Full Tummy Tuck - Port Charlotte, FL
Girls I need help with this, i'm 44 and had...
Girls I need help with this, i'm 44 and had ALOT of surgery from a hit and run accendent. my whole right side from heel, ankle, knee, thigh, hip, arm, jaw and cheekbone and nose! Can not work out enough to lose weight 10-15lbs gain back (roller coaster) dont laugh.
I'm 5'0 and 185lbs. Had 5 children (28,18,17,11,10) and 5 c-sections. alot of my weight is belly. I want a ftt but Im scared that doctors wont touch me because of my weight..I dont want to look like a super model,I just want to see my crotch again.waste of money or go for it? oh im also a smoker:( is this a big deal or just frowned upon? help i'm so confused!
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First let me say congratulations on stopping the smoking. That is a very hard task to accomplish but the health benefits will pay off. You will be glad in the long run. Not to mention all of the money you will save.
And also the weight loss! Wow you are like Super Woman taking everything on at once. Keep chewing that gum and it will help you through.
Drink lots of water to flush your system out. That will also help curb the hunger pains. Also try suckers or blow pops. They taste good and help you through the worst cravings.
Generally fat under the muscle is what you need to loose with diet. And the fat on top of the muscle is the areas they are able to lipo. See what your doctor says about that.
Keep me up to date on how you are doing. And if you need some support to help you through any of this process please just ask. I am here:)
Darlin you have had children, gained and lost weight, been in an accident, had c-sections and your poor tummy has been to hell and back,
Don't stress yourself out over the pictures. We have all had our "not so fun" pictures posted. That is what we are all here for...to support each other.
Just stay focused on the not smoking and healthy eating. You will get there and this will all be behind you soon.
LOL you are not an old [RS bleep]. I was older than you are when I started this process. People can't call us old until we are 90!
Well you can do this and have already started the process. You are on the road to the new you so just keep moving forward. I know you can do this!
If your hubby is smoking at work then whatever. As long as he is clean around you that is what matters. You do not need the temptation. Keep chewing that gum.
Your body will make it through this and soon you will be sporting a new bikini with the rest of us "Old Broads"..LOL
I am anxious to hear how your consult went...
Ok going for consult tommorrow in miami and gonna...
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Let me be honest (with no harm intended)... it does look like you swallowed a bowling ball! It is clear to see that that poor tummy of yours is not porportionate to the rest of your body. And also, in all honestly, you can work your little tail off (w/o pre-existing limitations), but there is no way that tummy will shrink to your frame... and you're only 44yrs young.
I have no medical knowledge, but in my humble opinion, with some personal experience/perspective, I say go for that FTT! Sounds like you have had mummy-tummy for 3/4 of your life, and sounds like you have endured a lot that took a great deal of perseverence... you deserve to "see your crotch" -LOL Not to mention, you will feel like a super model!
As for smoking... EEP! As taboo as it is in everyday life, it's thrice fold in the tummy tuck world. But, I promise you, you are not alone! After 20+ years of smoking (and many failed attempts at quitting), I quit pre-surgery. It was one of the toughest things I ever did, and has been the hardest "quit" yet. Trying to quit at a time of high anxiety and stress, and while trying to skim off all extra pounds, was extremely difficult! ...and keeping quit ONLY for the sake of surgery takes massive will power :(
But in graver reality, the risks of smoking with a TT are insane! Now THAT would be a complete waste of money. (Please research necrosis.) I am 5 months nico-free, and I still miss it daily... but the TT, for me, finally became MORE important.
I agree with Kimmers... stay focused, you will get there. Best wishes :)

I can relate to your (nico-inducing) stresses as well. I was dealing with some heavy child and husband issues pre-op as well. I had to remind myself hourly why I was quitting, how important TT was to me, and tell myself that it was only temporary...I've been through worse shiz in life...As I'm sure you have too.
Stay strong Girl! I'm here for ya :)
The first thing you need to do before even considering this procedure is focus on your health. You definitely need to stop smoking before jumping into this. That can really complicate and hamper your healing process. It's just really dangerous. Risk of blood clots, poor healing of the wounds, and a hole lot of other very scary things.
As far as the weight goes most surgeons want you to be within 15-20 pounds of your ideal healthy weight for optimal results.
With this procedure comes a very long and hard recovery. You really need to be in tip top shape and ready to tackle this one head on. I am not trying to scare you or be a Debbie Downer but only want you to have the facts.
I have attached some links which contain some really good info.
http://www.realself.com/question/smoking-plastic-surgery
http://www.realself.com/question/tummy-tuck-weight-loss-goal
http://www.realself.com/question/plastic-surgery-patients-who-smoke
http://www.realself.com/question/cosmetic-plastic-surgery-how-does-smoking-affect-healing-scarring
http://www.realself.com/question/symptoms-skin-necrosis-tummy-tuck
http://www.realself.com/question/would-tummy-tuck-be-best-me