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Embracing "flaws" as uniqueness - boston, ma

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I'm 25 and have always disliked my nose, but I'm...

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ponyridepele
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I'm 25 and have always disliked my nose, but I'm having such a hard time choosing the right surgeon and I want to make the right choice as its a major change to my face and would hate to have any regrets.


I'm trying to determine who's the right match for me and was hoping I could have some feedback from anyone who's had rhino by either Dr. Fechner or Dr. Bentkover in Worchester, Massachusetts.


They both seem very knowledgeable and true artists of their craft....coin flip? ;)
Thank you for any advice :)

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March 21, 2013

Thanks for starting your story on RealSelf! I hope you'll used this space to keep us updated on your whole process from decision making to post-op. You're smart to do your homework on surgeons. Here's what doctors say about choosing the right rhinoplasty doc for you.

Please do keep us posted. I love reading about different consultations, supplies you're collecting for recovery and the procedure itself.

UPDATED FROM ponyridepele

Some pics of my nose. playing around with photoshop!

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ponyridepele
I played around in photo shop with some different nose shapes...not sure which I like the best or if any are possible with my anatomy. I'm looking for subtle change in the tip and the bridge as well as bridge width. I really like the character of my nose and want to simply refine it to help the balance of my face and open up my other features.

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January 29, 2015
Personally, I think your nose is perfect as is, but of course it's entirely up to you :))). You're very pretty and your BA was killer! Made me jealous :).
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January 29, 2015
Aw thanks! I go back and forth on it all the time. Most of the time I'm happy with it and then there are those times when i see a bad pic of myself and it's devistation. I'd hate to jump into anything and make a mistake, so far from what I'm seeing it's kind of a mixed bag of good and bad experiences. . . some love their surgery and others totally regret it. and yes to the boobies, they're awesome sauce ;) love em!
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January 29, 2015
Yeah, it's definitely a mixed bag. My primary was less than good. And many people have breathing issues, stuffy/dry nose issues afterwards and irregularities. I think your nose is super perfect. Aaaand your new OO are amazing!!! I'm a 34B, although I can often fit into a 36A, so I often dream about a nice full C/D :)).
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January 29, 2015
yeah I've heard that, how are you feeling with your revision? Implants are great, totally changed my self confidence and now feel like a "complete" person. I literally had nothing (32A) and now I'm wearing 32DD or 30E which is crazy. My goal was to be a large B or C cup. There are still some trade offs with implants, like nipple sensitivity (my nipples feel totally different than before) and numbness (about 1/4 of my breasts are still numb and at this point will probably always be) but its totally worth it in my opinion. Its funny because before my BA I couldn't fit into any Victoria's Secret bras and now after I still can't! LOL!
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February 6, 2015
I am with Elisa.. your nose is gorgeous as is!
February 9, 2015
Don't touch that nose. DONT TOUCH THAT NOSE DONT TOUCH IT DONT DO IT DONT EVEN CONSIDER IT. ITS SO PERFECT. ANY DOCTOR WOULD BE CRAZY TO TOUCH THAT NOSE
February 9, 2015
appreciate the fact that the more subtle the change you want done, the harder the surgery, and the greater the risk. I consulted with both of the surgeons you listed and they are nowhere near the caliber you need for the finesse surgery you are looking for.
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February 10, 2015
!!!! Thank you!!! I'm really glad I'm getting feedback on this post because I'm starting to see that rhino is not all its cracked up to be! Did you have a bad experience? I've only had one surgery (boobs) and it's been really positive but I'd be devistation if my face was ruined!
UPDATED FROM ponyridepele

Yeah, give it to me.

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ponyridepele
Seriously, just put this nose on my face.

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April 16, 2015
Girl! I'm waiting on your review for lippies! ;) Can't wait to hear your impression.
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April 17, 2015
Lol! I'm swollen right now and have a really good bruise. I literally just did a tiny bit in my top lip because I was so nervous but I think after the swelling goes down I'll like them! I'll post pics soon ;) xoxo
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April 17, 2015
Yayyyyyyyyyy!! Congrats!!! What did you get? Juvederm too? Did it hurt? Just ice them as much as you can... Ice helps even days after. Soo happy for you! I bet he did a good job. Dr Darrow is only one... I will go to Dr Kapadia tomorrow. My lips are much better now, but I need a tiny bit more in the corners too.
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April 17, 2015
I think he used restylane because I wasn't sure how I was going to like it. Yeah it hurts a bit at the moment but I think it's more the bruise. I'm icing like a [RS bleep]! I'm glad your lips are getting better! they look so pretty! Did it just need time to soften?
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April 17, 2015
I haven't had soft lips with Dr B like I have now with Dr Kapadia. They use different products. Dr B used Juvederm Ultra Plus which is thicker and longer lasting, more lumpy too, and Dr Kapadia used Juvederm Ultra. My bottom lip is very soft. I'm surprised. I will write a review for Dr Kapadia and post pics. I looked terrible for a week. I freaked. I had huge lump, but I have decided to take a different approach, and to massage them. I kept massaging them, and that helped a ton. Some PS are against massages, some are fine... I figured I don't have anything to lose because I already look terrible.
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April 17, 2015
Restylane is great filler, and for lips, I think it gives more natural results. Did you ask Dr Darrow for massages? You definitely shouldn't massage them if you are bruised. When everything heals, you can ask Dr Darrow if you can apply a gentle pressure on lumps. If they bother you or if they are visible...
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April 17, 2015
Yes Dr. Darrow gave me the low down on all the fillers and how and why they're different. I was like "whatever goes away fastest if I hate it!!" I was so nervous... So happy for you!!! Did he dissolve any bumps you had in the top lip or are they better now? Dr darrow said I should massage it every now and then just to keep it soft but its a little too painful with the bruising at the moment lol. Last night it swelled and I literally looked like a duck, but this morning they look better, still swollen but better and the bruise has also toned down a bit.
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April 17, 2015
I have no doubt he gave you a lesson. That is just great! I bet you were nervous. Tell me about it... Yes... Second and third day are the worst. Good that swelling is going down. As I wrote, I had a huge, but HUGE lump, and it went away with massages. So, try to be patient... I'm sure you look great. When it comes to my upper lip... I will leave like this for another month, and then I will get more from Dr Kapadia (I guess). Dissolving also can cause lumps and bumps and bruising. So, I won't smile like crazy when in public. LMAO!
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April 17, 2015
Picks are up! Just for you :) I have a good lump but am not sure if its the product or inflamation from the bruise so I'm leaving it alone till the bruise goes away as its still tender. It doesn't distort when I smile currently, so if it stays, it stays! ps....I think I love it...
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April 17, 2015
Yeah! I just saw them! Nice job! Seriously, when swelling goes down, you are going to love them. I don't see that bump, and it is good that you can't see it when you smile. So good! I like it already.
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April 17, 2015
I went for Dr Kapadia today, but he didn't add more. He was so honest, and I liked that a lot. He thinks that my lips are very sensitive, and won't add Juvederm anymore. He will add Restylane Silk in 3 weeks if I need more in corners. And I already feel that I need it, but he thinks that my lips are still inflamed on the right side, so adding more will probably make another lump. So, I will wait 3 more weeks.
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April 17, 2015
And thank you so much for posting!!!
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April 17, 2015
Yes! I love a good honest dr!! Seriously, your lips are friggin killer!! I love the Restylane! I don't have anything to compare it to but it looks so so natural. Keep me posted!! Im adding a few more pics with make up...officially obsessed!!!!!!
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April 17, 2015
Please do!! Thank you so much! Stay in touch! I hope I write a review over the weekend.