I am sorry you are suffering complications of a TRAM flap construction. At this point you should focus on finding a board certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon specializing in microsurgery to help you understand the complications and how to move forward. There are options...
I would encourage you to wear the compression garment as much as you can. This will help your body to keep the swelling and fluid production down. Hang in there. These drains can take some time.
At 245 you might be at higher risk for complications. It is important to know your BMI and were you "carry" your weight. Also patients are becoming more sophisticated regarding DIEP flap surgery. Many want to know that truly no muscle was taken. So I offer to show them...
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