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SOFTGIRL...taking a poll: Do you think I'd look ok in a bikini? Or...should I just forget it...be honest ladies..

  • posted 6 months ago
  • updated 2 months ago

I'm 50+, had 3 kids, nursed em all, and now a...

I'm 50+, had 3 kids, nursed em all, and now a deflated 36b of some kind. I hope to get 394 Allergans, style 15. I was barely an A cup for most of my life until I had kids, during breastfeeding it swelled up to about a D cup and I was in heaven! I want to have that feel and look again. I will fill out more once I get the rest of the fee. Can you believe that they wanted me to provide COLLATERAL for a measly 1500?? I'm appalled.

I forgot to add, since they won't let me change...

I forgot to add, since they won't let me change the previous review... I'm 5 2, 128, 36B [kinda]. I will have to take some before pics here shortly and figure out how to load them up without asking my teen sons to do it [gah!!!]. My motivation is several things: I think I don't look too bad clothed, but really want to rock it naked. I feel 'ho-hum' everytime I take my bra off and see my poor limp boobies..like another poster said-they did their biological job well. I like most of the rest of my body and feel I've done a pretty good job staying in shape, considering I had 3 kids. I'm just plain tired of feeling 'less than' since I was a teen and now that my baby days are over, why shouldn't I do something for me? I put it off for good reasons, but those concerns are gone now.
I am great at penny pinching, almost "extreme" couponing, making sure our family is fed/clean/dressed/civilized, why can't I have a treat for ME? My spouse is not too thrilled over the idea, but it's not about him, it's about my own body image. Both my BFF and my sister have recently had BA's, and are happy and thrilled with their results. I want my turn now! I am pinching pennies for boobies now!! LOL!! and pass the free shampoo, thank you very much...
This website has been a godsend for me, I have picked up really great pics for my 'boobie folder' to take to my Dr., and giving me courage to follow through! I might add that I've had a TT 8 yrs ago and although it didn't turn out perfect, I'm still glad I did it. My BFF had a TT first and reported that the BA was much much easier, so that helps ease my nerves too.

Ok, the PS office called and put me to the 27th...

Ok, the PS office called and put me to the 27th instead. Apparently another Dr. is assisting and she couldn't be there on the 26th. No problem. Called my sister today and she promised me she is coming that week for sure. She will drive me to my BA as my hubby has to work. She just had a BA herself in August and will make an excellent nurse. Yay! Christmas boobies!

Ok Ladies, I popped into my PS's office and made...

Ok Ladies, I popped into my PS's office and made another deposit. My pre-op is next weds and I then be all paid up and ready to go.
Does anyone here take HRT and did you have to go off of it? I researched it and found that about 50% of the women taking HRT or birth control pills did not have to stop unless they were having really long multiple surgeries. I have my blood levels tested and my HRT is bio identical, meaning it's exactly the same stuff my own body used to produce. However, my levels are just enough to control menopausal symptoms, and are WAY lower than what a normal woman would make at like 35, so why it would be an issue, I don't know. They don't tell healthy 35, 40 yr old women to stop having periods, do they?? lol... ok now i"m rambling...

Oh my God....Had my preop today and my head is...

Oh my God....Had my preop today and my head is swirling. I'm sure all of you can relate. I loved the way the 371's looked, so the gal ordered 397's due to the compression factor. I tried them on and asked everyone over and over, "Are you sure this is not too much?" They all said it's 'perfect. perfect, you can even go more', but it was the stopping point for me, lol.
The Dr. came in, [between surgeries] and assured me everything will go fine, that it was a good size for me, not too big for the 24 hr recovery technique. Then he threw me a curve ball and wants to do a peri areolar incision, which I did not ask for. He insists it will not reduce my nipple sensations [which is really important to me, I have sensitive nipples that make me VERY happy during, ummm, intimate moments, shall we say]. My hub got very upset [??] at the mention of going through my nipples.... so they agreed to let me tell them the morning of the surgery which way I want to go. I'm torn, because I actually do think that the BA's I've seen going thru the nipple were really great looking, but my hub has this idea that I'll be left with big ugly scars under my nips... Girls...what do you think? I'm more concerned about loss of sensation, and hubs is upset about scars. UGH.

Ok Ladies, trying to add a pic... I think this is...

Ok Ladies, trying to add a pic... I think this is the 397cc sizer, so should be smaller once it's in. I pray this is not too big. The blonde gal on the left was helping me with sizers and she insisted this looked great on me.

Why am I not on the calendar for the 27th? Who's...

Why am I not on the calendar for the 27th? Who's in charge of this?

For some reason I couldn't see the price in my...

For some reason I couldn't see the price in my review like I can see others, so I added it.

Hey gals, had one last pre op today. Thank God my...

Hey gals, had one last pre op today. Thank God my sister came out to help me, I need the emotional support. I suddenly got a case of the cold feet/whackos/wth's over the weekend. My Dr. also gave me a pep talk and smacked me verbally upside the head, too. He's a real, no nonsense sort of guy. In my defense, I'm without hormone replacement right now. Normally I'm fairly steady... but I figured you all were familiar with all the pre op and post op crazies too, so I can let my hair down with you gals.
Thursday the 27th is coming soon, wish me luck on the other side! Here's to better boobies!

LADIES! I'm done!! And WOW, the insuite surgery...

LADIES! I'm done!! And WOW, the insuite surgery center was topnotch. Extremely clean, modern, and the entire team at Dr. Gitt's office was warm, empathetic, professional. Dr. Heidi Regenass was assisting, and she came in and was so kind and supportive, it was exactly what I needed, as I was just wigged out from nerves the past week! Dr. Gitt was great and didn't make me feel bad for not going with the aerolar incision, extra points for him [i know he would have preferred it}. Everything went smoothly. But since I have tuberous constricted breasts, I had extra pain below my breasts, as he had to approach that differently to try and get the pocket just right.

This afternoon/evening i was very very sick from the effects of the anesthesia/ pain, but part of the problem was that I didn't get the dosing sequence right. Thank God my sister was here to help me get back on track and now I'm ahead of the pain. I took a quick peek at the girls and WOW, I hope they stay on course like this, they look AMAZING. I couldn't be happier. But even if things take a not so good turn, I will deal with it then and see what the Dr. can do for me. So far, so good!! OH!! and my right nipple still has good sensation, the left not so much, but it's all good! I got 397 cc's in both sides, Allergan moderate profile, style 15. PS my fav part was the heated, hot air balloon type 'gown' and blankets.
Happy New Years and happy healing to all my BA sisters here!

Day 3 and a few words: took my first post op...

Day 3 and a few words: took my first post op shower, and I think my boobies look amazing! Of course I'm still sore/tight/high, but I think these 397's are the perfect size for me. .Ok, time for more pills and a NAP. Eventually I'll get a pic on here that won't freak my hubby out. He's so worried about my body being on the 'interweb'!! LOL! OH and my sister is here taking care of me and marshalling my kids to clean house too, she has been the best sister ever. Can't thank her enough!

Added some post op pics...trying to get some...

Added some post op pics...trying to get some better ones! these are the 397 cc, Allergan, style 15.

Ok here's a couple more pics, day 7.

Ok here's a couple more pics, day 7.

I added a pre op pic of my tuberous constricted...

I added a pre op pic of my tuberous constricted breasts. Hubs thought they were 'perfect'.. haha...

When i first came home, he seemed happy and...

When i first came home, he seemed happy and excited. Now he won't look at me and says he wants my old boobs back, that this doesn't turn him on. My old boobs were little flat tuberous lumps. It's a good thiing i have strong sense of self. I reminded him I did this for me and not anyone else. This makes him angy.

Hubs stayed home today and is being nice and...

Hubs stayed home today and is being nice and helpful. Maybe he wants something??? lol....thanks girls for all your continued support.

I an now able to get myself in out of bed. so...

I an now able to get myself in out of bed. so after kids get sent off to school i can go back to bed and snooze a little longer. This helps a TON as far as healing goes! I will try and get some new pics up! not posting a lot as my cursor is bouncing a lot lately.

Fooey on asking someone else to size me. My mom is...

Fooey on asking someone else to size me. My mom is a retired professional tailor, and she measured me at 36D. My band under my boobies is 32 [plus 4=36] and my boobs at the fullest part is 40. So 40 minus 36 = D cup. Sure enough, in nearly every better brand in better stores [not counting Walhell or Ross or TJ Maxx], I am exactly a 36D! I'm still, at 6 weeks, not comfy wearing a wired bra, as my fold/creases were lowered a lot and are still sore as hell. I'm living in Bali style #3484, in a Medium. Found them dirt cheap on Ebay from a gal in Florida for $11 shipped! Go to a Kohl's and try em on, no wires and you'll be shocked at how comfy they are. Then order from ebay! I'll get some more pics up in a few days.

Gals [and guys for you transgender types, lol],...

Gals [and guys for you transgender types, lol], based on what you've seen of my pics, do you think I'd look ok in a bikini? I've been very bikini shy since having kids, but my friends and even my 13 yr old teen girl think I'd look good in a bikini. In the interest of science and not wanting to blind anyone with my not perfect body, what do you think? I got the boobs to balance me out and am tired of the tankini's and one pieces. See, I've been trying on swimsuits like mad and find that anything over a C cup is very dowdy, fugly and 'minimizing'!! I paid over 5 g's for boobies and dam if I'm going to 'minimize' these pups!! Thoughts please. Thank you!
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Limaboro 17 May 2013
Looking good girl! AND yes!!! You should wear a bikini!!!
am.sknr 26 Apr 2013
love that you too call them pups! I think a bikini would be fine....there are people way way way worse around always....and still in a bikini....that is what my husband always tells me and always makes me feel better cause you then start looking around and realize he is right! Yours look good! Can't wait til my day finally comes!
Permagrin12 18 Mar 2013
You have a similar body type to my mom and she wears a bikini. I have never thought it looked bad or felt embarrassed when we were together. I would definitely say go for it. Your new boobs deserve it
softgirl 18 Mar 2013
THANK YOU!
LilacLuv 18 Mar 2013
Definitely a bikini! You have great boobs now so I wouldn't think twice! Have fun choosing which ones! Looking forward to bikini pics :)
softgirl 18 Mar 2013
THANK you so much! My gf's tell me I should, but you know your best buddies will not hurt your feelings so I thought some objective opinions would be good.
MissNewBoobs 18 Mar 2013
I think you would look great in a bikini I'm doig the high waisted bottoms with skimpy top. I had 3 babies so id rather hide my lower tummy haha!! We better flaunt these girls we paid so much for :-D
Susan34 18 Mar 2013
Wear a higher waisted one with a skimpy top makes the boobs pop so got it so flaunt it :)
softgirl 18 Mar 2013
I have a very short waist, but a nice bubble butt that you can't see in my pics, so high waisted is not attractive on me. I also have good slim legs. When I was younger and stick thin, I rocked a bikini even tho I was flat chested, as my other assets were good enough to carry it off. I had a botched 'mini tuck' and ended up with a scar up the center and the stupid Dr. did not take out all the excess skin, so I'm not happy with my abs around and above the belly button. By the way, this is NOT the same dr that just did my boobs.[ I should've taken him to court and forced him to redo it, but I lost confidence and wasn't up to the fight.]
Susan34 19 Mar 2013
I always like the high waisted as I have long legs always found then to enhance that guess that's why they make all types of swim suits you look great wear a bikini and bask in your new body :)
softgirl 20 Mar 2013
Yes I do have long legs for my height but my short waist cancels that out. YOU look GREAT and hope you post more pics soon! I will as soon as I actually buy something new! Lots of good sales on now!
NoMoreBoobEnvy (RealFriend) 18 Mar 2013
Um yes bikini!!!! And buy one that helps enhance your girls! Venus has some great ones!
softgirl 18 Mar 2013
Thank you! I was indeed browsing Venus last night, with my 13 yr old and she pointed out the enhancing styles as well! I just truly need some unbiased opinions, as my hubby was very unhappy with the idea of me getting a bikini, in fact it seemed to panic him...
LilacLuv 17 Mar 2013
Hi softgirl, You're looking great! Wow! 36D.. I'm hoping to be a D cup as well if not a full C... thanks for the tip on how to get the measurements.. I'm still Post-op Day 2 but I'm very curious now on what my size is although I know its going to be inconsistent because of the swelling... Looking forward to more pics!!!
NoMoreBoobEnvy (RealFriend) 25 Feb 2013
How are you doing?
NoMoreBoobEnvy (RealFriend) 20 Feb 2013
Hey lady! I looked up the style 15's in my Allergan book and it said it was a mid-range profile?! That is what you got too right? I'm so confused lol .. I thought this whole time I had moderate profiles!
softgirl 25 Feb 2013
Yes I got the same thing as you! wishing i had gone 425 or 450 but at the time they seemed impossibly crazy big past 397. I just could NOT see myself with larger. Last nite I was even thinking i should've used the HP to get more cleavage/upper pole. it seems my body just sucked em up!
NoMoreBoobEnvy (RealFriend) 25 Feb 2013
LOL .. At the end of the day we have to trust our PS's .. I wanted some side boob and unless I got 700 or 800 ccs HP, I don't think I would have been able to get side and a lot of upper pole fullness (the big, round fake look - which I don't mind BTW). So, for now I'm content and happy with my "undercover boobs". I haven't gotten back to my pre-op lifestyle full force yet .. I am going to give it a good full year before I make the judgment call on whether or not this is the right size for me. ;) xoxo
softgirl 25 Feb 2013
Wellll, my PS didn't stop me from going larger, all the sizing was done with Michelle helping me. It was ME that stopped myself from going larger. I just couldn't visualize myself with boobs any bigger, and frankly, being tuberous, there was no way for me to predict how 397's would end up in my body. I feel like i have almost too much side boob, and I wonder if HP in a larger size might have given me more cleavage? Anyways, it's about 2 months PO, I need to live with them for a while and see how they settle in. I'm not unhappy at all, far from it. I think once my right side pains finally simmer down and I can experiment with wired bras that don't hurt, I'll be fine.
finallyhere 25 Feb 2013
i'm with ya softgirl. i would love to have upper pole fullness. BUT...when i refer back to my pre op photo it puts a smile on my face. truly amazed at the transformation. i too wish i would've gone a touch bigger but we just don't know the outcome. and for us rational thinking ladies...being too big was a fear. i think i will just deal with that by wearing my beautiful very comfortable vs bras :) You are looking great. and you are right. having tuberous breasts is a game changer and your ps should be applauded for accomplishing your great results with no lift. cheers to loving your new girls! xoxoxo
GoBigTallGirl 10 Feb 2013
Nice.....glad all is well with you and your 36D!!!! Im 9 weeks post op. You do get good cleavage with these natrelle style 15 , they just don't project out much. Im going tomorrow to Nordstrom to get fitted. My right boob feels like it wants to fall out..of the 36DD.. But I will find out. My babies are not fond of the underwires either but I have worn them on special occasions out when I wanted more support. I probably need to check my posture... :)
softgirl 12 Feb 2013
Yeah, I don't seem to have as much cleavage, plenty of lower pole and side boob. I think because i literally had zero underneath my constricted lower poles and most of the implant went to filling that out. My breasts and nipples were far apart to begin with and he had to center it behind them too, otherwise the nips would not point forward. However, when i wear the wired bras that I've tried in the stores--kazaam--there's the cleavage. Just gotta be patient until i can actually use those types. Have you been trying any swimsuits yet? I live in Phoenix and have a big pool so I'm quite looking forward to it with the new girls! I tried on my old swimsuit and BAM, no room! I literally could not pull the cups over and UNDER my new upgrades! My hubs was giggling like mad when he saw that! Out came all the 'flotation device' jokes!
NoMoreBoobEnvy (RealFriend) 12 Feb 2013
softgirl - we are in the same boat - not a ton of cleavage but I do have some side boob (which I wanted) .. part of me wishes I went with a higher profile but I believe my doc picked the right based on my chest and shoulder width. xoxo - can't wait for bikini season - I have never in my life said those words BTW. ;)
GoBigTallGirl 12 Feb 2013
Yes I've been shopping. I bought new swimsuit at Target just to try some out. Bought the XL and took a pic in the dressing room to send to my bf. im going to Vegas so i sent pic to him implying im taking this on my trip. He was like damn.... I think I need to go on that trip with you. Haha. My babies were barely staying in that top but it looked sexy. I'm looking for a nice one piece with a deep plunge so you can see my babies. Summertime is going to be amazing. I'm back in my workout mode so gotta squat and keep those legs right. Im 6' 1/2 tall and my long legs go for days. I will post some pics soon.
Angel1981 8 Feb 2013
Walhell...LAMO! That was hilarious! You look great! I'll have to check out those Bali bras because I'm not having any luck finding nice ones with no wires.

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