt and coffee.. oh and keep the binder for the first few months for the times you eat too much (holidays) cause I swear it feels like without it you'll pop..lol
O
December 28, 2011
Hope you are doing well! You look awesome. Glad to see you on the other side. Had my pre op today....a bit nervous but excited.

B
December 28, 2011
OC..thanks! Thank the Lord I have made it! I know the feeling! It is a bit nerve wrecking..especially the day before. I could barely get any sleep bc I was wondering whether I had everything I needed. You will be fine! Just grab a bottle of Unisom and pop one so you can get some sleep. i doubt you will be able to drift as you get near! HAHA!

WE
December 28, 2011
Sweetie you are far from the Michelin man I believe he is white.lol jk Well ma hold tight you got this and I will most definetly not have no caffeine ahahha to be hyped up and not able to move heck Na!!!!! Patient man I though I earned that with 4 kids ahaahahh this is a WHOLE OTHER LEVEL!!!!

B
December 28, 2011
Yes it is.. caffeine will blow yo ass up,cuzz...on top of making you crunk and can't do s**t..lol #realness
S
December 28, 2011
Hey Boogz, girl I know what you mean about the swelling. I started back to work on Tues and in the mornings before work I'm flat as a board but by the end of my work day I'm looking like I'm about to pop!! Can't wait to get home to take my shower and climb in the recliner. I have been tryin to stay away from chocolate and caffeine as well. One of my co-workers got me one of those HUGE Herschey bars for Christmas and I can't even eat it! I actually swell even more just looking at it..lol.
Yeah, we still fresh outta surgery so we still gone have some major swelling for now but pretty soon all this will be a distant memory.....
Just hang on in there and it WILL get better (at least that's what I keep telling myself.lol)-but it will though. ;o) ttyl
Yeah, we still fresh outta surgery so we still gone have some major swelling for now but pretty soon all this will be a distant memory.....
Just hang on in there and it WILL get better (at least that's what I keep telling myself.lol)-but it will though. ;o) ttyl
O
January 6, 2012
I don't know how I'm going to do next week without my caffeine. I keep forgetting to ask you...did you have a pain pump? Nurse asked what I wanted to take with my meds the first night. I'm lactose intolerant so yogurt is a no go. Any suggestions?

B
January 6, 2012
No, I didn't have a pain pump. I ended up not needing it. I had one drain thank God! I've heard many people including a friend say that a pain pump is a heaven sent. If you want one I would get one. Because lemme tell you when you sneeze,cough,laugh or anything like that you are gonna have an out of body experience,girl lol It's terrible!
As for what to take with your pain meds. I would just go with jello or some kind of fresh fruit. I swear fresh fruit and unsalted crackers is so awesome afterwards.. I promise. Pack ur own stuff if you can..I did. You will barely have an appetite for day 1 & 2 then it will gradually come back. So just take down something easy to breakdown and pass when you have ur first "movement". lol
I hear many on here saying they use the protein shakes and crap,but I am in
As for what to take with your pain meds. I would just go with jello or some kind of fresh fruit. I swear fresh fruit and unsalted crackers is so awesome afterwards.. I promise. Pack ur own stuff if you can..I did. You will barely have an appetite for day 1 & 2 then it will gradually come back. So just take down something easy to breakdown and pass when you have ur first "movement". lol
I hear many on here saying they use the protein shakes and crap,but I am in

B
January 6, 2012
love with Naked Protein Zone. If you can stand the taste of whey you will like it.
O
January 7, 2012
I'm going to be so afraid to sneeze! I am staying at my moms house for a week. I currently live in a tri level with my two cats. I cant imagine walking up stairs or sneezing. Yikes! Will get some fresh fruit, I love pineapple. Hope all is well and your wounds are healing well...

L
January 8, 2012
OC_girl - you NEED to be afraid to sneeze or cough. LOL!! That stuff is no joke. Its a feeling beyond your imagination. The first time I sneezed I believe my head also spun around on my neck! OUCH!!!

WE
UPDATED FROM BoogieKnights47
4 days post
¸¸.•´°¤ OMG. So I can finally come and...
¸¸.•´°¤ OMG. So I can finally come and update. Hopefully it will all make sense and I will spell everything correctly...LOL!
The day of surgery I was pretty much cool... I was excited but a little nervous of what my outcome would be. After you plan for something like this you get to the point where you are plain ready to get it over with and start recovering..
My surgery was on Wednesday at 12:00pm,however,they ended up sending me in to surgery early.I was happy about that. My doc did his drawings on me and I was giving a sedative and next thing I know I was knocked out and in the recovering room!
I was told that my PS removed 8pds. of fat from my body!! I was like,MUTHERFUCKER!!! I just went into labor basically!?!?
Anyway,I was in pain! They gave me all kinda goodies to get my pain level down. I was at a 9 when I woke up and left the Outpatient facility at a 5. :o(
Oh my lordy...road bumps and all that jazz was the worst! The hubby called my doc. and asked if I could take more meds for pain and he gave me the okay to take two lortab and continued to take one every four hours.
I ended up staying at a hospital near the surgery center I went to instead of having to cough up $1000 to stay over in the hospital.
The first night I slept on and off.. I dreaded going to the bathroom...! ERRRRRMIGOTTT!!!! The amount of endurance you need to just take a simple pee is BANANAZ!!!
Honestly, the first couple of days has been somewhat of a blur because I have been so doped up.I have to keep it real. I was able to text message and that was it. I sleep with at least eight pillows at night!
I do recall a itch!!! Its a terrible itch that you cant even scratch. Its all around you stomach and your sides...mostly anywhere you had some surgery done. I used a hydroxypam and it served me well to treat the anxiety of the itching while reducing itch.
I'm moving lots better today. I can walk for a good while..however my belly button feels like it wants to burst at times. LOL My appetite is amazing.. idk. I feel pretty darn good. Can't wait to get these drains removed on Tuesday and these darn stitches taken out!! So far I am happy with what Dr. Spann was able to achieve!
The day of surgery I was pretty much cool... I was excited but a little nervous of what my outcome would be. After you plan for something like this you get to the point where you are plain ready to get it over with and start recovering..
My surgery was on Wednesday at 12:00pm,however,they ended up sending me in to surgery early.I was happy about that. My doc did his drawings on me and I was giving a sedative and next thing I know I was knocked out and in the recovering room!
I was told that my PS removed 8pds. of fat from my body!! I was like,MUTHERFUCKER!!! I just went into labor basically!?!?
Anyway,I was in pain! They gave me all kinda goodies to get my pain level down. I was at a 9 when I woke up and left the Outpatient facility at a 5. :o(
Oh my lordy...road bumps and all that jazz was the worst! The hubby called my doc. and asked if I could take more meds for pain and he gave me the okay to take two lortab and continued to take one every four hours.
I ended up staying at a hospital near the surgery center I went to instead of having to cough up $1000 to stay over in the hospital.
The first night I slept on and off.. I dreaded going to the bathroom...! ERRRRRMIGOTTT!!!! The amount of endurance you need to just take a simple pee is BANANAZ!!!
Honestly, the first couple of days has been somewhat of a blur because I have been so doped up.I have to keep it real. I was able to text message and that was it. I sleep with at least eight pillows at night!
I do recall a itch!!! Its a terrible itch that you cant even scratch. Its all around you stomach and your sides...mostly anywhere you had some surgery done. I used a hydroxypam and it served me well to treat the anxiety of the itching while reducing itch.
I'm moving lots better today. I can walk for a good while..however my belly button feels like it wants to burst at times. LOL My appetite is amazing.. idk. I feel pretty darn good. Can't wait to get these drains removed on Tuesday and these darn stitches taken out!! So far I am happy with what Dr. Spann was able to achieve!
Replies (5)

S

WE
December 19, 2011
BOOGZ yea I am so excited for you get it in ma you know do what you must! I am worried abt pain for the first day but since i will be staying at the hospital for a while I ma not to worried!

WE
December 19, 2011
Ladies I do need to apolgize Boogz gave a shot out to you all and I was on the road Fri I forgot to post I did tell her you sent your love!
R
December 23, 2011
Hope u doing well when u get a chance let me no about u staying @ hospital like how much did that cost you how to go about it thanks.

B
December 26, 2011
I did a typo. My surgeon offered me a night stay in the hospital hotel and I chose to stay at a hotel. To stay overnight in the hosptial at the outpatient center I went to cost $1000. I said noway! I rather stay at a nice hotel. I only did this because I lived over an hour away from my doctor and wanted to be safe in case of complications.

WE
December 23, 2011
MY CHICA IS FIRE HELL FCK N YEA MA THTS WASS UP AHAHAH YOU LOOK HELLA GOOD!

S

I had a classmate say..
" OMG, your boobies are SO out there nowadays!! What the hell is going on??"
HAHA
I wanted to say...
" Well [RS bleep], that's because I had 8pds. of stomach as big as my dang [RS bleep] before Christmas break..."