"38yrs Old Two Big Bambinos! One C Section. Joining the Flat Side Soon!! - United Kingdom, GB

Just want to share some pics and hopefully get...

Just want to share some pics and hopefully get some feedback and encouraging words of wisdom back as I'm soooo nervous!
I'm 38 and have two boys, now 18 & 15. They were both 10lbs! I've been left saggy with tons of ugly stretch marks which bother me massively. I've tried toning but I've been told I'm fighting a losing battle as my abdominal wall is told and needs repairing. When I lose weight it looks worse so I went to see a PS and thought he might suggest some lipo but he's convinced me to have a full TT with abdominal repair and lipo to the flanks :/ so with much deliberation I'm going for it. Booked in for July 11th!! I've started vitamin B and vitamin C as I've read this is a good idea. I don't smoke which is good. I'm prepared for it to be REALLY painful afterwards and I have bought arnica to take but not sure how and when to take it anyone advise? I have arnica cream for after for bruising but thought I could start taking it orally at some point.
I'm going to prep lots of food so I don't have to worry about feeding the family and I've got a great partner that's going to help. Any suggestions on prepping would be good. Waxing etc?? Helping with nervs? Nervs are taking over excitement at the moment. Worried about height of scar etc. I'm hoping that I can achieve a good result and be happy with my body again cause I've forgotten what that's like!!!
Thanks for reading tummy tuckers x

quick update so far…….

hi, well my nerves are no better! can't sleep for thinking about 'am i doing the right thing' all this money on me, will it be worth it etc…. I'm sure I'm not the only one going through those questions! its still booked for the 11th july. started taking 4 arnica a day now to build up some immunity (if that makes sense). still taking vitamins b and c. Also i went for a hollywood wax! (thats all off) i wanted to do a trial run as I've never had a bikini wax of any sort before. just want to prep the area myself before surgery and to not have to worry for a few weeks afterwards either. It hurt like hell might i add! LOL but I'm kinda thinking if i can't take a wax then i shouldn't being going ahead with such a painful op. I did wince a few times and i only swore once! not bad. so im going to get it done again 3 days before the op that way the pores are closed, no risk of infection during op but i will be smooth and hair free. yay. i am meant to be trying to lose a few more pounds prior to surgery but I'm doing rubbish, its like i can't get motivated with an operation looming. I'm normally so focused but its just not happening for me. Hope it won't effect results :( I will be glad to get it done. For you post tummy tuckers, will muscles/skin react normal after the op i.e tighten again and tone like they're meant to??
anyway ive seen some really great results recently on here and it helps to keep me going so thanks for sharing stories and pics, its really helping.
speak soon xx

4 days to go!!

Well just thought I'd check in. I've got four days to go!! It's come round so quick! Nerves setting in now, I do get times of excitement but then the nerves creep in and ruin it:( I guess this is normal. I'm going in at 7:30 procedure at 8:30. People giving me great advice such as button through night shirts bigger pants! Lol. More pillows etc... All paid up and mrsa swabs done now. I've seen some great results lately on here which had kept me going, hope I will be seeing you all on the flat side soon.
Update soon .... :) xx

Surgery day!!

Hey tummy tickets-quick update. Arrived at hospital 7:30 had blood pressure taken, went over my notes with the nurse then the Anaesthetist came in for a chat, I always get nauseous after so he made me a special cocktail to deal with this! Great man. Calmed my nerves a lot. Surgeon can in and went over details, drew on me and again calmed my nerves and felt loads better after that chat. I was taken down at 9:00 and in recovery by 11:30. Was very groggy and felt sick but it soon passed thankfully. I woke up in my compression garment which is very tight!! I had morphine to start but now I'm on 2 paracetamol and 1 ibuprofen every 4 hours if it hurts inbetween they top me up with a low dose painkiller like morphine or co codomol. Pain on a scale of 1-10 has only ever been at 7 now I'm at a 4 and it's more of an ache can def cope. Have been to the toilet for a pee a few times first I had the bed pan now I'm walking to the toilet aided which is a palace cause you have to take your drains! Coping well though, my garment is having a wash as my drain leaked on it so had a sneeky peek and living what I see already!!! One happy bunny xx

On the flat side and home

Just to let you know that I had 2 nights in hospital and had my drains removed this morning, that was painless, just a slight stinging sensation. I took 3 deep breaths and held the 3rd one while the drain was slid out. No problem, over with in a flash and I was so worried about it too lol ;)
I'm at home resting up with my feet up. I've had 2 paracetamol and 1 brufen and finding this is fine for me. I'm taking arnica to help with bruising and I'm going to have a veggie juice in a bit. Not had a bowel movement yet :/ had some lactolose this morning to aid with this hopefully.
Any questions please ask x
Signing out for now :)

Post op day 3

Quick update so far- mainly resting just walking to the loo and round house a little. Very hunched over and tight. I have a full compression garment ( body suit) it's tight and very uncomfortable! It has a hole in the crotch area! Not at all attractive, so you don't have to take it off to use the loo. I just roll it down to wash and I've removed it once for washing. Tricky to get back on- takes 2. Different to other garments that I've seen on here. I'm finding my back is the most sore at this stage- from lipo to flanks I'm guessing. Will try to do some pics tomorrow when I remove garment for a wash, looks very bruised now. I am sleeping ok- went for 6 hours during the night without pain killers and woke up extremely stiff and sore will try not to do that again! Mornings definitely the worst time of day. Stitches coming out on the 18th July x

Bruising pictures :/ Awww

Well here's the results so far, pretty bruised as you can see in the lipo areas. Still hunched over but doing ok. Blue dressing on sides are covering drain holes and blue dressing on front covering new belly button. Scar looks to be quite low but hard to tell at this stage. It's like waiting for Christmas! Lol happy with how things are looking already.
Took dulcolax last night to help with b/m and went this morning, feel loads better now I've been and am less bloated. ( sorry for details) but it's gonna happen to you! Feet look a little swollen today so I will have a gentle walk around today and see how they look tomorrow. All in all I'm very happy at the moment with tiny steps forward. :)
Good luck to those going in x
See you on the flat side soon.

Fat removed etc....

Forgot to mention my ps removed 2 ltrs with lipo and I had 2 kilos of skin removed with 2cm muscle repair.

Update so far....

Well so far all is going ok. Stitches being removed tomorrow, that should make for some interesting pictures tomorrow! Bit nervous about seeing it properly for the first time.
Back pain a real nightmare, I'm standing straighter but not straight yet as you can see from pics. I removed binder for washing so thought I'd do some photos, bruising is really sore but yesterday I applied some arnicare to them and I have to say they look less aggressive today but still bad, just applied some more so will grin and bare it. Almost a week now :) cabin fever is the worst so a trip to hospital tomorrow is a bonus don't think my husband sees it like that bless him it's is birthday! Lol
I'm walking around plenty and drinking more than normal, swelling in feet has gone down now. I've cut back on pain meds now, just paracetamol as and when which is good as I don't like taking too many meds. Just enjoying half and hour without being in my binder!
Will check in tomorrow with stitches update... Wish me luck x

Stitches removed

Well stitches are out, bit uncomfortable especially when dressings/tape were pulled off! (took paracetamol before hand) But they're out so that's good news. Had a couple removed on my back as well where lipo was done. Seen the scar and belly button for the first time, looks pretty Grimm at the moment :( I'm all the colours of the rainbow with bruising too. The scar itself is even and low enough so that it's hidden by my pants which I'm very pleased about.I'm still very swollen and sore. I still have quite a few stretch marks remaining which I expected as they were bad but hopefully when things settle down a bit the overall look will improve. Glad today's mile stone is done. The scar is now covered with scar tape to help healing, I can shower and change tape as and when I need to. The tape is to be worn now for 3 months and I am to continue wearing my garment for 6 weeks. Follow up appointment with ps is on Monday.
Keep you posted. :)

Scar tape

Post op check up

Well I had my first post op appointment yesterday with my surgeon. He's very happy with progress so far, says swelling and numbness is normal. Went over how well the op went which is good to hear. I have to wear the full garment for at least another four weeks :( I can take it off in the day for an hour to wash it etc.. I'm ok to shower now, I'm wearing scar tape and I'm to keep it on until it starts to come off at which point I can change it but other than that I'm to leave it alone to do its job. I'm not taking any pain killers at this point now which is good. I'm just uncomfortable but not in pain. Bruises are looking loads better- will post some pics. I'm still rubbing bruises with arnicare cream and I can see it's helping. Still can't stand up straight! Anyway that's about it for now- wish I could push the forward button 3 months! Lol good luck if you're about to go in for you TT xx

Comparison time!

Just comparing before and after and even if I'm left with stretch marks I'm happy.My surgeon was right it was a trade up!

Full compression garment pics

I've only seen binders on here that wrap around the torso so thought some might find these pics interesting or funny! I'm from the uk and I've been given a full compression garment to wear, so if you're told the same unfortunately this is what it looks like! It's extremely tight, it has hook and eyes ( like the clasp of a bra) going all the way up either side of your body with zips over the top of the hooks. The top is bib and braces style! With adjustable shoulder straps. You keep it on all of the time. Yes even when you go to the loo! There is a huge opening from your crotch to you bottom ( not attractive) I wear pants over the top( super hero style! Lol)as it's more comfortable for me to be covered up downstairs if you get my meaning. To make the top more comfy I wear a soft sports bra underneath, this stops any rubbing from your binder under your breasts. I'm getting used to it now, I take it off for a shower only and if it needs washing. It's very hot though which is not nice and it's extremely hard to find things to wear over the top! So if you only have a binder which goes around your torso you're very lucky. Thought some mind find it interesting as when I was told about the full garment I just said ' ok' but had no idea what it looked like. Enjoy pics, no laughing please!! ????

Scar and BB update

Well it's been just over 2 weeks and things are moving in the right direction. I drove yesterday for the first time which was ok. Could prob drive sooner but my back had been too sore from lipo, still sore but not as bad, it's also still numb as is my stomach.
Removed tape this morning after shower, this is the first time I've taken it off, it pulled a little and removed a few scabs with it but scar is pencil thin and neat it's a little puckered here and there where I've been stitched over stretch marks but I guess it's still early days, hope it improves with time. Looks ok for only 2 weeks gone. I have spit a dissolvable stitch in my bb so unless it comes away soon I will go and have it snipped off, it looks like a white thin piece of plastic thread, I've heard it's quite common. Dissolvable stitches only dissolve below the skin I'm told so this little one will have to be removed, tried gently pulling it but it won't budge' best leave it to the experts I think.
BB looking a little strange, not sure what I was expecting, just a hole I think so I was surprised to see a lumpy bb :/ I've been told it's looking normal at this stage opinions please?? Looks worse in the close up I've taken! Also my bruising is disappearing really fast but I'm still not standing straight :/ how much longer!!

1 month post op for me!

It's been 4 weeks today. Scar and BB looking better. I'm still in my full garment and wearing scar tape. I can ditch the garment in a couple of weeks which is exciting! I might be able to wear normal clothes! My back is still very sore from lipo to flanks :( I can sleep on my side for short periods of time but when I go to move I'm really stiff but it's nice to be able to sleep in a different position. I can drive ok and go for short walks, I tried a long walk but regretted it the day after as my flank area felt like they were on fire! They were stoning like really bad sun burn so won't be doing that again in a hurry. I'm cooking and doing light chores and finding this fine as long as I rest plenty in between. Bruising is pretty much gone now as you can see from pics. I've put an early scar pic and a recent one so you can see the difference. I'm swollen a little as it was taken at the end of the day and I find this is when swelling is at it's worst. All going ok apart from aching in lipo area and I'm still not standing as straight as I could be but I guess we are all different and I have to be patient ???? anyway take care if you're recovering and be excited if you're going in! ????

Scar and BB at 8 weeks

8 weeks pits op tomorrow.
Still numb on BB area, lipo areas still sore at this stage. I can sleep on my side ok now but sore in the morning when I wake up :( I'm out of my garment now which is a relief. Still wearing the scar tape and will continue with this for another 3 months as advised by my PS. Saw Mr mcdiarmid this week, he's very pleased with healing and progress so far, no sign of seroma just normal swelling at this stage which is to be expected. It's worse at the end of the day. I can get back to light exercise but haven't done this yet. Might start with swimming as when I attempted a light jog my hips throbbed like crazy. I've noticed some bruising coming out on my right hip area where I had lipo so I'm using arnica again to help it along. Scars is healing nicely, reddish/purple at the moment. BB looking much better now and it isn't covered anymore.
All in all everything going great. Can't wait till swelling goes down more though!! Again more patience lol ;)

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Mr James Mcdiarmid Duchy Hospital Cornwall

Great surgeon, never any pressure to have surgery. Made me feel at ease and reassured me from start to finish. Scar is very neat and low as it could be. The Duchy Hospital is extremely good, lovely efficient nurses who can't do enough for you. Would highly recommend my surgeon and Hospital. Thank you!

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Bubbah, You results are amazing! Everything is feeling ok??
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Thanks. Yes I'm doing ok, still a little sore and numb. You're slightly ahead of me so it's good to read how things are with you. I swell up too! Flat in the morning but swell hell in the eve! Patience is the key lol you are looking great! Huge difference, you must be sooo pleased x
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You look fabulous! I cannot believe you still have to put up with bruising after 2 months! Dang. I keep telling myself that recovery won't be so bad but it takes so long for us to get back to kind of normal. I have 43 days until my TT!!! Thanks for sharing Bubs.
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Yea, bruising must have been really deep. Good luck! Will watch out for your updates x
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Looking lovely that's looks fantastic xx
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Thanks kitti, hope your healing ok and things are getting easier for you x
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Thanks bubbah, yes I am getting better just coping with swelling now I am going to up date on Saturday which will be my 2 week mark. Take care of you x
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You look wonderful! Thanks for updating. I like to see those who are a little ahead of me so I know what to expect (I'm 4 weeks and 2 days post)
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Thanks. You've got great results already. Looking great!
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Thank you.
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Wow! You have certainly changed your shape. So happy for you! You look so good!
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Thanks, im very happy!
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You look amazing already!
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Aww thanks, way to go but very happy so far :)
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Looking good, and what a nice mum to buy you a bikini x
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Aww thanks ;)
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You look fantastic. I'm just 1 week behind you but I'm still dealing with a Hematoma . This has shrunk by about 8inches but it's still pretty big and the skin keeps dying. I'm having dressed every two days. So are you going to get yourself into that bikini and down to the beach xxx
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Sorry to hear you're having a nightmare! Hope it gets sorted soon for you. Are you back in uk now? Not sure if wear bikini to beach lol but I def feel better in it x
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You most certainly should wear a bikini. You look great in it...just think of all the things that we can wear now without having a muffin top. No I'm not back in the uk yet as the surgeon w ants me to be completely healed before I go home. I have a picture of it but wouldn't put it up. It's just very unfortunate . So anybody reading this. Do not be put off. As this is very rare x
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Hi thanks. You should write a full profile and put pics up after all it's how we all benefit from being on here. We have to see the bad things as well as the good so we can make informed decisions. It's also great that we learn from each other's experiences, I'm sure there's loads of people that would want to hear more about your experiences. That's why we are here.... ;)
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Sallyf, we all here show to bad along with the ugly so that we can get support from other RS members in addition to provide support. We are not here to judge but to support. You may be surprise on how much support you get by writing and sharing your own personal profile.
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Tipo correction; The good, bad and ugly
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Exactly sexy4life !
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Thankyou sexy4life . Bubbah said the same. I didn't Think for 1 minuit to put this up. There's a lot of nervous people on here. So didn't want to put anybody off. Even if I knew this was going to happen. I would have still had it done. What's a small scare compared to our awfull tummys : ))
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looking very good!
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