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Breast Implant Removal - Santa Clara, CA

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My mental health

losergirl88
Is no ones business ..so keep if out. Im honestly disgusted that I'm being put in a box. I have normal feelings but to you guys it isn't considered just normal...must be worst. Keep my mental health out of it. Sorry you're not 21, missing school over stupid boob explaining, sorry youre not going to look 82 at 21, sorry you don't endure anything I do but I'm not sorry for your ignorance..I'm offended. Just trying to share my experience & have support. When I'm put down for my honesty, I don't want it shoved in my face. Thanks for making me feel even worse. Good day everyone. I'll come back when I want to

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Dr. James Orman

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September 3, 2013
And, you're right, Kaiser is grim! And, Jenniebeth is right, don't go into surgery when you're stressed, doubtful or have a gut feeling about the PS.
September 3, 2013
Wow!!!!! when you started discussing your mental health issues (suicide, cutting, BDD, anorexia, etc...)on a public forum, you made it everyone else's business. NO ONE is putting you in a box. EVERYONE is trying to help and support you. No one is normal, were all different, we come from different walks of life , and have different experiences. Your feelings may be normal, but from the way you are talking, they are definitely not healthy. I have read several of your reviews where you have shunned other women for making comments you felt were disrespectful (when in all honesty they were fine). But you must agree they way you just told other people that its none of their business and to keep out of it is just plain rude. They are ALL trying to help and be extremely supportive and have done nothing but look out for your best interest. I really do hope you have someone in your life that does look out for your because pushing out people who really do care is not the best way to go. Good luck to you.
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September 4, 2013
Oh please, stop with the victim mindset...we are all here because we are looking to improve the way we look (ultimately the way we feel), about ourselves. You made a choice to have surgery, now you want to undo it, same here. Live and learn, maybe help and support others who made, or are about to make the same mistake, instead of wallowing in self pity. It clearly isn't helping you anyways. If you're worried about looking older, remembrt, worry adds years ;-)
September 11, 2013
Dont worry! Im in the same situation! I WANT TO GET THEM OUT but scared! But my decision is made, And I'm doing this for my health, witch is more important than boobs! Just go do it! You'll thank yourself later on :-) hope you make the right decision! Im 26 got implants in at 21! Im on the list for removal next week or the following week at the latest! :-) best of luck x
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I want them out

losergirl88
I dont want these stupid things anymore. I hate kaiser!

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September 3, 2013
Please please don't go through this surgery while you are in this state of mind. You aren't well, sweetheart, and you know it. Can I ask why you are off your meds? Did you need to stop prior to surgery or something?
September 3, 2013
I just want to be normal..I feel like everyone is implying I'm nuts. Im not a nut im normal with feelings. ... They told me no meds before
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September 3, 2013
No one implied you were crazy, but you say you are a wreck, suicidal and in the past anorexic and have a body image disorder. So, you're not nuts, but also not in a healthy state of mind to undergo cosmetic surgery. We care, so we are giving you our advice due to our concern.
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September 3, 2013
Truly, I'm not implying that at all. I have a best friend who has struggled with BDD and anorexia for the past 20 years so I know how hard this can be. I'm also a mum to a 20 year old girl. I'm just really worried about you, and all I'm suggesting is that you don't head into surgery when you are obviously struggling. And for Gods sake, do not let someone you don't trust cut you open. I suspect the PS does not want to operate either and is hoping by ignoring you, that you'll just disappear. From his point of view, this may be the easiest option. So my suggestion is that you let each other go, take a break, sort out your anxiety etc and then find another surgeon who is willing to work with you on this journey.
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Very depressed

losergirl88
He hasn't even called me...I feel trapped in this ugly body. I'm so miserable

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