Uncertain and Scared

I'm sorry your family & bf didn't have the reaction you were hoping for. They are used to you with the nose you have now. However, they will also get used to your new nose too. Especially since the removal of the columella and dorsal hump might be obviously apparent, but any other changes will probably appear slowly over time, as the swelling that follows surgery goes away. I will be 100% honest with you, which is easy since I don't know you: The computer-imaged nose doesn't look "shorter" to me than the nose you have now. If you look at the frontal pics, you can see the length is almost identical. I believe the change in the profile pic is from "de-projecting" the nose, so it doesn't stick out so far from your face. I know that surgeons have to have an artistic eye for 3D balance and proportion. In your morphed profile picture, if the doctor left your nose projecting out any further, I think you would end up still having a big nose. For example, I think your mouth and eyes are not large, and your bone structure is defined. These characteristics have with a hint of delicacy about them that's really pretty, so the smaller nose suits you much, much better. Finally, there actually is a "textbook" ideal size of a nose (generally speaking) that is based on geometry (angle measurement) for men and women. I think the doctor's computer picture is much more feminine (it doesn't have the sharp angles of your present nose, which is more masculine). My vote? Do it. Make YOURSELF happy with this choice, not your family. Don't leave decision about the shape or size of a part of your body up to them, or up to your doctor. I recommend you deciding what you want to make yourself happy. The people who love you will come around, don't worry.

Get your nose done the digital image looks really good and fits your face well .

it looks good!!

Hi! I saw your story pop up on the right side and I thought I'd send you a comment since I relied on this site so much to get reassurance that what I was doing was the right thing. Like you, I always wanted to get my nose corrected, because I just never felt it fit my face and I was insecure about it. It just *bothered* me. I never felt like I would be able to actually do anything about it though. I am 23 and finally have the finances to get the surgery independently. I decided to just go for it. I planned and saved for a few months beforehand, and booked the surgery for last week. I *just* got my cast taken off today and I couldn't be more happy. I literally could just burst with happiness and excitement about my new nose. I feel that a weight has been lifted off. I was also worried about my family and coworker's reactions and judgments, but honestly, no one can say anything about it now because a) it looks great and b) I am just so happy that anything anyone says won't phase me. So, when it comes down to it, do what *you* want to do. If it's something you've always wanted, then it's something you should do. I always think that if I have a feeling or a thought for a long time, than it's not a silly matter. It's something that should be acted upon. Go for it! Eventually, you will regret not doing it based on what others think or feel. This is YOUR face and your decision in the end. Also, I think you should express to your doctor what you're hoping to achieve and then let him give his thoughts. He is the professional and he will know what looks best for your face. However, I found it to be helpful to give my surgeon what my expectations were (and my fears... I didn't want an "upturned" or "pinched" look!). Being on the same page with him made me feel more confident that I'd get what I was hoping for. Best of luck!

Hi - I think you just need to get your nose thinned out. The new nose looks too short and too upturned - I think it looks weird. You need a nose that suits the rest of your face. When you look at so many beautiful women: Sophia Loren, Christy Turlington, Jessica Biel, Angelina Jose - their noses are all long, but they're thin (without or without surgery).

Hi! I have my scheduled for January 15th and have little to no support as well. I was totally fine until I actually booked it but if I talk to my love ones they all say dont do it. I'm still doing it because it is what i've wanted so i can relate to your situation. As for our advise... I would have to ask what you do not like about your nose? For me I wanted a more delicate nose so it will change quite a bit but if you only want a slight change tell your doctor exactly what you are looking for. I would also suggest a second consult with the doctor you feel comfortable. Once I met my doctor for a 2nd visit I felt more comfortable. Good luck!

I think the new nose looks more delicate which is exactly what I want from my nose job on Jan.15th. I am sorry about your family and friends... I have no support and its really hard because as the date gets closer I am getting anxious. I would suggest meeting with your doctor again for a 2nd consult, when I met for a 2nd consult it made me feel more comfortable. Good luck!

It'll be great! :) Don't worry too much or over think it. I am now at "day 22" and still find myself obsessing over changes and I realize it's not helpful to do that. I just need to keep busy with other things in my life and not focus, because I know time is on my side and each day will bring new changes (swelling, more refinement, etc.). Be positive! Your new nose is going to look fantastic. :-)

So happy for you! Good luck staying busy and calm. You will be fine. Bruising and swelling can't hurt you (bother you yes, depress you a bit yes, but hurt you, no). Don't worry about them. You will look great, and I can't wait to see your after pics!