4 weeks PO. TT, MR, Lipo May 8th - Vancouver, WA

I am 54 and I've been married 30 years, 3...

I am 54 and I've been married 30 years, 3 adult children and 1 grandchild. I am 5'7, 150 lbs. I am very slim everywhere except my belly, I had all my kids naturally and considering I gained 50lbs with 2 of them I did not get stretch marks. My stomach wasn't as flat as before kids but I was able to wear bikinis until into my 40's my stomach kept getting bigger. I have had plastic surgery twice in the past, but I am still scared S#&%less, why? My dr does the twilight sedation, I've had it before but still scared. I think of backing out but I look at the after pics and think I want that. My heart is pounding so hard, I think I'll have to take valium eveyday till then. I am going to rent a hospital bed, too. I also bought a used easy lift recliner in new condition then will resell it later. I am going on a cruise in Sept. and am worried I will still be too swollen. That's about 4 months, you ladies that had a similar surgery let me know your opinion. Will post before pics as soon as I figure out how.

Tomorrow I go in for my pre-op. I have 3 major...

Tomorrow I go in for my pre-op. I have 3 major fears, 1- the surgery, 2- the pain after surgery and 3- how will I look? Each of the fears take turns being number 1. I also start to think maybe I shouldn't do this, maybe I should just continue to not buy the clothes that would look good if I didn't have this belly. But, I really want to look good. I guess I should just put on my big girl panties and do it. Speaking of which, should I wear my normal bikinis or should I buy some granny panties? Should I buy a button up nightgown? I imagine sweat pants would not be easy to get on. Is the CG hard to get on and take off? I feel like I'm in a constant state of panic.

6 days to tt Went to my pre-op today, all went...

6 days to tt
Went to my pre-op today, all went well, my husband came along. After the appt I felt such a calm sense of relief. This week my heart was constantly racing, my hands sweating, just a constant state of panic. I really hope I stay calm from here on. I have all the faith in the world in my doctor. He did tell me I probably won't be as flat as I was before children but will look alot better. I'm kinda disappointed but as long as I'm slimmer and tighter I'll take it.

3 days to go. I'm starting to get a little more...

3 days to go. I'm starting to get a little more nervous but I try to focus on how much better I will look, that helps. Yesterday I told my son (he lives with us) that I was having back surgery, he should buy it, I've had back surgery before. Then I had lunch with my daughter and told her the truth, she's happy for me. She was concerned that I might overdose on pain pills, I thought that was sweet, but I told her dad will have total control of the meds.
My husband and I went out to dinner last night, the food was awful but the conversation was good. I felt like he was being a little cold and distant since I decided on the surgery but its all good now. He was just under alot of stress at work. He's actually happy for me but says "this is the last one, right?" I told him I promise. Each time I've had plastic surgery I swore I would not do this again but its just like childbirth, you forget about the pain.
I'm slowly getting things ready but I'm feeling a little overwhelmed. I'm going to buy a toilet seat riser, I don't if I should get one with or without handles. Any suggestions?

2 days to tt. Wow, I'm starting to get very...

2 days to tt. Wow, I'm starting to get very nervous again. The PS gave me oxycodone, is that stronger than perceset? I hope so. I've been cleaning, doing laundry and just trying to get everything I might need. I can't find bentadine soap, he said not to get bentadine solution. Too late to order it. Got my easy lift recliner set up today, the seat seams a little hard. The hospital bed will be delivered tomorrow. I just want to control the fear and the pain.

Less than 24 hours to go. I can't breath, I can't...

Less than 24 hours to go. I can't breath, I can't eat. I know I'll be okay, I just get super nervous (scared) about this kind of stuff.
I just took my measurements and my stomach is the same size as my butt! ha ha ha Not for long. I sure hope I won't be disappointed. He's a great surgeon so I'm sure I won't be. Although, he did say he won't be able to get me as flat as before children but it will be better. I have too much fat inside, the bad fat that can't be sucked out. That figures.

3 days PO. ...

3 days PO. Doing better today. I stll need help getting in and out of bed, my husband has been wonderful. My husband and I have been together for 30 years and not once have I ever gone to the bathroom in front of him but since I had had this surgery I've been going in front of him. Not much choice. I am so glad I got this hospital bed, it has been so much easier to get comfy. I go to see the PS today. I tried numerous times to post on realself but I keep falling asleep at the keyboard. I read what I just wrote and it sounds like I'm just rambling on. Hope everyone is doing good.

3 days PO, went to the doc and got to see my...

3 days PO, went to the doc and got to see my tummy, I can't believe how flat it is. I can't wait till I get healed to see the final results. No drains, either. I was worried I would have them because of all the stories I've read. Will try to post pics as soon as I can. I'm so happy I got the hospital bed.

4 days PO. I'm moving better today. Each night I...

4 days PO. I'm moving better today. Each night I wake up at the same time, when the pain pills wear off and after laying so long it hurts soooo bad to get up. Other than that I do sleep pretty good. My husband had to work today so my 22 year old son and his 3 year old is here to help. I think my husband was happy to go to work, he seemed a little stressed. My back is so sore, well, so is my front. Hope everyone is doing good.

5 days PO. Today doesn't seem as progressive as...

5 days PO. Today doesn't seem as progressive as before but actually I think I'm standing straighter but my back hurts like hell. I've had a few hours alone so thats been nice. I kinda felt like having a little meltdown today.I got a text message from my daughter that said happy mothers day. A text message. WTF So my feelings are hurt. I talked to her yesterday and told her we won't be doing anything today but I didn't mean I only wanted a text message, a call would have been nice. I guess its my fault, I raised her. My son and 3 year old granddaughter (they live with us) are trying to be very helpful and for that I'm grateful. Well, he took her out for a few hours and for that I'm VERY grateful. So I got caught up on Desperate Housewives and I'm feeling better. But my tummy feels hard as a rock up higher, maybe its swelling a little. I've kept up with the stool softener and it worked yesterday, so thats one less thing I have to worry about. I've thought about weaning myself off the pain pills but as soon as they wear off I can't stand it. I see the doc tomorrow. When am I going to feel better. I know, it's only been 5 days. Has anybody else noticed you'll think its like 4 in the afternoon and its only 10 in the morning? Time for me is just crawling.
Happy Mothers Day

Update. My daughter called. I should have known...

Update. My daughter called. I should have known she wouldn't just send a text. Can I blame it on the pain and meds?

6days PO. Feeling better today, went for checkup...

6days PO. Feeling better today, went for checkup at PS, everything looked good. Go back again Friday. So physically I'm having a better day but emotionally I'm not. My husband works 2 jobs and I had asked my son if I could count on him to help me. He lives with us and is looking for a job. This morning I had to yell at him to get up and take care of his daughter, I'm in tears cuz I really don't need this right now. So he's been gone all day, I've had no help except when my husband took me to the doc. I spilled milk at breakfast cuz I'm tilting the jug cuz I can't lift it, I have a scrambled egg and toast for lunch and the same for dinner. So I have to have my husband take me to the store after 9 tonight when he gets home. Trust me, my son wouldn't be here if it wasn't for that baby. The mom is unfit and not in the picture. I live in the country so its hard to find anyone to help. I just don't know how I'm going to get thru this.

7 days PO. Today is better, my son has been very...

7 days PO. Today is better, my son has been very helpful and says he feels bad about yesterday. So he took me to the store and I drove a cart. I was pretty exhausted when we got home. I'm standing alot straighter today. I have such a problem with the CG. I found out I've had it too loose. I wish I would hurry up and get normal, I'm tired of being like this.

8 days PO. I feel a slight improvement each day. I...

8 days PO. I feel a slight improvement each day. I wish I knew when I'm going to turn that corner I read others writing about where I feel great. I went to the store again today and I'm back down just exhausted.

I'm 10 days PO. My after pic was taken on day 7 PO...

I'm 10 days PO. My after pic was taken on day 7 PO. I'm very hunched over and insecure without my binder, so I think I look like an alien. I'm still hunched, maybe not as bad, depending on how sore I am. I have more soreness on my left side. Before the surgery I had this fear that I would be permanently hunched over and since I'm still hunched my fear hasn't gone away. I know I will be straight again, eventually. Went to the store today and I'm not so wiped out right now, so that's encouraging. Yesterday saw the PS for a check, everything looked good except for one spot on the vertical incision so I have to use polysporin and gauze. He said that happens sometimes on verticals. Boy, do I hate that poking and touching, I get so squeamish. Its very sensitive there. I was sweating and kinda feeling light headed so when I got home I took a muscle relaxer and slept a couple hours. Felt much better after that. I am so happy I got the hospital bed, I just can't imagine trying to get in and out of my regular bed. Even the first few days my husband still had to do most the work moving me.

4 weeks PO. Standing a lot straighter, not 100%...

4 weeks PO. Standing a lot straighter, not 100% yet. At 2 weeks I went thru a terrible depression, then after seeing my PS I felt much better, he's very reassuring. I've been so much better since then. He said I could stop wearing the cg if I wanted or wear spanx if I'm too insecure. Well, I can't find anything that isn't too tight. So I guess I'll just try and wean myself off it. This is such a long, slow process, sometimes I feel I will never be normal. I haven't been happy with my belly button it just looked too big. But today I see improvement so hopefully I won't have to have a revision. The PS said I would have to wait a year. I think because of scar tissue. I will ask him on Friday when I see him. I would like honest opinions.

4 weeks 2 days PO. Had a very good day, ran a...

4 weeks 2 days PO. Had a very good day, ran a couple errands, went to Sweet Tomatoes with my husband and daughter then went grocery shopping. Later took my dogs for a walk, poor things have been cooped up in the yard for over 4 weeks. I am almost standing completely straight. I still get hunched over after sitting but it straightens out faster. So, now that I'm feeling better I have a sore throat and feel like I'm getting sick. Isn't that just lovely. Have an appt with PS tomorrow, I might have to cancel it, sure don't want to get him sick. Hope everyone is doing good.

5 weeks PO. I am feeling so much better. I'm still...

5 weeks PO. I am feeling so much better. I'm still wearing the binder, will I ever get to the point where I feel I won't need it? Is it physical or psycological? Still not happy with my belly button.
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