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Finally Doing It - Just 4 Me -- TT, MR - Richmond, VA

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Hello! I am so nervous about doing this, but I...

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EpicChanges2013
WORTH IT$6,850
Hello! I am so nervous about doing this, but I have been visiting this site religiously for the last few months now, and I have been so encouraged and inspired by all of you lovely women, so I thought I would share my story, and hopefully give back some of what I have been given. I am 43 and I have 2 beautiful children. I am 5ft tall, and currently my weight fluctuates between 143 and 148. My goal weight is 135, which I am working on. When I became pregnant with my first child (at the age of 16), I was only 95lbs, and at the end of the 9 months I was 140. She was a big baby...8lbs/15oz, and boy did she do a bang-up job on my stomach. It has been a nightmare for me ever since. I call it the BEAST! The BEAST is mean and ugly and I hate her. It has controlled so many aspects of my life, and I am over it. I have taken back control, and the BEAST MUST GO!!! My oldest is all grown up now, and my youngest is in college. Now it is time to do something just for me, and I am sooooo excited! I have the full support of my children, and my long-term boyfriend of 12 years. Even though I am excited, I am very, VERY nervous, and I need your help. I keep going back and forth with myself...am I doing the right thing? should I really be spending this money? am I crazy for doing this?...and on, and on it goes. BUT, in my heart, I feel that this is so right for me, and I am NOT changing my mind. I met with a wonderful doctor and immediately felt comfortable with him and his staff. The hardest part now is waiting 90 more days!! I will post some before pics as soon as my daughter helps me load them...lol! Thanks for listening!

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June 10, 2013
i know. i have moments of being afraid, and of calmness. i am far from young. my children are grown. i have grandchildren. i have successfully used meditations in the past and it really helps. it also reduces amount of anesthesia needed. i will do it again. bit i am adding something. hypnosis. and it will also be used for pain reduction(do not want full pain elimination or we could hurt ourselves)---mine is in 5 weeks.i will post - not sure title yet but will use same name.
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June 10, 2013
Hello emn. Thank you for the suggestion of meditation. My boyfriend has actually suggested that for me in the past for just dealing with life in general, but I never gave it a fair chance. Now may be a good time to start.
June 10, 2013
yes! good luck with it! it works!
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June 10, 2013
We have all gone through all the thoughts, but I know for me, it was totally worth it! I am 5 months post op and even with the swelling and the sensitivity and such, I would do it again! I know that I'm not done healing, still swelling, but it is so tolerable! I had big babies too and then carried the extra weight around with me for years and finally had had enough! Got my food where it needed to be and learned to love my exercising and then was left with the double belly, so with my families blessings, I went through with this surgery, I also had breast augmentation and I love all my results! I feel great and so in love with my body now, which I couldn't say before the surgery!!!! Any questions, feel free to ask! All the members on here love to pay it forward. 150% worth it!
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June 10, 2013
That is so awesome dragonfly88, and I am so happy for you! I am so glad I found this site. You ladies are true inspirations to me as I begin this journey!
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June 10, 2013
I know what you going thru its a emotional roller coaster , I'm 42 and both off my kids are 21 and 23 similar story as yours except my second child was huge 9lbs I thought I was giving birth to an elephant lol ....I'm happy for you and wish you a good recovery and see you soon on the flat side ;)
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June 10, 2013
LOL!! I feel you on the elephant!! Thank you so much Skpregon for sharing. When did you join the flat side?
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June 11, 2013
I'm not there yet lol pre op is next week and my tt is scheduled for july 5th woohoo won't be long now ;)
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June 13, 2013
I to fought the guilt of spending the money, should I, shouldn't I. I am now 6 weeks po, and can tell you that it is totally worth it. Just know, you will fight the decision after its done for the first 10 days, and then you will be in love with yourself. Remember you are brave for taking the plunge!
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June 13, 2013
Hi! Thank you...your response came at the perfect time. Today was a rough day of tug of war with myself. But I REALLY want this! Congrats to you on making it to the flat side!! You look great! Happy healing!
UPDATED FROM EpicChanges2013
3 months pre

Let me introduce you to the 'Beast'

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Hello ladies...I joined this site a little over a week ago, and have been really struggling with releasing the beast as I have been hiding her for the last 26 years. However, I feel it only fair that I share with all of you brave ladies, as I have been truly motivated by reading your stories. So here goes!! The first pic is just to show that I only buy and wear clothes that I feel will contain her.....I can't wait until I can actually wear a pair of jeans with my shirt tucked in and cute belt!! The Beast Must GO!!

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July 6, 2013
Your surgery date is right after my birthday! And you know what? We can both celebrate the next years feeling beautiful! It is so liberating. If I think too hard about it, I do get upset about the $ I spent these past 2 summers on surgery. But I've sat here and thought about all the lotions I've bought in 14 years, trying to fix my tummy, and all the muscle drink mixes, all the spray tans and other weird stuff I've done to try to make the belly look better-jeez- could have paid for this a long time ago if I'd realized it was an option. Nobody deserves to live with a part of themselves that they can't reconcile with. It's an awful feeling. I'm so happy that you are getting your revenge on biology soon, lol! I'll keep tabs on your updates and I'll root for you the whole way :)
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July 6, 2013
Thank you Rubix! it is crazy the amount of things I have tried over the years to change the appearance of my stomach, only to be disappointed over and over again because nothing works. I am anxiously counting down the days, and I have pushed those negative thoughts aside. I'm doing this and I can't wait to join you and the other lovely ladies on this site on the flat side!! I look forward to seeing more of your updates, and you must do something extra special this year for your bday!! :-)
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July 7, 2013
Epic, you are going to have great results! Congratulations on you time now :) best to you and keep us posted!
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July 7, 2013
Thank you d37! I am so excited and nervous and obsessed! Lol. But I just know its gonna be great. And best of luck to you. You are gonna look awesome. I am also working out and eating healthier, but not quite on your level yet. I want to run, but a few years ago I went about it all wrong and developed shin splints...ouch! I haven't given up though.
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July 7, 2013
You're leading the way on this. Can't wait to hear back from how you're doing after TT:) You just feel better when you take care of yourself- not sure about everyone else but I couldn't just change all at once. Has been a process and baby steps. But so far is sticking as a lifestyle :) you'll get there! My favorites are the exercise classes, I don't enjoy running as much but I do enjoy intervals and run to get my heart rate up. The best shoes I've enjoyed with my activities are reebok nano and real flex. They have really worked for me. Right now I'm excited and obsessed! Lol. Totally understand where you are. We're going to look AmAzInG!! :)
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2 months pre

60 DAYS AND COUNTING.....!!

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HAPPY MONDAY MY TT SISTERS!! I just paid the surgeons fee...the surgical center fee was paid last month. I am THRILLED!! 60 days from today, I will be on the flat side. I pray for continued healing for all who have made it to the other side....I will see you there soon! Now its time for my workout! Gotta go... :-)

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