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No Longer Will I Be a Hot Flappy Mess. New Beginnings - Ramsey, NJ

  • Me sitting down with belly on my lap
  • Side view stomach not holding in.
  • Flappy Front
  • Flappy Back
  • Me wondering what's it like to be yanked up.
  • I don't know if this is swelling or excess meat idk....
  • Under Navel hole right after all drains were gone
  • Navel hole big still have drain
  • Navel and Stomach
  • Navel smiling WIDE
  • Navel and stomach 7 weeks out
  • Progress 4 weeks i think
  • same progress..4 weeks I told Dr. Capella he took all my butt... it isn't as big as it used to be but damn.... he says I'm still swollen..but I'll be watching  that area lol
  • stomach under navel
  • 7 weeks side view
  • 7 weeks Back Fat
  • 7 weeks still slightly swollen
  • 7 weeks navel and under stomach close up

I'm a 28 year old mother of a 4year old boy and 6...

I'm a 28 year old mother of a 4year old boy and 6 month twin boys. At one point in my life I weighed 346lbs.I lost 180 lbs and now I'm holding steady. I'm scheduled to have a full body lift done in one procedure on January 15, 2012. I can't believe my big day is almost here. I can't believe I will someday be the woman thin woman I've been all my life.

For some time I've been researching body lifts and my search has led me to Dr. Capella in Ramsey, NJ. I love the fact that he has done over 5000 body lift surgeries, is highly educated, experienced and knowledgeable in this field of plastic surgery. He's written journal articles, attended and lectured seminars and even on tv..So technically he's one of thee top body lift surgeon.

When I met him I loved that he was friendly, handsome and humbled. He was more than patient with my husband and I, especially since we came to the consultation armed with questions.

My only concern is that from his history his notoriety is evident but, his patients aren't active on sites like these. I rather have documented evidence instead of hearsay but whatever, maybe his patients are soo happy with their results that their out in the world oiling down and showing off their new sexy bodies. I don't know but I feel like I'm making a good decision.

My Body is FLAPPY and I certainly believe that my figure is extreme and I absolutely need a professional to tighten me up. Maybe it's my flappy delusions but, dammit I know I'm a hot flappy mess and need to be knotted down and yanked up... lol

It's important for me to document and display my results. Mainly for myself but also for the people who are considering this surgery. Maybe I can help out the dozens of people searching for Dr. Capella patients. I would've loved to run into myself during these last few moments before surgery.

I'm nervous, anxious, curious, I may have been a big girl but I always felt thin inside. This time it will be reversed. Wow the suspense.. lol

I hope to keep everyone updated as best as I can.

Love NLF

Hey guys soo far so good. Surprisingly I'm in pain...

Hey guys soo far so good. Surprisingly I'm in pain but not in horrible pain. I suppose that can be attributed to every other episode of pain I've had in my life. Dr Capella took off 12 lbs and moved me back into position I still have a lot of swelling but, the nipples feel like nipples and sides feel like sides. I'm in good spirits. My husband has been there for me 1000 percent and I can't wait for the wounds to fully heal. I take my pills as I should and the minute I go without my pain meds too long these stretched sides will let me know. Now I'm at the point where only time will tell. Ok I'm tired...I will add the pic dr Capella took of my skin and more pics. A big thank you to all of the people who wished me well.

I'm going to wait to add more pics...because i...

I'm going to wait to add more pics...because i dont want to look at my ugly body...my first issue is that I'm having wound healing issues and I don't like how I look with the swelling and extra meat that is supposed to be swelling idk ...I'm feeling a bit down...hope things look up for me in a month...may need a revision because of some meat left on my sides but I didn't want a revision I wanted it all at once and I'm mad....I don't know I'm going to try to relax and not get myself upset and let myself heal...I have to pack my belly button because its yellow and ugly and keep the area on my waist in the front covered for healing because that is also yellow and ugly...I hope the scar heals well...ugh..goodnight..see you soon and if I can stomach it ill try to take pics :>\

Hi Guys Thanks for the reminder I'm sorry for...

Hi Guys Thanks for the reminder I'm sorry for taking so long to post . I'm still healing and now I'm full force back in Mommy mode. I still have some pain and it isn't nearly as difficult as it once was but I'm managing. I started surgery at 168 lbs and now I'm usually at 140 people have also noticed my weight loss. I'm fitting into my too small jeans and at this point I think i may need a full wardrobe. After this post I'm going to look for my goal jeans I bought to see if it fits.

Ok now to the issues yes I'm still healing. The area below my navel, right above my pubic is still open and oozing not nearly as bad as it used to be but it is healing. My navel has closed to the point where I can't get anything , pinky finger, nothing but a qtip inside it and that I have to force in just to make sure its clean I'm glad it's healed and no longer oozing. Doctor Capella would like to do a procedure not sure of the name to open it up but I have to wait until the scar tissue go down. Also those back flaps have gotten bigger or maybe I have gotten smaller IDK but the doctor also want to do a procedure to rid me of that. I thought I would look good in every shirt but I only look good in certain shirts. The flanks are still big. It bums me out but I have to remember I did have 5 of them things. Forgot to mention I may need a scar revision near my pubic hole but that is in a few months. I was hoping to be summer ready and far from healing with this surgery but I need to get rid of the extras. Now that I had the courage to take pictures and take a thorough circumferential glance. I believe my body isn't that bad.

Yea I have the meaty (ugh) flanks, the tiny navel, and the open oozing stomach but I still look and feel better than I did previously. I was told these are easier fixes but I 'm tired of being in pain. ,I'm beyond done but these revisions need to be done. I didn't pay all this money to have "issues".

I dont want to sound ungrateful because that I am not but, these meat flanks doesn't feel or look good in jeans or tees. The doctor said it should be rectified by May and I pray it will be.

also I have to note a correction from my comments. I was high on anesthesia and I want to correct that my second time in the hospital Dr. Capella didn't change a thing I'm still as I was surgery day Just in less pain.

I still have occasional tightness and swelling but things are getting better and I cant wait for this journey to end...It has been one hell of a ride..

I will update when I have my appointment in April and I'm also loading pics of my current healing.

Sorry the Pics are not in order but I will caption each as best as I can

Friends thanks for the CYBER LOVE I needed it ...

I I had an appointment with Dr Capella and Scott....

I I had an appointment with Dr Capella and Scott. I'm healed. Still a little swollen. But you can still see some of my extra meat on the sides. Well YOU can't see it but if you see me naked you could see it.

Everyone says I look thin great and all that good stuff although I feel the same..lol I do feel much better and I'm thankful that the extra issues will be resolved. Surgery hasn't been set but I plan to get this handled in September. I feel good look good so far so good geesh forgot to load pics but I will soon. It's like one am ish the babies are sleep and I need to do my hair..see you soon..

Ps guys forgot to mention..I'm getting random A!? Bills from the hospital..I thought it was over with Capella but Hackensack hospital really tacked on the fees...$312,$364,$1950,$225

Damn I thought I was done with dr Capella's 19,000. (Rounded) but damn..I'm going to pay them and get them out of my hair. Thank god my revisions will be done in an outpatient facility..smh..damn hospital. I need a damn coupon or something..

Just got another bill.. $425 smh....damn hospitals

Just got another bill.. $425 smh....damn hospitals

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You look so good and I'm really happy for you. In one of your before pictures where you are lifting up skin in the back I could really see just how little you are! I'm so glad you go this done. You are more swollen than you know and each day/week/month you will notice yourself getting smaller. Just take it one day at a time. I agree with the other ladies here about the things you are concerned about. Wait for a while, heal and recover then address them. As for the hospital, that is what they would like to be paid after your insurance has paid its part. I'm sure if you talk to someone other than the 1st person who answers the phone, like a supervisor or someone, that you can negotiate that down. Of course they want it all but some is better than nothing. If they won't negotiate then ask for a payment plan that you can afford. Good luck to you on your recovery!
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. Yes I would definitely like to wait until things settle. Bummed I have to do it but yes I'm miles away from day 1. I hope I don't get any smaller I'm 5'9 140 and even though I have side fat I hope when that is removed I stay at this weight. I didn't expect it would be soo drastic that I would need new clothes! Lol I couldn't negotiate it any further so I'm gonna try to pay them and send Hackensack on their way as fast as possible. Thank you for thinking of me. It has been rough. But so far so good :)
Thank you for your posts. You look great already. You will be fantastic once he does the revision for your back. What is the hospital billing you for? Why don't you try calling the hospital and offer them a seetlement amount? When my mom was in a hospital, in Fl with no insurance, my dad offered them 1/2 the bill, they accepted it as long as it was paid immediately. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for the suggestion. I will definitely try that on monday..$312, is for anesthesia overtime. $364,for blood cultures i believe $1950 for when i got sick and went back in $225 necessary leg doppler and the 425 laprascopic to look inside my stomach when they (thought) they saw an obstruction. Smh I will definitely ask for reduction. Ill update thank you.
The billing department claims. That this bill is applied through insurance this is what you HAVE to pay and can't be negotiated.
Same as everyone else, I agree that you have to give yourself some time. Your boobs look great-and as time goes on, you can then address things that are still bothering you. FYI Kate Upton has been on the cover of sports illustrated TWICE..and it is because of her boobs!!!-so work those until you get where you want to be with the rest of your body!!!! hang in there!
Thank you lol..Boobs...(hug)
You are making progress. Although the issues must be rough there is Such a great difference from where you started. I think you booty looks good too, plus you have great breasts. It'll come together, just keep chugging along. Sending boatloads of cyber love your way...don't be a stranger!
Thank you. I'll try not to be a stranger these twins are no joke...They are getting bigger and wrecking havoc..but I'm taking things into perspective your right looking back at my old pics it is a big difference. Thank you for the love I needed it (hug)
yes, let us know how you are!
How are you doing?
Take heart friend, you look great...it's a huge transition yet. You'll see You are so brave, and your tatas look awesome!!
You look great!! Don't beat yourself up. You've been through a huge surgery and you're bound to go thru lots of emotions as your body heals and changes. Take it slow and easy and give yourself time to heal. Just think of how far you've come already. Best wishes to you! I can't wait to see your final results.
Sometimes after life altering surgery, we feel down-do not be so hard on yourself. You had major surgery that takes a toll on the body..you will recover, you will be happy you did it-keep going one day at a time. By the time you do a revision (if needed) you will be mentally prepared for it. GIve your body time and try to relax....you will get where you want to be!!!!
congrats!!! thanks for sharing... My surgery is going to be in April. thanks for sharing ... so far things look good... can't believe he did all that i 1 surgery ... happy healing.
You're a trooper!! You'll get through this! I had my surgery on the 3rd and I am still slowly recovering. I agree with the other posts, give yourself time, and you will be just fine! We are all thinking about you!
Im so sorry that your having a hard time right now. Hang in there and know that youll be feeling so much better very soon. I also had my surgery on the 15th. Im so glad to have it over with but the recuperation is hard. My pain is slowing down but Im so stiff and have spasms in my lower back. Im tired of feeling like a bedridden, homely woman. We'll feel differentely within a few months. And much better within just a few weeks. Hang in there- will be thinking about you. Congrats!!
Wow surgery buddy I also wish you well
Ooo just reread post would've sound better sober on a computer and without paim meds and autocorrect I feel niceeeeee ...dr capella removed two of my my drains.....yay
How are you feeling today? Sending you positive thoughts for a speedy recovery! You're going to look fabulous :)
Yesterday was I had a rough day I was unable to seek comfort despite my pain pill.i was suffering. Vommiting and Praying not to od on tylenol. I went to the hospital and will remain overnight to raise my Fluids .Dr Capella and Scott ordered a catscan which came up abnormal..they couldn't see if it was a hernia or blocked intestin e.....either wayy dr capella fixdd m e up they didnt see obstruction...but my super tight muscles did some flipp crazy mess inside..idkk however im ot f surgery and feel better.exhausred and ready to nap
Hang in there!!!!
Congrats! hun..... happy healing
WOW....what an incredible difference! I cannot wait to see your healing progress pictures! Hope you're feeling good today!!!
Fantastic!! You're gonna be looking and feeling great soon! I'm so happy for you!

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