This is no joke - infection! - Queensland, AU

I am 46 years old, Mom to 3 amazing boys aged 23, 21 and 19. When I was pregnant I thought I could eat for 10 never mind 2, and gained nearly 100 pounds. This left a road map of stretch marks on my belly. About 10 years ago I decided to get healthy and fit, and started eating low carb and exercising. I feel amazing, but am left with this massive flabby belly, that no amount of diet and exercise will get rid of. I have studied this site since the beginning of this year, and read all your stories. Finally I have plucked up the courage to just do it.

The only person that knows is my husband ( who is not too happy - says he loves me no matter what). Everyone else believes that it is a hernia and muscle repair, which In a way is true, as my GP gave me a referral, as the separated muscles could have potentially serious complications and I do have a small umbilical hernia ( nothing serious). All you ladies have been so inspirational, and I love to read your stories. My surgery date is next Friday 14 September. I am a little nervous, and feel guilty, but really want this done. Have got to work up the courage to photograph my dreadful mess of a tummy,

I have just taken my dreaded before photos. I was nervous, and having doubts today - feeling incredibly selfish, but after seeing these photos, I HAVE to get rid of this disgusting mess!

Five more sleeps to go. I am really, really nervous. I ordered vitamins from Make me Heal, and received them on Wednesday, so have been taking the pre surgery formula. I really hope these help. I also ordered a stage 2 compression garment to wear after the original binder comes off, because I have read that compression is essential for good healing. I am trying my best to eat as healthy as possible, and hoping to get in as much exercise as possible before the big day. I am working until Thursday (big day is Friday). My husband is still not too happy about the whole process, so hopefully, after it is done, he will appreciate the results. To everyone out there, who are having their procedure this week - Godbless, I am praying for you.