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Embracing "flaws" as uniqueness - boston, ma

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No nose job for me

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ponyridepele
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I've decided that I don't want to change my nose. Ive embraced any flaws as uniqueness and part of what makes me different and inherently me. Making a large permanent change to my face just doesn't sit well with me personally. With that said I still fill my lips which makes me feel better and it's a safe non-permanent option for me. This is my personal decision and in no way reflects how I view the choices of others, I totally belive in doing what makes you happy :)

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October 24, 2015
I think you are beautiful. Honestly your nose is cute. Rhinoplasty has been emotionally and financially draining. For me it was worth it. I don't discourage or encourage anyone to do this. Honestly I still have flaws with nose nose ha! :)
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October 25, 2015
Thank you, I totally get the emotional draining thing, I had it with my breast augmentation. I'm glad to hear your happy with your rhino :)
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October 25, 2015
I love that dark lipstick! It look so good on you! And it's fall, right? I'm happy you made your decision... I think you put some time into thinking, and I'm sure your decision is the right one. You seem like you are having some hard time to make that decision, but once you balance it all out, you don't look back. Most people have the same thinking/deciding process, but some of us just push too far sometimes. What stopping me right now is my insecurity that I won't be able to handle all that stress and discomfort. Like always... On the other side, I booked my eyelid surgery for November 10th. I guess they will call me next week to make a payment. I'm starting to be really stressed. Good thing is that I'm having some cold now, so hopefully to recover before surgery. So many things going on... Btw... I got my first tattoo. :) Ha! And... I'm getting a new one right before eyelid surgery. Crazy, huh? I'm in love! Literally in love!
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October 25, 2015
So awesome! I have two and yes they are super addictive!!! ....Easier said than done, but, try not to stress about your surgery, your in good hands :) Remember our augmentations? seems like forever ago, there were some totally suck days but it was all worth it in the end!!!! I'm sure you'll love what Dr Darrow does! excited for you!!
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October 25, 2015
Will post a review once I get close to it. Yes! Super addictive! But I gotta calm down after this one! Or I'm going to tattoo my entire body. LOL!
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October 25, 2015
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October 25, 2015
Oh wow! She is really good! Wow! I love it! Amazing work! How did you hear about her? I researched a lot, but I didn't see her... Hmm... I'm with Deirdre Doyle in Redemption tattoo shop in Cambridge. http://doyletattoo.com/section/254066-Tattoos.html She blows my mind... Crazy good! I can send you a few pics in pvt messages if you want. I got sternum/solar plexus tattoo. And will be getting one all over my hip next month.
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October 25, 2015
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October 26, 2015
OH wow! Looks awesome! Love it so pretty! did it hurt? I heard that area is kind of painfull...
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October 27, 2015
I was so freaking scared of the pain! Can't even describe how much... But... I would still give it 5 of 10 in terms of pain. Not bad at all. I'm giving that to my tattoo artist. She was so gentle, did small strokes, and it took her 3 hrs to do it. The worst pain which was still 5 of 10, was at the end when she was coloring. It was already sore from earlier, but not bad at all. I can't wait for my next one... It is going to be crazy. And I can't stress enough. I have tattoo scheduled (1st session) for November 6th. Dr Darrow eyelid surgery on 10th. My mother in law arrives on November 13th, and staying for a month. LMAO!!! Seriously... Can I do it? I wonder...
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October 27, 2015
I better be able to pull it off or I'm screwed! I will also ask him for lip injections after surgery. :)
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October 27, 2015
Lol! Wow you schedule is full!! You can do it!!! And yes the shading is the worst, going back over and over ouch!!! Super excited to see all the new you!!!! Xx!
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October 28, 2015
Oh... I know... I'm excited and scared. Since my tattoo is going to happen 4 days before eyes, I think I will be obsessed with it, so I hope I won't freak out that much. :) That will be ouch ouch week... Fingers crossed! Thank you!!!! Will post when I'm able to blink! :)
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November 9, 2015
Got my second piece... Wow! First session though... RealSelf removed the site where I posted my review for the tattoo artist, but if you remembered it, you can check it out. ;) Literally in LOVE. Can't wait for some more shading and tiny bit of color. Oh well... Tomorrow I have the procedure done. 10:45 am. Will post as soon as I can... Take care!
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December 9, 2015
I wrote you a message... :(
UPDATED FROM ponyridepele

Consultation

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I scheduled a consultation with my surgeon Dr. Darrow yesterday (as well as getting my lips touched up :). He feels should I choose to do anything it would be a very slight refinement. Some slight bridge narrowing and cartilage suturing. Which is great! but then makes me feel why go through it if its minimal? I'll take some time and think about it.

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September 11, 2015
I was at his office on the same day! That was my second consultation with him about two procedures that I want to get -- upper eyelid surgery and rhinoplasty. Well... I will do my lids in a month, and my nose next year. Fingers crossed! What was your impression? What are yours concerns?
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September 15, 2015
No way!! My apt was at 11!
I think Dr. Darrow is great. He does awesome injections ( I was there for my lip) but spent a lot of time with me explaining how rhino's are done and different and specific techniques. He felt as though I needed subtle refinement if anything. The only concerns I have would be with myself and not dr. darrow as my surgeon. I want to be as sure as I can before changing any part of my face. Some days I feel like I don't need it and others I do and I think until I feel 100% NEED IT I'll probably put it on hold for a bit. Excited for you! Are you excited!?!
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September 17, 2015
I was there at 3:45 pm. Well... I wish my reason was to do my lips, but I freaked out like never... Long story short, I was positive and I still am positive that my left boob changed... I know that I'm thin in my upper body, and I know that I have zero fat around boobs, and I know that I had zero breast tissue to begin with. But to me...my left boob looked so much better at 9 months post op. In May this year something happened that I have no explanation for... I started doing yoga again, and as I would do with everything in my life, I was pushing some bad ass poses. After one of the sessions I got a small lumb like a pimple under my incision on my left breast. It was itching like crazy, and as much I touched it the more itchy it got. When I met Dr Darrow for my first consultation about new procedures, I showed him a picture. He said, he never saw that before and that might be my scar activating again... He said to put silicone sheet to keep it in place, but damn, I'm alergic to those sheets and I get rash every time. So, yeah, I didn't put those sheets. I have experienced the same thing 2 more times after that. Ok... A month or so ago I realizes my boob looks different. Can you imagine how much I freaked out? No, you can't... My mind started running wild as f**... Ok... I book appointment with Dr Darrow for the same day because they had some cancelation. I was so embarrassed, so shaky while trying to explain what is going on. Ok... He checked it, he took pictures, we analyzed them... He said there isn't anything wrong going on, but he thinks my right boob dropped more and that is why I see that difference. I still pray that he is right because it just looks damn different... Judge me, but I take selfies all the time, and I know my body very well. It looks different. So... He offered to lower my crease for free when I do nose surgery. He can't guarantee that it will look perfect, but that is what he can do... Next... Ever since then I keep reading about cc (OF COURSE, crazy mind), and I massage my left boob once or twice a day with 32000 IU vitamin E oil. I might be crazy, I know nothing at this point, but I think that my boob looks better. I will not stop with massaging... I will do it until I'm sure I can live with such a difference (9 months and over a year post op). I don't know when that will be... I really pray he is right, and I don't get anything more than this... As for other procedures... I will do upper eyelid surgery in the beginning of November, and nose surgery in March next year. Fingers crossed! Sorry to write this all out... Thanks for your time!
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September 17, 2015
And I love your new profile pic! You are so pretty!
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September 22, 2015
Oh no! I'm sure your fine if he says your fine!! I kind of have the same thing, my left boob is way lower than my right, it was before surgery and is afterwards. He offered the same (crease change) to me on my right boob to make them look more symetrical, but I'll probably go bigger and then make a tweak. I think overtime with implants things do change (just like natural boobs) depending on how we are naturally made and gravity. The skin will keep relaxing and the muscle will keep pushing down on the implant. I think as long as you don't have any pain and you can freely move the implant around within the pocket your fine and don't have CC :) I did get a terrible yeast rash in between my boobs that itched like a mother and stayed and spread to other parts of my body for months after my surgery. maybe that's what you had?... I needed to rebalance my gut and apply fungal cream after the antibiotics to clear it. ( I got a UTI 2 weeks after surgery so I had double antibiotics, yuck) I also do massages too when I'm sitting around watching tv, it does feel good to get the implants moving around, cant hurt anything :) I tried getting back into yoga but some of the poses I can just feel my pecs really pushing the implant to the side and I'm like "all set!" so I run and do lower body weight training and I'm fine with that. I also wear an underwire bra always and sleep in a sports bra. But I don't think anything you've done caused a lowering of the implant, I just think its something that can happen over time. No ones boobs are perfect, and I do have to remind myself of that when I'm having a "down" or "feeling small" boob day. I'm so far from where I started. I'm excited for your other procedures! are you getting nervous/excited! November is just around the corner!! yayay!!
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September 22, 2015
hey! I just looked at your review pics again (newest pics you have up) and I can see a tiny bit that your right boob is a bit lower than your left...barely...like the smallest tiny amount lower, like you need a microscope to see the difference. mine is like a whole half inch lower, lol, if that makes you feel better :) You look awesome!! I would try not to worry about it!
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Day 2 with Makeup

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April 17, 2015
So nice!! You are so pretty! Beautiful! Second day with make up!! Wow! I wasn't able to put make up for a week. So good! Seriously good! Thank you so much for posting your experience!