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22 days PO, TT-drainless, MR, Hernia Repair, Lipo of Flanks, Plano, TX
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The straw that broke the camels back, shopping one...
nettie71October 17, 2012
WORTH IT$8,900
The straw that broke the camels back, shopping one afternoon and two different people asked me within 30 minutes if I was pregnant. I'm not!!! To make matters worse, this was on a day when I thought I was dressed really cute too:( so my journey begins. I'm 41 a blessed mom of a 1 and 3 yr old. Pregnancy did a number on me to say the least. Having kids 2 years apart at my age and one baby weighing in at 9.5 lbs left me with an umbilical hernia and diastasis. I'm about 5'2" and weighing in at about 142. I've worked out since about May to get my pre baby body back and I've lost about 50lbs since having my daughter. I only have 7lbs to be back to wedding day weight but, sadly I still look pregnant. Since I have to get the hernia fixed, I am going for the works! My husband has been very supportive of my decision. I interviewed 3 PS that were board certified and I have made my decision and set the date for surgery, Nov. 19th.
I will try to load photos as soon as I figure out how. Thanks for your support on this website
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UPDATED FROM nettie71
19 days pre
Just turned in my FMLA paperwork. I am taking 3...
nettie71October 31, 2012
Just turned in my FMLA paperwork. I am taking 3 weeks off work. It's all becoming very real now. I have my preop on Monday, Nov 5th. I am scheduled for BL but now I'm wondering if I should go with small implant. What do you guys think???? I should add that I am small frame and a runner so I am so undecided. PS said I would end up a b cup. Ugh, maybe I shouldn't second guess myself. Seriously, I change my mind every other day. Any advice???
I was happy with just the BL decision but now after reading all the comments on RS, I don't know if I should consider the implant. Anyone know if the replacement surgery for the implant down the road is as an intense procedure, downtime, etc?????? Thanks guys for your help and support!
I was happy with just the BL decision but now after reading all the comments on RS, I don't know if I should consider the implant. Anyone know if the replacement surgery for the implant down the road is as an intense procedure, downtime, etc?????? Thanks guys for your help and support!
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November 1, 2012
Oh yeah, we live in Cali, and my east coast family are all fine and staying with pple who have electricity if their own places don't. Hope yours are all well!
November 9, 2012
Dont feel the pressure of implants Nettie! I opted not because of the risk of repture and popping. I also know my insurance co. wouldnt cover the Mamo needed before my surgery or others needed afterwards. I have heard the replacement can be greusome AND I thought, why pay $$ now and again when its needed. Just didnt make sense IMO. I love my BL and if your PS thinks that is what you need go w/ his opinion. Mine told me I was full enough to not and he was right ! Keep me posted and again, do what you feel YOU want, not based on pictures and reading.
November 9, 2012
Thanks Gingerspice, I had all the same concerns. I'm not going to do the implants or BL. I've had lots of second thoughts on that so I am just going with the TT, lipo part. Since I made that decision and paid this week. I have slept great and no what if thoughts or anxiety. Appreciate your support!
November 9, 2012
Thats good news! Stress means a big NO or red flag. You might decide on the lift later. A lift and TT were alot for me, but im braver and stronger than I thought :) You are too!
November 9, 2012
Hello nettie71 , just checking in to see how u are doing?
November 9, 2012
Hey happy2getnewbody, I am getting things ready. I am paid in full as of Monday. Still gathering supplies. I decided against doing anything with my breasts. I just couldn't make a decision and kept having nightmares that I ended up real unhappy. Since I decided against it, no more sleepless nights or nightmares. I feel good about my decision. Now 8 days and counting until TT and lipo. How are you doing, excited?
November 9, 2012
I'm happy your feeling better about things. :-) its got to be such a relief . I'm doing good , still have to get supply's, I had my pre-op yesterday, naked photos....my poor ps. Lol ... I don't feel excited I'm not sure why... I kind of don't feel like its real & I also feel bad spending the money. My sister told my hubby she thinks I have "low self esteem " for doing it. So I'm kind of upset with her. Anyway no turning back I'm paid in full. Not that I would really want to.
November 10, 2012
Oh man, don't remind me about the photos. So not pretty, so humiliating. Geez. I felt bad too spending the money at first but now that it's paid for I'm not going to think about it anymore. Sorry, about your sister's comment. Try to put that out of your mind. Hugs!!!
November 10, 2012
Hi nettie71, Hope you are doing well. I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better about your decision. You don't need the stress and the doubt hanging over you. I go to my pre-op on Weds the 17th. My surgery is the 20th. Now that our family trip and carpet nightmare is over, I am getting really nervous. I am trying to get more motivated to get things ready for post op. Hope I don't forget anything. 10 days to go! 9 for you! We can do this!
November 12, 2012
Good to hear from you nomoreflap. Hope you were able to take your mind off the surgery while at Disney. I had my preop last week, got all my meds filled this weekend. Next week this time I will be a nervous wreck! I'm slowly by surely gathering my supplies. How are ya feeling? Once you have your preop it's going to feel so real. My preop, was not my proudest moment. I was so not prepared for the photos but it definitely emphasized the reason why I need to have the TT. 7 days and counting. Let me know how everything goes with your preop. Good luck
November 15, 2012
Disneyland was just what I needed. Thanks! Pre-op went fine. I felt the same way about the pics. Not my proudest moment either. I feel good about my choice of implants. My husband was with me today and confirmed my choice. I went to the lab and had blood drawn and got all meds filled. Then I did some shopping for supplies. I have a pretty box I put all my supplies in that I can keep next to my recliner. I'm excited and nervous about Tuesday. Hope you are doing good. Do you have a time for your surgery yet? I won't have my time until Monday. Make sure you keep me posted on your progress! Good luck, remember you are not alone. I'll be right there too!
UPDATED FROM nettie71
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Tomorrow is the big day. I'm really nervous. Got a...
nettie71November 18, 2012
Tomorrow is the big day. I'm really nervous. Got a call today that they moved me up to the first surgery so I have to be there at 6am. Really sad I wont be able to see the kids in the morning when they get up. I decided against the breast lift so just doing the the tummy part. I feel better since I made that decision a week or so ago. I feel like I'm not at all as ready as I hoped I would be. House isn't clean, didn't get laundry done, Didnt pre cook and freeze any meals. Time just got away from me and I only worked out once his week and of course I ate like a pig all week. Oh well, I can't do anything about that now. My overnight bag is packed and ready. Just have to jump in the shower and Use the surgical scrub they gave me in the shower and then I'm out he door. My Dad will be here @4:30am to stay with the kids until they wake up then they are off to grandmas for a sleepover. My parents are so great!!! I told my hubby that I left a notarized copy of my will on the mantle. And he just rolled his eyes at me, thinks I'm being over dramatic. Just had my last glass of water until tomorrow. Ugh, I hope it all goes well. Have to be up in in 4.5hrs so I guess I should try to sleep. See ya on the flat side
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November 18, 2012
Hi netti71, I just wanted to check in with you and see how you are doing. I want to wish you well for tomorrow. I will be praying for a quick and speedy recovery. Remember that you're not alone. I'll be right behind you on Tues. I will be looking for your updates. Good luck! See you on the flat side!
November 19, 2012
Thanks nomoreflap, I can't sleep. I'm nervous. I'm glad I'm going in early tomorrow. I feel like there is a ton of stuff that I didn't get done. Not much i can do now. Thank you for the prayers. I will update as soon as I am able. I hope everything went well at your preop last week, Good luck Tuesday! I will be sending prayers your way too.
November 20, 2012
Hope all went well today. I am the one not sleeping and freaking out today. I have been on the verge of tears all day. What the heck is wrong with me? I will check n your progress as soon as I am able. I have to be there at 11:30 tomorrow. Happy healing! Hope you are doing good!
November 19, 2012
Hello & good luck tomorrow! The flat side is great & you'll do great. Keep us RS friends updated on how you are doing.
November 19, 2012
Thanks happy2, the nerves are really starting to kick in. Hope you are healing well. Take care of yourself!
November 19, 2012
Today is your day! And if everything is running on schedule, yu should be going under really soon! Sending positive thoughts your way, and congratulations on making it! The pain will be bad at first, but manage your meds and it will even out a little. In a couple of days, the wprst will be over, so hang in there until then!
November 23, 2012
Hello twoplusone, I'm getting by. Starting to get around a lot easier. What I really would like to do is burn this compression garment. It's killing me! How are you doing?
November 23, 2012
I'm doing great! Haven't gotten a compression garment yet, so I suspect that will be a new torture, but for now, my only problem is figuring out how to eat less :-/. :). Glad to know that things are getting bearable for you. Are you gonna post pictures?
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