Dear skinnybutsorry, I'm truly sorry to hear about the loss of your parents and the subsequent challenges you have been facing. Your journey and your feelings are valid, and I commend you for seeking assistance to address your current health concerns. Given the multifaceted nature of your situation – encompassing both the physical aftermath of liposuction and the emotional toll of profound loss – a multidisciplinary approach may be best suited for you: Bariatric Physician or Nutritionist: A specialist in weight management can provide guidance tailored to your unique situation. They can evaluate your current nutritional intake and offer strategies and meal plans to manage your weight in a healthful manner, taking into account your post-liposuction changes. Gastroenterologist: The symptoms you're describing, such as feeling full or bloated after small meals and abdominal distension, warrant a consultation with a gastroenterologist. They can perform necessary evaluations to rule out any medical conditions that might be contributing to your symptoms. Mental Health Professional: Coping with profound loss can profoundly impact our relationship with food and our body. A therapist, counselor, or psychologist with experience in grief and trauma can provide emotional support and coping strategies, helping you process your feelings in healthier ways. Consider professionals skilled in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which is an effective treatment for emotional eating. Plastic Surgeon: Revisiting the surgeon who performed your liposuction, or consulting with another board-certified plastic surgeon, can be beneficial. They can evaluate the changes in your body post-weight gain, provide insights into any physical alterations related to the procedure, and discuss potential corrective measures if needed. Primary Care Physician: Always keep your primary doctor informed about significant health changes. They can monitor your overall health, coordinate with specialists, and might be able to refer you to trusted professionals in the above fields. Support Groups: Groups dedicated to individuals who've undergone cosmetic procedures, or those dealing with grief, can provide emotional support and a sense of community. Sharing with and hearing from others who've had similar experiences can be cathartic and provide additional coping strategies. To conclude, the key is to approach this holistically, addressing both the physical and emotional components of your situation. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and there are numerous professionals eager to assist and support you on your journey to well-being. Sincerely, Dr. Katzen