27 days PO Squeem "Perfect Waist" arrived today! *New Pics*

Hey Ladies! Just thought I'd add myself in here...

Hey Ladies! Just thought I'd add myself in here for BBL reviews. I'm going with Dr. Jimerson, I've been researching for a long time and he seems to be the best at what he does. I haven't seen another doctor who makes such dramatic booties lol.

Anyhow, a little about me: I'm 33 years old, just had my first and only baby 2 and a half months ago via c-section, Now I wanna get back to being hot!

Here's my stats: 5'3", about 165 lbs. (normal weight 140ish)

I'm having a BBL with Dr. Jimerson in April. I already paid in full, it was the only way I could get an early sx date! What I'm having done:

BBL with fat grafting to hips, lipo to inner and outer thighs, lipo to arms and lipo to posterior thighs (the part of your thigh right underneath your coochie and your ass)

Wow, either RealSelf had some type of glitch or...

Wow, either RealSelf had some type of glitch or they cut out half of my review!! WTH! Missing lots of info here....

Found a few garments from Hourglass Angel (they...

Found a few garments from Hourglass Angel (they have really nice stuff) that might be useful for after surgery:

http://www.hourglassangel.com/katie

http://www.hourglassangel.com/alexandra

http://www.hourglassangel.com/dayanna-butt-booster-body-suit-by-vedette-913

Ugh, I've seen quite a few people on here talking...

Ugh, I've seen quite a few people on here talking about how Dr. J sucks (no pun intended) at sucking out back fat. I have serious bra rolls that need to be attended to, but people are saying it's not worth the extra $900 bc he doesn't really do much (if anything) at all? Any input on this ladies? This is worrisome to me, I need all the help I can get. Seriously.

Also, I was kind of surprised he only told me to...

Also, I was kind of surprised he only told me to lose 5 pounds ("if any"). What the hell? I'm seriously fat! You mean to tell me I shouldn't lose any more weight before the surgery? I think I need to lose at least 10....I'm currently 5'3" and 165lbs-ish.

Was looking for jeans online to see what's...

Was looking for jeans online to see what's available for big booties and came across these awesome jeggings from Abercrombie & Fitch. They are gorgeous and look just like jeans! Kind of pricey though, but you get what you pay for....


http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=11203&catalogId=10901&langId=-1&categoryId=60948&topCategoryId=12203&parentCategoryId=12261

Just finished reading "Shot Girls" by Vanity...

Just finished reading "Shot Girls" by Vanity Wonder and all I can say is OMG. My ass hurt the entire time I was reading it! LOL If you ladies haven't read this yet and want an entertaining read (and also to be even more glad you're going to a certified PS to get your butt done) check this out. It's only about 200 pages, I finished it in a day. There was so much drama (guilty pleasure drama) that I couldn't put it down. I was also really curious about butt shots and what goes on behind closed doors. I really enjoyed it although it scared the hell outta me! Don't buy her book through her website, it's like $100 on there! Just go through Amazon, it's only like $15.

Also in the book there was mention of a PS who told his patients to get butt shots instead of fat grafting, bc the rate of reabsorption is like 90%. Wtf. That was kind of crazy. There's a PS on RS who is always advocating butt implants (eww), saying fat grafting doesn't work. (!!!!) His name is like Dr. Wendell or something with a "W", he seems like a kooky nut to me. What do you all think? It better not be true, that's 14k down the drain! *sniff, sniff* :(

Oh I just looked up that PS on RS that I said does...

Oh I just looked up that PS on RS that I said does not believe in Butt Augmentation, his name is Shlomo Widder, lol. He is a DC PS. He says that fat grafting "defies logic". I think it's crazy what he is saying! How can he say that BBL doesn't work but all the other PS's on here are saying that it does?!! *scratches head*

Just took my measurements: 42-36-42. Ugh I knew I...

Just took my measurements: 42-36-42. Ugh I knew I was fat but not THAT fat! I remember when I had a 27 inch waist! WTF does a baby do to you??! Anyway, going through so many emotions as well as all the ladies here on RS. Things are very very bad with the husband and I am going to leave him. It is a very hard decision with a new baby and no job right now. I also have no family support whatsoever so life has been so effing bleak lately. Anyway, we are still living overseas (hubby is military) and we were supposed to have orders to move back to Washington DC but his orders just got canceled! I wanted to die, trying to figure out a way back on my own because I am done living overseas and I miss the USA. It's been almost 3 years since I've lived in America and there's no place like it. It's HOME. Hub was supposed to come to GA with me to take care of the baby while I recover from surgery, now I don't know what I am going to do. This whole thing is fucked.
I still want to do this surgery more than ever, I NEED this for myself. I need to feel good and get my life back on track. I need to DO ME because that hasn't happened in a long while. I promised myself this year as my resolution that it would be a positive turn in my life and all I would care about it taking care of me and my baby. I want to feel good again, and I want to feel pretty and confident. This surgery is a lot of money, so I really need results. Lots of stuff I'm seeing on RS has got me down, and I do wonder what will stick and what won't. This surgery seems almost like a temporary tattoo. It looks really great the first few days and then it starts to fall apart after that. LOL I am going to have faith. Counting on my BBL sisters to keep updating and keep it real. Keeping my fingers crossed and hoping I have great results. This surgery is an emotional rollercoaster for sure and i haven't even started yet.

I'm going to try to not be negative on here...

I'm going to try to not be negative on here anymore since I feel like that is not going to do me any good. I'm going to try and remain positive for now and just hope for the best outcome possible. Well enough of that.

Anyway, I came across some awesome Pajamajeans on Pajamagram. Thought these would be great for recovering after BBL and also be really forgiving to a big booty since they LOOK like jeans, but are comfortable and stretch! Figured I'd share this with you ladies since we all are struggling to find things that will fit us and feel comfy afterwards. I plan on getting a few pairs (they have bootcut and skinny cut!)

http://www.pajamagram.com/Collections/pajamajeans.aspx

These exercises would be great to do now before...

These exercises would be great to do now before you have your sx or after to maintain and keep the booty lifted and plump! Thought I'd share with you all in case you didn't see it.

http://on.realself.com/exercise-moves-big-butt/

Something I read on RS really bothered me. Why are...

Something I read on RS really bothered me. Why are we bashing other people's results?? OMG, if you don't like what you see, please be kind and just don't say anything! Saying negative comments to someone who has just undergone this kind of surgery is very mean and hurtful. I don't see anything constructive in it. Negativity is not something any of us need on this forum. We all have our doubts, fears, and insecuritites, and why the hell should we come on RS to have any of them reinforced by a negative nancy? If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all! That's just my opnion. SUPPORT EACH OTHER!!!!

Sx date is now the end of March! Very thrilled...

Sx date is now the end of March! Very thrilled about this now because it will all work out according to my crazy schedule of moving back to the U.S. and then moving to the West Coast on husband's military orders. I'm super excited! The sooner I get this done, the sooner I can move on with my life and start working again and feeling sexy again. :)
Ladies, if you are fully paid, keep trying Dr. Jimerson's office! Contact your patient care coordinator and send emails, leave voicemails, and keep calling! Above all, be polite, be kind, and be patient! You catch more bees with honey than with vinegar. No one likes to be bossed around and demanded a new date from someone with a rude attitude.

Hey ladies since my sx date got switched I'm...

Hey ladies since my sx date got switched I'm guessing the old April 9th sx date is up for grabs!! I would call Dr. J's office to see if you could get it!!!! It is a fully paid special date fyi, so you need to have your finances already taken care of. Good luck!!!!

Hey ladies, I read this and thought I'd share in...

Hey ladies, I read this and thought I'd share in case you haven't seen it yet.

How To Tell Your Co-Workers About Your New Booty

How (or what) to tell your co-workers about taking time off to get your BBL.
They aren’t your family, most of them you wouldn’t even consider to be good friends, but they are people you spend eight hours a day, five days a week with. It’s usually not appropriate to mix personal matters with your professional life, especially when it involves your quest to getting a new Beyonce sized booty. But when you’re forced to take time off for recovery, how do you explain your absence to co-workers when you return a new woman?
Asking for time off from your boss can be hard, especially when you have to explain it’s for getting a brazilian butt lift.Even worse, the last thing you want your surgery to spark is coworkers gossiping about you behind your newly enhanced back. Many RealSelf community members like luvlylady1981 fear that if people know about their BBL at work, that they will be treated differently by their superiors and peers. “I normally am the type to tell everyone my business, but after my breast augmentation and all the haters, especially from work, I decided I do not want anyone at my work to know.”
Another member responded saying she was stuck in a similar scenario, but even worse because her employers are her soon to be inlaws. “I’m having the same issue because I work for my fiancée parents, so if I say I’m getting surgery they will be concerned and I’ll have to explain what it is.They’re definitely NOT the type of people who are accepting of plastic surgery so I don’t want to tell them about it,” Sit0ri shared.
To help other community members with the best way to handle their BBL with their work peers we asked relationship expert Maryanne Comorato the best way to keep personal matters private in the work place.

MAKE A PLAN
Have a plan on how you’re going to handle the situation before you actually get the surgery done. After you have surgery you’re coming off medication, you’re vulnerable, and you’re trying to settle back into your schedule, it can be overwhelming. So if you haven’t come up with a plan in advance, you’re going to be in a precarious position to create a plan afterwards.

MAKE A LIST
Decide if you want to talk about it, and with whom before you go back to work. Make a list that says who am I go to talk to if they approach me about it.

TALK TO HR
Go to the human resources department. Human resources is set up to protect their employees. There will be someone there that you can discuss the particulars of your surgery and getting time off with, including how you want to talk about it. They can actually notify employees and help create a climate that’s comfortable for you so you don’t feel judged.

REHEARSE A RESPONSE
Have a rehearsed response one or two in your arsenal that you can rely on if someone asks a question about your appearance when you return to work. For example if someone says ‘Wow you look different did you have work down?’ you can say ‘I’m not comfortable talking about that.’ If they get more aggressive, you can say ‘It’s personal I don’t want to discuss this with you.’ If you’re not comfortable being direct with someone, just say ‘Oh I’ve gotten a really good trainer,’ or ‘I’ve been working out a lot thanks for noticing.’

Hey ladies Wet Seal is having a 60% off sale on...

Hey ladies Wet Seal is having a 60% off sale on jeggings only $12!! They have all kinds of colors, the sale is in stores and online FYI. :)

http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/search.cmd?form_state=searchForm&keyword=jeggings&hdrSearchIcon.x=-1135&hdrSearchIcon.y=-58

Hey my beautiful BBL ladies. A lot of people seem...

Hey my beautiful BBL ladies. A lot of people seem to suffer so badly from this surgery. It is definitely taxing on our minds, bodies, souls and wallets. I want all of us to be safe and healthy, so I posted some info below that are typical "red flags" after your surgery. Please call your doc ASAP if any of the below are happening to you after surgery:


Fever Over 101 Degrees
A slight fever is not uncommon after having surgery, but a fever over 101 degrees may indicate that you have an infection.

Unexplained Leg Pain
One of the major risks of surgery is the development of blood clots in the legs, a condition known as deep vein thrombosis (DVT). These clots can be very dangerous as they can travel through the bloodstream to the lungs or brain, causing difficulty breathing, a stroke or other problems.

Pus, Drainage or Streaks From Your Incision
Small amounts of clear drainage may come out of your incision in the days after surgery, but fluid coming from the incision that looks like pus or smells foul is a sign of infection. Red streaks on your skin that move away from the incision can also be a warning sign of infection.

Your Incision Begins to Pull Apart
If your incision begins to separate, your surgeon should be contacted immediately. Cover the wound with a moist bandage or clean piece of cloth, then seek medical attention. This complication may be prevented by holding pressure on the incision when coughing, rising from a chair or sneezing.

Inability to Urinate or Have a Bowel Movement
Contact your surgeon’s office if you are constipated or having difficulty urinating. Straining to have a bowel movement or urinate can increase the pressure in your abdomen and put stress on your incisions, and these symptoms can be signs of more severe complications. Do not use over-the-counter remedies without your surgeon’s approval.

Bloody, Very Dark or “Tarry” Bowel Movements
These are signs of blood in your stool and should be reported immediately, unless your physician specifically explained that you may experience some bleeding in the stool in the days immediately after surgery.

Coughing Up or Vomiting Blood
These are signs of a potential medical emergency, where blood is in the stomach or lungs. Contact your surgeon or seek medical attention immediately.

Severe, Unexplained or Uncontrollable Pain
If your pain was manageable after surgery but then becomes significantly worse or uncontrollable with no clear explanation, there may be a surgical complication.

Difficulty Breathing
A change in your ability to breathe is a significant problem after surgery and may indicate a serious problem, such as a blood clot in the lung. Do not ignore any problems with your breathing that begin after surgery. Seek medical attention.

Inability to Eat
If you have been discharged home to recover, your surgeon believes that you are able to obtain adequate nutrition from your diet. If that is not the case, your ability to eat changes or you cannot keep food and fluids down, your surgeon should be notified.

Increasing Weakness, Inability to Care For Yourself
If you seem to be getting weaker instead of stronger after your discharge from the hospital, or you are not able to care for yourself, your recovery may be in jeopardy. Be aware that you should slowly be getting stronger after your procedure, not having increasing difficulty with normal activities.

The Worst Headache You’ve Ever Had
If your doctor hasn’t told you to expect a severe headache after your procedure, and you do not normally suffer from severe headaches, you should seek medical attention. A severe headache can be caused by a blood clot traveling to the brain after surgery.

Hey ladies everyone is talking about staying at...

Hey ladies everyone is talking about staying at the Hyatt or other hotels, but these suck. If you're gonna plan on staying 10 days or more, why not be comfortable? If you're bringing friends or family, this is even more important. I don't want to be stuck in a crappy hotel room for 10 days or more.
THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS. THERE ARE BETTER OPTIONS!!!

I am renting a HUGE 4 bedroom 3.5 bath 3800sq ft. house 7.5 miles away from Dr. J's office. It's only a 15 minute drive! It is fully furnished with wi-fi, cable, all towels and sheets, WASHER AND DRYER (yes!!! this is so important since washing a garment is a constant thing after sx), and privacy. It's close to lots of shops and grocery store, etc.

Anyway, if you go to www.corporatehousingbyowner.com, you can choose Georgia as your state, and the the drop down menu choose Suwanee. It will pull up all kinds of results within Dr. J's area. This is WAY better than getting a tiny cramped hotel room. You will actually be able to relax, have your privacy, move around and have space! This is a time for healing and what better than to do it in your own place?

The house I am renting is normally only available to rent for one month minimum for $3800 a month. However, I emailed the owner to see if they'd be willing to rent it for only 2 weeks at $850/week. THAT IS LESS THAN $125/DAY FOR A WHOLE HOUSE, NOT A HOTEL ROOM! Plus I am still very close to Dr. J's office. It's win-win. Ladies if you are bringing people with you, and/or choose to have a caregiver, this is a great alternative to a dingy hotel room.

There are studios, 1 brs, 2brs and up available on that website. Check it out!! It's worth a look, even if you're unsure. Look at my pics and what do you think? Better than a hotel room? :)

So I'm pretty pissed today. I'm reading all these...

So I'm pretty pissed today. I'm reading all these reviews about how these ps' are getting too big for their britches and getting a big head and losing QUALITY for their patients. WE ARE THE ONES THAT FUND YOUR MORTGAGE AND YOUR PORSCHE! What pisses me off is that today I receive an email from Kimberly at Dr. J's office (Aziza is my normal patient care consultant) saying they only received part of my fax with my medical clearance and lab results. Ok...how does half a fax get lost?

Anway, she proceeded to tell me that she would be doing my PRE-OP appt AND my POST-OP appt. Um, What the effin' fcuk! Where the hell is Dr. J in all of this?! First of all, I am overseas and have yet to meet this man in person. The least he can do is show up for a damn pre-op. There are concerns I have which need to be addressed and questions I need to ask that only he can answer. Why the hell is a nurse doing all of the work except for the surgery? This pisses me off to no end. I want some customer service and this is part of his damn job as a plastic surgeon! You NEED to take care of your patients and not treat them as a number or a part of an assembly line in a factory. I am not a fukcin car or piece of electronic equipment! You need to be there to show patients you care, take the time and put in the work!

I know damn well that come the morning of surgery, he's barely gonna take a look at me, mark me up real fast, and then throw my ass on the stretcher and put me out. That is NOT the time for me to be having a pre-op conversation. The PRE-OP is the time for that! I had my surgery date moved up two weeks and he is still not going to be there for the pre-op! I find this appalling and wrong. I wrote Kimberly back hours ago asking her if this is really how it's gonna be and no response.

Very disappointed. I have had numerous plastic surgery procedures and NEVER have I experienced anything like this. My ps was always there for the pre-op and after care appointments! (as they SHOULD be)

Damn I am so mad. This is not a car he's detailing, this is my body and my life. He needs to slow the F down, take less patients and pay more attention to the ones he has. Ti & Tiny show may have gone to his head and now all he sees are dollar signs. Greed is a sonofabitch. *shaking my head*

Is anyone else experiencing the same thing or am I the only one?

Ok Kimberly finally wrote me back and this is part...

Ok Kimberly finally wrote me back and this is part of what she said:

"your pre-op is to sign consent, get your presciption, and get information on post care instruction."

"Dr. Jimerson does not do pre-op because he is in surgery."

Um yeah, Realself get yo ish together, you keep...

Um yeah, Realself get yo ish together, you keep deleting my posts!!!!!

Anyway, what the hell does she mean Dr. Jimerson does not do pre-op because he is in surgery???! -_-
My surgery is on a Friday and pre-op appt on a Thurs, so what's the deal? What is the reason?

This makes no sense and I cannot believe that he is just NOT doing them anymore. I need to make a phone call and get a hold of someone ASAP. I am not ok with this. I told Kimberly I was NOT ok with this and she just said, don't worry you are in good hands. I do not feel comforted by this, need to get a hold of Aziza. Ugh.

Courtesy of RS......This is Dr. Wendell Perry's...

Courtesy of RS......This is Dr. Wendell Perry's advice and views on BBL, FYI ladies.

#1 LIPOSUCTION WILL HELP YOU LOSE WEIGHT
“Liposuction is not a weight changing procedure, it’s a shape changing procedure, which is an important concept that many people don’t understand,” Dr. Perry says.

#2 GAINING WEIGHT BEFORE SURGERY GIVES PATIENTS BETTER RESULTS
“Gaining weight before the surgery is not going to help you have better results from the procedure, and it’s not the healthiest thing to do before an operation. Let’s say you weigh a 130 pounds and then you gain 10 pounds for the surgery. You’re going to transfer the same amount of fat cells the’yre just going to be a little bit bigger and then after the surgery you’ll go back to your normal weight of 130 pounds and your buttocks will shrink back to the size if you never gained that 10 pounds,” he says.

#3 LOCAL ANESTHESIA IS SAFER THAN GENERAL ANESTHESIA
“A lot of times people think that local anesthesia is infinitely safer than having general anesthesia and that’s a misconception because there can be problems when you do liposuction under local anesthesia. There can be toxic levels of lidocaine and you don’t have as good of control over the airway,” he says.

#4 I'M "TOO SMALL" FOR A BBL
“People think that if they’re small they can’t benefit from the liposuction and fat injection, and that’s not true. If you equate it to breast augmentation, if you have a person who is 5 feet tall and they want a breast augmentation you can give them a 350cc implant to make them a D cup. But if you have somebody who is 6 feet tall you’d probably have to give them a 550 cc implant to make them a D cup. A patient who is 100 pounds doesn’t need the same amount of fat in the buttocks to see a change as a person who is 200 pounds,” he says.

#5 LIPOSUCTION LEAVES BEHIND LOOSE SKIN
“Many people are concerned that after they liposuction their skin will be looser because you’re taking away volume from the skin. But the reality is if you do superficial liposuction correctly, the skin will tighten so no matter how loose the skin is it will be tighter after liposuction than it was before if it was done correctly,” he says.

I just called again and got Aziza's voicemail. So,...

I just called again and got Aziza's voicemail. So, I tried Monica and she answered right away. She told me Aziza was out of the office which is why I hadn't heard from her. Monica is very nice and helpful, this was the first time I spoke with her.

So anyway I told her I was upset because Kimberly told me I wasn't going to see Dr. J for my pre-op. She asked when it was and I told her. She said that of course I will be seeing Dr. J and I will also see Kimberly who will be taking care of the paperwork related stuff. The way Kimberly made it sound, Dr. J wasn't going to be there. But Yaya! I am SO relieved. This is why email sucks, because it is so easy to misinterpret a message.So, everything is KEWL! :D
Feeling so good right now, feeling great and relieved. Also feeling bad I talked so much crap about Dr. J's business. Anyway, just wanted to update you ladies to let you know that things aren't as bad as they originally seemed.
All is right with the world for now. :) J Curves in one week. WOOT!

Ok, I'm exhausted. We are all still jetlagged from...

Ok, I'm exhausted. We are all still jetlagged from this long-ass trip from the Middle East. Then we stopped in London and Chicago and now we are in Georgia and have been here for 2 days. Straight up zombies, I feel like the Walking Dead lol. We haven't been back in the states for years so we are going crazy with all the food and restaurants and stores and choices. Wow I forgot how effing AWESOME America is!! Love it, my home country! No place in the world like it! If you travel a lot, you know what I mean!

Anyway, I had the pre-op appt today. We waited like an hour before I saw Dr. J. The two guys that work the front desk are dressed all dapper and just as sweet as chocolate cupcakes. Those boys were just darling and so friendly and helpful. Dr. J's office is easy to miss from the main road, it's in a business building that is nondescript, so don't look for his sign, just look for the building number and then it's easy!
Walking in, it was really welcoming. Small but cozy. They had Judge Mathis playing on the tv and the whole place smelled like french toast (they were burning candles). They have different flavor coffees and apple cider to drink on this espresso machine and a basket full of snacks like cookies, cheez-its, nutter butter, etc. Me and my husband were going crazy nomming on this stuff because it was the afternoon and we hadn't even eaten today yet. lol we stuffed our faces with snacks! I saw Monica (yes her butt IS that big and bootlicious), holy crap! Dr. J told me her butt was smaller than mine before she got it done! WOW! Crazy, and she only had like 850ccs I think.
Anyway, the boys were great at the front desk and very sweet. Lots of staff rushing by, they are VERY busy there. I mean VERY busy. Everybody's moving like they are on a mission, so mostly you just see people flying by. Michelle took me to the back office first to go over some paperwork and make sure what they had in the computer was right (it wasn't--they had me down for a tummy tuck! lol smh). She was apologetic and was like who did you talk to on the phone? Who did this? LOL it was pretty funny because ish was all messed up in the computer. Let me say i LOVE Michelle. She is a complete sweetheart. I have to say she was kind and welcoming and just very friendly. She was cooing over my baby and generally just being great and professional. I really enjoyed interacting with her. She sent my husband out of the room so I could see her butt (Dr. J did her butt) and it was jiggly and round. It was so funny because she volunteered for me to look at her booty and touch it and everything lol. I really liked her, she made me feel very comfortable. If you get to meet her you'll see what I mean.
Later we had to sit around in another office and wait for Kim to show up. She was more serious but still nice. She was distracted as well. It seems they are always 5 steps behind and trying to catch up because they are simultaneously doing paperwork and on the phone, etc. etc. I could feel the rushed energy in the office. I think they are too damn busy. Anyway, it was a long process just because of all the interruptions and waiting around. After I got through with Kim I finally got to see Dr. J. Yay! He just came out of surgery and you can see this man is tired. He is goinggoinggoinggoing and there's no stopping him. He has a very kind face and his voice is just as gentle. He's a cool guy in person and not stuffy, just laid back.
He did NOT rush me, even though he is in a rush. He took a quick look at my body and my butt. I asked how much can he fit into my butt. He says that the jiggliest butts will hold the most fat, and after he poked my butt he said that mine was "medium". So, not too loose, not too tight. I don't know how much that will translate to once the surgery is finished. Dr. J says, "I don't know why everyone gets caught up on the cc's. That's not what matters." He explained that one person could have 1000 ccs and look like they only got 300 while another person gets 800ccs and look like they had 1200ccs. It all depends on you and your body and you skin and how stretchy it is. The stretchier it is, the more fat can be stuffed into it.
When we were finished talking he told my husband how much he's gonna love what he's going to do to me lol. Dr. J also told me to bring my wish pics into surgery with me because he needs to see exactly what I want RIGHT BEFORE he operates! So ladies don't forget those wish pics!!! Once he were done, he hugged me goodbye and in a flash he was out the door. That man is BU-SY. Seriously. That office has a buzz to it like a bee hive lol.
Anyway so that's it for now. I'm super nervous but excited. But more nervous! When we were walking out of Dr J's office we saw some lady (anyone here on RS?? lol) getting loaded into the car. Haha she looked in pain and out of it. I caught her eye and gave her a big thumbs up and she smiled haah. It was funny because I was thinking, that'll be me tomorrow. She rode off in a car with her butt in the air, bent over the seat lol. The things we do for beauty, right ladies?

Oh by the way, my recovery house is the bomb.com. It is in a gorgeous neighborhood--the backyard is right on the golf course. The pics don't do it any justice, seriously. So much space!! I am in heaven, it is quiet and peaceful here and just lovely. We have a washer and dryer right off the master bedroom on the 2nd floor, so it's convenient as well. The kitchen is huge, it is bigger than the living room lol. We are really enjoying it. I am so glad I decided to rent this house instead of being holed up in a stuffy hotel room for 2 weeks. Eff that noise.

ONE LAST THING I NEED HELP WITH IS A NURSE. JUST...

ONE LAST THING I NEED HELP WITH IS A NURSE. JUST TALKED TO CLARICE AND SHE CAN'T MAKE IT TOMORROW FOR MY SX. BRE IS OUT OF TOWN. DOES ANYONE KNOW ANYONE ELSE THAT I CAN CONTACT? PLEASE LET ME KNOW ASAP! THANKS!!

Getting ready to leave the house, just showered....

Getting ready to leave the house, just showered. Staring at my sleeping baby feeling so much love for him and hoping that I make it to the other side. Please just send good thoughts and prayers my way. I will update as soon as I am able. My tummy is a pretzel knot right now. :/ Wish I could snap my fingers and surgery is over already lol. Ok ladies, signing off.....

Hi ladies. In too much pain to write my review....

Hi ladies. In too much pain to write my review. Will update later. Only giving Dr. Jimerson 3 stars until I see my results.

I forgot to add one thing. This is what I had...

I forgot to add one thing. This is what I had done: BBL with fat grafting to the hips, lipo on arms, inner thigh, posterior thigh, and bra roll. He took out 4900 CCs, and injected 875 CCs in each butt cheek and 300 in the hips. Will update as soon as I can.

Ok, I am going to try and make an effort to write...

Ok, I am going to try and make an effort to write this. It's annoying when you have to type standing up.
So, we arrived in the morning a few minutes early to Dr. J's office. Marchee (sp?) the anesthesiologist was there opening up and told us we could come in. It feels really weird to be out in the cold darkness, and then coming into the office it was even weirder because no one was there. We sat in the waiting room and chatted a bit. Marchee is very friendly and laid back. He served 25 years in the military so we talked about all of experiences with the military. Marchee is a good guy and he is kind and friendly.

Then guess who walks in next!! Blake! lol the crappy nurse who always misses the vein and takes forever to find a vein. I saw her and was like NOOOOOOOO! lol She introduced herself and was all smiles and very bubbly. I was like no way I don't want her lol but there were no other alternatives so I was stuck with her (no pun intended). Blake is definitely a morning person, she was loud and big smiles and too much damn energy for that early in the morning haha. Anyway, she took me in the back room and gave me a gown, anti-embolism socks and a blue cap for my hair. I had to pee in the cup as well (Prego test). When I came out she was in another room with my husband and baby, just chatting it up. I could hear their whole conversation from the bathroom, that's how loud she is haha. So I stood in front of the blue screen for my before pics and then sat down so she could find a vein for my IV line. I just kept looking at my husband sideways like what kind of bad luck do I have lol. She tapped my veins for a while and pulled the tourniquet tighter so they would pop out more. She reassured me (I expressed my concerns that she might miss a vein so to be very careful) that if she felt she could start a line, Marchee would it. I was secretly hoping she wouldn't be able to find a vein, but she did ladies. And it was on the first try, so maybe she is getting better! Just thought I'd share that with you all since Blake is known for doing a shitty job at IV's.

After Blake left, Marchee came back and sat with us for a good long while. He said he could see how nervous I was so he is taking extra time and care to ease my mind and relax. He's a good guy. Then he pulled out a syringe from his pocket and was like "this versed will make you feel all better". I was like bring it on because I am sweating bullets and breaking out into hives. He told me I wouldn't even remember going into the OR and he was right. I didn't remember shit! Dr. J then walked in and marked me all up. I told him I want 300ccs in my hips. He was reluctant but he said he would try. I also showed him my wish pic collage and he said he would take it to the OR so he keeps the photos fresh in his mind. I also said give me a Monica butt lol. Then Marchee came back in. He put the versed in my IV line and instantly it felt like going from 100mph to 10mph. My whole body just deflated and I felt drunk. It was good. But, I don't remember anything I was saying, my husband said I was saying all kinds of crazy stuff lol. I don't remember a damn thing.
I also don't remember leaving the facility or getting into the car. I just woke up in bed and was thinking how the hell did I get here?

I don't remember much from yesterday other than eating a little soup and going to the bathroom. I just pulled the flap open at the bottom of the garment and stood over the toilet and peed. It seems to work just fine. However getting in and out of bed is HORRIBLE. This bed is so high it comes up to the top of my thighs and let me tell you how excruciating it was to get in and out of bed. I've been crying so bad just to get back into bed. It takes me about 20 minutes to get in and out of bed. It is like torture. Dont forget, I had arms, inner thigh, posterior thigh, bra roll and hips, so I was feeling totally fucked. The pain reminds me of my c-section, which was the worst pain in my life.This surgery (especially if you get additional parts lipoed) is extremely painful and uncomfortable. Sleeping on my stomach sucks. uggh I just keep thinking when will this pain be over. I'm dying.
This drain is extremely annoying, I hate it! I have knocked it off a couple times and dropped it in the toilet once too. It gets caught on damn near everything. I am pretty miserable, I'm not gonna lie. My WHOLE body hurts and I don't think it feels like a hard workout at all! It feels more like you got hit by a train and they sewed you back together. For me, anyway, it's excruciating and I have a high tolerance for pain. But doing multiple lipo areas is going to kick your ass so be prepared for that.
I have been bumping into door frames a few times because I'm not used to how big my butt and hips are and they feel numb so I don't realize until the pain strikes after the fact.
So far, I've been eating chicken soup, salad, rice cakes, string cheese, and drinking lots of water and almond milk. It feels really good on my body not to eat junk and keep it clean and healthy. Ladies take heed about what you eat afterward. I was told that the first 6 weeks are crucial not to eat much (if any) junk food. No white foods (bread, pasta, white rice, potatoes, etc.) the first 6 weeks because that type of food automatically gets converted to fat and will land itself nicely in all of your lipo areas. So, if you feel a craving for pizza DON'T DO IT!!!!
Anyway, I've been taking the meds and I have to say that they are not having much effect on my pain, but they make me pretty sleepy so that helps. If I sleep the days away maybe the day where I won't be in pain will come faster lol. I'm super miserable. I am SUPER miserable. Breathing hurts, walking hurts, squatting over toilet hurts, and moving in any direction hurts! Ugh ladies prepare yourself mentally if you are getting multiple spots lipoed.
Anyway that's it for now. I can't think of anything else but I'm sure I missed a few things (high on meds lol). But, if you have any questions about the surgery or my recovery, just ask. I'm happy to help. Bye ladies!

One last thing I forgot to mention is what...

One last thing I forgot to mention is what Kimberly told me. She said DO NOT SIT directly on your butt for 3 whole months! wtf! She said it takes anywhere from 6 weeks to 3 months for the fat to take roots and become permanent. Otherwise if you sit directly on it, you are compromising the fat in your butt from sticking for good.
Holy crap this surgery is a long investment.
I feel like I regret having the surgery RIGHT NOW, because I am so miserable and in so much pain. My lower back also hurts right above my butt. It aches like I've been shoveling snow for hours. I'm really glad Dr. J got almost 5000cc's out, yay for that! My chunky ass needs to get rid of some unwanted chub lol

Going to ask hubby just to take a picture or two of what I look like now. It is very hard to tell what my butt and hips look like because of all the padding and bandages and garment and stuff. But at least you'll get an idea. I feel I should share with you my immediate post-op so you know that we all look the same! However, once the swelling goes down and garment and drains come off, we all look different. This is a very individual experience for us all, but at the same time, it is almost identical. :) What we do for beauty, my lovelies!!

My husband is going crazy over my butt, he got...

My husband is going crazy over my butt, he got real "excited" if you know what I mean lol. I'm like gross! I am bloody and full of bandages haha. It's funny because he was totally against this surgery. But he's like "your ass is beautiful", haha that is nice to hear because I don't feel beautiful right now.

Just had my first lovenox injection at home. Hubby...

Just had my first lovenox injection at home. Hubby gave it to me in the area next to my shoulder blade and armit. I didn't feel much at all. BUT I hate needles so the anticipation was worse than the actual shot.

I've been sleeping as much as possible but I dread...

I've been sleeping as much as possible but I dread getting in and out of bed. It takes me a long time, even with my husband helping me. I am constantly having to pee! I think it's my body trying to flush out all these toxins and anesthesia. I dread going to the bathroom just because it is so painful to get out of bed. But at least I'm hydrated because my pee is only very light yellow almost clear,
Also my drain is still leaking blood but now I see a new color--yellowy orange--like the color of vegetable oil. We called Dr. J to make sure that was ok and he said the yellow stuff is probably serum. So gross.

I hate this garment, it itches me like crazy! The itching is mostly in my lower back and between my boobs. Why the hell do I have a bruise between my boobs? It makes no sense. Anyway I'm just chilling watching Get Him to the Greek lol. Have a bunch of movies we bought at Target and Best Buy so I'd have something to watch that I like. However, I haven't done much watching just sleeping and resting. How can you watch tv when you have to lie face down on your stomach? Impossible.
I've been really cranky today. I'm in so much pain and I feel so helpless, I need help with everything it is annoying! I am not breastfeeding my baby because I don't want him to drink my milk when I have all these drugs in me. So for now, I am pumping and dumping. It is just another annoying thing to do, I miss nursing my baby and cuddling with him. But I signed up for this so now I have to be patient and wait.
I've been mad about everything, just because I have no control whatsoever, I am kind of like a slave to my own body. My breast pump wire was on the floor and I was crying because I couldn't pick it up. And I can't go downstairs to get myself something to eat or drink because the stairs are too painful. I've been mad at my husband if he doesn't move fast enough, I am just so irritated. And I miss my baby. I can't even hold him right now.
I'm hoping tomorrow is a better day. I worry about that because I've seen a lot of girls on RS that say the pain was worse on day 4 or 5, after they started feeling better and then surprise!! Pain all over again.

I haven't take my garment off yet. I don't plan on it today and prob not tomorrow either. I'm just in too much pain.My husband keeps talking about my ass and marveling over it every time I get up to go to the bathroom. He's like "look at that donk! Daaammmn!" lol I don't feel sexy at all though. I feel like crap. I don't know how some girls go back for Round 2!!! That is insane!

Oh I forgot to mention I have my first lymphatic...

Oh I forgot to mention I have my first lymphatic drainage massage on Wednesday with Tiana--that will be 5 days post-op. Tiana said to wait until at least 3 days post-op so I'm good. I am really really looking forward to this massage, I will probably feel so much better afterward. Tiana seems really nice and sweet, I spoke with her over the phone. I can't wait until Wednesday!!

One thing I don't understand about this garment is the hip part, which is tight. I thought we weren't supposed to put any pressure on fat grafts. So even though my butt is out, my hips aren't and I wonder if this will ruin my fat graft in my hips??

Also, here is Tiana's website with all the...

Also, here is Tiana's website with all the information on lymphatic drainage packages

http://thewellnesssanctuaryinc.com/?page_id=190

Every time I have to get up to go to the bathroom...

Every time I have to get up to go to the bathroom it is a chore. A painful chore and I dread it. My drain leakage is finally slowing down, so that's good. I think I am a lunatic for choosing to have multiple lipo areas with a BBL. I'm basically a cripple, and can't do anything on my own except squat over the toilet to pee. I hate this garment and the lipo sleeves for my arms. The sleeves bunch up in the elbow crease of my arm and it feels like it's cutting into my skin. I can't say which is the worst part because they are all bad, but my lower back is pretty painful and itchy and my ass feels like 2 cement bricks are sitting on it. My butt muscles have been spasming a little bit, because I haven't regularly been taking my muscle relaxer (I wanted to nurse my baby), but now as I wake up and get out of bed, I realize that I still need it--who am I fooling here? I'm in pain and I'm miserable. I am just waiting for the time to pass when I get to a point where I feel OK.

I haven't taken off this damn garment yet or done a #2. I don't want to poop yet! I am afraid to! So I haven't taken any colace yet, but I guess I will try to tonight or tomorrow. Taking a poop is the furthest thing from my mind right now. I am so scared to get this garment off. Everyone says how difficult and painful it is, and I believe them. My husband is going to have to help me.

I feel stiff as a board. I am actually looking forward to this massage with Tiana on Wednesday, maybe it'll help.
No matter how much you read about the BBL experience from other people there is still no way to prepare yourself for how it actually feels. I thought that I would be doing much better than I am now, because I have such a high tolerance for pain, but NOPE. My ass is dying over here. Wish I could sleep until I'm all better. Ugh.

We tried taking the garment off today but it seems...

We tried taking the garment off today but it seems impossible. How can you get the garment over your drain and your huge ass?? I am stumped and feeling frustrated.

Also, how the hell do you go poop? We can't sit down on the toilet so how do you do it? Doesn't it hurt to wipe down there as well?

On another note, do not get arm lipo unless you really need it! It has made my recovery 10 times worse because I use my arms to support myself in and out of bed and they are aching and burning so bad.

just would like to escape my body for a while, and come back when it's fully healed. Ugh.

If you get your arms done too be prepared to not...

If you get your arms done too be prepared to not be able to do anything at all!!! Everything hurts and my hands, feet and face are all swollen. My back is super itchy but scratching lightly does nothing at all because it is numb at the same time. Everyone else on here seems to be doing better than me. I feel like shit.

Thank God for Clarice, she is coming for a few hours today, tomorrow and Wednesday to change my dressing and help me get out of this devil garment.
Then Wednesday Tiana is coming to give me my first massage. I cannot wait for this!!!!!!!!!!

I still feel like shit. Everytime I wake up from a...

I still feel like shit. Everytime I wake up from a nap, I get pissed off because I can't move and everything is stiff and sore. My feet and hands are like stay-puft marshmallow man. I am convinced that they gave me a TOO SMALL garment. It is a size large but it feels like an extra small. The garment is digging into my skin everywhere, causing these horrible painful welts. I put maxi pads in between my skin and the garment but it barely helps. I attached a photo of the area around my boob and armpit where the garment strap rubs me. This is also happening around my waistline and the back of my knees. I just want to set fire to this garment and those stupid lipo sleeves. The lipo sleeves are annoying, they barely fit and are twisting around all the time. I am having to adjust them always. The material feels like fucking sandpaper. My right side hurts worse than my left, I have numbness in varying degrees all over my body but mainly my back and my arms. I cannot believe I volunteered for this.
I still have the drain in but it hasn't drained at all in 2 days. I think I'm pretty much done with the drain but Dr. J does not want to remove it yet. I wish he would!
I am peeing by squatting over the toilet and pulling my garment open at the bottom, but it still feels like I have to force myself to pee or it won't come out on its own. I am drinking lots of juices, almond milk, and water but I still get cotton mouth sometimes.
My husband has been taking care of the baby and I feel sad and angry because I thought I would be able to take care of him or at least play with him by now. My milk is drying up because I am not nursing him and I think the meds are drying me up as well. Plus I've only pumped and dumped a handful of times. It's just too painful to stand up straight and pump milk for 10 minutes at a time.
Most of the time I feel I am hunched over when I am walking or standing. My posture is all fucked up. When I try to stand up straight it puts tremendous strain on my back. I feel like this is never going to end.
Also I mentioned that I think this garment is too damn small, when we button up the front corset area, it smushes my tummy together in an ugly way, and now my belly button looks like a deformed slit, not a round belly button at all! The clasps are actually leaving imprints in my stomach because I am so swollen and this garment is so damn tight.
I am reading others reviews and I have to say I feel envious of you ladies that are up and walking around and feeling fine on days 3 and 4. I haven't even been able to go downstairs since i had the surgery, I've been trapped on the 2nd floor of the house because of this. Mostly all I do all day and night is lay in bed face down and take meds and snack and drink. I keep hoping when I wake up I'll feel better but I don't. My C-section recovery was faster than this!!!!!!

So I haven't mentioned the problems between me and...

So I haven't mentioned the problems between me and my husband on my blog only once because I didn't want to involve all the drama, but now I have to write this. He has been a total dick to me. He works on a reward system so if he is unhappy with what I do or say, he will punish me by: not helping me with the baby, not giving me money for food, not driving me somewhere, etc.
He did all of this to me in the Middle East and now he is doing it here in the US. I told him it is over between us and everytime I say this he acts like he is shocked and it is the first time he's heard it. Then, he proceeds to "punish" me in any way he can which will affect me the most.
So last night we got into an argument and he kept saying he was just going to buy a plane ticket and go back to the Middle East. His threats didn't bother me so I was like I don't care! Go back! It doesn't matter to me anymore! I'm in the US now, you can't control me anymore!
So when that didn't work, he threatened to take my baby with him back to the M.E. I didn't believe him either. This is what kind of bullshit I deal with on a regular basis. I am recovering from surgery and he still does this shit to me. I hate him.
So he also ignores me when I call for help (even when he's in the next room) and acts like he didn't hear me. He does all these things that he knows upsets me but he uses the excuse that he didn't hear me or it was an accident. I know he does it on purpose. We were fighting when he gave me the Lovenox shot and he jabbed me extra hard in my shoulder, it really hurt. He said he didn't do anything different, but I saw his face and he was trying to hurt me. He is very sneaky in how he gets back at me. He is a snake.
So the fighting continued, and he will never apologize for anything but wants me to. I had the baby in the bed with my laying down but I was so hungry and thirsty so I called for him so he could bring me up some food and something to drink. I called. And I called. So I got louder. And on the third time, I really yelled HELLO!!! and that scared the baby and he started crying. So H came up and was like I didn't hear you but why are you yelling in front of the baby?! You scared him! I said I didn't mean to I was just trying to get you to respond! Then he says I don't deserve my baby and I am an unfit mother. He says that I am selfish because I got this lipo and I am unfit to take care of him. But that is not true! I will be better soon! Then he says my baby would be better off living with HIS parents! I'm like WTF!!!? He says he does not want my son around me (this is all because I told him that I didn't want to be together anymore and I wanted a divorce. He has known this for over 6 months now) and I am psychotic and a bad mother. He is just throwing out horrible nasty names and trying to make me feel like I am crazy. I am begging him from the bed please do not take my son I will be better soon! Do not do this to me, he is my world! He is just standing over me looking evil with a smirk on his face, enjoying my pain. He says all calm look at you, you are psychotic. Look at how you are acting. He is all calm and trying to get me upset. Who wouldn't cry if someone said they are taking your baby away from you?? He says he is going to try and find a legal way around this and his son should not be with me. I fucking hate him. I am crying so hard I am hyperventilating. And I can't do anything and he knows it because I am laid up in bed in pain and can barely move. He is a curse and I regret ever meeting him.
I tried im'ing his mother but she didn't believe what I was telling her, so I am ON MY OWN! She has no idea what a scumbag her son is. She thinks he is a good guy but good guys don't kick their pregnant wives.
So after he is satisfied that I am sufficiently depressed, he tries to come in and help me back to bed (I was crying on the floor of the closet so that he wouldn't hear me and the baby wouldn't hear me) and be the "nice guy". I 'm like FUCK YOU, you did this to me you asshole!!
All last night he did not help me or take care of me at all. I asked for something to eat and drink at 8:30pm and he didn't come back in my room until 9:30 this morning. I had nothing to drink and eat at all in the room so I couldn't take my meds. Finally at 4am I woke up so thirsty and so much pain that I walked down the flight of stairs to the kitchen to get something to eat and drink. Coming back up was very hard. I had to crawl on all fours to get back up the stairs.
Today he acts like nothing happened. Then I come into his room (he is staying in the guest bedroom with the baby) to see the baby, and he says can you stay with him a minute? I say ok but he is gone awhile. My poor little baby is sick, and this asshole refuses to put warm clothes on him! He is sitting there with one sock on and a onesie. I got so mad I called downstairs like what is taking you so long?? He doesn't answer of course. Finally he says he is making coffee. I say that can wait this baby needs a bath ASAP! This fucking fool has not bathed him in over a week! I am furious that he is letting him sit in his own filth. I usually bathe the baby every 3 or 4 days. I call down again and still no answer and he is not coming up. After 10 more minutes this fucking dick comes up with a fresh cup of coffee and a toasted bagel and cream cheese (FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!). He is a selfish bastard!!! After all he did to me last night and then he continues to be an asshole. I cannot wait for him to go back to the M.E.
I complain and complain until finally he gives my baby a bath. I set out all his stuff--towel, washcloths, clothes and socks. He uses none of it. I give him this cozy long sleeved, long pants onesie to put on the baby and he just gives me a dirty look and throws it on the floor and gets the baby and short sleeve no leg onesie! The baby is sick!! I tell him what a dick he is and he calls me a fucking bitch and says he's not sorry for last night. Oh I know he's not!
I've been crying on and off for 2 days. He has done this to me whenever I have been sick or had surgery. During my c-section, he was just as much of an asshole and didn't even bother helping me. All he did was sleep the entire 5 days I was in the hospital. When I woke him up one night to get me a drink off the nightstand because I could not reach it, he got mad and said "i'm going back to sleep don't bother me again". He's a fucking piece of work.
So he knows nothing else bothers me and he can't threaten me with anything else but my baby so that is his new weapon. It used to be my dogs. He is an evil person. I am stuck with him for another week and who knows what he's going to do between now and then. I've never hated a person so much before.
We are supposed to be going to DC to find a place for me and the baby to live, but now he is saying he doesn't even want to pay for our rent anymore. I'm like fine motherfucker I have money in savings! He is the biggest indian giver ever. I'm so tired of the manipulation and head games. I don't love him anymore, I have just been trapped in this relationship because I was overseas in the M.E. with no job and no way to get back with my dog and the baby (he hid baby's passport so I couldn't leave).
I don't know how to get this guy out of my life. He wants joint custody and I don't want to give it to him!!! He does everything he can to make my life so difficult and make me upset and cry. He's not happy until I am unhappy. He is the most spiteful, vengeful person I know. I'm afraid of him.

As far as how I feel, still shitty! This surgery was a mistake for me. I am not healing fast enough. My circumstances are worst than most people here, usually the caregiver is taking care of you, not making things worse. I'm hating myself and my life right now. I still can't find a job, and this is another thing husband holds over my head. He controls all the money so I have to ask, and he loves that power it gives him. I quit my career of 12 years to follow him to this duty station in the M.E. I have a career, not a job. My salary is usually six figures or close to it, so yeah, I don't need his motherfuckin ass. But for now, I cannot get this rain cloud off me and bad luck continues to haunt me. I am not finding work. This is unusual.

My whole body hurts,especially my right side. I cannot bend over or bend down. I obviously cannot do stairs because it feels like my ass is ripping right in half. My post-op is tomorrow, I am going to push to have this drain removed. I don't need it, it hasn't drained in 2 days. I want it out and I need to get going on this recovery because it has been agonizing for me. Tiana is supposed to come this afternoon to do my first massage. Please pray that it is a healing massage for me, and I recover quickly. I am stuck in this nightmare until he goes back overseas. He was supposed to be here helping me and then finding a place for me and the baby to live, but now it's just stressful and I want to punch him in his face.

To continue on to part 2 of my BBL journey, please click here.

Atlanta Plastic Surgeon

Yeah, I was originally set on going down to FL but then I saw Jimerson's work on Realself and he is freaking awesome! I want a big bubble butt and what better than a young black man (instead of a crusty old white man that doesn't know what a booty is supposed to look like) to do it! :)

3 out of 5 stars Overall rating
5 out of 5 stars Doctor's bedside manner
5 out of 5 stars Answered my questions
1 out of 5 stars After care follow-up
1 out of 5 stars Time spent with me
1 out of 5 stars Phone or email responsiveness
4 out of 5 stars Staff professionalism & courtesy
4 out of 5 stars Payment process
2 out of 5 stars Wait tmes
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What garment did you use? Do you still have the site and the style name or number?
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You look amazing. .. what size squeem do you wear?
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Hope you are well, you look great!
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How r u and your family?
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After reading your posts, I feel like I know. Thank you so much for sharing. .I have yo continue reading. .......
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You look sooo good girl
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u look great so far boo!! :) how r u and ur son
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You look good! It was worth it!!! Where did you order your squeem?
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I got it off of Amazon. They shipped it in 2 days. I can look at my body and of course it looks better than it did before but this recovery process has been hell for me and I would have never done this procedure had I known had bad it was/still is.
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It will get better soon, and then you will be able to say it was worth the pain and trouble. I know Im going to be in a lot of pain soon so Im preparing myself for that but I know it will be worth the end results. Happy healing and hang in there! I might try that squeem you bought, I need something comfortable and not digging into my skin
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Wow!!! Glad you are mentally recovering and you have to just take ur time and allow your body to heal. My heart goes out to you and at the same time, myself being a wife of a retired military person, it's hard to phathom that he would treat you in this manner considering the military are very harsh on active duty in regards to these types of things. GOD speed to you in your recovery, in your life and in your new journey. You are a beautiful person and you have to look forward and not back for the sake of yourself and your child.
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Marshmallow_Bunny, I hope you are getting better. Please think about the fact that you are a super strong and beautiful woman. You are a wonderful mom, and you will be blessed for all that you are doing to take care of and protect your baby. So many women would have given up, but you stayed strong for him and things will only get better. I know it is easier said than done, but focus on what you can do. God has given you amazing strength, and has blessed you with an opportunity to start over. Just think if you would have been still in the ME? What if your H would have stayed and tortured you instead of going back to the ME? What if he took the baby? Coming here for surgery, no matter how you feel about the outcome, may have saved you from being stuck in the ME forever, and just think, you may not have the volume you wanted, but you still have a smaller waist, correct? That's a start. Again, I know it is easy for me to analyze your situation from here, but all of this could have been a blessing in disguise... And what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger, right? Please take care.
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Hey Mashmallow_Bunny, I hope things are going better for you today! I'm really sad to hear your recovery was going so tough, girl! But I'm sure you'll love the end result. Just be patient with yourself :) Also, regarding H, don't stay silent and share your struggle with people who love YOU! His family is probably not the first choice, but what about your family? People you trust who will always love you no matter what? Praying for you. Sometimes when your spirit/soul is going through a lot of shit, the pain you feel on the outside hurts even more. I swear my periods hurt like fire when I'm going through emotional bullshit. Think positively and keep yourself in a happy place. Your baby needs you and loves you so much! Don't worry about any negative stuff right now. I'm sure in another few days, your pain will be at an all time low and you'll be on your way to happy healing!
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Hey hun!!!! I hope your doing good and your recovery is getting better
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Hey @ marshmallow .. Been looking 4 ward e send encouragement n love ur way.. How is everything? How do I feel/look? Family life? Stay smiling boo
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Hope u are okay and feeling better...any updates?
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I have lots of updates but this fucking RS will not let me!!! It even cut off my last review! I've tried everything! Any idea what should I do??
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I think you can go to profile there should be some option to write a review, that might work for you
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Ya if u go to Dr. Jimersons page click on "write a review" and start a new one
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I hope you are doing ok :-)
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Hopefully u are ok. U haven't posted in a few days and I just pray everything is going fine and that u are healing well.
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I would love to post, a lot has happened since my last update and it hasn't been good. It's been horrible, actually. It will not let me update, I've tried about 4 or 5 times and it just erases everything I've written once I hit "submit". I have seen girls start a Part 2 review but I do not know how to do that...?
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You have to contact Kirsty to get your part 2 up
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Ok, that's stupid. We should be in control of our own blogs. how do you do that??
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It has nothing to do with control. Each page has a limited amount of characters. Once that max has been reached a new one has to be created and only administrators can do that.
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