I'm 47 years old with 4 kids; 25, 23 (twins), and 7. Fortunately I was very lucky to have great genes. I did not get one stretch mark on my stomach. I've always had small breast, I'm pushing it to say I wear a B cup and that's padded. Never being able to feel confident in a bikini and all the clothes I could not wear due to being flat chested. I'm so excited I'm finally doing this. I've decided to go with saline 450 CC under the muscle. Possibly 420-430. I was told that would be decided by the surgeon during the procedure. My dr. and his staff think I am going a little too big for my frame (5'5 125 pds) and wanted me to know up front that it would take 6 months to look they way they should. I don't want to be one of those girls who wished they'd gone bigger, this is a once and a lifetime chance for me and I want to do it right. I have the most amazing boyfriend who has been so supportive (I suppose, what man wouldn't be. ha.) and will be helping me every step of the way.
Updated on 5 Oct 2014:
Omg! I'm getting so nervous, unfortunately it's in my nature to over think everything. Ugh. I'm so excited and so scared, all rolled up in one. Anyone else have high anxiety before surgery?This week is going to be so busy for me since I work a full-time job and have a 7 year old. He doesn't know about my surgery and I don't think I want him to. I've made arrangements for him to be with family and friends over the weekend. Anyone have advice on how to handle breast augmentation and explaining or not explaining this to kids?
Updated on 15 Oct 2014:
My breast augmentation was last Friday, October 10, 2014. Everything went well during surgery but I am still in a lot of pain...... OUCH! I'm either a big baby, or all you women are some tough cookies. :) I'm so uncomfortable. I haven't handled the narcotics well and my boyfriend and mother are my heroes, they deserve metals for dealing with me. The meds made me cry for no reason and these new things on my chest are heavy, and strange and they hurt!!!!! UGH! But finally on day 6, I love them. All week I've been saying why did I do this, it wasn't worth it, but it was! I ended up with 470 CC saline both breast, under the muscle. They looked so huge at first but I am so happy with the size, I wouldn't have wanted them any smaller. The swelling is going down but my skin being stretched is so painful. My gosh! My PS said I cannot message them for 6 weeks and it just seems like that would help my tight skin, but I'm not the doctor. I had planned to take off work Friday the day of operation and recoupe over the weekend and Monday. That did not work out. I finally made it into work around noon today (Wednesday) and I was miserable. Sitting at my desk for 4 hours today set me back 4 days, it seems. Could it possibly be my age (47) not able to bounce back as quickly, I don't know. I'm so ready to be able to do things for my self and be me again. Has anyone else experienced swelling other than the breast area? I weighed 125 a few minutes before surgery and that night I was 135. My stomach is a little swollen, but going down. I don't see where the extra 10 pounds went. Other than the pain, I am so happy with my results. Dr. Anigian did an incredible job.
Updated on 16 Oct 2014:
*medals * not metals
Updated on 18 Oct 2014:
Doing better but man does it still hurt.
Updated on 19 Oct 2014:
How long does it take the stictches to heal? Mine hurt so much from the BRAS! They have been my nightmare!! I am so miserable in all of them. I have 6 now and I change them constantly. First, the band around the bottom is sqeezing, pressing on my incisions so badly that I can't take it. I have one that doesn't do that because the band is wide but then there is no cup support!! I have 36, 38, 40 D's and all of them feel the same. I'm 125 pds. and I got 470 CC saline implants. Is the support of the bra for forming the implants? I feel like I may be messing things up by changing them every hour. Any advice? One last negative thing, sleeping on my back has made me about as miserable as the bra situation. How long must one really sleep on their back???
Updated on 24 Oct 2014:
Quick update. I am feeling much better and in a lot less pain. Today has been two weeks and I am happy with my results. I was worried saline wasn't going to look good, but I am happy with them. I'm not sure how much they will change over the next few months, but they're only suppose to get better with time.
Over the last few days, I've notice I have that weird vibration in my left breast but thanks to this wonderful site, I read that is normal. It just feels strange.
I'm doing better with the bras, but I cannot wait to sleep on my side, stomach, anything but my back. That's been rough for me.
Hope everyone else is doing great! I absolutely love this site and praise it for all it has helped me through. Any question or concern I have had, were answered right here.
Updated on 9 Nov 2014:
It has been a very long 4 weeks. I've finally gotten use to all the things I had to change. Sleeping in a bra, (yuck) sleeping on my back, (yuck) back pain, boobie pain, everything really. My biggest problem with this whole thing is the support bra. I have had a lot of frustration finding one that fits right, doesn't hurt, etc... the size and style my PS recommended gives me pain, mostly in my cleavage area. I am suppose to wear the bra for 6 weeks. I am wearing it but have taken 1 or 2 nights off! UGH! My left breast has been swollen and bigger than my right, and dropped first, but today they seem to have evened out some, and the pain isn't as bad. I have begun messaging regularly and over the past few days, they have felt much better. My PS said he doesn't think message hurts or helps. I would like to say that if you are planning breast augmentation soon, here is some of my advice..... 1.) lotion, lotion, lotion...... your chest, maybe message if PS allows. My skin stretching from the implants gave me a lot of pain and just felt creepy. 2.) really research the best support bras out there and don't let money be a deterrent. Remember you get what you pay for and you need comfort, comfort, comfort. 3.) Start practicing sleeping on your back, it will be a big shock to you if you don't normally sleep that way. 4.) Take a full week of work. They say you can return in 3 or 4 days, not true for me. I have a sit down desk job and needing more rest and the extra weight up top, killed my back. 5.) Be patient!!! A lot easier said than done. Hope this helps someone. I will update again soon.
Updated on 29 Dec 2014:
Hi, I wanted to update real quick to let all of you know, it does get better. For all you ladies who are fresh out of surgery or even a month post op - I know you're still in a lot of pain and think it will never get better, IT DOES! This was definitely one of the most painful experiences I've been through. I am 5'5 and weighed 125 the day I had my breast augmentation. I got Saline 470 CC moderates in both. From that very first day through 6-7 weeks, the pain was excruciating, something I did not expect. It was weird because suddenly around the 6-7 week mark, I woke up one day and felt 95% better and/or normal. The pain had subsided a great deal. I still have "morning and night boob," I guess that is what they call it when your breast seem firmer when you wake up. I haven't been massaging like I was, and I do think that helps. I am very happy with my results. I think the saline ended up looking better than I anticipated. I hope everyone is doing well in your recovery. Much Love.
Updated on 10 Oct 2015:
Hello Everyone.....
I CAN'T BELIEVE TODAY MARKS ONE YEAR SINCE MY SURGERY!!! I thought I'd give an update on this past year and what it's been like for me with my new boobies! :-) LOL!
I haven't been on here in quite some time. Before and after October 10, 2014, I’ve spent a lot of time on this website. It’s a wonderful place to get valuable information as well as give it. It is very important to share your own private experiences in the hope that it may help others. Often at times, I felt like RealSelf was my own doctor. I always found comfort in knowing that I could talk with other women that were going through the same thing that I was. I’ve learned so much from all of them. As I look back one year ago tonight, I remember how badly I hurt, how scared I was looking at these strange new objects on my chest; a foreign object that I could not get used to. Luckily I had the best guy in the world that took care of me through all of it. I can honestly say you must have a good support system in place in order to maintain comfort through your healing process. I know I put him through Hell that first few weeks of my recovery, but he helped me through it all.
Finally after three months, I started to feel like these implants belonged to me. At six months, I barely noticed they were there. One year later, I feel as if I've had them my whole life. Sometimes I even forget I have implants, my only complaint would be, I lost sensitivity in my left nipple. However, they have definitely become part of me. I went 30 plus years wearing a padded 34 B cup bra. Now I'm a 34 D or a 34 DD, depending on the brand. Before my surgery I couldn't comfortably wear lingerie, swimming suits, or certain clothes because I felt insecure about how flat-chested I was. That feeling has definitely changed and I’m so glad I went through with the surgery. I feel like my confidence level in that area has grown immensely. I was even brave enough, for the first time ever to actually put on lingerie for my man and feel like a SEXY woman should feel.
In conclusion, if this is something you want for yourself then don’t hesitate to GO FOR IT! I’m glad I did! GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU…..