Tummy Tuck with Umbilical Hernia - Wisconsin
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Hi! I have a tummy tuck scheduled and am very...
- 1 Jan 2011
- 17 days pre
Hi! I have a tummy tuck scheduled and am very nervous about the whole thing. I have three children and after my third child my abdominal walls separated and I also have an umbilical hernia. I am 5'3 and 122 pounds and have a belly that pooches out. I haven't told any family or friends and am so happy to of found this website as it will be my only support system. I am most nervous about the recovery (like most other people) and the depression so many women experience shortly after the surgery and I am trying to mentally prepare myself. My rationale at this point is that a few months of recovery outweigh the number of years I'll enjoy my new stomach. The power of positive thinking!
I have read countless reviews and comments on this site and can't express how important they have been in making this decision. Your candid posts have really helped me understand the process so much better - thank you! Any advice or suggestions is greatly appreciated.
My surgery is now postponed for one week. A little...
- 8 Jan 2011
- 11 days pre
Well it's the day before my surgery and...
- 20 Jan 2011
- 1 day post
My house is clean, all the sheets are washed, groceries are bought and laundry is done. I've made arrangements for my children and packed their bags (my friend is taking them while I'm in the hospital). I'm trying to make this as easy as possible for my husband so he doesn't have a lot of household things to do this weekend. Guess that's the mother in me! I think no matter how much I try and prepare myself it's the fear of the unknown that is scariest. I just keep reminding myself that I'm a strong woman who has the ability to get through this and that it's only a temporary discomfort. I think emotional heartache and pain can be as painful as physical pain. At least my mind is strong and my attitude is positive.
I do have before pics and I will try and get those posted tonight. Thanks for reading!
I did it! Today is the start of day 3 and I...
- 23 Jan 2011
- 4 days post
I checked into the hospital on Friday at 11:30 am. I was brought to an outpatient room where I changed into a gown, peed in a cup, had an IV inserted and my vitals taken. The nurse anesthist came in to discuss what would happen and then my PS came in to do some measuring and drawing. After that I laid in bed and they wheeled me to the OR. I was very scared at this point. It was a long ride there and when I arrived there was a lot going on. Music was playing, it was cold, people walking around in their blue garments with only their eyes showing and lots and lots of surgical tools and other scary instruments! I wasn't wearing my glasses so things were so fuzzy which I think made it more nerve-racking than it actually was. I scooted onto the operating table and within two minutes I was fast asleep. I woke up in recovery and remember talking to my PS and the nurse. I was very comfortable and wasn't feeling any pain and shortly thereafter they wheeled me to my room. I was given Morphine thru my IV but started itching so they gave me Percocet instead. I was also very nauscious so I got something for that, too. I had a catheter so I didn't have to get up and use the bathroom until I was awake for awhile and my pain was controlled. My PS came to check on me at 7:00 pm and said that he would also return in the morning.
My surgery took about 2.5 hours and I was back in my room around 4:00 pm. The catheter was removed around midnight. The first night didn't go very well. I wasn't able to sleep so they gave me some Valium thru my IV and that helped. It's hard to sleep on your back in one position for any length of time! My husband had gone home at 9:30 pm so I was also alone and feeling a little lonely. I was feeling better when I woke up on Saturday but the nausea continued so I was given some more meds for that. My PS came in at 9:30 am and removed the tape that was covering my incision. It looks amazing! It is symmetrical and low. He said, "It looks awesome and your going to be very happy with it." I was discharged on Saturday at 4:30 pm. On our way home my husband and I stopped at Walgreens to get my meds and some other things. I grabbed some Benedryl and some Tylenol as well. I went into the store with him and was able to slowly walk with him. It felt good to walk but exhausting all at the same time.
We got home and I got myself settled in the recliner in the living room. I have a table next to me with all my drugs, water, crackers, remote, phone, laptop, etc. I am writing down when I take my meds because time is difficult to track. Each hour runs into the next and when your awake all night things get a little foggy!
I have three drains in place and they are labeled 1,2, and 3. I empty them and record the amount of fluid. Drain 1 has nearly no fluid, and drain 3 has the most. My incision is not covered with anything but I do have some gauze and tape around the drain sites. The drain sites are the biggest source of pain and discomfort and I knew that would be the case based on reading posts on this site. Because I did not have any lipo I do not have any compression garments on. I don't have anything covering my incision other than some neosporin for now. My pain in nicely controlled through Percocet and I do not feel loopy or out of it when I take them, which is nice. They make me a little tired but I can live with that. I do have pics to post...just have to find my camera. I am drinking a tremendous amount of water and that really seems to be helping. I have little swelling thus far, but I know its coming. This site has prepared me for everything that has happened and I'm so grateful that all of you have shared your stories. It has made this journey so much easier and predictable. If any of you are thinking twice about this please don't. It's not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Yes, you will be uncomfortable, but you shouldn't be in pain. I can already tell that my profile looks great and I will be very happy with my results. Because it is the weekend (today is Sunday) my PS gave me his cell phone number and asked that I call him this morning so he can check on me. I have a tremendous amount of trust in my PS and feel like he genuinely cares about each patient. I hope that anyone considering this procedure finds a PS they can feel this confident about, too. Well, enough rambling for now. If you have any questions about my recovery thus far please ask. I'll continue to post and get my pics up. Thanks for your support!!!
TT - Post-op Day 5 Well I made it to Day 5....
- 25 Jan 2011
- 6 days post
Well I made it to Day 5. Whew...today wasn't such a great day, though. I had been experiencing some nausea, lightheadedness, shortness of breath and just felt cold and clamy. My PS requested I come in right away so he could see me. To make a long story short, he said my body was in shock from the surgery and that some of my organs were not functioning properly. After some x-rays and blood work they hooked me up to an IV and pumped me full of fluids. My digestive system was not working despite drinking like a fish and taking MOM. I was getting dehydrated and my body was not absorbing the water and nutrients I've been drinking, thus causing extreme constipation. He told me to use a suppository to get things moving. I've never used a suppository and never want to again. Ugh...within SIX minutes I was in the bathroom and it was not a pleasant experience. It hurt like hell. BUT...I feel SO much better!
With regards to pain, I would say I'm at a 1 or 2 only because I am experiencing some occassional discomfort. I am taking only one Percocet every 5-ish hours and am hopeful that within a few days I will be off the pills all together. I am walking and standing fine and don't feel any pain as my meds wear off. I took a sponge bath yesterday and washed my hair in the sink and felt fine. I'm trying a shower tomorrow, even though I'm a little nervous. I still have all three drains in and probably won't get any out until Thursday or Friday. Where the drain enters my body I used to have a lot of discomfort but now it feels okay - they are just annoying. I am scared to have them pulled out. What have your experiences been with this??? I also finally posted some pics. I've never had any stretch marks so the marks you see on the pics are from clothing and drain tubes.
TT - Post-op Day 6 Today was my first day...
- 26 Jan 2011
- 7 days post
Today was my first day home alone and it went quite well. Everyone was out of the house by 8:00 am and the kids were back by 3:oo pm. The seven hours flew by and I almost wish I had an extra hour or two! I felt good today but also felt a little tighter than previous days. Not sure why. I'm still continuing to take one Percocet every five hours. This seems to work for me so I'm going to continue with this for a bit. I also slept in my bed last night for the first time and I was actually more comfortable than on the couch. I felt like it provided more support and getting back into my regular routine (of sleeping in my bed vs. the couch) felt great.
I still have all three drains in yet. I'm hopeful I'll get at least one out this week yet. No change with my incision so I did not post a pic. Maybe in another day or so I will post another pic. I'm feeling a little constipated again today...sigh. Good thing I didn't chuck the box of remaining suppositories!
My diet before surgery was healthy but I would of course, indulge in some cravings occassionally. The biggest change since the surgery has been giving up soda. Oh how I love to drink a Coke in the morning! It's like my coffee. Since surgery, my diet has consisted of pretty much the same thing the past few days: yogurt, cottage cheese, fresh pineapple - lots and lots (almost an entire jar of fresh pineapple a day!!), protein shakes, wheat toast w/ pb, oatmeal, water and all natural Sobe water, and occassionally some Ritz crackers. I'm curious as to what others have been eating during their recovery? I'm closely watching my sodium intake and my protein and fiber. However, what I wouldn't give for a frosted donut with lots of sprinkles! Maybe in a few days when my "system" is a bit more regular ;)
TT - Post-op Day 10 Each day gets a little...
- 30 Jan 2011
- 11 days post
Each day gets a little better! Day 8 was not a good day. I had been looking forward to getting my drains out but it didn't happen. I felt a little down and was getting so sick of sitting around. The next day things turned around and I have been feeling great ever since. Taking a shower everyday and putting on makeup makes a world of difference, and if nothing else, it gives me something to do. I tried to stop taking the Percocet but felt like I was having withdrawal symptoms so I ended up cutting a pill in half and taking one. I'm hoping to do this once or twice yet to avoid the w/d symptoms. I don't think I need any pain meds and if it weren't for the w/d feelings I wouldn't be taking anything. I see my PS tomorrow so I will talk to him about this. I'm sleeping pretty well at night considering I still have my drains. I was setting my alarm to take pain meds during the night, and if I didn't do that I would be able to pretty much sleep through the night. I added a new post-op pic, although there doesn't seem to be much difference from my previous post-op pics. I don't have much swelling, but definitely see an increase in the evening. Not sure if anyone else has this problem, but in the evening my stomach seems more sensitive to touch and I get very irritated with the elastic band on my pants. I'm not wearing a binder/garment and I do wear a tank top that goes underneath the elastic waist band. Has anyone else experienced this?? All in all I'm doing well!!!!
TT - Post-op Day 11 Well lucky for me I had...
- 31 Jan 2011
- 12 days post
Well lucky for me I had two drains removed today. Unlucky for me I still have one! My PS assured me that if my numbers are low tomorrow or the next day he will gladly pull it. He said he never pulls all three at once. I had been anticipating the drain removal for days. When he pulled out the first one it didn't hurt at all. The second one was a whole 'nother story! It hurt quite a bit where the drain comes out but the pain was very short-lived. All in all, it wasn't too bad. I felt great today - the best I've felt yet. I think I over-did it a bit because I feel exhausted and a little swollen. Live and learn. My PS recommended that I get one of those body shapers to wear after my final drain is removed to help push out any remaining fluid. I was never put in a binder or garment. I'm really not very swollen, but am going to follow his recommendation. I'm so glad I decided to go through this journey...it has been well worth it.
TT - Post-op Day 15 All my drains are gone -...
- 5 Feb 2011
- 17 days post
All my drains are gone - FINALLY! Hooray! The third drain caused me no pain upon exiting my body and boy was I happy to see that thing put in the garbage. Yesterday was the worst post-op day thus far. Up until then I had been feeling great (physically and mentally) but yesterday I cried for the first time since surgery and gosh golly it was quite the crying jag. Geesh...what's wrong with me?! The morning started out great. I showered, wore jeans for the first time post-op, curled my hair and looked great...on the outside.
I went to see my PS and told him a concern I had and it went south from there. I began to see some wrinkly skin (I call it "old man skin" aka OMS) around my belly button and above. I had this OMS pre-surgery so I'm all too familiar with it. My PS told me I'm being inpatient and I should come back in one month. Fear of a beautiful tummy went right out the window (along with the thousands of dollars I spent!) and so it began...the long pity-party of tears. Did he get rid of enough excess skin...should my belly button of been re-done to ensure all the OMS was gone...am I being paranoid??? On and on it went. I am trying to remain calm and not worry about it right now.
I ended the evening by going to a movie with my husband and some dear friends of ours. Today I am feeling better and am putting my trust and faith in my PS that he is right.
One thing worth mentioning for any TT newbies out there. The nurse asked me yesterday what the most difficult part has been. Interestingly enough, without thinking, I said the emotional/mental aspect of it. Never have I felt like the pain/discomfort was bothersome or worse than expected. Quite the opposite actually. While I am pleased with my results, preparing yourself and remaining calm throughout the process was my key to a healthy recovery.
Wore jeans today and have been soda-free for 16 days and counting.
TT - Post-op Day 18 Just a quick update....
- 8 Feb 2011
- 20 days post
Just a quick update. Worked a few hours yesterday and a few hours today and now I definitely understand what the Veteran TT Peeps mean by increased swelling from working...yikes! It's manageable but slightly uncomfortable. I'm a bit more tired at the end of the day but not to the point where I'm falling asleep early or in need of a nap. My drain sites aren't healing as quickly as I'd like. I still have a scab where they entered my skin and it's tender to the touch, as well as when clothing rubs against it. This too shall pass....right?!?!
All in all I'm doing well. Still soda free and I'm continuing to maintain a very, very low sodium diet and healthy eating habits.
TT - Post-op Day 30 Things are going pretty...
- 20 Feb 2011
- 1 month post
Things are going pretty well. I have posted new pics. I gained two pounds in the last few weeks...ugh. I live in Wisconsin and it's chilly...but I guess this means I'll be bundling up and getting my butt outside! I noticed a white stitch popped through on my incision - anyone else have this happen and if so, what did you do about it?
I'm back to work but get pretty tired by days end. It may be attributed to not sleeping as well as I used to for the past month.
- 20 Feb 2011
- 1 month post
TT - Post-op 6.5 weeks I posted two new pics....
- 9 Mar 2011
- 2 months post
I posted two new pics. I've noticed just in the past few days that my swelling is going down considerably and it's not nearly as bad. I am still more swollen at night but it is not a big deal (or I'm just so used to it by now). I resumed running and yoga, although some of the yoga moves I am not able to do yet. I'm feeling great overall!
My scar continues to change and is beginning to fade more and more. It is smooth and not raised in any area but is red/purple in color. My PS will be doing a slight revision where one of my drains were. Even though it is hidden below the bikini line, he agreed to fix it and in fact, was adamant about making everything just right. The skin has a little pucker - not really a big deal.
- 11 Mar 2011
- 2 months post
It has been a loooong time since I posted an...
- 22 Jul 2011
- 6 months post
I posted a pic...six months PO. My scar hasn't changed in the last few months and I'm frustrated by that. It hasn't begun the transformation of turning white. Will it ever NOT be purple?! The swelling comes and goes and if I don't wear my spandex-thingy I can definitely tell there is some swelling. Before I had the surgery I would read about how other women couldn't not wear theirs and I swore that wouldn't happen to me. Boy was I wrong...my spandex tank is like my kid's binky. Geesh...
I have been working out pretty consistently and doing the Ab Workout from P90X at least three times per week. I go in for my six month PO appt. the first week in August and will discuss the scar healing. Overall I think it's okay but I'm concerned this is as good as it's going to get.
Overall I'm happy with my results but it has taken a lot of work on my part. I hope my fellow TT'ers that had surgery around the same time I did are doing well. Drop me a message and let me know how things are...would love to hear how your recovery is at six months.