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Asymmetry Post Bleph - Sacramento, CA
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Mainly, I urge you NOT to go through w/ this...
Worst Mistake EverApril 14, 2011
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Mainly, I urge you NOT to go through w/ this surgery. Only now do I see that MOST of the online articles say that the MOST COMMON problem is asymmetry! Gee, too bad this was not emphasized to me in advance.
Now I feel disfigured, embarassed, ashamed. I am sick every time I look in the mirror. Yes, I had a board certified p.s. Big deal. I'm still disfigured, depressed, sick.
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Did it because risks were never discussed. Had I...
Worst Mistake EverApril 25, 2011
Did it because risks were never discussed. Had I known the risks, I would have walked away, as my eyes weren't so bad to begin with.
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April 27, 2011
Worst Mistake Ever: how are things going? I am hoping that some of your issues are clearing up as time goes by! I am 14 weeks tomorrow. Hard to believe so much time has gone by. Still some little issues I hope will clear up within the next couple of months (a little under eye bulge in the right corner of right eye, right eye minutely bigger than left although only noticeable to me). Although my ps told me I don't need to come back unless I have any problems (he told me this at 9 weeks)I intend to go back and have him take a look at six months. I still have days (not very often) where my eyes get tired and a little dry but nothing like before! I hope time is being kind to your eyes!
April 28, 2011
Kind of you to write, and I am so glad things are normalizing for you, somewhat. I'm 4.5 weeks out, and still having LOTS of trouble with eyes...constantly stinging. Been to eye docs, which is taking time from work, and interfereing with work, vision-wise. I am using several types of drops/ointments/moist compresses, etc. I think it is because the right lower lid is not "in contact" with the globe of the eye, as the right is more troublesome than the left. Unable to wear contact lenses, and my eyes are just red as heck. Did I trade a (minor) cosmetic concern for a (significant) medical problem? Did he ever warn me of these possibilities? Not even maybe. I would like to see an oculopastic person, if this continues. Gals....run, don't walk from this procedure, bottom line.
April 28, 2011
I was miserable at 4.5 weeks as well. did you try taping they eye at night? This might help with the dry irritated eyes during the day. How about the fish oil?
I wear contacts as well but wasnt able to wear them much in the beginning. Around the 3rd month i could wear them all day again without problems. I have changed my equate brand for opti free multi purpose solution. much less irritation. I think mostly it was the "gaping" of the eyelid (bottom) away from the eye that caused most of the problems. You should see your lower lid area firm up around the 3rd month. I know it sounds far away right now but you will get there. Stay in touch!
I wear contacts as well but wasnt able to wear them much in the beginning. Around the 3rd month i could wear them all day again without problems. I have changed my equate brand for opti free multi purpose solution. much less irritation. I think mostly it was the "gaping" of the eyelid (bottom) away from the eye that caused most of the problems. You should see your lower lid area firm up around the 3rd month. I know it sounds far away right now but you will get there. Stay in touch!
April 28, 2011
Your experiences are so helpful. Tho I am shocked that it took 3 months to normalize contact lens wear, there is some comfort knowing that there is hope. I am taping the problem eye, but haphazardly at best. Maybe I will coax him to show me how when I see that board certified bozo on Friday a.m. I am hanging on every word, gals. Big thanks. (maybe I will try to post a foto tonite)
April 28, 2011
My surgeon new I wore contacts and never discussed possible complications. I was under the impression it would be 3 weeks to see some normalcy yet it was 3 months. I also have pictures I can send you if it helps...
April 28, 2011
This is exactly my experience. He ASKED me if I wore contacts, and said NOTHING about issues, so I really thought I would pop the contacts back in a week or so later, as I did with the UPPER bleph a while back. What a bunch of creeps. I don't see a place to put fotos on this blog, do you?
April 28, 2011
You post them under your profile. Or you can email them to others privately. I had my upper and lower done at the same time. For some reason some of my posts come up as santa maria 5726 and some as santa barbara 7926. I set up my account originally under santa barbara 7926. I think I have one pic on my profile.
April 28, 2011
WME: i just sent you a private message. If you click on the icon to the left that says Santa Barbara 7926 you can see my profile and send private mesages. Don't know how i ended up with two profiles (Santa Maria 5726)..
May 25, 2011
How are things going with your recovery WME? I am beginning to think this recovery is a full year ordeal! My eyes looked even before the surgery, right after the surgery, then left eye smaller, then somewhat better, then left eye smaller - what the hell? I see the difference but I know it is pretty minor. I still have some minor bruising (not visible) under eye when I feel there so I am wondering if the eye is constricting as it heals? I hope this is the case and one day my eyes be even again. Still occasional dryness but nowhere near the pain I had up to 3 months! Only wind and heat seam to cause the dryness now...
I hope your eyes are feeling better and your assymetry and dry issues getting better. Please keep in touch!
I hope your eyes are feeling better and your assymetry and dry issues getting better. Please keep in touch!
May 26, 2011
So nice to hear from you! My little support group! You know, I will be in SB for my son's UCSB graduation June 9-13...maybe we can have coffee. We can SEE eachother's eyes and give honest feedback! I'm 8 weeks post op. The assymetry is still noticeable to me, the right has a "saggy" lower lid which glistens, almost showing a red inner lid...yuk. The left remains a little too small....it looks and feels like it was pulled up too tightly. It hardly matters because I'm still wearing eyeglasses and having major problems with dry eyes. Saw another eye specialist yesterday, and now I'm on tetracycline (not infected, so why I don't know), along w/ fish oil, moist compresses, drops drops drops, gel, etc. When was your surgery? The only ocular p.s. in town will not even meet w/ people until 12 months post op, so you are right...it's a 1 year recovery. I suppose this means there is hope.
May 26, 2011
I would love to meet you and dicuss the outcomes! My left eye is also the "smaller eye" and the right still has a bulge under it that is not going away. I live about an hour north of SB but I love to visit SB! Let me know your plans and perhaps we can have that coffee! I actually am trying to figure out a date to see my ps (he is in Santa Barbara). I want him to look at the bulge (again - I pointed it out since my first follow up appt) as well as the slight assymetry. Just want to keep my options open in case this never resolves itself! His office is on Pueblo near the Cottage Hospital. He does free consultations so perhaps you could get in to see him. He could at least give you feedback on your surgery. After reading all the horror stories I am glad that my issues are minor. I am a slow healer and so I'm hoping that the bulge resolves itself (probably resolving the assymetry!) but if it doesn't I want to make sure that my ps fixes it at no cost. My surgery was the third week in January. I am a little over 4 months post op. I can tell you that I don't spend as much time worrying about my eyes now that the most concerning issues, gaping and dryness, resolved themselves at about 3 months. You are still at the part in your recovery where I too had to wear glasses and had feeling of something in my eye all the time. I was miserable and regretting my surgery almost to the point of panic. I am much happier now although I see the small imperfections. When we pay for perfection we expect to get it! If I had been told in the beginning that it would take 3 months to feel normal and 6 months to a year to see the results, I would have had much less anxiety! Stay in touch and let me know your plans. The PS is out of office on fridays and does surgery on Tuesday and Thursdays. So Monday would be a day that I would be able to see him and make a trip to SB...
May 26, 2011
We should email or FB, but the email icon to the left asks for your email address, which obviously I don't know. Are you more tech savvy than I?
May 26, 2011
I just sent you a private message. Sometimes my account is under SB and sometimes under SM... let me know if you get the message (click on your icon and see your account info).
June 29, 2011
How are things going WME? Just wondering if you have seen any improvement? I have not seen any changes in my eyes over the last month. Still a little tender underneath so maybe they are still healing there. Still the little bulge under right eye but it is hardly noticeable. Planning on seeing my ps next month at the 6 month mark. I hope to hear that your issues have resolved or at the very least have improved somewhat...
July 3, 2011
Thank you very much for the thoughtful note. I am so glad to hear you are doing better! My main 3 issues (3 months post op) and current status are as follows:
1. Assymetry--Much better, so I am hopeful that it will resolve.
2. Non dissolving stitch/lump in eyebrow area-- still there, not sure if the bozo will be able to remedy it.
3. Dry eyes--Still big problems. Some success in wearing contacts for 4-5 hrs a day. Taking lots of fish oil and drops. Had the tear ducts blocked off, but really, still needing MANY MANY DROPS ALL DAY and night too. Fish oil supposed to help, but really, not much improvement at this point. Angry about suffering w/ this, w/out any discussion, whatsoever. He claims it has never happened to any other patient, but there is a huge body of literature about this issue, and eye doc said this often happens after lasik and other eye surgeries.
I urge all candidates to stay with Ocular P.S. for bleph.
1. Assymetry--Much better, so I am hopeful that it will resolve.
2. Non dissolving stitch/lump in eyebrow area-- still there, not sure if the bozo will be able to remedy it.
3. Dry eyes--Still big problems. Some success in wearing contacts for 4-5 hrs a day. Taking lots of fish oil and drops. Had the tear ducts blocked off, but really, still needing MANY MANY DROPS ALL DAY and night too. Fish oil supposed to help, but really, not much improvement at this point. Angry about suffering w/ this, w/out any discussion, whatsoever. He claims it has never happened to any other patient, but there is a huge body of literature about this issue, and eye doc said this often happens after lasik and other eye surgeries.
I urge all candidates to stay with Ocular P.S. for bleph.
July 7, 2011
I still have days where wind will make my eyes dry (never had this before the bleph). But other than that no more issues with dry eye after the 4th month. Wore my contacts in Vegas for 18 hours straight without problems. I hope yours will also improve after 4 months. Ocassionally I still regret my decision. I have to go look at my before pics to remind me that my eyes were almost slits to feel better. My friend had a boob job about 3 years ago and some of the "dissolvable" stitches just came out a month ago! Hang in there! And stay in touch:)
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My eyes are already asymetrical. My right upper eyelid droops more than my left. This is pretty common. Most people I know who have upper eyelid sagging, their right eye sags more than the left.
Anyway, I am getting an upper bleph, and I expect the asymetry will still be there afterwards.
Good luck to you.
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