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Tummy Tuck Time: FINALLY! - Raleigh, NC

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Ok, I've scheduled my tummy tuck for December 17th...

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lilybug201
WORTH IT$8,300
Ok, I've scheduled my tummy tuck for December 17th. I'm very excited. I've been wanting this surgery for years.
Before photos to follow (after my pre-op appt.)
ANY and ALL helpful hints, comments, suggestions, etc. are greatly appreciated! I'm reading everyone's posts and browsing pictures--which means I'm becoming increasingly excited, nervous, scared, and impatient simultaneously. Based on everyone's blogs, wish I could fast-forward the 7-10 days post-op..... But it's all good. I'm tough. I got this. I think.

lilybug201's provider

Glenn M. Davis, MD, FACS

Glenn M. Davis, MD, FACS

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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November 19, 2013
Good luck!!
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November 19, 2013
Congrats on the decision. And hope everything goes well :)
November 20, 2013
I worked for Dr. Davis for about 4 years 10+years ago. I found him to be very meticulous and excellent with surgery. I have moved to another state but even considered traveling back to have my surgery with him. You will be thrilled and well taken care of by Dr. Davis.
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November 20, 2013
THANK YOU!!!! Wow, your positive feedback makes me feel even better about my decision to go with Dr. Davis. I really liked him after our first consultation, but to hear validation from someone who worked so closely with him goes a long way to putting my mind at ease! My pre-op appt. is December 4th, so it's starting to get real! I can't wait--I am very pleased with my decision to go with Dr. Davis and your vote of confidence is one more mark in his favor! Yay Team Davis!
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November 21, 2013
Good luck with everything!! Very much looking forward to following your journey and seeing pictures!!!! I found the first three days the worst, after that I found it got much better, but I didn't have any lipo done. Are you? Time will fly till your surgery!!!
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November 21, 2013
It's funny, but time seems to be creeping by SO slowly right now! I'm so excited to have it done, it's almost all I can think about! But I guess getting everything done for Christmas ahead of time will help make the time go by more quickly. No, I'm not having any lipo done--I don't think--but my pre-op appointment is December 4th, so I'll find out more details then. I'll post pics on here soon, just haven't made the time to take them yet.
UPDATED FROM lilybug201
25 days pre

Pre-Op Pics, as Promised. Just Ick.

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lilybug201
Ok, I'm posting my pre-op pics. I took some at home today and then again at the tanning salon right after I finished tanning (please, no lectures about tanning....) I'm also including pics in my clothes b/c when I tell people I'm having a TT, most of them act shocked and tell me I don't need it. They don't see what I see in the mirror. And yes, in clothes, I can PRETTY MUCH cover up the problem areas, but you all--my RealSelf family--can see the fat and flab I'm wanting to eliminate underneath my clothes. No, I don't usually go around flashing people my stomach to show them the fat underneath my clothes.....

I've lost 60 lbs., so I don't really need to lose any more weight, especially since I'm sure I'll lose weight after the surgery. I'm down to a size 6 from a 16, and I've worked my ass off to get to where I'm at. (And in case you're wondering, I'm 5'8" and 156 lbs.--formerly 216 lbs!) So yay me! I'm definitely proud of my success and the sweat and tears it's taken to get here. But this TT is my final hurdle. I can easily do 200 sit-ups, but I just can't lose that fat and flab and skin on my stomach. In fact, I can see the start of ab definition at the top of my abs, so I'm really hopeful that after this surgery, I can continue to tone up and maybe MAYBE get a six-pack. Even a two-pack would be ok! Definition would be AWESOME, but FLAT is just fine, too! I'm not looking forward to losing muscle tone and definition during the recovery time, but I just keep focusing on the fact that I will FINALLY have a flat tummy and I can certainly re-tone and re-strengthen post-op. I've done it once, I can do it again!

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November 22, 2013
My baby fat is similar to yours. Lost all my weight and just need this flab off and people think I'm crazy to get surgery. They don't see me naked. Mine is 16th so we'll be in this together! Good Luck! We will be so happy after.
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November 22, 2013
Be sure to let me know how everything goes--you're a day ahead of me, so we really are in this together. I'll be praying for you and sending well-wishes your way!
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November 22, 2013
Thanks for posting pictures!!! Our stories seem very similar :) I definitely see ab definition!!! And also remember ( one of my crossfit coaches reminded me of this) our muscles have memory so they'll bounce back quickly!!! :)
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November 22, 2013
Muscles have memory! I'm holding on to that! That's my gem for today, thank you!!!
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November 22, 2013
You are like my belly twin!! Going to follow your progress and live vicariously thru you!!!!
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November 23, 2013
I will def keep everyone posted! Reading about everyone's journey has been amazingly helpful!
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November 22, 2013
You are going to have an awesome result - you have like NO fat! Can't wait to see your 'after' pics! Keep us posted :)
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November 23, 2013
It's so funny to hear you say that--I have PLENTY of fat! Lol. But yes, a lot of it is in my belly area, so I'm really excited about my procedure. I'll definitely keep you posted!
November 23, 2013
Did you consult with anyone else but Dr. Davis? I've met with 4 dr and am leaning toward Dr. Davis. The drainless tt sounds great! I'm getting breast augmentation as well. I'll keep following your progress so keep posting!! I'm going to wait until after Christmas. Good luck!
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November 23, 2013
No, Dr. Davis was the first doctor I met with, and after reading reviews about him and then what he said at our consultation, I felt very comfortable with him. I love the idea of a drainless TT, and frankly, I wasn't excited about spending 100 or so for each consultation. Especially since I'm spending so much on the procedure! I'm sure most of them are equally capable and good, but I did really like Dr. Davis and feel really positive about my procedure. His staff has been very helpful, too. I'll def post pics all along the way!
November 26, 2013
Made the decision to go with Dr. Davis. Surgery scheduled for Jan 9th! So excited!
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November 26, 2013
Yay! I'll definitely keep you posted on my procedure. Feel free to send me a private message if you want to know anything else that I may not post publicly. Lol. I can't believe 3 weeks from today I'll be having it done! It can't get here soon enough!!! I'm very excited about the drainless TT and I'll let you know how that goes. My pre-op is next Wednesday, and I'm sure I'll have more to share then. Good luck to you!!!
UPDATED FROM lilybug201
23 days pre

First 10K Today--Trying to Remain Busy to Pass the Time!

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lilybug201
Yes, the TT seems all-consuming. The countdown until the procedure. Reading everyone's posts. Organizing all appointments and activities for post-op. It's pretty much all I can think about. So I'm trying to do as much as I can to keep me occupied until then....

Ran my first 10K today. Jeez, it was tough. I've got the 5K down, but 10K was pretty rough. Hats off to you ladies who run half and full marathons! BUT, every time I wanted to walk, I kept reminding myself that one month from now, I'm going to be flat on my back in considerable pain and UNABLE to run! It kept me going!

Ok, so I have a couple of questions for those of you who are on the Flat Side:
1. How much weight did you lose--both from the procedure and then recovery? I know you don't lose much from the surgery itself, but everyone's posts indicate you don't eat much for the first week or two.
2. How long without sex?? Any advice in this arena for making it easier and less painful when it comes time to start again? Yes, we have a very active sex life and this will be quite a shock to both me and hubby.... Thankfully he's very supportive! (AND, my husband is a NURSE, which makes recovery that much easier!)
3. For my runner friends... tell me what you're training has looked like post-op. How long before you were able to walk? Run? How far? How hard was it??

Holiday season creeping up on us! Yay! So much to do to make sure everything is ready before my surgery. Christmas shopping almost done. Decorations going up next weekend. So after surgery, I'll just be able to lay around and spend my time recovering. My one-week post-op is scheduled for December 24th, then we're having family over for dinner. No, I'm NOT cooking--planning on ordering from the local deli b/c I'm sure I'll be exhausted and still in pain. Any my husband knows that I may have to bow out of the festivities and lay down for a while. He's totally on board. Love this man!

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November 24, 2013
You are going to have amazing results. Check out my review - I posted very detailed info about getting back to exercise. I'm a fitness instructor. The nutshell: probably six weeks until you are running, and longer before you are actually back to yourself. As for sex - I started doing that at a week, but it wasn't actually very fun until six or seven weeks, because it often hurt and you just can't use your abs. It was okay, but kinda more effort than reward. ;) It's good for a relationship though to stay close.
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November 24, 2013
Thanks so much for the advice! I will definitely go to your page--I'm running out the door to church. I look forward to reading about your journey this afternoon!
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November 24, 2013
I keep having to stop and put my elbows and fore head on the bed to rest and I LOL. I could prolly totally let him have it [RS bleep] buttttt I'm scared it might hurt--decisions decisions...
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November 24, 2013
We sound very much a like. I am 5 days post op now and I'm still wondering when I'll be able to do some sort of exercise and a little stressed about losing muscle tone I've worked so hard for in my legs and arms. BUT like you said, now I get to have a tummy that can match the rest of my body with work and Time and dedication so I will just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Sex!!! I need to ha e sex soon cuz my hubby gets so grumpy without it all the time!!! Lol gave him some loving two days a go but I'm just not with it enough or have enough endurance to do much anything yet. Poor guy. I keep telling myself one day at a time. :) It's almost your turn!!! It'll be here before you know it and I look forward to hearing your uodates!
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November 24, 2013
Lol--my hubby gets grumpy without a daily dose, too, but he's on-board with this surgery, so he knows it will take patience. I think he's trying to make up for future lost time by pawing at me constantly NOW. But it's all good. As far as I'm concerned, if he's willing to stand by me and let me have this surgery, he's entitled to all the attention he wants! :) Thanks for the support! And yes, one day at a time! Hang tough!
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November 24, 2013
True. I always am happy he is laying ay me...so many husband's aren't that interested in their own wives so I sometimes get irritated with him buy mostly I am super grateful we are both so attracted to each other! !! And he is sexy :)
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November 24, 2013
AGREE COMPLETELY! I feel so fortunate to be married to a man who loves me unconditionally and is SO supportive of me and my decisions! He loved me when I was 60 lbs. heavier, and although he likes the "skinnier" me, he didn't ever make me feel like I wasn't good enough. I, too, am SO grateful that my husband and I have such an intimate connection. This is my second marriage, and my first was NOTHING like this. We had an awful awful sex life and it really affected our intimacy and closeness. So having been in a terrible first marriage, I'm that much more appreciative of what I have now. This will be a tough imposed restriction on us--more so on him than me b/c I'll be in too much pain to want to do anything--but he's in this with me and willing to "sacrifice" for my greater good. Gotta love that!
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November 24, 2013
Hey there!!! Ok here's a few answers to your questions :) you look lovely by the way!!!! 1. I was 160 lbs, the morning of surgery and then they took a total of 4.5 lbs off my tummy. At 4dpo I was 159lbs.... But I had hardly eaten anything BUT they had pumped me full of fluids. I wasn't in the least bit hungry from the pain meds I was on, so after a week when I stepped on the scale, I was down to 152 lbs. Must say I was quite happy!!!! But then my appetite came back in full force once I finished the meds and now I'm hovering around 156lbs, which I'm fine with now. I'm still not exercising much, just walking and I'm going to start on my elliptical (I've tried once and it was good!) this week. Running too I'm hoping to do this week! I was 5 weeks po on Friday. 2. Sex- hmmmm well I've never really taken the drs advice of six weeks no sex... For this surgery or any of my three c sections :) we had sex at 2 weeks, very carefully ;) you definitely can't move nearly as much and it felt different but I definitely didn't hurt anything!! 3. I'll let you know this week how I do!!! Going to the YMCA on my lunch tomorrow to try the indoor track out. It's way too cold here now to run outside!! -26 c here!! My dr said to start out slow, so I will ;) Way to go on the 10k!!! That's awesome!!! I've only ever done 7k at once, and only one 5k race. Next year I plan on doing the 10k run with my work. Can NOT wait to run again!! And crossfit of course! That'll be a bit longer :) Not much longer for you!!! Yay!!! The countdown is on!!! Do you have kids?
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November 24, 2013
Thanks for the advice! I think 2 weeks sounds ok, and when I told my hubby what your reply was, he was definitely much happier than the 4 weeks we've been thinking. Great job on the weight loss--EVERY pound makes a difference! I plateau about every 10 lbs. now and stay there for a while, then my scale decides to move rapidly for the next 10 lbs. and then I stay there for a while. I'm going to ask my PS to actually weigh what they take off--I don't know if they normally do this, but I'm really curious. And I know about swelling and water retention after, so I'm not going to stress too much about being "up" the days after surgery. I'm like you, and more worried about losing muscle tone. Yay about the elliptical! That's a GREAT low-impact exercise and you can really burn some calories doing it! Much easier on the joints, in fact. Give cross fit some time--that's pretty hard-core and you don't want to injure yourself and be even longer in recovery. Yes, I have two wonderful children. But they split time between my ex-h and me b/c we have joint custody. I've actually scheduled my surgery around time when they are NOT with me b/c I don't want to have to worry that I'm not able to take care of them, especially since my husband works so much and I have NO family here. Basically, I'm on my own for the first few days post-op. Yes, I'm scared about that, but I will have people who can come check on me. My husband has 3 12-hour shifts right after my surgery. But I'll do what I have to do. Hopefully I will be sleeping and resting most of the time, and by not having my kids here, I can just focus on recovery. My kids will be back with me for Christmas starting on Dec. 26th, so I'll have a good 9 days post-op to recover with just ME. My kids are old enough (9 and 11) to pretty much look after themselves, but it's just one less worry about fixing meals or making sure showers are done or picking up after everyone. December 17th just turned out to be a perfect date--I'm a school counselor, so I will have Christmas break to recuperate and not have to take a bunch of time off work. And selfishly, I did NOT want to do this over summer, b/c I work 11 months and have only 4 weeks of summer vacay and did not want to be laid up in bed. I want to be at the beach in a bikini!!! :)
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December 5, 2013
Hey!!! How are you doing?? Not much longer now!!! Yay!
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December 5, 2013
I'm very very excited and wish it would get here already! Lol. I just got back from my pre-op appt so it's getting real. Im going to post soon and include some pics I took there. I'm too tired tonight so it prob won't be until tomorrow. You still doing ok??