Six months post Tummy Tuck

In my late 30s, two kids, a 16 yr old and 6 yr old...

In my late 30s, two kids, a 16 yr old and 6 yr old. Been wanting this procedure for years! Just can't get rid of the sagging skin. I thought I had taken care of last minute things but seems never ending. I need to be at hospital by 6am. Honestly don't think I will be able to sleep.

My day was spent seeing the doctor and registering at the hospital. I was not happy when the PS told me I'd be wearing the drains for nearly 12 days! No showers! How are we supossed to feel clean or wash our hair! lol. I need more than a sponge bath!

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felt the same way but it gets better am 10 days op today and walking straight time flies feel better
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Yikes, here's sending you healing, healthy thoughts! I hope you can stay on top of the pain. Take care.
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I know it is easier said than done, and will literally be in your shoes in a few days; but, hang in there, MelissaTx! I am so sorry you are in horrible pain. Remember that this is temporary and that it will only get better every day. Sending good thoughts your way.
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Ok ladies. 5 days post op and I am glad to say...

Ok ladies. 5 days post op and I am glad to say that the pain is somewhat subsiding. I don't understand how some say that it's not as painful as they thought it would be. In my case it was more so than I thought. I was about 120 lbs pre- surgery a size 5, don't know what to expect after. I have no desire to take off binder to look. All I care about is the pain to go away. My 16 yr. old daughter is a Godsend. She's always been a wonderful daughter, but she has just been remarkable at caring for me. My husband went back to work Sunday (24hr shift) and is working 18 hr shifts for the next 4 days. So SHE is all I have. My step-son takes my 6 yr old to camp and is in charge of him when he gets home. Today my daughter cleaned me up with a sponge bath in tub (i sit in bench in shower) She also washed my hair (for first time since before surgery). I sat in the bench by sink and leaned back and she just figured a way to wash it and dry and and put it up. I feel clean for once in 5 days. The whole process took about over an hour. It made me so happy that i felt clean that I wanted to cry, but knew it would hurt if I did.

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So happy that you are starting to feel better Melissa! I am 11 days po and it is amazing what a week will do. I promise you.
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Yay, Melissa... You go girl! Just think about it, from now on it will only get better... NO PAIN, NO GAIN! (please remind me next week when it'll be my turn to be in your shoes... tears)You are so blessed to have such a wonderful family... make sure you return the favor by taking them at least to SPI when you feel better or should I say as soon as you can go show off the new bikini... LOL
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I'm at Day 12 post op; it does get better. Remember, we are all different and feel and heal differently. You are exactly where YOU should be. Sending healing wishes your way.

6 Days Post-Op. I could not get comfortable at all...

6 Days Post-Op. I could not get comfortable at all last night at bedtime. I sleep with two wedge pillows at and incline and they put a flat pillow on top of that--then my feet are propped up. I struggled to get to sleep for over hours because of a pain on my neck. Don't know if it was really that or mere anxiety. It's difficult for me to even nap during the day. What I've noticed these last couple of days is itching sensations under my binder. Is this normal???? I'm scheduled for my first follow up this coming Monday to have drains removed. The amount that comes out is very little now. Does anyone know if my dressings need to be changed? Honestly, I'm scared to have anyone untape anything and re-do. My husband wants to do it but I told him to wait until late tonight when he gets back from work. Don't know if it will be painful because it WAS when they changed it before I was discharged.

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I truly hope all this pain is worth it. Hope you like your new tummy and scar when you see them. About the itchiness, I've read here about wearing an spaghetti strap tee, with no bra shell, under your binder to relieve the problem a little bit. I asked Dr. A how many cc's drained will be an indication that the drains should be removed, he said it is usually after 10-12 days, I insisted about a cc #. He said about 20 to 25 a day in my case. So, you may be ready to remove them. Maybe you shouldn't wait until Monday. You should call them and inform them of all this you are going through. It does sound horrible. Ask for stronger meds. Sending rapid healing thoughts and lots of good vibe your way. Good night.
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I asked for Demarol shots and combination with oral pain meds in between. Demarol is every six hours. It helps a little and makes u sleepy. They also give u antibiotic thru IV. I'm having some severe muscle spasms today. Off and on since 4:pm. It's been a bad day goodnight.
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no--nothing was given to me before. When I was released was when they gave us the prescription for the pain meds and antibiotics. My husband had them filled when I got home. Don't understand why they cannot be given to us before to spare the inconvenience of having to fill medication when coming back from the hospital.
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One week since my surgery. Today is one of my...

One week since my surgery. Today is one of my better days, that is when I am NOT having these random muscle spasms. They come out of nowhere and frankly scare the crap out of me when they come. I don't sleep well because of them. One of the tubes connected to my drains is really bothering me. I cannot wait for them to come out. Monday cannot come soon enough. I am walking a little better, however, still hunched over but taking bigger steps. I make sure to walk every hour on my bathroom trips. I put on my FITFLOPS for the first time today (got them the day before surgery) and OMG--it is so much easier on my back when I walk in these! Who would have thought. I bought them through Zappos.com and they have overnight free shipping! My daughter shampooed and conditioned my hair today, so that was a treat! She also shaved my legs. I always seem to have a better day on the days my hair is washed. My daughter has been amazing! Thank goodness my husband got home at 4:00 today, this way she could finally make it to cheer practice.

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that was the same as me melissa, very hard to take the deep breaths, but it will get easier i promise, each day gets a little easier, it sure is a long journey eh!
yes, feels like an eternity to wait to get these drains removed.

Felt better today until about 3pm. It seems like...

Felt better today until about 3pm. It seems like very day around the same time I get more swollen and more muscle spasms and pain. I even walk more hunched over during that time. It disapates around 9pm. I can never nap because of this. It's frustrating, when I get the feeling like I am dosing off, the spasms come! I am so sleep deprived. I am more swollen today than any other day. feels so hard and tight. My parents will be coming tomorrow for one night. I'm not sure they will understand whey they see. They think PS is just crazy and don't understand why I wanted it. But hopefully they will be supportive.

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Have my first follow up tomorrow since day of...

Have my first follow up tomorrow since day of surgery. I cannot wait to have these drains taken out. So scared of how much it will hurt. One already hurts so bad--feels like it is jabbing into me. I have had my fill off pain! I want these bandages off, the drains and this binder. Hopefully, I will be able to walk a little straighter. My parents stayed another day, which was a great help and they will be taking me to my appointment tomorrow and leave town shortly after that. This gives my poor daughter a break. BTW---I still itch so darn much! Why is this?

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13 days post op today. I had my first follow up...

13 days post op today. I had my first follow up with doc on Monday and had my drains removed. Did not hurt as much as I thought it would. What hurt more was taking he dressings off! The nurse measured me for my compression garment and she insisted I needed a small. Small did NOT FIT. She got a medium and that too was EXTREAMLY tight. She had a hard time getting me into it and she called someone else to help her. It was VERY uncomfortable and very difficult to move. I wore a medium for 2 days and called them this morning to ask for a large . I bought two packs and OMG it felt so much better. It still feels tight but not unbearable. The brand of this garment is ISAVELA. They obviously come in too small. I'm happy with my scar which is very thin and low. My daughter and husband think I look tiny, but I don't see it ...all i see is swelling. I have noticed that I have little lumpy areas when I took my garment off this morning before my bath. Is this normal????

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I am so glad you got those drains removed. About those lumps, the doctor's personnel can give the number of a lady that gives massages post-lipo to help remove them.
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Walking better bust still slow. I still feel like...

Walking better bust still slow. I still feel like I am not able to drive. As it is , when I'm in the car, I can still feel every bump and it's still hard for me to get into the car. I called up my PS to ask about how swollen I was above the pubic area and about some lumps on each side of my waist and he examined me. PS said the swelling and mushy feeling was normal but not enough liquid that needed to be excised. And in regards to lumps, he suggested I NOT wear my garment while I sleep. The areas that are lumpy is the same area where the garment bulges in a wrinkle, which is what he noticed. I went to grocery store with my daughter yesterday and the walking was good for me but it really exhausted me. In the evening, I felt good so I decided to make dinner (with the help of my little one handing me all things that were too low for me) and when I was done, I felt the worse I have felt in days!!!! I got what seemed like 3X swollen and my lumps seemed bigger. I did not feel well. What I did was in the late evening--I took off my garment and took a hot shower and just stood there for 30 min and gently massaged those lumps.

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Thanks Mayela! Thanks to our PS
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Now, that is one tiny waist! HOT, HOT, HOT!
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I'm a little over 4 weeks post op and doing much...

I'm a little over 4 weeks post op and doing much better. I went to see my PS today and he said everything is healing as it should and is normal, despite the swelling and little lumps. He didn't find any lumps but they usually come around at the end of the day--my mornings are my best. I'm walking much better but I cannot walk at fast pace, if I do--I will swell up and feel a ball building up above my belly. When I feel like that, I know to take it easy. My family and I leave to Disney World this week and I'm not sure I will be able to get on rides that do lots of movement. I still hurt with bumps when we drive.
I tried out some of my clothes a couple of weeks ago and nothing fit! All was too big. All my clothes were 5/6 so I needed to buy new shorts and tops since I needed them for our trip. I was shocked to see that I was fitting into size 0 and 2. Haven't fit into that since
HS. I still can't believe this.
The only thing I don't like is how swollen I look below the BB--right above pubic area. It only looks somewhat flat in the morning. But Doc says that this is normal and will take the longest to go down.

I now believe that what I did is worth it.

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Love the new picture. You rock that sweet bikini!
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:) Thanks Mayela! Never really felt comfortable in a two piece--frankly never wore one before. lol

5 Weeks post op and off to Disney World tomorrow! ...

5 Weeks post op and off to Disney World tomorrow! I hope I can handle all the walking--may need to get my hubby to wheel me around.

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I have been very lucky..i was able to go the the bathroom unassisted from day 1. I started wondering if I had the whole procedure done because I was reading about everyone swelling and difficulty walking etc but I have no problem with any of that. I had two c-sections and it is nothing compared to those sections.

My only issue is BM...but I read that it can take up to 5 days to have a BM...so I am taking my colace and hoping it will work soon.
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Thanks Healthynewfie! You will look amazing when you heal. I waited until week 3 to try on clothes. Glad to read you are moving along great. I did not have it easy for some reason. I could not even go to the bathroom un-assisted until week 3. But we are all different.
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you look fantastic ...and you rock in that two piece. I can't wait to have my drains out and to try on some clothes.
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Am now 3 months post op and finally happy with my...

Am now 3 months post op and finally happy with my body and results of Tummy Tuck and i just found out that I have multiple fibroids in my uterus and my ONLY option is a hysterectomy. The fibroids are so large that they have made my uterus over 10 cm and therefore a vaginal hysterectomy is highly unlikely, therefore will be done through the abdomen! I am so disappointed and may seem vain but am concerned that it will totally ruin my TT! I have already seeked a second opinion and I was told the same thing. Has ANYONE experienced this????? If so, please send me your experiences.

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room2improve. Thanks so much for your post. I wish I had more feedback from someone with similar experiences. I'm scheduled for my hysterectomy on Wed and really scared! On a bright side--I talked with my plastic surgeon and he agreed to be there during surgery to close me up and assist on causing minimal damage if needed. For a fee of course. But I was luck the GYN was willing to schedule around the PS's schedule. Thanks for the post :)
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So sorry to hear about your fibroids. My friend had a tummy tuck and years later had a hysterectomy due to fibroids. I am thinking that they did it vaginally, as she has never complained about it messing up her tummy tuck. I hope you can get some more opinions. My friends fibroids were really big, but somehow they managed. Good luck to you. You look great, by the way.
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It's been a little over 6 months and boy it has...

It's been a little over 6 months and boy it has been quite hectic. Just when I was healing and heading back to norma activity, I find out that I need and abdominal hysterectomy. Well, it's been nearly 3 months since my hysterectomy and thank GOD....everything when well and the doctor was able to do it vaginally. I feel 100% healed and have hit my fitness activity full force for nearly 6 weeks! I feel great! I am not able to do sit ups yet and will not push to do so either. I hope to get back into weights soon to build some muscle. I do recommend to everyone to keep a tally of what you eat and the amount of calories you consume. We want to protect the investment we made to make our bodies look better right???? There are many free phone aps for this --so try it if you have not already done so. I will say that I still wear my garments a couple of times a week for a few hours. I feel as if it helps, especially after strenuous excercise. I still go to my monthly maintanence for my endermology sessions so that helps too. I found someone who does it for $45 a month so that is affordable for me.

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You look amazing!! :) Where do you go for the $45 endermology?
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Hi Thanks! Do you live in the Rio Grande Valley? I use to go to this woman who had her own little business but she has closed it now. She might still be doing it from her home.
You look amazing! I want my tummy to look just like yours Lol
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