Mommy Makeover: Stories
Write a ReviewThe Final Count-down...Jan. 27th - Oshkosh, WI
- lizzy-j
- posted 2 years ago
- updated 2 years ago
- Worth It
- Cost: $12,000
- David Janssen, MD (Oshkosh, WI)
My full tummy-tuck, breast aug, and belly button...
- 5 Jan 2011
- 21 days pre
My full tummy-tuck, breast aug, and belly button hernia repair is scheduled for Jan 27th. I am so nervous, but also excited. I believe anyone who has had this, feels the same.
I am 36 years old and have 3 children. They are 8, 7, and 3 years old. I have wanted to do this ever since my last child was born, but never thought I would actually have the nerve to follow through.
I am about 5 foot 9 inches, and weigh about 130 lbs. When I had my first child, I gained 75 lbs. and carried it all in my stomach. Needless to say, that popped a hernia in my belly button and made my stomach look like an old leather shammy. I've also always been small chested, but after nursing all the babes, I look like a pre-adolescent girl. I eat very healthy and work out as much as a mom who works full-time can (usually about 3-4 times per week). I feel that I am as healthy as I have ever been, and I just want to look as good as I feel.
I am wondering what size of implants other women have gotten. I know that I am getting silicone implants, but I want them to be natural. I do not want people to look at me and know that I've had work done. I'm thinking that I would like about 350 cc's, but the doctor said that I should go bigger because I am so tall. Anyone have any advice?
My biggest fear is that this will be a disaster, and I will have only accomplished a)killing myself, taking myself away from my kids and husband for a selfish reason, or b) waste money on fixing bad mistakes. I have saved and saved for this and am getting a great deal due to my hernia being covered by insurance. My tt was then 25% off, and my ba was 50% off. If I pay in full, I get an extra 10% off. This brings my total price to $10,800. This is also being performed by one of the 2 most respected PS in our area.
I guess I'm rambling now! It has been great to get some of this off of my chest (as if I had any extra to give). Thanks for this site...it's nice to be able to talk to women with experience or who are going through the same thing. My poor husband is soooo great, but absolutely hates talking about this surgery!
I'm not too computer-savvy, but I will try to post some pictures. Thanks again!!!
I had my initial pre-op appointment today. Now I...
- 12 Jan 2011
- 15 days pre
I'm going to attempt to post pictures tonight. I decided on 350-375ccs. He will make the final call in the operating room. I'm much happier with that size.
Added before photos.
- 12 Jan 2011
- 15 days pre
Hello again! Only two more days until the big...
- 24 Jan 2011
- 3 days pre
Only two more days until the big event. I believe that I'm all ready. The kids are packed to spend time with their aunties, my husband has days off to help me...I can't think of anything else that can't wait. It feels surreal. I have such a mixture of emotions right now. I'm nervous, yet have a peacefulness about the whole situation. Thanks to everyone who gave tid-bits of advice, words of encouragement, and the reminder of how kick-a-- I'm going to look afterwards:)! (Hopefully!!) I'll up-date after all is said and done.
Hi everyone! I am now 5 days post-op. Yes!!! I...
- 1 Feb 2011
- 5 days post
For me, the breast aug has been the most painful. The only time my tummy tuck hurts is when I have to cough or sneeze. I have had 3 c-sections and I believe that this has prepared me for the tt's. My doctor says that I will get my drains out on Wednesday, which is 6 days post-op. This was sooner than I thought, but my fluid has been really low today.
My doctor implanted 400cc's silicone. They seem really large and I hope that they settle down and get smaller. They feel like milk engorged post-baby breasts. Even though I feel like they are too large, they don't look too big underneath my shirt. I'm not quite ready to post pics yet, but I think within the next few days, I will feel up to it.
Thanks so much for all the support, ladies. You have all been such a blessing!
Okay...the debut of the new me! Here are my 1week...
- 4 Feb 2011
- 8 days post
Okay...the debut of the new me! Here are my 1week...
- 4 Feb 2011
- 8 days post
My Doctor: David Janssen, MD
My rating:
Initially, I thought that he was a jerk. Now that I know him better, I think that he is still arrogant, but mostly just quirkey. I called him everyday over the weekend and he made me feel totally justified and at ease when I called. He did not seem like he was put out by my questions at all. This made such a huge difference in my over-all judgement of him. It's very early, but so far...so good!
Yes my breasts have begun to drop. It has been very subtle and gradually they have gotten softer. Sleeping at night is starting to get more comfortable too. They definitely don't feel as huge as they did. I'm probably getting used to their size as well. I'm really happy with how they are turning out. I was so scared that everyone was going to notice. They are almost exactly the size of the extremely padded push up bra that I used to wear.
Keep the faith...they will drop and the swelling will go down. It felt like it took forever, but it seems that after 3 1/2 weeks, I do notice a difference. One of my breasts is getting to "normal" faster than the other one. I hope that they even out, but no one but me would probably ever notice.
Good luck!! Keep me posted on how you are doing?
Thanks for the advice. I will try the aveeno. I've never heard of Palmers oil, I'll have to look for it!
I would say "don't be scared"...but I know that that wouldn't help you. It is scary to not have control over exactly how everything goes. Honestly, the pain was not the worst part of this process...the uncertainty was. I would have a good day and think..."okay, I'm finally better!" Then, I would be tired and sore the next day. You will be fine!!! Make sure you just cut yourself some slack and give yourself permission to fully recover. I'm now 2 1/2 weeks out and I still tell myself everyday....Lizzy, be patient. The doctor says 6 weeks for a reason. I think there will still be little pangs of pain here and there...but nothin' us tough broads can't handle:)! I also have a strong faith and I just kept praying everyday that no matter what happened, that God would be by me every second. Then trust!
How is everyone doing? I will be 2 weeks post-op tomorrow, and I'm feeling really well! When I look back and read my comments...I realize that I am not the most patient person. I think that I assumed that I would be better in about a week. When that didn't happen, I was a little upset. Advice for you who have yet to go through surgery...don't expect to be better in only a few days!!! (I wish I could go back and take that advice.)
I went to the PS today for a checkup. He's thrilled with how fast things are going. When I had my c-sections, my recovery was just sooo fast. I felt fairly normal after a week. Not the case with this.
Every day I feel a little more flexible and a little faster in my movements. I started walking the track at the YMCA last Saturday, and the grannies were passing me. Already today, I was speed walking and pumping my arms (something my PS told me to start doing). This has been WAY more intense than c-sections! But not bad...as long as you're prepared.
I also thought that I would be 100% by the time I go back to work on Monday, Feb 14th. Now I'm realizing that this is not the case. I get tired very easily. I guess I wanted to share with all of the ladies who are just going through now or who have yet to have surgery...really give yourself time. This is not something that mothers are always good at. My house is disgusting...I'm not being the mom that I usually am...but in the end, everything will get done eventually. I'm trying to enjoy the last few days of my recovery. Things can go back to crazy in a few weeks. For now...I'm just giving myself a break!
Thanks! I feel pretty good. Lots of ups and downs. I'm only 10 days out, so I guess that's what you need to expect. I'm just so impatient!!
Sorry...I guess it takes a little bit from the time you up-date your post, to it actually showing those up-dates. I'm sure the pictures will appear sometime within the next 24 hours.
Mommy of 4,
Sorry to hear that you had a hard day! I agree whole-heartedly that it takes a lot of time and patience...and that at times, it's so emotional!
It has also been difficult that recovery seems to take longer than I expected. I'll have a great day and think that I've turned a corner...only to have a bad day the next. We all need to keep our heads up and keep talking to each other. We will get through this!!
I got my drains out yesterday.