36 years old, 3 kids. Updated pics of LBL, BBL, and hernia repair!!!!! Walnut Creek, CA

I've been stalking the website since I booked my surgery. I love it, but am now more confused than when I got the strength to book it!

Like many of you ladies, I've needed my tummy repaired since I had my first child 15 years ago. I've had the umbilical hernia since I had my second child 10 years ago. Fast forward to 2011, I was the healthiest I've ever been with Insanity. I got remarried to my soulmate that year. I was living with my skin because I hadn't closed the baby shop yet. In 10/2011, I hurt my back herniating two disks and rupturing one to a bulge at work. I got pregnant with my 18 month old in 12/2011. The last couple years have been painful, but so rewarding.

By November 2013, I was still up 38 pounds from my wedding weight. I had back surgery 1/16/2014 to remove the bulge and I'm still in physical therapy. I found a healthy whole foods, non starvation diet and and 9 pounds from my goal today. The PS I chose advises to be within 10 pounds of your goal when you have surgery so I've scheduled. My nerve is not healed from my injury yet, but I figured it's best to heal at once.

I've chosen Dr. Behman in Walnut Creek to do my surgery.

Here's a couple quick pic's...

So, as of today, I'm scheduled to get a LBL. I'm not 100% sure if I'm going to go that route. I'm debating getting just an extended tummy tuck, lipo on the flanks, and lifting the a$$ a bit with grafting. I've got estimates for all scenarios. I don't have a ton of extra skin in the rear, it's more deflated. I'd love advice from some veterans in this area.

More info about my current size...

I'm 5' 10.5" and weigh 158 lbs. I plan to lose 10 more by 6/16/14, which is my surgery date. I've lost 5 since my initial consultation.

I measure 33" around the ribs but 39" around the bust (I do have implant.)

The smallest part of my waist is about 30" when I'm standing tall and flexing my muscles (not sucking it in though).

My hips measure about 39.5" but narrower around but butt as it indents now from deflation and I know it's going to get worse as I lose these last 10 pounds.

I'd like my waist smaller and my butt to round back out. If I get the LBL, is it going to just get smaller?

Also, there's about 3.5" between my bottom rib to the top of my hipbone. Can I reasonably anticipate my waist to shrink a couple inches?

The cuts have to be extended, as my flimsiest skin is my love handles. I do plan to leave my inner thighs alone for now.

Here's more pictures... I don't have the best lighting so the quality doesn't show all of my stretch marks on my love handles. My stomach skin thankfully faired ok as far as stretch marks are concerned, but I was left with way too much skin. It's must apparent with anything touching my skin, sitting down, or the classic "muffin top." I thought more pictures would be helpful when asking for veteran advice.