I'm nervous and excited - Tummy Tuck - San Diego, CA

I have my surgery scheduled with Dr. Pousti on November 20th. I'm nervous and excited! I have been wanting to do this for 5+ years. I did a Lot of research and think Dr. Pousti is the Best. His staff is very friendly and knowledgeable. I think I know what to expect, but I'm open to hearing from women who have gone through it already. I'm most concerned with getting my husband and 15 year old son prepared for what they can do/expect. My husband went to the pre-op appointment with me and is totally onboard to do what is necessary. He has a high pressure job though and can only take off for 2 days. Should I hire a nurse? We have no medical background. I had breast reduction surgery 4 years ago and went through that while he was deployed. I made it, but I don't ever want to have to do anything like that again. Plus, I know this is Much different? Any advice?

Talk about Nervous! and excited :) In just 1 week I have my last pre-op appointment. My surgery is scheduled for the 20th. So far, I have prepared by buying 2 moo-moo style gowns and gotten pillows for my back and knees. I understand I'll basically be living in my electric recliner for at least a week after I get home. I still need to purchase a walker.

Can anyone comment on how long it actually is before I can shower? I know the drains have to come out. Some websites say 2 weeks - some say a month. What about walking up/down stairs? I live in a 3 story townhome. The main living level of my home is on the 2nd story (which is where my living room, kitchen and 1/2 bath are located). I bought a shower caddy to hold soap, wash cloths, toothbrush, etc.

Wow! This is all happening so fast! Sure, it's been many, many years that I have been contemplating this, but the actual surgery date is coming up so soon! All I can think about is preparing. I'm an over planner actually, but sometimes that is good. I think I have bought everything I am going to need - walker, compression garments, things for downstairs bathroom, etc. I'm paying bills ahead of time, because I know I may not remember later. But with a family to 'run', I still feel like there is so much to do. I'm a bit of a control freak, so I'm trying to plan everything out that I possibly can. It doesn't help that Thanksgiving is a week after my surgery. I'm also trying to plan for my mom to come. I need to consult with a nurse to help me at home since I'll be coming home right after the surgery. My husband will have a couple of days off (one day back at work and then the weekend off). There just seems like there is still a lot to do. It doesn't help also that I keep watching YouTube videos of people's recoveries. eek!