BBL Part 2: Everytime I look in the mirror, I just get pissed

To first read part 1 of my BBL journey, please...

To first read part 1 of my BBL journey, please click here.


Updated on 3 Apr 2013:
I woke up this morning in a haze, feeling completely drained and in pain. The pills just seemed to stop working. I was very quiet and tried not to talk to him but I wanted to see my baby so I went into the guest room. I was so angry from him not checking on me all night or bringing me a drink or anything to eat! I am pissed I had to crawl up the stairs but you know he never apologized for that! He just said "well you told me to leave you alone, so I did". OH RLY! I also asked him multiple times to please get me something to drink!! He just did not give one fuck about it.
He tried to act like nothing was wrong this morning, this is so typical of him. He will spend all night fighting with me until I completely break down and am so drained that I can't move, and then later on he will try and be affectionate like hug me or act like nothing is wrong!!! I do not work like that!!! How do you switch gears that quickly?? I am still mad from last night and he is trying to be all lovey dovey. He is a true Jeckyl and Hyde if I've ever seen one. I mainly just ignored him and gave him one word replies because I can't stand his ass. I still felt like shit and on top of it I've been crying all night so my face and eyes were puffy. I woke up almost every hour on the hour. Sometimes I don't even believe this is my life because it was pretty good before I met him. Now I wake up with dread in my heart and my heart is heavy most days. He is an emotional terrorist, and I can't handle it anymore. I have to walk on egg shells because I never know what kind of mood he is going to be in today.
I laid back down in bed and asked for him to bring the baby in to me so I could lay next to him and see his beautiful face. He tried to ask me if I wanted to watch a movie, I just said no. Then all of a sudden, he was all concerned with when I took my medicine and if I needed anything, this MF. Then he brings me a plate with a sandwich and fruit and a vitamin water. This is exactly the shit he does to me everytime! It makes me feel like a crazy person! I truly feel I will be so much happier and calmer without him in my life, I am so looking forward to him leaving. I just needed him to help me move back to the US and take care of the baby while I recover, I could not do it all alone.
Thank God for Clarice and Tiana!! They served as a sort of buffer so he couldn't act a fool while they were here. It was nice because I felt like I could relax and he couldn't hurt me or cause me any more stress while they were here. It was worth the money just for that. Of course he was a model husband and father while they were here. He is very good at making himself a martyr and making me look like a crazy monster. He is a master at playing the victim. So of course he was all nice and soft spoken and asking me if I need something from the store, and friendly to Clarice and Tiana. I just hate him sometimes. I hope he gets the worst karma in his next relationship and everyone finds out how he really is. I would have left him long ago had I not been stuck overseas in that awful shit hole country.
Anyway, Clarice came over for her last visit (i plan on getting drain tube out tomorrow at post op) and she helped me get my garment off. It was nice just to have a motherly sort of touch around me. It was nice to feel cared for even though I was paying her.
Then Tiana came over, can I just say I love this girl to death. I cannot recommend her any more than 5 stars! If anyone wants her info, here is here website http://thewellnesssanctuaryinc.com/?page_id=190
She is a tiny cute girl with a super sweet and gentle personality. She lugged her huge massage table all the way up the stairs to the master bedroom lol. The table was bigger than her! She is so sweet and very smart, and she will do exactly what you want and cares about your comfort. Her hands felt like magic on me, I have bought a package of 4 massages from her. It is WORTH IT. If you are thinking you don't need it, trust me, you do. At least do one massage and decide after that. Anyway it was nice having them both here with me. It kind of felt like I was hanging out with a cousin and a grandma lol. Clarice was talking Tiana's ear off, it was so funny. Tiana handled it well haha she is very diplomatic. Tiana could hardly get a word in edgewise because Clarice was on a roll! LOL
Tiana was giving me my massage in the bedroom while Clarice was camped out in an armchair in the corner. Then Tiana says check her out. She was pointing at Clarice, snoring away in the armchair, she fell asleep watching Judge joe Brown lol. It was damn funny. But something woke her up and it was like someone recharged her batteries, she was gabbing away 100 miles an hour lol.
I felt great once Tiana was done, but I know I need to continue doing these massages. I still cannot do much of anything, but my arms feel better. Dr. J must have been really aggressive with my sides and lower back area because it is extremely painful and numb in lots of areas. Very tender.
Anyhow, I am trying to avoid the H in any arguments and just remain neutral so no fighting happens. I did have some friends offer for me to stay with them in the DC area for free (they are very nice and have a house) but H didn't like that.

I've been through so much since my last update, I...

I've been through so much since my last update, I don't even know where to start. Husband and I got into a very very bad fight the last day we were in GA so I told him to go back to the ME and leave me and the baby alone cuz we don't need him! Well, he actually did leave. He took the rental car and drove to the airport. I regretted my words as soon as I spoke them but I just didn't want to fight anymore, I couldn't take it. I was upstairs with multiple suitcases, the baby, and tons of stuff he left behind...I was overwhelmed. I couldn't believe he actually left. How the hell was I going to do this on my own? I could barely walk! It was day 11 for me. It was a miserable miserable time. I painstakingly brought each suitcase down the stairs while watching the baby. I had to clean up the house and pack everything. There was too much stuff so I had to leave many things behind because I simply could not fit it (DVD player, towels, bottles, etc.). I felt frustrated and sad and angry. I ordered a van to fit all of this stuff and take us to the Amtrak station. The driver showed up over a half an hour late. He didn't have a van, he came in a towncar. Then he got lost to the Amtrak station. Once we finally arrived, the road was blocked, so we had to drag all of the luggage and stuff up the hill. I wanted to scream and leave my body.

All I kept telling myself while I was waiting in the station is "don't worry, once we get on the train it will be ok. You can lay down with the baby and relax. It will be ok." Finally the train arrives, early even! Yay! I walked down the track to my sleeper car. I paid $700 for a sleeper car room so I can lay down with the baby and have some privacy---it is a 14 hour ride up to DC. I give my ticket and the guys just look at me and say "oh nobody told you?" I was confused and like "what?" They tried to explain something to me but everything went in slow motion as I stand there on the track, completely exhausted and sweaty, with the baby in the stroller. Apparently there had been a fire in MY sleeper car only and I would NOT be getting a room. I wanted to die!!!! I held back my tears but I felt like collapsing. I HAD TO SIT AND RIDE COACH WITH MY LITTLE BABY FOR 14 HOURS!!!
The conductors and the train employees were cold and unhelpful; I got shown to my seat. This was way worse than a 2 hour plane ride, wtf was I going to do?? I laid the baby across the two seat and kneeled down on the floor beside him and just wept and wept. I cried for several hours that night. I could not control myself. The ride was horrible, the train freezing. I did not eat or drink anything because I did not want to have to go to the bathroom. Who would watch my baby?? I was starving and thirsty and feeling as low as I possibly could get. Kneeling on the floor for hours caused my knees to blow up like balloons and my legs got stiff. I tried to sit on the boppy pillow and it was excruciating!! That made me cry even more and all I could think about was how many fat cells I was killing and how I paid for this surgery for nothing now. The entire ride went like this. Kneeling, laying across the seat on my stomach, crumpled up like a bent tree branch, standing up, trying to lay on my back on the boppy or on my side on the boppy but having to move because the pain and discomfort was unbearable. My innocent sweet little baby was an angel, he must have known. He lay sleeping on the seat all night and only woke for a diaper change or some milk. He was a blessing for me, my darling love. I was in agony and swore I would never forget the discomfort and torture I endured for 14 hours of not being able to rest and being completely exhausted. I slept on my knees in 5-10 minute increments. It was god awful and I thought I would not make it through.
We finally arrived in VA and the cab to take us to the hotel was late. We wait and wait and wait. Once we arrive to the hotel they tell me we cannot check in for 2 or 3 hours!!!!!!!! I wanted to pass out right there and just shook my head because that is just my luck. Once we got to the room, I immediately stripped me and the baby down and scrubbed ourselves in the shower. I laid him down with me in bed and we rest. Finally. The room is spinning and I cannot sleep. I feel like I am still on the train. I am hating my life.
I feel like I ruined any fat I had in my ass and hips from that one train ride. I have been pretty good about not sitting or sleeping on my back but this shit is getting really really really old. I have not had a good night's sleep since before the surgery. I am a side and back sleeper and you can do neither of these things after this surgery.
My ass has gone down about 85%. I am disgusted with this whole process. I am still wearing the garment but I have modified it by cutting holes out for the hips and cutting it to the knees. I need to breathe! Since I was in a hotel in the city for about a week, I did a lot of walking around with the baby, sometimes for hours. I read that this can also be detrimental to the fat cells (I did not know this) but I was tired of doing nothing. What pissed me off and angered me the most was all of the restaurants I could not partake in, movies I cannot go watch, cars I cannot drive, and breaks I cannot take. I felt like the walking dead, destined to roam the earth with no rest at all, never stopping. This surgery is bullshit I do not know how some girls are managing to avoid all sitting and normalcy for 6 weeks!! Lunacy!!
Now I am finally in my apartment with the baby (this was another nightmare I will not tell you about simply because I am tired of typing), I just got internet hooked up today. It has been horrible being alone here with no phone or way to contact anyone. Very lonely. This was husband's fault because he did not sign the lease when the realtor asked him to so she canceled my cable installation. This snowballed into me waiting 2 days after that to have internet and cable and a phone. I am beyond angry. I almost ran out of wipes for the baby, got my period and had nothing for it, and I had no food in the house. Things are ok now, thank God. I do not know how I am managing any of this, I feel like I am outside of my own body looking down and watching this madness that is my life .

I know you all want to see photos of my butt. I will post some soon. Dr. J did great lipo around my waist and back area, and he took care of my bra rolls pretty well. My inner thighs and arms I am unhappy with. I felt he could have done much more and it didn't make much difference. I am still full of scar tissue and very tight. This surgery is a serious commitment and requires you to have no life whatsoever for about a month and a half. Who can honestly do this?

Feeling ok today. The swelling is going down, I...

Feeling ok today. The swelling is going down, I have not switched from a large garment to a smaller one but I am on the 2nd row of hooks. I have ordered a few garments from classicshapewear.com. Check out this website, it has many options for us that I think are much more comfortable than the sandpaper shit that lipoexpress has to offer. My scar tissue is still tight and hard, it is especially noticeable around my rib cage and my inner thighs. My inner thighs look and feel like they have packed clay underneath. I am calling around to see if I can find a local massage therapist that specializes in scar tissue reduction, since that is what Tiana recommended to me because I am past the stage of Lymphatic drainage and would benefit more from breaking up my scar tissue.

Overall when I look at my old pics, I do like my body more now than I did before. However, my hips keep shrinking and so does my ass. But I no longer have that Spongebob Squarepants shape--I'm not square anymore! So for that, I am thankful. I still am sleeping on my stomach and not sitting down after all the damage I caused during the move and the train incident. Damn, that sucked.

I really miss sitting down and being able to relax. I cannot get a good night's sleep and the baby hogs the bed so I'm even more uncomfortable lol. But that's ok I love him and he's allowed to do that! I miss sleeping on my back and side. I am currently 24 days out. I read a lot of girls complaining that their butts are hard and tight. My butt is softening up and if I move too fast or step into the shower, I can feel it bounce, so I am not having any issues there thank God. It is coming along nicely in that respect, no necrosis as far as I can detect.
I stopped eating healthy in Georgia. Since I've been back in the DC area, I've been eating out and eating whenever I can. Some very good friends of mine came by and brought me stuff for the baby and groceries, but none of the food included salad lol. Mostly pasta, cereal, hot dogs, cold cuts, lots of bread, crackers, cheese, etc. They did get me fruit lol. It is really nice to eat American food again! I am enjoying it soooo much! Everything tastes so damn delicious! I have been eating whatever and I am just too stressed and too much to worry about to concern myself with this right now. However, once things settle down (knock on wood) I will resume a healthy diet and be more mindful of my eating habits.
I am sick of looking at these steri-strips, but Dr. J says DO NOT remove them and let them fall off on their own. This is important for keeping the scar as minimal as possible and letting your body heal naturally. One fell of yesterday and it was so black and dirty and old I thought it was a bug on the floor lol.
I cannot fit into any of my damn pants except for sweats and one pair of jeggings that I own. The brown pants in the photo do not pull up all the way over my ass and I cannot zip them. I'm ok with that though. Sorry I do not have more sexy photos of me in dresses and lingerie but I had to only pack the essentials during this horrible move, and nothing pretty or sexy was included. :(
I will continue to post and update. Please feel free to continue contacting me and asking me any questions you have.
I want to send a special THANK YOU to all the ladies out there that have contacted me to give me comfort, support and kind words. It was and is very touching. This has been a very hard road and being alone here with the baby and adjusting to all of this change and stress has been extremely difficult. Sometimes I wonder how I even made it all the way here from across the world. I must have a guardian angel because it's a miracle I didn't end up in the hospital or injure myself. Someone must love and care for my baby to keep me safe so I can keep him safe and protect him.

I have been desperate to find someone in this area...

I have been desperate to find someone in this area that makes house calls and does scar tissue reduction. However, I finally found a lypossage expert and they will be coming this saturday. Have you guys heard of lypossage? It's supposed to be really intense and actually help mold and shape your body, reduce cellulite (and break up scar tissue!) and overall help with circulation and healing. It was damn expensive though since they charge $130 for each zone (zone 3 is belly button and down, zone 2 is shoulders to belly button, and zone 1 is neck and face). I am having zone 2 and 3 done since I had arm lipo I need it. Dammit. We will see how it goes I am really looking forward to having someone come and break up all these ropes under my skin making me look lumpy. I will keep you all informed. If anyone has had any experience with the lypossage, please share it! I'm really curious!

After tossing and turning all night last night,...

After tossing and turning all night last night, I decided I can't take this anymore. My neck is crunched up so bad from sleeping on my tummy, I truly hate this recovery process. I have tried to stuff memory foam pillows underneath me, purchased a memory foam mattress topper, used big fluffy pillows, no pillows--you name it. I get no sleep! I try every now and then to lay a little bit on my sides but it just feels uncomfortable. And to make it worse, my little bubs is waking up often and in a stage where he is very restless at night. He is learning to crawl but not yet so he just slides himself all over the damn bed. Sometimes he is upside down or in crazy positions and I end up on the edge of the bed lol. I know this poor baby misses breastfeeding and this is why. He searches and searches for me and I am not there for him. :((( My milk has dried up. It is hard to try and nurse him when I cannot lay down or lay on my side. Damn this recovery! I hate it! Even now when he is upset I will get on all fours on top of him and lean down and give him my breast, and my love is instantly calm. I want to do this for him but I fear I will never have milk again like I used to. I just want to be recovered so I can start laying on my side and back!! Why is this surgery so difficult? I had no idea what I signed up for, really.
I'm just exhausted. I stayed up until 2 am this morning working on my final exam. I'm living off of coffee, otherwise I cannot make it through the day. I have another long paper to write tonight and then this is the last day of class before I start a new class tomorrow. Ugh.
I sit on the toilet but I lean forward on my thighs to alleviate any pressure on my butt. My butt does touch the toilet seat but it's barely any pressure at all. I am still in the same damn tore up garment that Dr. J gave me and I have been wearing for almost a month straight now! I ordered a squeem waist cincher that should be coming soon and I will wear that alone by itself. I am tired of this thong riding up my ass and the straps on this garment digging into my shoulders. Also I am SICK SICK SICK of walking around and not sitting down! I wander around my apartment all day like a damn zombie, just moving and moving, like a shark, but never resting. I do not understand you ladies out there that are looking to do round 2!!! WTF!? I do not see how this is possible ladies! You are loca!
I do not know how much longer I can do this. I keep trying to hold out from sitting and laying on my butt because I have no excuse to sit. I am not working right now so it's just a question of sheer willpower to not sit! I will admit it does not feel good to sit or lay on my back or sides. It feels uncomfortable and kind of hurts. Everyone's reviews I read seem like they are sailing through this recovery and it's not that bad. I feel like some sort of weirdo because I am SO miserable!
Another steri-strip came off today. I found another bug lol. I am glad they are slowly coming off but I don't like what I am finding underneath. I look so beat up, so many marks and scars now. The drain hole is so deep, the scab is still there from when the drain was removed. I am afraid to see how bad the scar will be once the scab falls off. Geez ladies you'd think they could make this surgery quicker, easier, and less traumatizing.
I also ordered a few garments from classicshapewear.com, and I will post pics of these once they arrive. Ladies if you have not seen this website, check it out, they have a really great selection, I'm not kidding.

If anyone has any tips or tricks to help get through this recovery or manage scars, etc. please let me know. I'm open to every suggestion!

I just got the Squeem "Perfect Waist" in the...

I just got the Squeem "Perfect Waist" in the mail. I ordered a size medium in the color black. To be honest, I feel like my torso is a tad bit short for this clincher because it bunches up just a little but this damn thing feels great!! No more wedgies up my ass! That garment straight up cut a hole in my ass crack and it feels so good not to have it on! I love this waist clincher and I feel I can move up to a size small, maybe in a month or so if I'm faithful with wearing the one I have now.

I can finally bend down to tie my shoes and shave...

I can finally bend down to tie my shoes and shave my legs! It's a great day to feel normal lol! I slept on my sides for the first time last night, it felt weird but good. I am fucking sick of sleeping on my stomach. I have ditched the fucking triangle because I hate that damn thing! I will only wear it if I have my garment on AND I am going to bed. Otherwise, I don't look at the thing.

The photos have pics of me wearing the Squeem in a size Medium, on the second row of hooks. I thought I could do the 2nd row already and I was right. I might be needing a small next month (that's if I don't eat like a pig with all this great American food!).
Anyway, I posted some new photos of myself, I tried to be as experimental as possible but ladies I didn't bring a suitcase full of lingerie when I came back to the states, it's just my undies, nothing fancy. I am on day 29 post op.
Things are sad with the husband. He is back in the Middle East and we barely communicate. I was hoping he'd show me some outpouring of love and affection and write me a letter to tell me he's sorry and how much he wants me in his life, but no. Nothing.

We had a phone conversation last week and he made me so angry I hung up on him and then sent him a nasty message on facebook telling him I am glad we are not in the Middle East anymore with him and I think he is the worst person I know. I also begged him for a divorce and told him I hated him!!!! I was so upset because he says on the phone "what do I need to change?" LIKE WHHHHHAAAAT????! So I guess it's ALL ME, then? I'm the crazy one and you are perfect??! I just couldn't handle it, I saw red and he never even tried to clear up any confusion about it!

I have Skyped with him once just so I could put the baby on and he could see the baby. When he tried to make small talk I told him I wasn't interested. He barely communicates with me. I will send him an email and he might not respond for days. I feel he doesn't love me and is probably sticking his dick in everything he can. Meanwhile, I'm not fooling around with anyone. I AM lonely though and wish things were different. I wish he would change! I want to have my family and keep it together but how can I with a person who doesn't feel remorse for anything and blames me for all our problems? :(( I feel very alone and lonely being here with the baby and no car or job (yet). It kind of sucks. I keep hoping and wishing for husband to change or show me somehow he cares but not really. He doesn't even want to make the effort because I am leaving him, so in his eyes what is the point?

P.S. Forgot to mention that tonight is my first...

P.S. Forgot to mention that tonight is my first "lypossage". This shit is supposed to be painful and it is EXPENSIVE. Think it is costing me around $260 for a half hour! This is a one-time deal, gotta find someone cheaper after this. I'll let you all know what I think about it.

So the girl shows up and she does a bang-up job....

So the girl shows up and she does a bang-up job. Lypossage is THE best way to shape your body and mold it like clay, getting out all the lumps and bumps. It hurts so good! I was in ecstasy and pain at the same time. She does a variety of techniques such as skin rolling, squeezing, pinching and pounding the skin. If they are doing it right, your skin will turn pinkish-red (if you are light skinned), this is indicating that the blood is coming to the surface and circulation is maximum! You get the sensation that you have a sunburn--skin feels hot and flushed, but it goes away in a few minutes. It feels like she is breaking up all the scar tissue, I felt great immediately after!! I RECOMMEND THIS 100%! Find someone that is skilled in lypossage, not just any hobo off the street. This girl knew what the hell she was doing! I plan on doing this once a week until I feel satisfied that my scar tissue and tightness has been broken up sufficiently. Truly excellent experience, so much better than the lymphatic drainage, although that is necessary during the first week or two.

ALSO, some people aren't bothering to read through my whole review and I am being asked the same questions.

I did post all this info in my review, but here it is again:

875 cc's in each cheek
300 cc's in each hip
4900 cc's out

I got inner thigh, bra roll, and arms lipoed. I do not recommend inner thigh and arms because I feel ripped off. He only lipoed just my tricep area ( I thought I was getting the whole upper arm) and on the inside of my thighs, he only went down about 2 or 3 inches from my crotch (again, thought I was getting the entire inner thigh). BUT, I have to say, the swelling between my thighs is starting to go down and I am getting that sexy little "diamond" between my coochie and my thighs--you ladies know what I'm talking about? If I bent over you could shine a flashlight between my thighs, and only a diamond shaped light would come out the other side. Me likey...:)

I slept on my sides for the first time last night....

I slept on my sides for the first time last night. I woke up this morning with extreme shooting pains in my hips. Since this surgery irritates and puts pressure on the sciatic nerve, I'm guessing that's where the pain is coming from. Dammit! I hate this recovery! I'm still sleeping on my stomach for the most part, but I've been over it for a while now. My neck is so fucked up from craning it upwards I feel that the vertebrae have begun to fuse together due to all these bullshit positions.
Sleeping with the baby is even harder, because he is flipping over, going upside down and sliding and crawling all over the bed. I am constantly having to keep track of him and I still get no sleep. He was having gas pains last night so I didn't start writing my paper for school until after midnight. *sigh* Writing a paper for 4 hours on my stomach is so painful, I curse this damn recovery. Damn it to hell!

I tried sitting yesterday and today and the outcome is the same--it hurts and it is damn uncomfortable. My ass feels like it's made of bubble wrap and any pressure will explode it or it will burst open and fat will go flying everywhere! I'm pissed. Everyday I'm just pissed. And my ass seems smaller and my hips are disappearing. The dent in my left hip (see my before pics) is reappearing and I am not liking it! I am starting to panic because it will probably come back in full swing unless I gain like 20 pounds of fat just to keep myself plump. NOT WORTH $14K!!!! Maybe the prices that Yily is charging is fair for this surgery, but Jimerson is highway robbery!! This surgery is a joke, it's all a crap shoot, it's a gamble! You might win and you might lose--who knows! If you are going to pay $14K, it better be a guarantee, but it's not, so GTFOH!
I put my finger in my drain hole last night while I was in the shower. Let me rephrase that: I touched my drain hole last night, and to my horror, there is a palpable dent there! Like a divot on a golf ball that will never go away! There is still a scab there but once it falls off, the crater will surely stay. Goddammit. I did not notice that before and maybe it's not a big deal but it is to me. All of these scars and hardly nothing to show for it! That's like going through pregnancy for the whole 9 months--getting fat, stretch marks, etc. and then no baby at the end! Lunacy!

Anyway I'm just pissed everytime I look in the mirror. My results are ok but NOT what I paid for and not what I wanted. I asked for drastic results, not barely noticeable results. I feel like this surgery is a joke. And now I'm out 14k for a slightly curvier body and butt. Dammit, I'm just so disappointed.

If you are considering arm or thigh lipo from Dr. Jimerson I really wouldn't recommend it unless you have money to burn. He does a VERY SMALL portion of your thighs and arms, so it's barely noticeable. My thighs are more obvious than my arms because they are still swollen but I have that diamond between my upper thighs which is sexy, but still, a total disappointment. Just needed to vent.

A good friend of mine invited me out this weekend to go to brunch. They will be picking me and the baby up in their car and driving about 25 minutes to a nice restaurant. This will be my first time sitting down in a car and first time sitting down to eat. I will be 5 weeks and 2 days post op. Do you ladies think this is OK???

I'm pretty depressed. I starting sleeping on my...

I'm pretty depressed. I starting sleeping on my sides last night again and I even laid on my back for about 20 minutes. It still feels really uncomfortable. I am very unhappy with my results, I think I look better than before but not enough for me to justify having spent 14k. It's B.S! I hope that fluffing is real and I get some of my volume back. **I AM 5 WEEKS PO TODAY**

I managed a deal with the lypossage therapist. $100/session for 6 weeks. She will be coming once a week for the next 6 weeks. I wish I could afford to have her 2x a week because I feel absolutely incredible once she's finished. It actually makes a difference. First massage in the package is tomorrow night. Counting down the hours.

I am going out to dinner tonight for the first time. I am scared I won't be able to make it through due to pain and discomfort but I am SICK SICK SICK of not being able to sit down or do anything!! WHY do I still feel uncomfortable after 5 weeks? My ass feels full and does not really give when I try to sit. It feels too full (but it doesn't look it!!). I really want to have dinner and sit down and relax. I regret this surgery, when does the fucking recovery period end already!!? This is ridiculous!

Once again, you ladies going for round 2 are CA-RAZY!
Atlanta Plastic Surgeon

Yeah, I was originally set on going down to FL but then I saw Jimerson's work on Realself and he is freaking awesome! I want a big bubble butt and what better than a young black man (instead of a crusty old white man that doesn't know what a booty is supposed to look like) to do it! :)

3 out of 5 stars Overall rating
5 out of 5 stars Doctor's bedside manner
5 out of 5 stars Answered my questions
1 out of 5 stars After care follow-up
1 out of 5 stars Time spent with me
1 out of 5 stars Phone or email responsiveness
4 out of 5 stars Staff professionalism & courtesy
4 out of 5 stars Payment process
2 out of 5 stars Wait tmes
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grl the way u speak made me laugh bc u sound like me and i sa after 2 wks bc of my flight home lol was to embarassed to stand up the whole time or tell them i got my ass done so i sat i asl drove frm tx bak to miami at wk 4 sitting on a pillow i didnt lose volume either. it felt funny but not painful thats odd...hmm but i only got like 650ccs or something to add more fullness. hmm yes i think jimmerson is overpriced for the results when u can go to a diff dr get the same if not better results..i payd 5750 for mine n i will not pay anything more than hat. i will not d a round two unless bby number 2 ruins it bc yes idk how grls can do it again
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I'm sorry your not like your results! But to me you look amazing!! Also this is YOUR blog so if you want to talk about your personal life then go ahead!! We should be supporting each other not judging!! I hope you update soon and hope you're doing well!
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t.mi on personal life. I wouldn't put my personal business out there and definitely not on this site. Maybe do a journal or a blog, hope things are going better..well wishes..nice bod
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Hey. Can we get an update? I feel for your story and hope you pulled through!
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Damn, I admire your strength and courage to keep pressing on. Sending prayers your way that u'll find contentment and peace with Ur final results.
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I think you look bomb.com. And I want to say you are an amazing woman. You've been through hell and back!!! But you still stand! ^_^ Your baby is so lucky to have you as mommy!
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Yily is a good surgeon,she does excellent curves,not a booty doc. Dr. J is the king of over sized unrealistic booties. I think he curved you good, a lot of people out there that paid more didn't get your results. Did you want a bigger Booty? To me on your pic, your butt is huge.
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For me you look amazing good luck mama gbu
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Sorry sister. Me also i wasted my money. He took my 20000$ and messed my body.i wasn't happy since day 2. He made me pay so much and made my surgery at night , send me home and never follow up. Now I m 6 weeks and my butt is flat, deformed and my tummy big as before.i won't recommend him . He is good only for perfect body already curvy and even for these the butt stay only several months. But me , you and all his unhappy patients have to keep our voices heard. Please put news pictures and try to warn others making the same mistake we did.his marketing team is great and they are brainwashing people here.they are others doctors better than him, cheaper than him and more conscious,...he s a salesman and all this team have one goal.take the more from us. They are advising tummy tuck to everyone and extra areas for lipo. So you will pay more and he won't do it properly.all my 3 surgeries took less than 3 hours.he is busy and run after fame and money
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I think you look so good! Are you still unhappy with your results?
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Help please tell me who did ur lypossage
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Does the scaring go away on the but
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I think you results look good....not worth it still?
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What is fluffying?
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when the fat settles,,,it is also sometimes a myth to some lol bc some never experience it supposedly
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I think you look great. You look very sexy. I sorry for all of the pain, but beauty is pain. It will get better. Your results are beautiful.
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My doc says that with proper post op protocol, what you have at 3 months should be what you will keep, but that from 6 months to a year tells the real story of what you will keep. I did not sit for 6 weeks and did not go back to my full workout/sports activities for 6 months. I lost no volume after week three. I'd say that I kept 90 % of my volume. When I was at my most swollen, my hips were 39 inches. With all of the swelling long gone they are now 38 1/2 inches. It's a long, long process, but certainly worth iti n the long run. Hang in there!
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I should add that I am almost 8 months post op.
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I think this surgery's ridiculous. Only this surgery do we have to play all of these games and do this and don't do that and MAYBE we will like what we see and the final result could be 3 months to 1 year!!! You didn't exercise (at all) for 6 months?? I have been walking since week 2. Glad you're happy with your results, I certainly am not.
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I didn't do my full exercise routine because I am extremely active. I do resistance training, bicycle, practice yoga, and ride horses. I normally go to the gym every single day for 1-2 hours. It took a while to get back to that level of activity. I did it gradually. I was able to do all upper body workouts after 3 weeks. I did not walk on the treadmill for 3 months. Nothing is promised with this surgery, but as I have said many times before, if we come out looking better than we went in, it's worth it, IMO. Plus, we all need to follow up on here for many years to really determine who has had a permanent, truly successful outcome. I want to see where everybody is in 5-10 years. I was just trying to give you an idea of the lengthy recovery period, but of course, YMMV. Good luck.
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I agree bellesis, really is worth it if you can out looking better than what you did before going in! I think that people should do more research before doing this procedure that way that won't feel let down with results. It is explained that some volume will be lost and the recovery is not easy. That is why we do research to see if this is something that we want before hand!! what is YMMV? lol
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I hope your using a bobby.
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I haven't sat but I plan on sitting today. I'll be riding in a car and sitting down for dinner. I tried sitting on my own at my place but it just feels horrible. Hope I can make it through dinner.
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You should start sitting now, I dont think you will lose any volume and it will also help you to get use to the feeling. I felt pretty good sitting around three weeks and did not lose from it. You have been doing really good going that long and Im sure that the fat is settled in now. You should be at least at 100% by 8 weeks. I did not get that much fat injected the first time only 500 ccs so maybe thats why it was not that bad for me. I dont even remember my ass hurting at all, just the pain from the lipo. Hang in there!
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Thanks girl2. I sat in the car and sat down to eat. It felt very uncomfortable! I hope you're right about the fat being settled by now. I feel like I squished it all.
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