Can I have new crowns removed from implants?

How can I tell the dentist I prefer to not have the crowns? I prefer the abutments and it’s making me so sad to see my puffed out jaw now having crowns placed on implants in back of mouth.. I have been devastated since they were placed and I have jaw pain. I don’t see any way they’d agree having already made several adjustments though. If I ask a different dentist would they be able to remove without causing damage to the implant?