Had to change the date, Guess I have a long time to prepare!

Sorry to hear you had to postpone. Be careful though. For me it never was a good time and next thing ya know years went by. Wish i did it 10yrs ago.

Just wanted to let you know, you've chosen a good doctor. I love dr. kasden!

Dec 30th is around the corner! I know you must be more than ready. Don't back out! You're be just fine. I'm scheduled for a TT and thigh lipo on Dec 19th. Good luck with yours.

Today is the day! Sending healing vibes your way!

I think its pretty normal to get cold feet....I wouldn't let the nerves stop you.

If you have the money....I would go for it...there is no better thing than feeling better about yourself! You deserve it! I waited so long to get one and I am finally getting one at 47- wish I could have done this a ton earlier! Good luck doll!

I say go for it. I also came very close to cancelling, but I am happy I decided to move forward. I also had 3 babies and lost my middle child, just like you. The recovery is not easy, I'll be honest.....but it is worth it and definitely tolerable. Good luck to you!

You are so close to your date. I woldnt back out now if i were you. I am like you too -- waited for 13 years after having big babies by c-section. And we are both at idwal weights. You will be so glad to have it done. Being a mom you must realize how fast time goes by. Before you know it you will forget the surgery and recovery and will be happy "in your own skin!".

Hi, I'm still recovering. I had my surgery on the 19th and all I could think afterwards is, 'what have I done'. At 50, with 4 grown children, there was no aesthetic reason for the surgery in my mind. I hated trying to fit that bulge (other being) into my pants and it being squeezed by pantyhose and lifting it to put powder underneath to protect it. I have a few stretch marks left, and this huge scar, but I'd take them any day over the annoying roll that was only growing as I aged. So think about 10 to 20 years from now. It may require an outfit of its own! I also had the breasts to match the belly, they were fighting to sit in the same lap space. I love my new breast lift. No more powder!!! I actually added this piece of the surgery about week before surgery. Also, I signed a consent form for someone to use my skin in a study. So now there was really no turning back, modern science wanted that roll! It's a scary situation, but for me, and I think many here, it's not vanity, it's the discomfort of this skin on the body. I'm not sure when it all changed, but somehow it did. I think it's because there are more women in the workplace. I work and need to look professional, not have a wrestling match with the belly when squeezing into a bench at a restaurant. A bit long, still a bit uncomfortable, but very happy I went through with it. I wish you luck!

Hi Mktay.. Wow our tummies were very similar. I notice you have deeper stretch marks on your sides just like I do! You will be surprised how many SM will go bye bye.. All the ones below should go.. For me the marks I have now are from what was above my BB.. I would never let SM stop you from getting a firm tight belly! It's just special reminders of our babies! The deep ones on the sides of my belly are really puffed out right now. I asked my PS about it and he said they will smooth out, it's just from the skin being pulled so tight. I'm personally not embarassed of them, the icky tummy was way worse for me! I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. :( could not imagine! I wish you the best of luck! Keep us posted! :)